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A lot of women let their neuroticism, anxiety, and internalized social expectations about what relationships should look like take over relationships. Adhering to their relationship fantasy becomes more important than whether their partner is happy. As soon as she moved in, 'we' suddenly needed more decorations, more paintings, an Ottoman, pets, a bigger house, a bigger TV, a bigger couch, a nicer dining table, a coffee table, a bedframe that isn't from Ikea, a bigger entertainment center, etc. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 08:09 PM
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Yep, I worked 13 hour graveyard shifts so I could watch our special needs colicky daughter (that my wife sabotaged her birth control to conceive) during the day while my late-diagnosed ADHD wife with clinical depression sat around doomscrolling while working part-time. On my days off I stayed nocturnal so my wife could sleep uninterrupted 3 nights a week. It wrecked my body, but that's the bare minimum for men, isn't it? I would have had to work anyway, so I'm not sacrificing anything, right? No…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:51 PM
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>If she sits at home and does nothing, there is a neurological or psychiatric problem I expect. You're absolutely correct in this, but you don't address how to handle it. Between Cluster-B personality disorders, anxiety, depression, ADHD, autism etc that's a full 1/4 to 1/3 of the adult population with a mental condition. The problem with marriage is that it rewards whoever contributes the least in the event of separation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:53 PM
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It's not a stereotype. The average man has a higher interest in sex than about 69% of women, sample size was 621,463 people: Sex drive: Theoretical conceptualization and meta-analytic review of gender differences - PubMed Women's libidos tend to be more variable and dependent on their hormones, where they are in their cycle, if they are pregnant/nursing/raising kids, peri/menopause. Multiple sex therapists have noted that women's sexual desire levels tend to drop in long-term relationships. Men'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:03 PM
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I think it blows up both of our theories, here's yours: >50 is just the age where it crosses the twice as likely to cheat threshold for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:22 AM
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<image> Infidelity Statistics 2026: Global Data, Gender, Age & Trend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:53 PM
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>as the data doesn't follow this assumption at all. What data are you referencing? The best 2 charts that I could find on short notice from a reputable source that breaks down infidelity by age and gender are these two: Infidelity Statistics 2026: Global Data, Gender, Age & Trend and this one. <image> >downward for women after 20 and up for men >Cheating is at its highest for women at early 20s and dives downward as both their sex drive rises and falls Both charts I attached show that your claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:53 PM
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I thought you were pretty clear, too, but sometimes you gotta connect the dots
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:53 PM
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Previous commenter explained why women cheat less at older ages; it's because women's libido dramatically declines with perimenopause. A libido is generally a requirement for infidelity. Men (and women, for that matter) stuck in sexless marriages are much more likely to cheat. The odds of a marriage becoming sexless due to lack of sexual desire on the wife's part increase as the couple gets older due to peri/menopause. While men's erection quality/duration often declines with age, their interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:22 PM
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nope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:17 PM
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I would not leave, but I can see the sentiment behind it. The number of people (men and women) who cheat with their ex because the ex is more sexually compatible seems pretty high. That doesn't seem to be a factor here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:13 AM
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As far as relevance to the post, I feel that men that are obsessed with what their partner did with exes are implementing a misguided crusade to find red flags so that they don't end up like me in a 10-year dead bedroom whose wife doesn't even know when the last time we had sex was, and doesn't care. Thanks for your sympathy. This is why I'm blackpill-adjacent; I consider myself Picard-pilled (You can do everything right and still lose). I have also realized that marriage is 1: toxic contract th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 04:07 AM
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My wife prevented me from doing this this by waiting until we had our child before announcing that she's never giving me another bj, never wearing lingerie, and never initiating sex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 09:03 PM
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Are mothers okay with being deprioritized in favor of their own kids if their co-parent/husband becomes highly involved in child-raising? Also, I have not met one man between the ages of 30-40 that wants kids. Of every male friend around my age that I went to high school OR college with that I have kept in touch with over the years, two have kids, and I know for a fact that both were pushed into having kids by their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:02 PM
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I thought that one of the core complaints of women is that they don't want to become a parent to their partner, but here you are directly complaining about men not becoming a parent to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:07 PM
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In the spirit of fairness, I would propose that the good women are also unaware of pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:06 PM
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OPs original question was an imaginary situation that you chose to answer. >why would i have to know about it? That's what OPs question is asking. Would you allow a don't ask/don't tell cheating policy on his side? >is that better? Better for you or for him? This is, as you observed, an imaginary scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:09 PM
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When I lived with my family, I was free to date other people. Same for when I lived with housemates/friends. Is he free to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:02 PM
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I think your question is incomplete because your premise is faulty and you're bundling concepts together. Attraction, desire, arousal, and monogamy are 4 completely separate things, and they can all be lost and handled independently. A man with ED can still have a satisfying sex life with a partner through the creative use of other body parts and toys and a curious/nonjudgmental partner. Attraction can be subdivided into emotional and physical attraction. If Partner 1 becomes paralyzed, Partner …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:23 PM
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The question wasn't if you lost attraction to each other, which is what would lead to both of you not wanting sex. The question was if you lost attraction to your partner, which might still mean that they are attracted to you and want sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:56 PM
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How would you deal with being married to someone that you are permanently unattracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 04:52 PM
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Had a very similar experience, but instead of going outside I started openly engaging with porn instead of her. She broke some furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 08:59 PM
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We absolutely did not practice abstinence before marriage. Quite the opposite. Up to twice a day for 2 years prior to getting married. We touched on kinks/quirks/limits prior to getting married, and everything was fine. I had put 'giving/receiving oral' as something that would be nice but isn't a hard requirement, and it was happening sometimes, so no issues. What happened is that after having a kid she has backed out of everything that we had gone over. The problem: She had undiagnosed ADHD and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:09 PM
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She didn't used to be like this, and we have 1 kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:54 AM
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This is the kind of person that OP is asking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:00 PM
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My wife is also like this, but she's also not interested in figuring out how to experience pleasure without a vibrator. I would love a woman that sat on my face while I ate her out for hours. Instead, her entire vulva is a no-touch zone. Then I go on reddit and see women complaining about not being able to find a partner willing to do that. Damn shame. She also finds giving hj's and bj's overstimulating. Yes, I'm regretting my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:54 PM
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if that's the choice that they make for themselves, who are we to judge? It doesn't affect me in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:08 PM
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One person's spinelessness is another's accurate risk/reward assessment. But is that quote reversible? Assuming it's true, do those with victim mindsets also tend to be selfish? From the very limited info in the article, I don't think there's enough evidence to smear people with the 'selfish' label.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:00 PM
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I'm not sure if it's a good thing or not, but the trend continues into adulthood: Why Gen Z and Millennial Men Aren’t Making the First Move Anymore "A 2025 survey cited in the article found that 44 percent of single men said fear of being labeled “creepy” makes them less likely to initiate contact. This isn’t about confidence in the traditional sense. It’s about social risk. Being filmed. Being screenshotted. Becoming a punchline online for misreading a moment." "Some have opted out completely. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:06 AM
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Gen-Z men aka young men have the lowest rates of teen relationships of any generation. They aren't dating as usual. Gen Z’s Romance Gap: Why Nearly Half of Young Men Aren’t Dating - The Survey Center on American Life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:43 AM
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According to Esther Perel, it is usually women that get bored in long-term monogamous relationships first: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nwfr2DelmKA&t I feel that, biologically speaking, humans are geared towards serial monogamy lasting 5-7 years (enough time to have a child and raise it to the point where it's not dependent on its parents for mobility), not lifelong partnerships. Lifelong marriage is an artificial construct designed to ensure transition of resources and property to genetic of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:30 PM
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A lot of women will state that they try really hard, and then in the same breath will admit that they could never initiate a conversation with a man they are interested in, let alone ask a man on a date. They want to be a flower, not a bee.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 06:17 PM
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The point of sex is whatever you make it to be. If you want to simply have some physical connection with your partner without worrying about orgasms, then that becomes the point. If you want an orgasm, then that becomes the point. I see a lot of posts from women who didn't orgasm until quite later in life. Once they've figured out how, it seems to become a lot easier. I would suggest focusing on just having an orgasm with your partner, regardless of circumstances and toys/aids, and then working …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:45 PM
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This isn't computing for me. Why is he unable to stimulate you during penetration? Does he not have hands? That seems like a cop-out of an excuse. There are a lot of ways to get around this: Long-handled vibrator that you can hold Panties with an attached vibrator Touch yourself during penetration Or if the two of you are ok with you having an orgasm while he's not penetrating, that opens up even more options: oral, hands, him using toys on you, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:11 PM
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