ReallyEmily Archive

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1	Remember the gold. As far as I know, anybody, regardless of whatever secondary sex characteristics they possess, regardless of how they present, regardless of whether they identify as trans or not can use whatever pronouns they like Absolutely! The odds are though, unfortunately, that someone random on the internet using He/Him about an AMAB person who came out as trans does so more in a way to reject the trans identity rather than in a way that accepts it. I'm really glad I've been so utterly wrong in this instan…	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/10/20 07:16 PM
1	Remember the gold. I was surprised by you using "He" to refer to him (since you say he's trans), but according to Wikipedia he expressed being genderfluid and fine with both "he" and "she". I thought it was worthwhile to point out, in case someone doesn't bother reading his stance and would jump on incorrectly correcting you.	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/10/20 03:59 PM
0	UnReAlIsTiC sTaNdArDs The difference is there's a lesser expectation for men to care about their looks. Some do, but I don't think the average dude cares about the quality of his skin, his stomach belly, or the hair on his body. As far as I know, men experience with their body often falls into the "nah, good enough" domain. There's a high pressure on girls to care about their looks. Make-up is expected in some workplaces, not shaving our legs is a almost a political stance for some people. Like even this post is mock…	/r/PussyPassDenied	14/09/20 07:05 PM
2	Pussypass kinda denied? 0.o That said, I am totally unaware of what trans people consider it to mean to be a specific gender If I may chime in, it's a difficult concept to grasp especially if you're also a proponent for weaker gender norms. In my own experience, I don't care that much about which specific word describes the gender I am more so than just being comfortable in my own body, in my presentation, and feeling safe and respected.	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/20 05:14 PM
1	Pussypass kinda denied? 0.o There is a stigma but its the same as it is against depressed, shizophrenics etc Well, no. You're really really wrong about this. If your voice gets deeper and you start growing a beard, you are mist likely not a woman Sorry, I wasn't clear enough in my phrasing and we misunderstood each other. I was talking about you specifically. I'm assuming you, yourself, are a man. Imagine if you started growing breasts and your voice got high pitched. You, Hunterlines_Azur, would not feel very good about i…	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/20 04:08 PM
1	Pussypass kinda denied? 0.o I eouldnt say its bc of the stigma. Are you saying there's no stigma? or are you saying the stigma exists but has absolutely no effect on the well-being of transgender people? It's not that easy to go forward with transition without any kind of medical help. Hormones are not exactly over-the-counter - though this varies by state and country. I also think that normalizing it to a degree, that its sth completly normal, would make it even worse I don't understand why it would. Some people are distr…	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/20 03:53 PM
0	Pussypass kinda denied? 0.o It is... Mostly because of the stigma around being trans. Dealing with gender dysphoria and being threatened, ostracized and mocked is an awful experience.	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/20 03:41 PM
-2	Pussypass kinda denied? 0.o Apologies for my tone. Here's an article I've found from the center for suicide prevention: https://www.suicideinfo.ca/resource/transgender-people-suicide/ Transgender people face stressors related to gender dysphoria - this one can be helped with hormonal treatment, or surgeries - as well as stigma, fear and hopelessness that is only due to the way society handles transgender people. If society was more accepting, transgender people could transition sooner - which yields better results than lat…	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/20 03:33 PM
-1	Pussypass kinda denied? 0.o I don't owe you anything, but I'm looking into it. Although, keep in mind that a good deal of people are shitty towards transgender people. This is an additional stressor that will keep suicide rates higher than they should be. Being trans will often have people weight "feeling like shit in your body" versus "society being shit to you". Edit: Here's an article from the center for suicide prevention https://www.suicideinfo.ca/resource/transgender-people-suicide/	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/20 03:28 PM
5	Pussypass kinda denied? 0.o Surgery is not as much as a holy grail in the trans community as most people think it is - in everyday's life, genitals are not really that important except in the bathroom or during menstruation for people who have a uterus. What matters most in everyday's life is what clothes you wear, which voice you have, your name, the pronouns people refer to you with, your secondary sexual characteristics (breasts, muscle mass, facial hair). This can be changed during transition with hormones, training, a…	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/20 03:23 PM
-2	Sexual Harassment Pass..!!! to be fair, that's a very disgusting thing to say. Implies there is a standard for which rape is on the table (or in any other place other than a table, it's still awful)	/r/PussyPassDenied	01/06/20 08:53 AM