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it’s almost as if its two different groups of people saying this. One thing about the red pill and post like this is that yall don’t even stop to consider nuance does indeed exist
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:55 PM
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there are repeat questions everyday on this sub im confused on why mine is different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:10 PM
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There is some merit to what you’re saying but this isn’t the place to say it. You’re just gonna get dunked on because other people here have already made hilariously bad takes before. Men are responsible for their own actions but they are incentivized to be bad people I agree. But we as men could collectively choose to be good instead and disregard what women like/want in men to make a change but good luck trying to get everyman to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:47 AM
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Who’s talking about the past im talking about going forward you keep trying to bring the conversation back to this because you have no actual point. Ofc i blame the assaulter that’s a given, I’m just not about to try to hold them accountable or shame them because they don’t care its a waste of time and unhealthy. Maybe you need therapy dear because you are desperate to steer the conversation into rape when legit no one was talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:50 AM
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thats YOUR specific case I wish people were there to protect you and i’m sorry for you i truly am but im not about to waste my breath assigning blame to people who simply don’t care. Criminals don’t care, my rapist laughed in my face when i told her what she did was rape. I’d rather do what i can to protect who i can
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:40 PM
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Because they have worked for me and those around me going forward. I’m not content with staying a perpetual victim. You don’t understand how much a gun is a deterrent to people my nieces are all armed and take necessary safety precautions to stay safe. I’m armed and I try my best not to isolate myself with women to make sure i remain safe. Just because they dont work for YOU does mean they dont work. Touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:35 PM
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It’s essentially the same argument as to why men don’t like women with high body counts. Most of it is based in misunderstanding and societal grooming. Bi men can be just as masculine its just insecurities based on a persons previous sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:29 PM
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We aren’t talking about victims are you being fr? Im talking about people who have the potential to be in dangerous situations not just rape victims. You’re also under the impression that I haven’t ALSO been raped. Pull your head out of your ass, stop assuming, and be a damn adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:24 PM
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i agree they aren’t different groups which is the point of this post. We are all the same even down to the shit we complain about. All i’m doing is putting a mirror up to the people who actually think like this. Nothing thats nothing for you to solve if women want to keep dating slobs thats on them that has nothing to do with any of us but it does happen and it is a common complaint
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:20 PM
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So instead of protecting yourself and your family your alternative is misandry and perpetual victimhood? I mean it might be a country thing i’m in the US its pretty easy get a gun or a taser or what have you to defend yourself but for some reason women by and large refuse to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:15 PM
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You misspelled criminals, if we want to take the teach people not to be criminal route why don’t women teach other women to not commit infanticide because when a child is murdered it’s statistically more likely to be by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:58 AM
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I have a pretty big circle maybe because i dont judge my friends when they vent their frustration about men/women to me. But hey you do you bro imma keep doing me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:55 AM
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It happens in real life too it isn’t a fringe idea a lot of people genuinely believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:42 AM
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You are aware that women beat and rape people too right. Stop lumping criminals into the general population it’s incredibly asinine and unproductive. Please do explain how you’d go about convincing criminals to not be criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:40 AM
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You really think everything is black and white when in actuality things are more gray. Not encouraging your friend group to cheat on their partners and ostracizing them if and when they do goes a long way. I’m not talking about abusers and literal criminals when i say men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:40 AM
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So you’ve never once heard people say “all men/women are the same” in real life? Isn’t there a triple platinum song by Juice World called all girls are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:41 AM
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you’ve never had your friends confide in you about their relationships before?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:44 AM
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you’d be surprised how many unpilled men and women actually think like this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:47 PM
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That doesn’t really have anything to do with this but, good luck bro
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:15 PM
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I don’t disagree with your reasoning to some extend but they both do cheat, the rationale doesn’t matter if the end result is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:13 PM
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I mean having the attitude of expecting strangers to fight battles for them. In addition you are blaming men instead of criminals, why focus on telling people who are going to break the law regardless to not break the law instead of giving women the tools to protect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:12 PM
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I agree but, i’m not referring to the frequency but rather that both do it but both complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:37 PM
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Nah i’m just not dumb enough to debate someone like you I could have piles of evidence and Jesus himself and come down and tell you you’re wrong and you’d still wont budge. I’m not about to humor a 14 year old about whether common sense makes sense or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:04 PM
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Are you trolling? There’s no way you’re being serious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:36 PM
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Boss man look up what projection means. What am I projecting onto your group? I’m assuming you have no idea how reddit is moderated because of how easily you just dismissed that point. That’s not a lame excuse 😭😭 If you start a sub and it makes it to the top 100 subs moderaters take it upon themselves to delete shit they dont personally like this is a well know phenomenon why do you think the pejorative “reddit moderator” exists? Just say you don’t understand how it works. Not everything is a gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:47 PM
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Bruh, I already agreed with everything you just said in the OP. The only difference is TRP began as a way to help men but with most things on the internet it eventually devolved into sexism. They are comparable now because the modern version of both are extremely radical and toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:17 AM
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I’m on neither side how am I projecting? Also that has more to do with biases in moderation vs the community’s themselves aggressively policing dissenting opinions. If you have said r/twoxchromosome I’d give it to you that page was a cesspool. The OKcupid study alone is very flawed in the way it is interpreted, the ratio of men to women is 75% to 25% its not even remotely comparable to the real world but for some reason it’s touted as empirical proof of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:12 AM
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they aren’t related, those were examples to illustrate the idea that both feminists and redpills no true scottsman fallacy away the more radical sides of their communities to pretend they are two different groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:07 AM
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If every guy follows that and changes behavior it’d inevitably cause a societal change regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:05 AM
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I agree 100% but unfortunately RP content is trending more towards that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:03 AM
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They aren’t the focus and don’t do half the numbers that the dating ones do. Instead of blending that into the dating videos those concepts are generally separate. At least for the new guys the veteran RP guys do indeed do that tho I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:26 AM
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There are a lot of truths in RP I just don’t agree withe the conclusions they draw based on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:23 AM
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Who said women have it easy now??? You don’t even know my stance outside of this limited interaction. I can guarantee we have more in common than not. I’ll take accountability for that if i didn’t make my stance clear before, this is a wasted conversation if we’re arguing semantics. Sexual assault is not gendered issue and should not be tackled from feminist nor redpill lenses. It should be tackled by both men and women to see any results but clinging to these cults are not helping and never wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:26 AM
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I get what you are saying, I respect it but I disagree. Maybe could be that there were two different manospheres being formed at the same time and eventually merged into one. Cause I remember the sandman era and that’s what initially put me off to the internet section of TRP. but in real life the black manosphere was alive and if that makes sense I didn’t join the online community until there were more black voices. But today they have merged which I personally don’t like, black men like Andrew …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:19 AM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:09 AM
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ReRead this thread and see what lead to what. You’re latching on what i said about specifically mansplaining and knee touching I never extrapolated that onto all harassment. I’m not even redpill bosslady.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:08 AM
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the examples you gave were mansplaining and knees touching my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:59 AM
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Redpill is not what it used to be. The fact that Andrew Tate and Frest n Fit are the dominant voices is a problem in itself. But I do agree the term incel does not mean what it’s supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:54 AM
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which is why that content never took off and the biggest spike came AFTER that era. I didn’t skip over it a lot of white guys did indeed try to capitalize on the ideas but it wasn’t all that popular. But the difference between what i’m arguing and what you are is that the negatives on the feminist side doesn’t exist and if they do they aren’t real feminist. While I’ll openly admit the redpill has both good and bad in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:52 AM
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It started with black people in the barbershops everyone else picked up on the ideas and all had varying levels of success. Why do you think Kevin Samuels, Stephiscold, AMS (Alpha male strategies) blew up quickly? They blew up because they can actually sell it since its just a return to form. All the BIGGEST red pill creators are black that is not a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:32 AM
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The biggest creators in the redpill space are black …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:23 AM
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that was a giant leap in logic and reasoning bro im on your side 😭😭. All I pointed out that these aren’t gendered issues and should be tackled as a collective instead of women vs men. I actually got help for those kids and actually defended them more than most would do. Stop assuming. You really think we haven’t tried doing that? Do you know who Earl Silverman is? We try to do this alot not all women actively shut it down. Both sides have a hand in this we are not soley responsible. Also flip th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:20 AM
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The redpill didn’t start with PUA’s at this point you’re being willfully ignorant. The redpill started before the internet as well the concept of barbershop talk is the precursor to all of these internet debates. If you want to find the most redpill people on the planet go to a black barbershop these guys are 40-60 years old saying these things. There is no difference you are forcing one so you can debate a strawman of the actual points im making.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:08 AM
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Just buy the blue razors my guy 😭 I agree the pink tax is bad when it comes to feminine hygiene products i agree those should be tax free. The rest of that stuff is nonsensical just buy the cheaper stuff. I was a teacher the amount of womansplaining is ridiculous and sexual harassment from older women onto students and male teachers is rampant those issues aren’t gendered, annoying people are just annoying. The Red Pill is all dating now I agree but initially it was men telling other men to man …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:01 AM
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What you are talking about doesn’t exist at least online. The manosphere and feminism are like two black holes pulling you in from either side eventually you’re going to get pulled into one group or the other. the best way to avoid that is to get off the internet. If you want to start a support group start it in your local community and help who you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:55 AM
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I agree with you, thats what feminism WAS about now its about politicizing the most mundane shit. I’m a feminist when it comes to actually fighting for things that matter not the pink tax, not forcing women into ceo positions not mansplaining/manspreading. Both sides aren’t that necessary anymore (in developed countries).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:49 AM
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I’d agree 10 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:44 AM
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https://www.ojp.gov/pdffiles/172837.pdf This is the source that RAINN uses, a 25 year old survey who’s definition of rape didn’t even include being forced to penetrate. Also 1 in 3 and 1 in 6 is a huge difference. Surveys are usually flawed because they can be used to prove anything this is legitimately why half the arguments on this sub devolve into what they do. https://www.bls.gov/opub/reports/womens-earnings/2020/home.htm “The earnings comparisons in this report are on a broad level and do n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:42 AM
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the same could be said about redpill men. I don’t think the users of PPD or these online bad actors summarizes the entire state of TRP. Thats where you keep conflating the argument you’re cherry picking the worst pick up artist on youtube and attributing that to all of the redpill. How would that be any different than me going and looking at Anita Sarkeensian (throw back I know) and attributing that to feminism as a whole. You don’t even realize you’re doing the same thing the other group does. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 12:24 AM
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KillALLMEN alone is enough to disprove that. Redpill in the beginning was just men telling eachother to man up and take control of their lives. TERF literally have feminist in the name they are the same people. I agree with this though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:44 PM
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If you gender swapped what you just said it’d be the exact same thing as feminist rhetoric. The same way the redpill is just the knowledge that life isnt as it seems feminism is the same way it open women’s eyes to the idea that their only value in life is to be house wives and mothers. The rest of it is bad actors who infected the main movement the same with redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:09 PM
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The rape statistics are wrongly touted by people who did not read them and came to the wrong conclusions based on the headline. I’ve been hearing the 1 in 3 figure for years but no one ever breaks down what that actually means. The figure comes from all women across the globe and reporting statistics for 7billion people based on an insignificant fraction of that for one and two most of the assault comes from poorer countries, so why are first world women shouting out these numbers like they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:04 PM
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The redpill promotes hate too, Andrew Tate is the biggest one in the sphere right now and if thats not hate I don’t know what is. You are severely underestimating how much money the big redpill guys are making because you’re comparing the entire 50+ year run to the 10+ year run of TRP. Both are more similar than you are willing to admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:45 PM
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The rape statistics that are frequently brought up despite being extremely flawed. The wage gap (in america at least) the fact that men have been in power for most of society. These are all prevalent gotchas on the feminist side. Just to name a few. on the redpill side the divorce statistic the custody statistics and the “pair bonding” statistics both sides do the exact same shit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:41 PM
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such as
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:36 PM
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Thats probably the biggest difference difference is in the method they use to exploit people. Red pill is fairly new so of course its not yet at the same billion dollar milestone as feminism. not of redpillers want women and not all feminist hate men. feminist aren’t after money from men its about money and power from the government. fresh and fit & kevin samuels alone have made millions of dollars off of this. we aint comparing billions to thousands. Think objectively
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:36 PM
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I agree that was the redpill 10 years ago what it is now is a shell of its former self.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:31 PM
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Most men don’t know their rights, the same way a most women don’t. When you look at it its a bunch of non issues on both sides. Both sides use gotchas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:30 PM
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Modern feminism has not done a single thing in the last 10 years. Modern redpill is the same. In the early days of redpill it was a collection of men getting together and helping each other out with work, custody issues, and social issues/social ineptitude. They are very much comparable and often are a 1 to 1 comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 10:27 PM
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bro stop arguing she is legit a well know troll
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:30 PM
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Men are more open to debate because we have been socialized to like competition more than women are. Women shut down on debate cause largely they are conflict avoidant in real life cause they fear of physical repercussions so that translates online to simply shutting down conversations without context. Speaking in generalities men are also more open minded in ideas which is why we argue shit all the time like sports, video games, philosophy, and religion. While women are more open minded when it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:57 PM
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Prepare to get strawmaned into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:46 PM
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would you be willing yo say the same about feminism then if so i’ll concede if not theres a huge flaw in your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:06 AM
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I don’t know what that other guy is talking about but, red pill isn’t based in misogyny its simply swallowing the pill and realizing that women are not infallible wonderful Gods that we were lead to believe since childhood. All it really is just understanding that and deciding to your life into your own hands. The misogyny definitely exists within people who are redpillers but redpill itself is not misogynistic. It’s similar to how people view feminism, feminism itself isn’t bad but there are a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:22 AM
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Obvious troll is obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:49 PM
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Because both women and men have a bias and think the other side cheat worse. Women will cheat and say its because her needs weren’t getting met and the man deserved it. Theres no underlying sexism like everyone on this sub automatically jumps to everyone just needs a justification to be the hero in their own story.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:44 PM
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It depends on whether or not she liked/still likes the sexual actions she had done in the past. if she tried it once and didn’t like it thats fine but if she actually enjoys it and just doesn’t want to do it with you then that’s the only reason this should matter. Making you wait is a whole separate conversation in itself. Simply avoid girls who make you wait theres no need to make it a bigger issue. If she’s really into you she wont make you wait. If she is into you and STILL makes you wait tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 08:03 PM
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Who said anything about talking to relatives about sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 07:49 PM
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there is no point to what you were saying don’t try to pretend like it was
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:23 PM
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idk if you have sisters or cousins but they do not treat you like your mommy 😂😂 siblings are some of the most brutal individuals you will ever have in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:17 PM
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True but that depends on yalls dynamic, i’m speaking in generalities. You really have to be super good friends typically for that to work because most women do sugar coat and try to hype up their friends, not necessarily point out each others flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:15 PM
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the only women men should ask for advice from is from sisters or close female cousins because they have no stake in lying to you or sugar coating shit. Women dating women is still different from women dating men so the advice would generally still be non applicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:49 AM
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Andrew Tate blew up because he plays a character to actually prey on vulnerable men for their money. The three biggest manosphere explosions ive ever seen came from kevin samuels, fresh-and-fit, and andrew tate. Kevin Samuels blew up because he gave a fresh perspective on black dating he at least tried to or pretended to help. The other two simply thrive off of controversy, negatively, and the exploitation of disenfranchised men. These people aren’t being suppressed they simply do not police the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:27 AM
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Everyone is influenced by media no one including you is immune to propaganda
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:56 PM
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You beyond missed the point. But I agree with the general idea of what you said. A lot of men on this sub need to see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:01 PM
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Women hate TRP simply because they only choose to focus on the extreme characters in it. There’s a reason people like Andrew Tate and Fresh and Fit go viral and people who give actual good advice do not. Saying provocative shit is the only way to draw in a female audience if they don’t women would simply keep scrolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 08:51 PM
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That’s the misunderstanding, I never said women are the sole reason for toxic masculinity but, as far as men opening up and sharing their feelings specifically they are the “sole” perpetuators of that. And by sole i mean the vast majority not the entirety. Theres a reason this idea is prevalent in most men pilled or not. Maybe not in your friend circle but for most men this is definitely a shared experience. The typical ppd man is average, I can count all the actually looneys from this sub on on…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:34 PM
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Reread what I wrote. At my core what im saying is: Women should also be help accountable for when they perpetuate negative societal tropes the same way that men should be. No but a lot of peoples mothers did, someone under this same post linked an article about women are more likely to hold up these tropes more than fathers. Yes. Yes. Women are also capable of bullying men too I hope you’re aware of that. These are all TV tropes you just spouted and most of those don’t solely happen male to male…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:14 PM
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This is an incredibly bad faith argument. Men do not want to seem weak to women, men have zero issues sharing with other men because there are much lower stakes. Toxic masculinity does exist but has absolutely nothing to do with this. Men from a young age are taught to care for and be there for their female counterparts and give them the space to be vulnerable. They do this and do not receive the same treatment in return that is the main issue here. No one expects anyone to be their therapist th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:57 PM
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are you being serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:28 AM
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Most men don’t want to be the protector or a knight in shining armor, they just are. I don’t want to have to take a bullet for my girl if it comes down to it but I will because of the love i have for her and my desire to keep her alive. It’s not an instinct its a conscious decision. If you’re with someone and do not have the desire to keep them safe you probably shouldn’t be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:26 AM
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damn I thought who you’ve slept with in the past doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:23 AM
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I agree with the first portion but you’re missing a giant step. A lot of women do not communicate what they like and do not like in the bedroom which leads the inexperienced men to keep doing the same shit to other women and never changing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:02 AM
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Buddy sports are social activities. I do agree though, I dont mean to haphazardly blitz through relationship after relationship but practice your longer term relationship skills so that they’ll become better over time because the other end of the spectrum is waiting too long and being a terrible partner because you have no skills in that department
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:01 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:08 PM
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I agree to a certain extent. The “know yourself” advice is thrown around too vaguely now. I feel like you should take the time to figure out what you want from a partner, what you’ll do to keep said partner, and boundaries that said partner cant get away with crossing. Outside of that getting better comes from just trying and failing, relationships are a skill like anything else no amount of self discovery will make up for inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 07:07 PM
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It might be a regional thing because i live in a big city but that happens all the time. Im from Houston my buds from NewYork and LA confirm its like that for them too. Hell some of my female friends have expressed as such. I’m different from a lot of folks in the sub because I actually touch grass and have a wide enough friend group to tell you that isn’t reality for the most part. Even these “chads” have an ex or two they wish they would have just settled down with but couldn’t at the time for…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:44 AM
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new to reddit wrong place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:42 AM
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Im in my twenties, women have had this standard since highschool i’ve seen highschool girls leave their minimum wage highschool boyfriends for older men with hellcats my entire life. the vast majority of men don’t want women just for sex i’m new to this sub and thats a wild strawman ive been seen thrown around for a while. Most men would be happy meeting a girl they hit if off and end up together for the rest of their lives but end up burnt out because that seems generally impossible now. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:29 AM
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Money is infact a baseline for a lot of women most women do not want a man making minimum wage or less. And because of that it will always FEEL transactional regardless of if its true or not. A lot of men get used and abused for money id bet most men had that experience at least once in their life. Me and my male buddy frequently help our female friends out all they time in fact we just drove 6 hours to drop one of them off out of town you just have shit friends. This entire post reads more like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 07:55 PM
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Men don’t want to be the main breadwinners men typically HAVE to be the main bread winner to end up with the girl he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:34 AM
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Personally I believe its possible, until your peers (men and women) virgin shame you and go out of their way to make you feel bad about it. Some of the happiest people I know are virgins and outside of the dating realm. I think you conflate not being successful with women to being an actual incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 07:35 PM
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