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LawyersReallyRealOrNot/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 04:29 PM
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I'm sure we could compare stories...
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 09:23 PM
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Following
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 04:36 PM
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Following
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 04:35 PM
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Sometimes her family (flaming c~nt of a sister) is who turns her against you ..
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 02:30 PM
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It doesn't help when her flaming c~nt of a sister is feeding her EMOTION DRIVEN (bad) legal advice... Despite having nothing more than a HS diploma, a half-finished cosmology degree, and her own divorce, and manipulative toxic relationship to base it on.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 01:56 PM
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I am nowhere near done with mine ... Been separated for 18 months ... Haven't officially filed yet (for reasons) ... And I know already that I have no interest in getting married again ... Hell I don't have any interest in even having a long term relationship ... I'd like to have sex again ... But I am not going to try to start "hooking up" like I did in my 20's FWIW, I'm 53, wife is 43, kids are 16/14/12.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/24 01:52 PM
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I feel this
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 08:27 PM
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end up at planet fitness The purple nightmare!
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 02:18 AM
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Yup I've done them Great way to get yourself going
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 01:52 AM
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I am a huge fan of HIIT programming. I did 5 miles on an elliptical machine in 30 minutes today, then went and did a total of 160 one-handed kettlebell swings (20kg/45#), 8 sets of 10 each arm. Dripping with sweat and gulping for air when I was done, but GAWDAYUM did it feel good.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 12:49 AM
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The gym (exercise in general) is AMAZING for your mental and emotional health! For me, it burns out all the anxiety and stress and clears my mind. It is NOT a "place to meet chicks" but rather a place for you to be with yourself and challenge yourself and learn to believe in yourself and become a better version of yourself. Don't discount therapy. For me it was a bit of a "blow to my ego" to start. I'm a DIY type of guy, I'm in a career that demands you be physically and mentally and emotionally…
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 12:36 AM
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If you drink, stop. If you do any other "recreational drugs", stop Find a good therapist. It works. Get in the gym.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 09:23 PM
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I'mma skip that one too.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:45 PM
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Then I am glad I never knew of it. Not my thing.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:45 PM
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Dare I ask what MGTOW was?
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 08:17 PM
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You've got good stuff in that OP
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 12:23 AM
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On paper, yes. In our hearts, I don't know. Been separated for a year. No filings, not even an honest discussion about filing.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/24 12:16 PM
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An excerpt from our ceremony: Today we cross an invisible line. We leave behind our yesterdays and start our lives anew. The past is over. We concern ourselves only with the future. It is a new day, a new commitment, a new life. The vows we take today will change us forever.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 09:39 PM
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No. Not at all. A commitment is a commitment. It is a LIFETIME COMMITMENT.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 08:16 PM
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It's we all need, Sir. Straight hard truths.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 08:11 PM
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I know
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 11:29 PM
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True. Story.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 10:54 PM
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FAWK. Who's cutting onions this early in the morning. You can't do that to a man.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 11:19 AM
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The lyrics to "Downbound Train" by Bruce Springsteen...
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/24 01:59 PM
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Absolutely soul crushing.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 11:17 PM
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I feel this.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 11:08 PM
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Long and complicated story...
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 09:41 PM
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I fear I may be forced to go this route too .. We are prolly 6 months from actually filing and starting this, but she makes +/- 2x what I make. But she has taken loans against whole life policies we took out ON HER as INVESTMENTS.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 07:55 PM
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Shoot me a chat Not gonna put it all out there
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 05:40 PM
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Get an experienced, respected Family Law/Divorce attorney. And not one of the "firms" you see and hear advertised.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 12:06 PM
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I would like to get mine. I'd put them in a box and share them with the kids when they are grown. But my STBXW 's manipulative cunt of a sister went through my house, took everything and anything that had to do with me and/or us and LITERALLY threw them in piles in corners of rooms.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 11:51 AM
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Damn. You just described mine. Fueled by her divorced, manipulative cunt of a sister. I am the monster. She is the saving grace. Her and the STBXW can raise them together with the SIL's 7-yo daughter. SIL got knocked up by a "townie" during her "ho phase" after her divorce, when she left her XH and 21-yo son in another state and moved back to her hometown. But she has no job, no income, is totally reliant on the Baby Daddy, and is looking for a "way out".
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 11:35 AM
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she was trying to lay a trap and get me to act out in a way that she could use against me I feel mine is doing this as well.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 11:26 AM
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I actually have been doing the same thing In addition to journaling I send myself screenshots and notes that I want to remember
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 12:00 AM
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I can respect that. Just like I can respect a couple who chooses to not have children (my best friend and his wife). I will never judge either.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 06:57 PM
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Look at my post from last night. This coming Saturday is/was/will be 17 years. We've been separated for 18 months. It's the most empty I have ever felt. Because I too was/still am a believer that marriage is a lifetime commitment.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 11:20 AM
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Reddit was being stoopid. Was trying to post the "It's over Anakin, I have the high ground" meme. It didn't work. I hate that.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 12:01 AM
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https://prequelmemes.fandom.com/wiki/It%27s_over,_Anakin._I_have_the_high_ground.?file=High_ground
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/24 08:29 PM
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I am struggling with this in a way myself. In fact I just talked about it with my therapist this morning. My wife is keeping my children from me (she denies this... says they don't want to see / talk to me) she has a close relationship with her sister (whom I've never gotten along with particularly well) who I believe is continually reinforcing that #I am the "bad guy". Yet, no matter what, I will not say a bad word about my wife. ESPECIALLY# not to or around my children. No matter how this all …
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 04:19 PM
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Note made
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/24 12:05 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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