Homosexuals are a small portion of the world population. When does your dick get hard? When you best somebody in competition? When you see an attractive enough body?
That's a very feminine conception of what rape is and thusly it is wrong. The idea that it's about power is due to the fact that sex is about power - to women. Sex is not about power to men. Sex is about desire.
The only answer to your question that is relevant is regarding Kevin Samuels. To claim that anyone else in the red pill space was doing what he was doing is false.
Kevin Samuels was the only redpill man who taught anything at all about the idea of marriage being a reality. Every other redpill platform strictly does not teach men to get married.