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Well, truth be told, she managed to hit one punch. I was rather amazed, not by the impact, but simply because it happened.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 01:42 AM
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Pretty sure she didnt cheat, but was told by this 'friend' that her lover was dead. Which she believed and then drowned her sorrow in the arms of the asshole that actually betrayed him.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 03:56 PM
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Noticed that doing a weekly reflection on progress really helps. Quality questions that make you really look at what you did or didn't do. Once it's on paper, it gets harder for your mind to talk around it, and it's a great way to gauge progress.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 03:54 PM
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So true. Once the aggression escalates, any bluepill selfrightous bloke will pick a womens side, even if its just to give a few punches for his own entertainment. Had something similar while getting food once. This bitter bitch snapped for no reason while I just commented on her half-assed manner of skipping the waiting line. Before I knew it, I was dodging punches while holding a gyros sandwich. It was unreal. Too bad the patrol of that night came a bit too late, the scum already split by then.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 03:42 PM
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I have a hard time handling compliments of women these days. They really feel fake and superficial, like just another tool to make me comply in some form.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 09:47 PM
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Yeah, that one. Thanks for linking to the right source, figured people on here should know this one.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 01:15 PM
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That's how I managed to pull a 9 once long ago while me being a 5. (I know right?) She wanted to win a ticket for the party we were throwing. She was too late with the application, so she didn't get it. Despite my buddy sticking up for her, she lost her chance. No free meals. Actually remember that I attracted her for the most part by ignoring her beauty in the first place, and acting somewhat not interested. First bring value to the table, then show them that they aren't some special snowflake …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 11:49 PM
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Really depends on the context of the relationship. If you are going to spend a lot of time and resources while just listening to her and not getting anywhere... A friendship asks for maintanance more or less, there's a price. While some girls prove to bring great social value by their looks alone, it really depends on the girl and the dynamic. If you are following her like some puppet, because you want to get into her girl group. Well, that's not really the way to go. Value is one of those thing…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 11:18 PM
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There's a good metaphor about the investing part I saw online once. It's like she's in Las Vegas and starts to play a slotmachine. Once she's really into it after a while, she expects a big payoff to come soon. Then, all of the sudden, her girlfriend appears: "Come with me to see this show." If she's invested enough, she would rather stick around for the payoff, rather than following her girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 11:07 PM
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Had the wrong friends at teenage years. Still kinda blame them for holding me back, but I didn't know any better than wanting to be accepted. Heck, I wasnt any better than them in a sense. It's funny how you make so much of your identity based on peergroups and external validation when you don't know better. Returned to get a degree at the age of 27. Finally getting to love what kept me busy and happy prior to starting it: writing and journalism. I'm the oldest bloke there easily. This has some …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 02:04 AM
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Where are you coming from to behave like this. A zero fucks given attitude is something to be trained with somewhat calculated steps still. Bad experience is experience to, but having the ability to reflect and improve is even more important. Being a Dick for the sake of 'look at me' is just not congruent. Just learn to take less shit when the world throws it at you.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 02:45 PM
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I failed to land a HB9 who was looking to cheat on her boyfriend when I was just starting to game. I told her that I can't do this to him. Basically she came for sleepovers 2 nites, but I was too pussy to pull it off. Before the third time she would come, I basically got arrested for not having a train ticket and trying to flee, but got grabbed by a policeman who was off from work. After that I developed a massive oneitis that lasted for months and made me hugely depressed.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 01:04 PM
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Stellar post, this missing piece of information just clicked. Looking back now at certain experiences: Holding frame also comes down to being non-reactive. It's especially even better to shut up sometimes instead of becoming angry. Relying on someone's opinion and trying to change it; this is mostly the underlaying dynamic, which brings the hurt and keeps you in her frame.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 04:13 PM
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A therapist can only make you see what you already know but in a different light. They are trained at analyzing, awknowledging and reframing what's buried underneath your conscious thinking. This can also be realized with daily meditation - you learn to observe your mental patterns, without being carried away by their weight. Most mental problems stem from a lack of consciousness and flexibility. Meditations teaches you to rewire the buried parts through non judgemental observation - essentially…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 09:42 AM
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Character means chizzling away the unnecessery parts, thus essentially Cutting through the bullshit programming and getting to the core of what it means to be a man.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 09:33 AM
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On the other hand... Having an Alpha Widow for a mother has certain pros and cons.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 09:32 AM
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Yeah, I am well aware of this. Thus far have been pretty content with the friends she keeps. This LTR will be a LDR for 6 weeks, due to me moving for a while to earn some money during vacation from school. Signed in to local gym yesterday. Going there in a couple of minutes and planning to unwind there daily. Might end up fucking some girl in this area just to have some honour insurance.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:11 AM
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It would be good to do some indirect investigation. Not letting it phase you in the moment by becoming reactive is key though. But it's good to know your 'enemy' and having an idea who you are dealing with. Especially if they spend a lot of time together because of work, school etc. Call me paranoid, but I do not trust women anymore on their words. I will let my own perceptions be the judge. Looking through a red pill lens at stuff is as much a blessing as it is a curse. If shit is somewhat fuck…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 01:01 AM
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Bitches are the ultimate friendship benchmarks. Desire tends to bring out people's true colours.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 10:29 AM
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It's funny they mention them, because it's says something about their care for your opinion. She's basically trying to get your validation after their validation. That's the place they should be: an afterthought. The time to take caution is when a 'new' friend is mentioned quite often, even more when there's emotional content tied to him.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 10:24 AM
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Wouldnt have said it any better, thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 10:20 AM
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Life is as unfair as you decide it to be for yourself. Who should you compare yourself to...? Yourself. Saying some have it easier because - insert factor out of own control - and there's another 'legit' reason not to try with every fibre of your being. External validation is a fine and lovely shackle, let women induldge in that like they are supposed to. There once was this study about kids that were often called 'smart' and just normal kids that were taught to work hard. Guess who had the hard…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 10:43 PM
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Women bond a lot better with women, they vibe so well. Men bond better with males too. There's a fine line between seeming somewhat more human because of projecting flaws and being taken for granted because of these flaws. Shutting down to protect yourself is fine. Expressing yourself while being with a women can be done by other ways than actually revealing your true self. It really depends on how you define emotional bonding too. Was the bonding with her valid, and more than just your reptilia…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:41 PM
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There's this idea that human's generally are bad at obeying two contradicting masters. The amount of energy wasted by holding onto two opposite idea's is huge. This tale reminds me of the book by Jack London called 'White Fang'. It's about a wolf that get's domesticated during the gold rush in Alaska. Perhaps not realistic in a TRP sense, but this writer is a genius at translating animalistic instincts into a living and breathing idea that almost feels humane in a sense.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:21 PM
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Blackouts are the worst. Having people actually helping you at recollecting the night and the stupid shit you did - laughing it off doesn't justify a single bit then and there. Beer goggles at least leave you with some consciousness and decision making ability. Mixing it up with liquor usually doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:14 PM
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The hardest thing was actually taking responsiblity for the mistakes on my part. It's way better to get angry at yourself than sobbing over things that are out of your control.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 12:40 PM
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Coming into contact with something like TRP will for most people lead to some form of identity crisis. That is, if someone is willing to take this information to heart, thus destroying a large chunk of their beliefs (about themselves) and ways of perceiving the world. The glasses you wear in daily life change colour - probably less happy colours and less optic illusions, but your perception get's better. So does your behaviour if you follow through, which now is more based on truths, rather than…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 11:23 AM
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Women have an external process of problemsolving by mainly talking about it. Men can do that stuff internally. So when a men would talk about his problems, it would be when he reaches a conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 11:10 AM
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There will be environments where you are at an advantage compared to the people you are with. Taking the lead will be a lot easier than competing with someone over it. On of the perks of having more experience and to some degree being a man, is the ability to work proactively with the reality that's present. For me it has become a matter of knowing when to step back and observe. You took caution in the first place, that's a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:18 PM
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This is just as well a blessing in disguise. Teaching yourself to take the responsibility for those experiences, has put you in a far better place, than repeating the cycles and just blaming outward circumstances. Relationships almost always bring some kind of problems. Problems are a proof of life. Getting better is not about taking away problems, it's about learning to solve them and eventually having the gut to tackle the bigger obstacles.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 12:05 PM
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It's harder to change within an existing social setting / workplace. People have come to expect certain behaviour from you. Not sacraficing from the start is a whole lot easier.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 11:03 AM
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Letting things be and letting nature run it's course, doesn't mean that someone won't experience some conscequences because of their actions. They don't have to be in direct relation to your suffering, but I do believe that some people are predestined for misery because of their rotten attitude. Sticking around to see it is a whole different thing though. Most suffering comes from the need to have control over others. Having peace with the fact you basically have none takes away a lot of strain …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 10:56 AM
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In a sense it's like attention whoring at Comincon? It's like PUA's going to a library to score some pussy, there's just no guy competition there mostly. This is what girls do for their attention boost. Sadly most of these nerdy guys haven't played the IRL-game, so the Golden Rule is like a code of honour when it comes to women. Women are adaptable and if have some 'rather superficial' interest in gaming helps them to reach their BB/attention-goals, why the heck not? And yeah, the lower quality …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:54 PM
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Got to honestly say I do find this whole analysis a bit black and white. Once again we only hear one side of the story, clearly this guy has been effed for life because of this bitch cheating - but he does seem to rank high on the clueless list. Don't forget that 10% of kids in the world are conceived by someone other than 'dad'. As for paternity testing. There's quite an industry here in Holland for making that happen. It's interesting that they easily can ask something like 1700€ for such a te…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:36 PM
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I will never forget how my niece talked about our uncle when I visited them in Poland. Perhaps I didn't know his darker side before she told me, but the she could portray him as some kind of sociopathic lunatic, without even flinching. Reason being? On a fundamental level his business was in decay, he was not able to adjust to a changing market. My trust in her really dropped then, I have always respected him and I still do. AWALT > Family Values I guess. In the current age of information women …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 02:43 AM
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Not a native speaker, but thanks for the pointer. Fixed it. Agree that this is just another way to get clarity, discipline doesn't just come about without effort and willpower. I believe this truly is a way to cut down on initial effort. Brainpower doesn't thrive on effort like muscles. Trying harder mentally might actually work against someone if he's not able to get into the right emotional state first.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 10:52 PM
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It's funny looking from the perspective of a women giving a compliment. Some just can't handle you being unphased about getting a compliment from their holier-than-thou. Compliments coming from women always make me somewhat suspicious to the hidden agenda behind them.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 03:24 PM
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Meditation and stoicism go hand in hand - having control of your thoughts and thus your emotions is fundamental to this school. Meditation provides these fundamentals very well.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 07:45 PM
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The color of someone's skin isn't a good indicator of this. Gonna stick to AWALT in any case. Why? The lack of birthcontrol or discipline in using it - this not a worthy measure. You don't need to fuck a lot to have 10 kids. Every time a women get's pregnant, it may lead to many months of less or no sex at all. Imagine these guys being ready to bust another nut, once the baby popped out. To be more clear: Here in Holland the Protestant Christians are against the use of birth control. They are ra…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 07:09 PM
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Similar situation here. Can relate to being angry about this, all the trust, hope and goodwill for her went up in smoke once you figured it out. Within lies a new sense of freedom and a foundation to build your new identity on something thats truthful.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 09:30 AM
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Disagree that someone plugged in so much would change so quickly. It would probably be a date with truth, one with a sad ending or full on denial.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 09:26 AM
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It's funny how shocked my current LTR was, when I told her that it's a joke that guys become feminists. She actually had to find some poor beta in our class, just to prove her point that these men exist. When push comes to shove, I straight up tell her that women are doing quite well these days. Clearly the subject has been the catalyst for some arguments - being raised by a 'strong' single mom does give me some credibility to stick up for my own gender, I understand where's she's coming from, b…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 10:06 AM
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Blaming is always easier and can postpone pain - I sympathize the word postpone, it's a form of giving away power by saying that circumstances are responsible. Environment is something that has a big impact, notice how successful people are way more in their own reality? That's a choice really, having boundries is like a country with borders; your are your own customs while trading/sharing ideas, emotions and recources.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:32 AM
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Practices like meditation and mindfulness increase the mental space and choice of the individual, in between the stimuli and the forming of a response. By not clinging to an outcome, a learned reaction or negative beliefs, a lot of flexibility opens up, especially in consciously reflecting on and re-examining your previous 'life script'. The power of reflection is a core aspect of learning, The ability to accept reality and work from there, rather than holding onto judgements is a key aspect of …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:24 AM
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Actually bumped into my ex today, after almost a year of not seeing her. Said hi and walked past her without flinching, she seemed moved and somewhat sad after the greeting. I felt happy about not giving a fuck for the rest of the walk home. Cut her off for good back then, she moved on quite quickly, with another guy from our college year. He actually went on his knees to ask her to be in a relationship. I had to laugh once she told me. Stuff like that really helps to move on. Time heals and emo…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:35 PM
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A lot of great thinkers agree: It's in those most testing times that picking yourself up - with conviction - will help you to forge your character far more.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:25 PM
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Your last quote is an interesting point. It's so fundamental - people tend to forget most feelings others bring to us, are caused by our own thinking in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:23 PM
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Good analysis, thanks. Still digesting and some pointers into the deeper workings are very welcome. Have to be peaceful with the fact I cannot contribute that much yet, without working through the theories more.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 12:05 AM
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If only women would be able to hold the same level of responsiblity as male society for their fuckups. Males might learn a thing or two from women when it comes to sticking up for eachother as a gender. By nature we are far more capable of that. The real efforts that hold this society together go unnoticed for most of the times. Some pull the weight out of virtue and some pull their strings behind the curtains. Those at the frontlines are just whipped for being there. No wonder that so many men …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:11 PM
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Thanks for the truthful reminder. Reflecting back now, at times I've seen women poison my social circle. Some bro's are two-faced when suddenly pussy appears. Especially seen this one friend White Knighting for the sake of raising his own value and being overly dominant, aka sucking up in an overt way and enjoying it at my expense. Looking back now I recognize it was his problem and to some extent mine for not letting him know in a healthy way. *** edit *** And yeah, the girl in question too, no…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:12 PM
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Giving for the sake of giving and not expecting anything in return, is a virtue which has been mentioned in certain religions. Can it ease your psyche? Sure. Can it keep/make you beta and miserable? Ofcourse. It all comes down to the intention behind it. Where most people make the mistake, is giving to those that seem in need and not to those that actually deserve the help. Time, money, attention and intellect (ideas) are resources you exchange with people. For some their time is worth more than…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 09:44 AM
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Yeah, never underestimate daily yoga to get them juices flowing.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:24 PM
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Let us not forget how clueless most guys are about hitting on women. Within seconds you will know if she digs your vibe, and busting her balls, instead of supplicating compliments -this almost always the get-go approach. Edit: We might not have the power to change their blueprints into our favour, but remember: novelty is sexy as heck. Bonding and chemistry is not some abstract process, but it's more about a whole range of emotions. Why would you play by her rules? She doesn't really know what s…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 01:19 PM
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Different surroundings, different social circle and different dynamics. Don't expect to get the same results and perks, just because life had thrown you a pretty big bone back then. And secondly: don't talk about your feelings with dudes. Your feelings come from taking action. Not from first feeling into taking action, by seeking approval without taking own steps in the direction you know you should take. Nothing worth having comes too easily, one will not fully appriciate the reap, thanks for r…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 09:03 AM
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Something to mention about the current times: male sexual desire gets shamed and downplayed as something unnatural. All the while these 'ticking timebombs' called balls are basically a core part of the engine which propells this world onward. No amount of daydreaming, procrastinating, hoping and whining will go against that, even more so since it isnt our nature. Something like: "Don't expect her to make the fire, if you don't bring any wood."
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 11:31 AM
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Frame is all about who can perceive themselves as a prize without being direct about it. If she blocks you and you let it bother you in a less flattering way, then you shown you don't appriciate your own needs enough to proactively handle them like by walking away for example. Relit my Ltr after breaking it off last week, she was getting too much control and something needed to change. Told her I wasnt planning on sleeping over, she was happy to tag along to mine city 30 minutes away still. Trai…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 07:51 AM
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Playfulness like that asks for a certain amount of not being attached to an outcome. The result being people get sucked into your frame like a black hole, given the right situation. Girl reacts > guys react > girl get's turned on even more. Lovely.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 11:33 PM
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Similar situation here. LTR had too many red flags and after many signs of disloyalty and halfhearted confrontations, I just decided to exit on the notion of wanting to choose what's best for me: dedication to my life and being unsatisfied with my priorities shifting. Being Stoic is more or less a strong point of me, yet not fully developed, maintaining frame will only come if I take care of my own needs first. Actually believing the shit she is spewing in raging anger after I ended is; it's lik…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 11:28 PM
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In a sense when it comes to building muscle it comes down to: try harder and get more results. As Stephen Covey said, with brainpower it's really the opposite thing. The more energy you spend on trying the less natural the flow of energy will be and you will actually hinder yourself more. Taking care of your needs first and foremost does not come natural to everyone, atleast not men, being inherently more compassionate and believing in virtues and having blue pill programming enforcing that. One…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 01:15 AM
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Yeah, I think that too. Have to breed abundance to see more clearly for now. Slowly letting go of the idea I can actually influence her in a positive way, hoes be hoes and thats how it just goes.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 04:05 PM
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That's true. I am currently not on best terms with my status, she clearly is using this relationship as leverage and on some terms it has given my leverage too. I do judge harshly when it comes to screening for certain qualities, it's just that she seems to be lacking on long term potential. For now I think I will give this a deadline of one month and work on myself in the meanwhile, while distancing slowly but surely. I already told her today that I am adjusting my schedule to have more me-time…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 04:02 PM
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Sounds like good ways aye, especially the second one. But do you think I should keep this going on or am I kidding my selfrespect in the long run while staying somewhat pussy whipped?
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:49 PM
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