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Outer Game Reasonable-Cold-69/r/seduction14/10/22 10:45 PM
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Most animals' mating behavior is based primarily on reproduction with the best traits in the species. Idk why anyone would assume humans are so different. Except obviously humans have more functions than, "be big." And we live longer. So yes, Women crave the most desirable men. Which are limited supply. Unless the woman is top tier, or wants to chase forever, they settle for men they can get who will stick around. Which is settling. No one is truly happy to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:46 PM
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As a guy, how do you not see modern video game culture as a dream killer? It's no longer about socializing at arcades or getting 4 people to all play Mario Party. Nowadays guys put thousands into a gaming isolation chamber to play by themselves for hours every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:39 AM
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There's a guy named Tony Huge on Youtube. (He's an example). His main desire is sex and work, so he lives in Thailand. USD is way stronger there. He explains basically in America, you live paycheck to paycheck for one wife, or move and live like a wealthy man with a harem of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:36 AM
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Blackpilled asf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:41 AM
-2

Says a lot about a woman (or men) that their #1 concern about having kids is price.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:26 AM
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It's a bit dramatic with the prostitution part. But the first paragraph is legit. I think his point is less about bad options, and how little most women are prepared to bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:53 PM
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If you like him, isn't it an error on your part that you haven't gotten him to like you back yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:50 PM
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Your whole argument is missing a definition of "attractive." So I'm struggling to see your point. Like you say in #3, women have more things they find attractive other than facial symmetry and ass. Women enjoy humor, physical strength/toughness, intelligence, wealth, etc more than we do. In terms of raw physical beauty, women definitely have men beat (or at least they did before modern negative influences).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:05 PM
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My brother, you are WAY off in your opinions of women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:51 PM
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Why someone always trying to shit on men for their double standards? We don't have the pussies. Women can control 100% of sex and societal standards. They "choose" not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:08 AM
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I do agree many men are mediocre and spineless. However some of the stuff you wrote about women's value is blatantly not true for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:41 AM
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Crying "sexism" at the end is incorrect AND not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:14 PM
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How do your interactions with women go? And what kind of women are they? Obviously 10/10 bar sluts are gunna treat average guys like dirt. Surely you can find a lot of average to below average girls to practice with.
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:57 PM
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Depends on a lot of factors on what I'm okay with. You'll have to specify. But at the end of the day, what is the real harm? A girl had consensual sex in a world of hookup culture? If something is important enough, they'll confirm it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:59 AM
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Not sticking to your morals and instead lying to other people to compensate is peak sociopathy. Either don't do it, or do it and be honest and find people who think similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:48 AM
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What is the obsession these days with the etiology of social norms?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:15 AM
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Sociopath behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:11 AM
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I absolutely ask and it matters for a LTR. You're a fool if it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:05 AM
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Guys will spend all day every day gaming, in lieu of spending time building a personality or success. or shoot out all their desires to date with porn. Or obsess about other men becoming famous athletes. All very emasculating. I don't think occasionally watching the Kardashians ruins any woman's life. Not sure what you're referring to, but Growing a Social media and buying sexier outfits usually helps her dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:02 PM
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I think they know the truth. Only lie for advantage. You would probably have to say this whole post to them for them to drop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:57 PM
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Seems a lot easier for a woman to get better at expanding her marriage options than for a guy to get better at having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:54 PM
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It's not in a woman's nature to learn all of this. At least in such detail. It's for men to understand them and get better. All women really need to know is their value, then put themselves out there, and pick the highest value dude willing to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 09:50 PM
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Wow spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:16 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:29 PM
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There are mountains of surveys and research and examples showing women do NOT value physical beauty the same way men do.
/r/seduction10/10/22 06:47 AM
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Yeah and all the other things. Sounds like ur agreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:16 AM
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It's not about how "dateable" someone is, like OP suggests. -Women's wages getting higher and higher, so men have lost some value as providers. -Many men have no problem over-indulging in regressive things like video games, movies, porn, (watching) sports, etc. -Women's options have grown more with dating apps and social media. -More competition for women. -Women have gotten fatter. Like I said, it's not about how boring and basic women are. Dating has competition and numbers, why wouldn't it ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:45 AM
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I'm a guy and I hard disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:09 AM
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Can you elaborate on #4?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:30 AM
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Yup. Just ask your female friends from time to time. If they've ever hooked up with a guy they thought was an "asshole" or didn't completely enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:28 AM
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Uhhh if a guy is confident and has gotten her to like him already, yeah, she may push something to the back of her mind. She may even still have sex with him, depending on what was said. But I think most guys are average joes looking for things to talk about. If some average joe 5 minutes into a conversation at a bar (example) says something very conservative, and the girl is a flaming liberal, in my experience that will not go over well. It's just how women are.
/r/seduction04/10/22 12:22 AM
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"How to talk to girls" gets asked multiple times a week on this sub. What are you expecting if you haven't done a drop of research for yourself? Someone can solve a problem of that magnitude in a paragraph?
/r/seduction04/10/22 12:09 AM
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You're the first time I've heard of that exact phrase, but I've seen men promote that concept in different ways many many times. How male sexuality is intertwined with our overall drive. It's Freudian. Boxers, etc.
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:59 PM
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Respect for the lengthy post and effort, but hard disagree on #4
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:53 PM
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Yes you and I agree. Our belief frames it as a problem which must be solved. The guy I replied to thinks otherwise. He apathetically blamed biology and got a lot of upvotes. Not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:42 PM
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If a guy (from this sub) can't even talk to girls and has nothing going on for him, obviously a guy who has some game (and he's not un-attractive either) can pull something. It's obviously a multi-faceted answer. Sometimes status doesn't matter. But I don't think OP wants to date 6/10s who fuck homeless guys. He wants a hot girl with self-esteem. They usually have many options, and do consider status.
/r/seduction26/09/22 09:06 PM
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Feminized society and media + men's attitudes. A lot of women feel comfortable whining about stuff and will get other women's sympathy. Cool dudes tend to be stoic. Also, dudes gain nothing individually by telling women how to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:57 PM
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I think it's more about a feminized society/media. Not biology. Middle eastern countries who allow multiple wives probably don't have these stigmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:50 PM
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I hate when good questions like these get spammed by dumb anecdotal and cherry-picking replies. Are there some gorgeous women who have low self esteem/dating IQ and date ugly or broke guys? Sure. Is that what we should aim to be? No. Also, are there guys who have game or money or looks and don't slay? Sure. Are there guys who only have looks and only slay the girls who like hot guys? Are there guys who only have status and slay the girls who only like rich party guys? Etc. Sure. Are there guys w…
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:26 PM
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What's your point? There's always going to be a certain amount of ugly desperate women on a night out who'll bang a guy. I don't think OP is talking about slaying bar sluts..
/r/seduction26/09/22 06:11 PM
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It's rarely talked about. Not just here, but everywhere. Because most of the time it's women slandering men in some stupid bratty 'i dont need a man' way. Which gets disregarded. But yes. A huuuuge chunk of men are bitches, not bringing good vibes, etc. Just ignore them and keep searching for solid bros.
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:50 PM
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If you look at the data and how women swipe, they typically rarely swipe right, and only on the most conventionally attractive guys. And, in my personal opinion, usually out of their league. Girls don't want to be 'realistic' when online dick shopping. In conclusion, and potential hot take, Have I banged a buncha 7/10s, 6/10s, 5/10s from OLD? Sure. Was it worth contributing to the popularity of the apps thus basically helping the top 1% of guys get laid more? 😬
/r/seduction25/09/22 04:01 PM
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Spot on.
/r/seduction25/09/22 03:55 PM
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This gets asked multi-weekly. You haven't tried for even 30 seconds. Fuck off.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:38 PM
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Sounds like a philosophy or belief more than a practical view of a situation. People meet as strangers. Unless you believe in "love at first sight," things take time to develop organically. Guys don't walk up to women they're attracted to, and just start reciting their requirements. There's seduction, mystery, whatever you want to call it. That's where the competition happens. Example: A girl might have a guy she likes and has been talking to for, say, three weeks. It's going great so far. She g…
/r/seduction21/09/22 03:03 PM
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Spend time studying things you find humorous, for your scenario
/r/seduction21/09/22 01:12 AM
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...How to flirt? C'mon man that gets asked like every week here. We can give SOME advice, but you know there's no quick 5 minute guide to having good conversations for hours.
/r/seduction21/09/22 01:07 AM
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Who? Why? Source? Do you really think that's the best option for them, or they chose that as their best option? And how many of single mothers chose that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:03 AM
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People can obviously write paragraphs about what """feminism""" has done to women. I think it's not even about the mentality and morals like "expectations." Basically, supply and demand principles. The number of fat, unattractive or unavailable women has increased, so the value of the supply of anything decent has gone up.
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:52 AM
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What does that even mean?
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:44 AM
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You're looking at it the wrong way. People, friends, anyone, build relationships off of value. I value my guy friends because they're funny or smart or useful or interesting or something like that. A lot of modern men are like addicted to video games, can't even talk to women, no work ethic, etc. Dorks. (No shame in being a late bloomer or bad upbringing). One day they see a pretty girl, their dick fills up, they want to date her, but she's been getting fingerblasted by Chads for years. Why woul…
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:43 AM
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You're looking at it the wrong way. People, friends, anyone, build relationships off of value. I value my guy friends because they're funny or smart or useful or interesting or something like that. A lot of modern men are like addicted to video games, can't even talk to women, no work ethic, etc. Dorks. (No shame in being a late bloomer or bad upbringing). One day they see a pretty girl, their dick fills up, they want to date her, but she's been getting fingerblasted by Chads for years. Why woul…
/r/seduction21/09/22 12:43 AM
1

Look at the recent Leonardo DiCaprio news. He can date anyone he wants: smart scientists, powerful politicians, actresses in his field, rich female entrepreneurs. Who does he (and most other rich famous guys) choose? "Barely legal in shape model" seems to be the only requirement. Physical beauty is clearly the main factor for men. Don't let any fat retard feminist tell you otherwise. Problem is, physical beauty is objective and can pop up anywhere. It's randomly combining alleles to make their p…
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:13 PM
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Close, and what a lot of guys think it is, but the real truth is, you know you're competing with her options (other men). The hotter she is, the more likely she's going to be hit on a lot. Your advice still works, tho.
/r/seduction19/09/22 09:52 PM
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I've gotten laid, I can get a good amount of matches, but I get higher quality women and experiences in person. And potentially unpopular opinion: OLD is kinda cuck. Data shows women swipe right wayyy less than men do. They're pickier. They're all swiping on the top TOP percent of photogenic/attractive guys. You're basically helping those guys get laid more by making the app more popular, if you think about it.
/r/seduction17/09/22 02:47 AM
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Title claim is definitely true. People keep inventing new words to subjugate men, like "incel" and "simp." However the women in your life seem unusually extra shitty. Side note: is the field nursing haha?
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:15 PM
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Yes yes but a lot of guys obsess over the looks, weight, body, etc, of girls. To the point of choosing a 9/10 looks with 4/10 personality over a 7/10 looks with 10/10 personality. These women are pretty and I don't subscribe to the easy idea of writing them off as "oh those golddiggers."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:43 AM
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We're going around in circles. Your original point was comparing single moms to single dads. Most single parents are women. Women have the body, they have final decision of the babies. Most people's biggest form of financial investment is their house. It is significantly harder to become successful and pay for things like mortgages when not dual income. So I think that's why OP thinks they should get more of the criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:11 AM
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The marriage part adds alimony to the child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:46 AM
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The lesson isn't about Nick or these particular gold diggers. How many 'red pill guys' are obsessed with banging the hottest chick they can find? And throwing away good wholesome, but less physically attractive, women in the process. Stuff like this makes me think about how much I value physical beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:43 AM
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Painting with a broad brush is kinda shitty. However, i think there's other lessons to be gained from this. How many red pill guys or even women have thrown away a potentially decent partner for the thought of fucking someone more attractive? Nick's girls I've seen are all undeniably attractive. Stuff like this makes me think about how much I value physical beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:40 AM
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I think I read that Nick developed some degenerative disease, so he's procreating before he loses his vitality. Idk he's also a racist anti-semitic hotep so fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:36 AM
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Reading previous posts, other subs and resources, learning and listening to other sorts of "role models." Take the things you like and envy about them, and avoid the things you don't like.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:34 AM
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Shit bugs me, too. They have a large online resource of people here willing to help, but a lot of the same beginner stuff keeps getting posted. They haven't tried for even 5 minutes.
/r/seduction16/09/22 01:15 AM
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That's the point. These women got tricked out of it. And I would think even 300/month is a lot of money to the crowd who can't afford condoms birth control etc. Fast food workers have sex. Retail workers have sex. Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:12 AM
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So from here and other comments, you're telling me you're not funny, not interesting, can't talk to a girl, your height isn't actually an asset, etc, but the subliminal messages behind cold approaching is the problem? Not to be mean, but this is like every other post on this sub. You haven't put in the effort. Don't be another young guy who has no personality or life, but thinks he's a cutie 6.5/10 on the looks scale, so he's looking for quick little tips to fuck 9/10s.
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:38 PM
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I said, "why wouldn't a woman stop to talk to an attractive funny interesting guy?" If YOU can't think of anything to say, isn't that missing at least 2 of the requirements?
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:22 PM
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Sounds like over-thinking. You don't need to have the same major and both enjoy 18th century French art or something. Most humans aren't that crazy unique. Most humans enjoy the latest popular Netflix show out, partying, clothes, etc. I knew tons of cornball frat guys who got numbers all the time by telling a funny party story, then inviting her to one.
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:11 PM
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I'm 6'3" too, how in gods name are you not more optimistic? My bodycount is 40+ and for most of that my personality used to be just "taller funny guy"
/r/seduction15/09/22 10:04 PM
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That's a negative introverty mindset. As if conversations are a chore to her. They are if they're bad. You must believe what you have to say is worth her stopping to talk to you. Why wouldn't a woman stop to talk to an attractive funny interesting guy?
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:56 PM
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That mentality is valid in some ways. You don't want to be the guy at the bar not having fun, just constantly looking around for women to hit on. Or the guy who meets a girl on campus between classes and tries to talk to her for 25 minutes. That makes you look too not busy. Picture someone you've met in life who's a natural extrovert, who was exceptional at conversation. They made it feel natural to talk to people/women. I approach women with a vibe like, "hey we're both at this place, we must h…
/r/seduction15/09/22 09:49 PM
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It's an unfortunate situation and I empathize with her. Drastic changes of character can happen. However, I think the message isn't to blame individual women in specific scenarios. The USA has the highest rate of single mothers in the world. It's been changing for decades. Where are the women advocating this issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:30 PM
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I think the focus is that first statistic. Over half of single mothers are never married. Alimony is a benefit which society has given to (usually) women. She got played if she didn't get the child support + alimony combo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:25 PM
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Any guy could pay his way into sex, or find some old cougar to date. This sub is obviously about finding the best possible woman, not whatever is easiest. So, if she's an attractive woman with any self worth or value, you know she's going to have other guys who want her. Wherever she goes. You know subliminally you are competing with the other men she comes into contact with. Approach anxiety is a battle in your conscience of short term effort vs long term effort. You can practice the "pickup ta…
/r/seduction14/09/22 07:33 PM
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No one cares if you don't put even the smallest effort in. This same question is re-asked every day. Comments are getting more sarcastic because we can tell.
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:29 PM
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This
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:27 PM
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There's like a million quotes on not dwelling on the past so much it affects your future. I had awkward sex with one girl in high school. I've had 40+ partners since. (Keep working on personality and status as much as looks)
/r/seduction10/09/22 01:13 AM
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There's no "approach." You said you're good at conversations. Why is a reason needed for two young people who have a hobby in common to talk? U Might be getting the wrong signals if they're not lesbian, tho
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:30 AM
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Man.. an interest in people and learning about things in the world is like a top 5 key to good conversation with women (or even men (as friends)). Everyone's got a favorite thing they could rant about. Wouldn't you love it if someone, pretty or not, came up to you and asked you about yours? And friends...
/r/seduction09/09/22 12:22 AM
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"Icky?" "Accept it?" Those aren't arguments. "Will never not be?" Except it's legal everywhere and younger in most countries and was even younger than that for all of history. Based on the recent DiCaprio thing, it's pretty clear that its what men who can have anyone they want choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:47 PM
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what is so pernicious specifically about the naïveté? What is the harm? Anyways, I think a large portion of young guys either have delusions of grandeur with women or haven't matured enough to catch up with women's headstart. Data shows most women want a slightly older man. Much older is just a variation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:42 PM
1

Are you unable to talk to her at length in person at this hobby meeting?
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:36 PM
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Where are your irl guy friends who are good with women? You haven't watched them? And no online role models? All the focus in your post is on your looks. You know to get better women, you need better personality, too.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:33 PM
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Yeah wtf
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:27 PM
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Look at the sub history. Basically "How do i talk to women" is asked almost every day. My brother in Christ, we want to help, but we cannot give someone a personality and confidence in a paragraph.
/r/seduction08/09/22 11:18 PM
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Wdym?
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:22 PM
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Always ask yourself, "is that what a confident funny man with options would have said?" Wasn't awful, but never ever expect or wait for a woman to make any moves.
/r/seduction08/09/22 02:05 PM
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What is the motive here? You want people to read your life story, yet can't look up any previous post history? This has been asked like a million times. Sus.
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:21 AM
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There's a bunch of resources and it's easy to look up previous posts on here, yet somehow it's frequently the same stuff being posted. At a certain point, they're choosing not to learn, which you shouldn't feel bad about.
/r/seduction08/09/22 04:18 AM
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Mfers gotta learn to be patient, man.
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:03 PM
1

You touched on how there are ulterior motives and power struggles in all relationships. So what makes the age gap one much more pernicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:24 PM
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I think it's BECAUSE of the different rules based on wealth. Leo can break up with girls because they get too old, yet he's still beloved, but a lot of regular guys would get shit for it. That's classism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:15 PM
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What in particular is nasty about it? If it is the manipulation due to experience differences, wouldn't you say a larger experience gap is always more "nasty?" For me, a 47 and 25 age gap is a bigger difference than like an 18 year old and a 28 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:12 PM
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This is true. In addition, I've found people who have their shit together more treat me better. So OP try to find those as friends/partners.
/r/seduction06/09/22 03:56 PM
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Because like 80% of the guys on here are tired of being the nice guy, can't even talk to girls, yet are at least trying for help. I'm going to help them before I go trying to help random bar women or whatever. And I won't get on my soapbox about it.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:39 AM
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Bruh don't downvote me. I didn't advocate either side. I told him the truth. No one should let their personal morals get in the way of telling someone the truth. Then they make their own decision based on that information.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:39 PM
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This sub isn't about spreading your personal morals, it's about helping people. This guy asked on advice for getting FWB/hookups. Some of what you said is blatantly untrue: there are absolutely scenarios where a girl will not hookup if you tell her you don't plan on dating her.
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:09 PM
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What's the obsession with not lying? Or at least avoiding certain topics?
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:05 PM
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Since this comment blowing up more, I'll repost my actual advice comment here: There's different levels of girls. Some girls are so desperate, they'll reply to anything any guy says. There's girls who are the opposite. Then everywhere in between. If the girl is already interested in you, it's not too important what you say. OP didn't provide much info, but I'll assume the latter is not the case. Since he doesn't even know how to talk to a girl, she's probably somewhat hot and his balls filled up…
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:55 AM
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I didn't say to tell her she's high value or make her feel like royalty.
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:04 AM
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If she's a girl of any value, she's getting those texts from 30 different guys. Provide value to HER. Do you think she's responding to those, or the guy who is inviting her to do some fun activity?
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:59 PM
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If she's a girl of any value, she's getting those texts from 30 different guys. Provide value to HER. Do you think she's responding to those, or the guy who is inviting her to do some fun activity?
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:58 PM
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If she's a girl of any value, she's getting "hey wyd" texts from 30 different guys. Provide value to HER. Do you think she's responding to those, or the guy who is inviting her to do some fun activity?
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:57 PM
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Tryna text her about her favorite yogurt flavor while Chad's blowing her back out ... smh...
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:55 PM
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God damn you people and your level 1 beginner questions. Don't text her conversations. Be assertive. Invite her to do something fun and charm her in person.
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:54 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/x2urtz/is_it_kind_of_late_to_the_pickup_game_at_the_age/imlx5np/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 Your question should be more specific. Have other details. Obviously an older man can have "pickup game." Are you asking where to do it? What type of women to expect? What they're into? I'm bustin balls because if you (and the other guys on here) make vague, low effort posts, you're gunna get vague, low effort responses. like t…
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:59 AM
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I read the post and comments. You wanna date around with women who aren't old, then maybe settle down with the right lady, yeah? Have you read previous posts on here and resources other than what you said?
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:52 AM
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The amount of people who make low effort posts and expect high HIGH effort responses is shocking. Post is too vague to provide accurate help. What, do you really need to be told that to fuck hot 23 year olds with options, you need to have more value than guys her age?
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:45 AM
1

It is literally the only problem he acknowledged in his post, then said he thinks the solution is to just go out in public to find "romance."
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:32 AM
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.... google "women swipe on 4% of men"
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:28 AM
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Nah bro. three years and he still thinks weight is the only reason he can't talk to women? He's not even trying. He's not reading or doing research. He expects a quick solution from us.
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:44 AM
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Studies show it's actually closer to the top 4%
/r/seduction01/09/22 01:42 AM
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Never forget: Women swipe on around 4% of guys. Men swipe on like 70% of girls. Same question reworded every week on this sub.
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:58 PM
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For online content, yeah. I find it hard to imagine he isn't that way in his personal life. Which, speaking from experience, is not a good thing😂
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:43 PM
1

The gamer who loves to debate other guys? What about that is cool
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:24 PM
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That guy Destiny is a fucking incel. Listen to your gut, man. You know what's true.
/r/seduction20/08/22 01:02 PM
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This
/r/seduction18/08/22 12:54 PM
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Oh on social media? Yeah Info shows women only swipe on 4% of matches. They're scared of meeting guys online. Heightens their "creep" factor. Sad truth is they're willing to risk it if the guy is hot enough. Take better photos is the solution there.
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:04 AM
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This is spot on. I could have written this word for word. The key I've found to look for in these scenarios (to tell if they're interested): they'll be very demanding about asking a select few questions. They'll get frustrated if you don't answer them, then relax when you do. Many times I've tested this. I'll be making them laugh, doing well, then they'll ask what I do for a living or if I'm single or something.
/r/seduction16/08/22 02:01 AM
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The "evil" line is a bit worrying. If you feel like you have a long way to go on any goal, there's usually not quick steps. Do a lot of learning and studying like anything else.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:08 PM
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See if you can get her to have one more conversation with you. Tell them they can be honest and you won't be upset. Find out if you did anything specifically that put her off. I always learn something 🤷‍♀️
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:04 PM
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I'm not taking a 40 year old on a date. Read the end tldr
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:41 PM
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I wrote a lot. Appreciate if you could respect my post by responding with effort instead of large sweeping generalizations.
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:51 AM
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It's such a stupid overused saying but it works lol: "you miss 100% of the shots you don't take."
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:30 AM
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Thanks and definitely saved. I just posted to the sub about this same topic. The trouble I'm having is what happens after that. Basically, I can convince a 20 year old to fuck me in a club bathroom. How do I know if an older woman is down for the same? They might give me good signs like you said, but think I'm too young or it's inappropriate or something. Seems almost taboo, compared to like "sugar daddy's."
/r/seduction13/08/22 02:03 AM
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Can you elaborate on what to look out for?
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:15 AM
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Every single date or interaction I've ever had with a woman, if I'm not talking/running the conversation, then no one is talking. Take what information from that what you will.
/r/seduction05/08/22 07:57 PM
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Wasn't there a post here the other day about how having a female friend makes women more comfortable around you? Reduces their "potential creep" impulse
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:36 AM
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Some of the post is a little extreme, but I don't think that was OP main intention. I think they were just trying to suggest men will go out of their way for women they find attractive, and not spend additional time on unattractive women.
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:04 AM
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I don't think it's as extreme as some of those bullet points suggest, like holding doors, but otherwise correct for the most part. They're a stranger like any random guy. People don't waste time on strangers unless there's some benefit. If I checked in on every neighbor, every coworker, every one I met in my hobbies, I'd be spending hours a day on it.
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:59 PM
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