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Don’t have to read. We mostly all try that because we men are typically rational And deal with long term facts and reality. In my case I had a sweetheart deal prepped. I didn’t want divorce, but I wanted her to be safe and my kids stable. My attorney and my dad and my bankers all said the same thing. “You can’t protect them from their own decisions. I know it’s reasonable and very generous, but you have to be a mean mother fucker who is solely focused on protecting your ability to protect and pr…
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/25 12:38 PM
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I struggle after 21 years in the same bed. We’re a couple months into it and I see a way to be done in 60 days. But she wants to stay in the house she can’t afford alone and I can’t afford to carry and survive on my own. But. She still sleeps next to me. 1/2 naked. I can’t sleep unless I reach over and make sure she’s there and safe. It’s a pathetic feeling, needing that assurance. But it’s hard to change.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/25 05:41 PM
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Sounds like you’ve been reading my ChatGPT! I hope it gets easier, I’m living through the same thing now. Godspeed
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 12:49 AM
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ChatGPT and other AI systems to research your state and county. You can research any public documents published from other divorces in your area and see what the legal looks like and judge’s opinion. But at the end, hire a good attorney, they are worth the $$$ when it comes down to it. Also, just prep a number you can live with and let her have the rest. Statistically, the men’s lifestyle rebounds after a period and the women (if they initiate divorce in the first place) don’t recover. Don’t get…
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 10:20 PM
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I have my first attorney meeting tomorrow. We’ll see what he says. I’ve been advised that being nice today is pointless. Be a mean mutha until this is done. Then if I want to be generous I can to help her out on my terms. Also, I’m going to take the house and kids.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/25 09:18 PM
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Man. This is what I fear. Not the manipulation part or scheming. It won’t work in this case. But I’m worried she’s going to burn out all of our cash listening to her “advisors” (broke divorced women.). She loses the house she wants and can’t find her dream job. She’s been sahm for 20 years but believes she’s gonna walk into a $80k job with 6 months of school. Her job now is $12.50 and hour and that is a friends husband hiring her part time. I worry the kids are gonna suffer for her fantasy. BPD …
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/25 07:27 PM
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Bruh. My wife told me she wanted a divorce in April and I told her fine, buts not tell the kids until after June. Oldest boy graduates high-school and has lots of busy summer. So I waited and waited. Asked her about lawyer and she told me she was working on it. Found a note pad with all of her strategy. Like how to get company money I might earn 10-15 years from now! So I went and got an attorney at end of July and had her served. My temporary orders were “50/50” and kids stay in our county. We’…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/25 09:32 PM
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Where in TX? I might be able to send you some people to talk to.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/25 01:11 PM
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In Austin or north? If it’s closer to main gate I can recommend one or two. Going through the same.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/25 12:16 AM
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