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Reasonable-Fold2380/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/22 01:17 PM
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Reasonable-Fold2380/r/askMRP28/02/22 08:53 PM
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Gotta learn to be ok with a pissed off woman. No easy way other than to practice.
/r/askMRP24/01/22 01:02 AM
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How would your wife respond if you told her you were going away for the weekend by yourself or with some friends? Would you have to ask for her permission? Would she be suspicious? Give you shit for going? Maybe you need a few weekends away to get out of your own head and make her uncomfortable. Shift the balance of power back to you.
/r/askMRP24/01/22 12:43 AM
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You're trying to boil the ocean. This is your life and your relationship. You can't read these books and then try to apply all of the information at once like your repairing a car. Figure out what the most difficult thing is and work on that. Sounds to me like it's your ability to tolerate her disappointment. Maybe just work on that and see how far you get.
/r/askMRP24/01/22 12:37 AM
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Is it more important for your to fuck a skinnier girl or keeping your kids family intact and your current lifestyle? That's the only decision you need to make. Fuck your fat wife and keep the kids happy or leave and find a skinny broad who will guarantee you she won't let herself go some day (unicorn). Women are fucking liars. Self interested. And most of them get fat at some point. Your SMV is self-assessed. For all you know your personality sucks and your SMV will get cut by 2pts when you're a…
/r/askMRP14/01/22 06:31 PM
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I want to see other husbands take care of themselves and pursue things that make them happy that doesn't include their wives. This quote I read on Twitter sums it up perfectly: Son to Grandpa: “I don’t understand why Grandma doesn’t come fishing with us.” Grandpa: “You don’t bring women fishing. Fishing is supposed to be peaceful.” I don't know what your hobbies are. But find one if you don't have one. Preferably something you can do alone or with 2-3 other male friends.
/r/askMRP14/01/22 03:07 PM
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My advice is just not to be the nagging wife yourself. Be completely self-interested. Worry about number one. And maybe lower your standards for how you expect her to act. You want to be on the offense directing things? Or being on the defensive complaining to her about shit that rubs you the wrong way? If she's so disinterested in your plans together that she doesn't prioritize it and spends an hour on the phone, then there's your answer. She never gave a shit about the plans to begin with. The…
/r/askMRP14/01/22 01:42 PM
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Your situation may vary. If you have a decent arrangement then you probably don't need to change it. The OP was being overly disrespected while he was cleaning. And nagging her about the assignments he was giving her. Not a good look on him. But I really think some of us men would benefit from learning to tolerate a messier environment. What are you making it sterile for? Learn to live amidst a bit more chaos. As long as your recliner is comfortable, your bathroom isn't blown up, and you have cl…
/r/askMRP13/01/22 12:33 PM
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The old me used to get pissed when my wife left trash and dirty plates and bowls around. Usually only overnight, never longer than a day. The place looked less than sterile. I'd get pissed and clean it up myself. Then make some passive aggressive comment about it. It never helped a thing. Just made it worse. I thought it was unfair and immature she'd do something like that, when I (the good boy) would never think of doing it because I'm a responsible grown up. She was living her best life not gi…
/r/askMRP08/01/22 02:33 AM
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It hasn't worked out in my own life. Or the lives of anyone in my circle. You know any situations where it works well?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 08:26 PM
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You mean why shouldn't he tell his wife to make arrangements for their kid with her mother? On some level this man knows his wife and MIL don't get along. He's the go-between now. That didn't happen randomly. It happened over years of her asking him to do it, and he complied. Fuck that. Why is this man getting himself into the middle of drama? Weak. I've never made a phone call to my MIL nor have I had to. I never set the precedent in the first place. Cool if this guy wants to do it though. Enjo…
/r/askMRP07/01/22 07:56 PM
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This isn't an issue with boundaries. She's not emasculating you to your face in public or slapping you around. It sounds like you're still putting your wife on a pedestal dude. And you're definitely still in her frame. You're seeing her as an equal or above you in intellect, intelligence, self discipline, domestication, or work ethic. That's a big mistake. She got you, you've been lured into her show. You respect her opinion, take her input, and get validation from her. It took me a long time to…
/r/askMRP07/01/22 07:47 PM
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Disagree. Why didn't this man tell his wife to call her mother in the first place? He did it for her. That was the first and only mistake. Now he's just reacting to a shitty situation he created because he tried to be Mr Nice Guy. And he's asking us how to clean up his mistake because he's still trying to be Mr Nice Guy. I've never crowdsourced my decision making to other people on the internet.
/r/askMRP06/01/22 05:48 PM
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100% he should not be calling her mother or having his own relationship with her. And he should not expect his wife to have a relationship with his parents either.
/r/askMRP05/01/22 09:36 PM
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I'd say a pretty clear rule in marriage is not to get involved independently with your wife's parents. I can't point to any examples where this worked out. From this moment forward, any communication with your MIL should be coming from your wife.
/r/askMRP05/01/22 08:26 PM
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You made the mistake of setting up drama between your MIL and your wife. Your wife should have arranged things with her mother. Not you. The right thing to do is take this drama off of your wife and have your parents watch the kids. Don't tell your wife you're doing it before you make the phone calls. Don't ask if it's ok with her. Just handle it. 1.) Make sure your parents can watch your son. 2.) Once you have agreement, call your mother in law. Don't get into the drama. Just call to inform. 3.…
/r/askMRP05/01/22 08:24 PM
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