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| 11 | Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman?I just did this PTSD course (court ordered lol) tonight. One of the things I found interesting is how trauma can cause hypervigilance; the elevated state of constantly assessing potential threats around you. It can also cause mistrust in everyone. It sounds to me, like you might, well maybe not PTSD since I don't know you or your entire situation, but maybe you've acquired some protective walls and beliefs, for example "ALL WOMEN...." this and that and those walls and beliefs are really hinderin… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Confidence has been completely drainedWelcome to reddit. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 08:58 PM |
| 4 | How do you close?1)Eye contact 2)Slow kissing - always keep it slow 3)Booby touching 4)Run your hands down her inner thighs 5)Circular motion on the clit. The TOP of the clit. The lower part isn't the money maker. Also be gentle with that. Don't press too hard. Why you guys always pressing so hard? 6)Grab her ass like you mean it | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 05:56 PM |
| 6 | How do you close?That turned me on hahaha BUT, instead if fingering, I'd rub the clit in circular motion. I have a thing about dirty hands entering me and I'll flat out tell the guy to go wash his hands and that can be a real mood killer. Bladder/yeast infections are really easy to get. Clit action is better anyway IMO Edit: typo | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Confidence has been completely drainedYou sound incredibly shallow. My advice to you, work on your shitty personality. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Need advice for seducing my live-in nannyPretty bold of you to cheat in your non monogamous marriage. Like you literally can go almost anywhere as long as you communicate it with your wife but you can't even do that. You want what you can't have, like a toddler having a tantrum, grow the fuck up and be a man. This is fucking embarrassing. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 04:53 PM |
| 2 | I fucked upFemale here! I wouldn't go for it on the first date but for sure the second. If she wants to wait, she'll tell you but if you come on too hard on the first date, that might be a huge turn off. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 02:50 PM |
| 0 | Anybody have a go to approach for 18-19 year old Gen Z girls? This age range puzzles me.Fresh out of college vs fresh out of high-school Totally different in every aspect. Try again when you're 30 and they're fresh out of college. Then you'll be on a similar wave length. Right now you're being cringe. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Which part, young lady? | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Thaaaaank you! | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Thank you! | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?That is me surrendering. I'm over this conversation. I said my piece. Im kind of sarcastic incase you couldnt tell. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:36 PM |
| 3 | phillipines, cambodia to pick up girls, is it easy?Also gross. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Hahaha homegirl wrote all these comments then deleted them and blocked me. Smooth girl. And yeah what's wrong with being a little romantic? How am I being a keyboard warrior? How is my life shitty? Hahaha homegirl trying to hurt my feelings. I'm just trying to spread the love man. Like holy fuck, you guys just need to bitch and complain about anything and everything. Would you all like to have the same opinions and views so we can get along? Open your mind a bit. I'm not trying to offend anyone.… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Yeah I would. If I wanted him bad enough. I don't care what he thinks. If he's gonna ghost me or he's not interested anyway, then why the fuck do I care what he thinks? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?It's not a big deal. It's a fucking message. Like holy fuck who cares? You guys all bunged up over sending a third text because of your pride. Sucknit up princess, no one cares but your own delusional thoughts and insecurities. You're overthinking a fucking text. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Pride my friend. Men are very prideful beings. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:26 PM |
| 0 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Cool bro. I wanna be you when I grow up. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?I'm on both subs. It's literally the same thing on both subs. Men ghosting ladies, ladies ghosting men. The OP sent 2 messages with no response. I think a 3rd one won't hurt. That should seal the deal. If no response | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Yep. Rocking the short blue hair hahahahah WTF? Nice burn bro. You keep typing words trying to be hurtful. I said my piece. Yall do what you want with it. Comes down to 2 traits. Pride and vulnerability boys choose pride. Men choose vulnerability. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Who broke your heart babe? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Easy killer. A little butthurt eh? Giving a women's perspective may not help you, but guaranteed some guys learned something today. Don't have to agree with it or anything, but pretty sure I planted a seed whether yall like it or not. Take it easy bro! Might be time for a meditation break. Woooossssaaaahhhhh | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Haha I just learned that through this post actually. I'm assuming it's a check in post every once in awhile? You know what? I've said my piece. Take what you want from it. It's a woman's perspective. I'm 34 and I have not been on a date in 3 years. I don't know how it goes these days. I just know what I want and what I don't want. I want vulnerability first and foremost. Ill never date a prideful man again. Im probably not the best to give advice. Homies can help you out. I'm done arguing hahaha… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 03:40 PM |
| -2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?What kind of mind fuckery are you up to man? Your "game" is wack. That's some fuckboi shit right there. I'd see right through all this fucking bullshit head games and then I'm for sure ghosting your ass. Believe it or not, women would actually prefer if she's not in competition with a bunch of other chick's. And you guys wonder why women don't want to date anymore. You go get your "high quality women" with all your tactics and prideful mind games. If that's what it takes to get these type of wom… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?You were trying to point out any reasons why my example doesn't fit with other people's situation. You said I had physical attraction and knew him already so he has that going for him. And the physical insecurities I suspect because you jumped straight to that and brought it up twice out of nowhere. I never once mentioned anything about looks. I'm pretty intuitive. Can't fool me babycakes! And he does not know that I don't think he's handsome. Should I tell him? No. That's ruthless. I'm not gonn… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Oh and if you wanna know, buddy doesn't even have his license or a car. Ppppppppp, he's sweet though so ima give it a go. By reading your last message it seems like physical attraction is one of your insecurities. I can't help but think men these days have a really really high standard for potential mates because of porn. It's unrealistic and I think men get upset when the hotties are turning them down. Everything is so shallow these days and it sucks. There's a shit ton of women on the askwomen… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?What? First off, when did I say I was physically attracted to him? By the way I'm not. Also, never said that. Seems like your own insecurities shining through right there huh homie? And absolutely not, beauty is skin deep. I have a ton of insecurities myself. I'm no prized possession. I mean, I'm alright but I'm not some cocky bitch. Looks aren't everything, I do have some absolutely not attracted to and never could go there types but I'm also not shallow bitch. I'm at a point in my life where I… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?I said carry on. You guys do your thing. I know nothing | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:37 PM |
| -2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Truth hurts. Sorry bro. You guys wonder why she doesn't respond. Like half the threads on here are about ghosting or women not responding. Believe it or not, this practice is pretty common. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Cuz she doesn't know what she wants yet. Why do you think this is such a common theme between men and women these days? She probably has like 6 other guys texting her. It's annoying. It's annoying having to turn everyone down every 5 seconds. It's easier to just say nothing. Sorry that doesn work for you but the mental stress of dealing with guys all the time and worried about hurting them and shit. Nahhh, it's just easier to say nothing to all of them. Nobody gets nothing. When all the other gu… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Well call me old fashioned but I'm never going to stop advocating for vulnerability and romance to come back. These new generations need role models or some kind of guidance for that. Poor kids are growing up in a way different life than us. I'm 34 but I feel so old hahaha | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?It's not an everyday text. It's a "value" text hahaha (I guess that's what the kids are calling it these days). There's nothing wrong with that. Like holy. I don't understand what the big deal is? Everyone is so uptight | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?This seems to be a common theme between men and woman nine the dating world. I just had this conversation yesterday and I really don't want to write it out again. Long story short, I left an engagement a few months ago. This guy I knew from back when I was 18 messaged me out of the blue. I was fresh into breakup mode so I explained that to him and said. Maybe in the future but I need some time. We'll he gave me space. He would text me like once a week. I would reply half the time and then someti… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:55 PM |
| -1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?How do you get more ghosted? Who are you looking like an idiot to? The girl who doesn't want you anyways?! Hahaha why do you care? Sighhhhh....you guys and your pride. Would rather take an L than put forth an effort. So. Much. Pride. You guys are so attractive. There's nothing a woman wants more than a man with too much pride. Super sexy and desirable trait to have. Image is everything. You must look cool and show nothing but pure strength and stoicism. Im just a lowly old lady. I know nothing. … | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:45 PM |
| -1 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Hahaha yeah. That's assuming she's interested. Maybe she's not yet. Do you need constant reassurance? Do you even want to try or you gonna go pout that she isnt immediately responding to your advances? Hahaha. Or how about you just fuck off and leave her alone? Go cry in the corner why you can't get a date these days. Jesus man. What is your point anyway? All I'm saying is a little old fashioned romance could really set you apart from the herd. Have you seen Thr Notebook? Remember how hard he wo… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Plenty of reasons. There are literally plenty of reasons why she didn't text back. One last text won't hurt. There's a good chance he's blocked already. It doesn't hurt to try. Maybe she was out of town or some shit. Like who knows? I know I can take weeks to reply hahaha. I'm busy. Bottom line, one more text isn't a big deal. Maybe he'll catch her at a good time. Where's to optimism here people? Not everything is about pride and being cool | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:28 PM |
| -10 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Why do you have to prove anything to her if she's already ghosted you? Why do you care? Like holy shit. How old are you? This whole younger generation is so depressing honestly. You guys are UNABLE to be vulnerable. There's no romance anymore. No one tries to swoon the ladies anymore. How is it hurting dude if he sends her another text? Her opinion of him? WHY DO YOU CARE? what's she going to think? " omg can you believe that loser kept trying to show me that he cared for me? What a fucking lose… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:22 PM |
| -2 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Yes. He's right. Fade into the shadows and be forgotten. Make no effort. No romance. No vulnerability. Pfffft typical man advice | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 12:13 PM |
| 3 | phillipines, cambodia to pick up girls, is it easy?Gross | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:59 AM |
| 143 | Think I fucked it by texting backDuuuuuuuuuuude, you are completely overthinking it I don't understand you young kids man. Are you seriously stressing over a silly text? If this chick is going to make a decision based on a harmless (kinda cute lol) text, and judge you as a person based on that, then I feel sorry for your generation. Dating must be brutal. Way too much anxiety over written words. Don't stress about it. You're overthinking. Make a joke and laugh it off. Pretend it never happened or laugh at yourself. Yall so sens… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 10:01 AM |
| -10 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Hoe far do you get by not sending that text? Nowhere. Keep yourself relevant and show you're interested. Chances are she sees your text, or you're already blocked. Stop stressing. Send the text. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:06 AM |
| -7 | Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages?Absolutely. I ignore 8/10 texts. I'll respond eventually. Guess who I'm responding to? The one trying the hardest. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | HelpNice response. Peace brotha 🙏 | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | HelpDude could be introverted. Being shy and being introverted are very similar. Are you saying being introverted is NOT good? If not, tell me the difference between the two are and what your fucking point is? How do we know bro isn't just introverted and he used the wrong word? He is 18 from India. Why are you so hung up over this? I just disagreed with your advice to stay single. Like settle down homie. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | HelpOkee dokee then. So no shy person should date until they're able to unshy themselves? No relationship is good with a shy person? Shyness is generally towards people you're not close to, shy people generally come out of their shell when they're in a relationship or around their friends. It's not that they're lacking social skills all together. ANywho, all good. You have your views, I have mine. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | HelpYeah, and I never once disagreed with improving social skills. How else do you find a girlfriend? I'm disagreeing with you saying he doesn't need a gf at his age and promoting the single life when that's not what he wants. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | HelpOoooookay and what is the end goal if he talks to 3 girls a day? t0 FiNd A gF ???? Like what are you getting at now? The dude wants a gf. He doesn't want to talk to a bunch of chicks, he just wants one chick to be his lover and best friend. Not everybody wants to fuck around like most guys. Maybe he wants to start off with some sweet shy girl too and they can be shy together. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | HelpYour advice is to talk to 3 women a day........ | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 01:45 PM |
| 1 | HelpYes, I understand that, but saying he's still young and doesn't need a relationship yet is just fuckboi advice. How many kids in high-school have relationships? All his friends have relationships. There are people who marry their HS sweethearts. I'm not saying he should get married, I just disagree with your advice. He's not too young to have a gf. I agree that he needs to put himself out there more, I just don't agree with you cutting out a relationship all together for him. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | HelpBeing in a relationship would help with his shyness no? Help with his confidence? But yeah, maybe he is too shy to say that he just wants to get his dick wet. hahahaah nice! Nahhhh, I can't imagine shy guys wanting to pursue a bunch of girls though. I think girlfriends is comfort zone for shy guys, that's just my opinion though | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | HelpI disagree. He knows what he wants. He wants a relationship. Doesn't mean he wants marriage. He's seeing all his friends in relationships and wondering why can't he have one too? I agree with him too. He knows he's shy, he doesn't seem the type to want to sleep around just because he's young. I imagine he wants someone he can be himself around and be comfortable with. Not every 18 year old boy needs advice to go be a fuckboi while he's young. If he wanted that, he would have asked, "How can I ge… | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:11 AM |
| 3 | People act like employees don’t notice attractive customers. “They’re just being nice!” It’s a dumb thought right?Sooooo, you lost weight and now you're mad that the employees aren't helping you enough or eyeing you up? Honestly, I'm pretty sure the employees don't give a fuck about what you look like. Give it up dude. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to tell that you're just looking for fun with no commitment without the other person feeling like a toy?Hmmmm.....the type you're looking for wouldn't peg themselves at being a toy. They'd be DTF and easy. You're asking the wrong types of girls man. Seems like you want a girl with standards but want her to lower her standards for you. Not many girls are looking for booty calls these days FYI. We got vibrators that do a better job anyway. 90% of hookups for women turn out disappointing. Too much risk for a woman. Not enough reward. If you find a booty call or friend with benefits, treat her well be… | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:54 AM |
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