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If you think getting a six pack alone will instantly get women drooling over you, you don't know much. Just existing lol. Read my reply again genius. Keep in decent shape, this takes work. Eat fairly healthy. Dress fairly decently. You don't need to make it a religion but it takes some effort to be attractive to the opposite sex. Also read the part where I said have a life of your own, cool hobbies. Go sailing, ride a motorbike, do woodworking. Something you enjoy that makes you interesting to o…
/r/ExRedPill22/04/23 08:10 PM
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Sounds like you are above average in length, and about average, maybe slightly above in girth. You aren't huge, but you aren't small either. Fine for the majority of women I would think.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 02:11 AM
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That is frustrating. My advice would be to stop focusing so much on getting dates etc. However you still want to self improve. Hit the gym, dress well enough, have hobbies you enjoy and interact with others. That's not to say you shouldn't ask out a girl if you're having a good conversation, but don't go hunting for it. One thing I've noticed in the times in my life I haven't been successful with women- it seems to be a pattern that keeps up until something changes. I came to the realization the…
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 07:15 AM
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Turn off the computer Go outside, get hobbies thst get you interacting on real life. Think of it this way. Is a guy who spends all his time reading this stuff going to he interesting, or capable or critical thought. I think a lot of guys are their own worst enemy because they aren't interesting people, because they spend all day reading all this stuff.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 12:13 AM
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Confidence comes from competence. Get good at a variety of things that bring satisfaction. You will feel better about yourself, and this will translate in conversation. Could be cooking, woodworking, sailing, gym and fitness stuff. whatever. Especially good if it brings you to meet a new group of people with a shared interest. The more interests and hobbies you have the better.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/22 08:24 PM
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No, you don't. Depending where you live, the vast majority of the time, women won't know you even have a six pack until you are intimate (they would already have been attracted obviously). Will it help with raw attraction? Sure. Is it necessary? No. I haven't had a six pack since my early 20s (40 now) and it has never been an issue attracting women. I have found going to the gym and being somewhat strong/muscular/broad shouldered helps a lot with attraction, as well as having little belly fat. S…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 06:23 PM
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Your girlfriend is the problem. I would not put up with being yelled at, by anyone. You need to ditch her and find someone who treats you respectfully.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 03:19 PM
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I don't see how he is "hypermasculine". He is not effeminate and is in shape and dresses up for his utube shorts. Not sure he is a guy I'd take advice from necessarily but he doesn't come across as a douche from what I've seen.
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 08:38 PM
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In my opinion it's the difference between a good looking/charming whatever guy who is selected by women for casual sex often, and will have had a number of casual sexual encounters. Versus a guy who lacks sex appeal, but the woman values his security, financially and otherwise. She trusts he will stick around and look out for the kids etc. This is a guy who will not be selected for casual sexual fun much through his life by females. I don't think it is really about money alone, more describes th…
/r/ExRedPill18/10/22 10:48 PM
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Another aspect that is overly discussed is how woman's desire drops off in a relationship. In LTR's ive been in, I tend to get a bit bored of the same old before she does, and it has been a challenge I've had to overcome, as I would care about this person but end up a bit bored sexually.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 09:14 PM
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You can sit around moaning about how intelligence matters above all, and somehow equate intelligence to your personal choice to study philosophy. The intelligent thought process here is to realize attraction has many factors and is multi faceted. You don't get it. You are judgemental about others, and refuse to look at yourself and where you're going wrong. Are you attractive? Dress well? Keep in shape? Are you fun to hang out with on a date? You say your intelligence will solve all for you and …
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 03:52 AM
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As others have said, you probably need to work on your attitude and way you interact with women. You sound entitled and a tad insufferable, going on about academic achievements. Ok so you're well educated, in philosophy. Being educated is certainly a good trait, but don't expect to moisten panties by the fact you've spent a lot of time in a classroom studying a topic that many just aren't interested in. Intelligence and education is just one aspect of what could be attractive. I think being inte…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 05:07 PM
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I would not watch Darius. AMS has good advice as far as self improvement, but he is too simplistic imo in terms of viewing this stuff either as "alpha hookup guy" or "beta provider guy". There is a healthy middle ground. If you want to "spin plates' for life go ahead. I spent many years doing it and having some pretty good success at it. But there is also something to be said for a relationship with the right woman that you enjoy spending time with. AMS is too simplistic and focuses on juat gett…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 06:34 PM
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Depends where your looking. Many don't, but place importance on finding a good woman. But there are a lot of channels out there that skew everything. Apex mindset is a good channel that isn't negative, and is more realistic.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:44 PM
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It can be good, I had fun, but i wouldn't totally write off relationships either. I would have some casual partners, so you know a bit about women, then look for a good one for a longer relationship.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:41 PM
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I've spent a lot of my life as the "casual sex guy". First of all I'm not sure where you get the idea you don't have to "spend time in the gym" you need to be fit and attractive generally for women to want to sleep with you for fun. Generally you want to be tall, fit/or at least little body fat with a decent amount of muscle, be handsome and somewhat stylish. So if you aren't getting checked out now/chosen on dating apps to be the fun guy, you had better hit the gym and dress well if you want a …
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 05:28 PM
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Don't overthink it, just ask her if she wants to have a drink with you one evening.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 03:43 AM
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I think we agree on age difference, I've found five years give or take works for me. I've also had many lovers older than myself and had a blast, not sure why there is such an obsession with 21 yr old girls. My point is that one aspect of a man's "marketability" that improves with age is being established, being more skilled/competent and therefore at a better place career wise. This aspect of my life has definitely improved over my 20s, while my hairline hasn't lol.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 03:10 AM
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Like it or not, men are judged initially by "having their stuff together" especially for a long term relationship. This doesn't mean the woman values the man just for this in a healthy relationship, but a man who has his own place and some social status career wise, etc is very attractive and will have an advantage over the guy renting a room and working a lower paying job. This is only one factor in the overall presentation of a man- also height, fitness, possibly dick size and ability in bed o…
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 02:56 AM
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In my experience women like men a few years older. The advantage a 35 yr old has over a 25 year old is maturity, career progression and the income/assets it brings, and just general life experience assuming he isn't a boring dude. Just being more established in life is huge. This is assuming the 35 yr old keeps himself in good shape. I'm 40 and interact with some women in late 20's, 30s, and my age. I am in a much better place financially than I was when I was 30- condo, not working paycheck to …
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 02:39 AM
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It's not all about looks when it comes to age. 10 years older also brings experience, wisdom, maturity etc. That being said I'm 40 and wouldn't really want to date a 25 year old, seriously anyways. Just a different lifestyle. Within ten years is a decent age gap imo.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 01:40 AM
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Your original post made it sound like you couldn't live a "player" lifestyle, without sacrificing career,and you still seem to have that idea. While I had a couple long term relationships in my twenties, I slept around quite a bit in between. I kept myself in shape, one positive aspect being to attract women. I met women on apps and out for the night etc. I would be what you would consider a player. However I was also pretty serious about career- gained my skills, took work seriously, bought pro…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 07:30 PM
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I think you're reading a bit much into it and making things a bit black and white. It is very possible to sleep around in your 20's and still build a career. It's not either be a handsome/sexy nobody career wise or a well educated/skilled career man with no sexual attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 05:47 PM
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Obviously the majority of women will not be attracted to that dude. Best thing you can do for your health and dating life is to lose the weight. Especially at your age, if you don't change things up you are risking early death- heart attack, diabetes, etc.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/22 05:35 PM
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Yep. Also buzzed or shaved is better than balding for many/most men. Once I started buzzing my hair down to zero once a week and keeping a nice trim beard, my successs with the ladies actually went up. Should have cut it shorter years sooner in hindsight.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 09:12 PM
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I looked it up. About a quarter of men start experiencing it after age 50. 40 percent in 60s and beyond.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 05:01 AM
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Well I can only speak for myself, never had any issues with that. Interesting though, I never knew guys as young as in their 30s could have issues with that. Were they out of shape? I always regarded that as an issue for overweight type guys in their 50s and above.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 03:18 AM
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Sounds like a healthy mindset. Nothing lasts forever.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 04:02 PM
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Depends on the "chicks" As a 40 year old who has taken care of myself, I get tons of attention from women in the same age group, give or take a few years. Maybe not women in their early 20s, and I'm fine with that.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 07:26 PM
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Late 30s? Lol I couldn't imagine that. I'm in my early 40s and can still go for 2 rounds a night, and never had any issues getting an erection. I would think healthy lifestyle plays into it. That being said if the day does come I'll have no issue with the small pills
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 07:20 PM
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