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Do you really think people start life being self-defeating? Do you really think anything would change for someone if they just go outside? No, they don’t and being outside won’t change anything apart from making them interact with people more, and it will mainly be men that they interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:59 AM
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There is no real solution for this. It all boils down to ”Just be born attractive”. People don’t like that it is like that for men so they cope and come up with ”solutions” like being more confident which doesn’t work or going to the gym and getting fit, despite the fact that you’ll only get the result you want if you were born with the potential to be attractive. If you don’t have that potential, have asperger’s or just a bit socially awkward then getting fit will only turn you into a gymcel. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:46 AM
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Obviously people who have an ironfisted grip over power in social, sexual, political dynamics, etc. Other than physical power dynamics wouldn’t care because just like many men aren’t aware of the fact they have the power in the physical power dynamic so are women about all their power. Someone who isn’t considered replacable won’t even imagine such a scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:03 AM
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Yeah that’s a lot harder to get rid of. Best you can do is kill any romantic attraction you feel before it grows too much and rationalizing that even if you somehow magically got into a relationship you’ll have to tiptoe around knowing that you are completely replacable. That she could cheat on you at any time, lying and only using you for something you have, etc. If you keep repeating these scenarios in your head then hopefully you’ll manage to crush the yearning you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:22 PM
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You’re gonna have to wait a long time then because even if you are attractive enough to get interest that isn’t enough for women to risk rejection. So pray that you are excessively attractive enough for women to make a move or prepare to wait a long long long time? There isn’t a clear cut answer to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:59 PM
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That’s why you stop yourself from forming romantic attraction. Without that you won’t even feel the need to pursue as there is nothing to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:42 AM
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Women throwing themselves at you is not what I meant by interest and you know that. All I’m saying is that you shouldn’t take blind leaps of faith when they don’t even offer a chance of success while having consequences for your own self-esteem and confidence unless you overcome it or power through.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:16 AM
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Men shouldn’t waste time on a rigged game unless they have the aptitude for it. Which you’ll know if you do depending on if you have gotten interest from women before, if you have then good for you, if you haven’t then consider giving up and letting go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:50 AM
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If their mindset itself is the cause then what made them develop said mindset? Guys don’t adopt these beliefs just because world class models aren’t falling at their feet but usually in reponse to the fact that they never receive interest or validation from women. It cannot be self-sabotage if they never had a chance to succeed in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:38 AM
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Only a minority of men can easily cheat on their partner while all women can by virtue of being women, essentially they just need to spread their legs to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:43 AM
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I ignore women completely whenever I’m outside. Don’t meet their eyes, don’t give them attention, don’t look in the general direction of them, don’t listen or hear them and I wear headphones which I never take off whenever I am outside. I don’t ever compare myself to ”chad” as if he’s some spectre that haunts me and looms over me in my every day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:38 AM
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Guys experience radio silence from women their entire lives ”Oh it’s because your insecure, lack confidence and think women only want the best of the best” Gonna go out on a limb when I say this but maybe guys understand the subtle hint that if no woman has expressed any sort of interest in you up until the point you are 25. Maybe you are unattractive? That or women have higher standards. anyhow you should stop saying that men’s insecurities and lack of confidence are the root of the issue since…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:49 PM
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You’re forgetting about the fact that most incels are skeletons, not overweight. Some of them definitively are but gymcels make up a bigger part of the incel community than fat incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:08 PM
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Yeah sorry to burst your bubble but none of the guys who aren’t already successful with women hang out with those types of guys or talk like that. The ones that do hang out with those guys and talk like that don’t do it because women like it either or something. They act like that because they know it won’t stop them from getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:18 PM
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Yeah… men would still be more than happy to love someone like that. Have you also considered that women are usually not as bitter, etc. when they are any of these things? compared to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:16 PM
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You can have enough women interested in you for there to be right ones and wrong ones? What a wacky world you seem to live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:37 AM
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The variety that women show in their taste in men is limited to the same guy in different flavours. Please show me an example of a man who breaks from said mold and is popular with more than one single woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:11 AM
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You need to calm it with your unrealistic standards. A lot of men struggle with finding a woman who is ”romantically” interested in them and struggle even more to find one who’s sexually attracted to them. Now finding a woman who accepts you for who you are? That’s like trying to find a single straw of hay on a planet made up of needles. It’s fundamentally impossible for men in general unless they are exceedingly attractive and naturally good with women. Stop selling people idealizations, fantas…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:00 AM
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It’s psychopathic and inhumane to tell someone to keep having hope. Especially a man who isn’t popular with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:47 AM
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”A strange game. The only winning move is not to play.” That quote sums up dating for men. It’s a fruitless endeavor to even try unless you are popular with women naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:41 AM
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They tell us to talk to a woman when they think guys act like jock fratbros who’ve also been lobotomized. Funny, isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:22 AM
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Being popular with women is like a talent. You either have it or you don’t. All the guys and women saying that it can be learned, are ignoring the fact that any guy who ’learns’ will be incredibly bitter and most likely give up on women or start actually hating them if it works, though they’re just as likely to start hating women if it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:01 AM
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You say that as if men don’t clamor over gloomy women and aren’t obsessed with the fantasy of ”goth girls”. Men would be happy just to be with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:56 AM
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So men who only get sex through great effort have more power than women (who get sex easily) and men who easily get sex (attractive men)? I just don’t see how that would be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:53 AM
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Women have all the power in dating and are always the deciding factor so their issues are their own to solve. I am not an attractive man so I genuinely don’t give a shit about women and try to avoid having to interact with them as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:00 AM
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Honestly it would be good if we could predict which men will be attractive when they are born and castrate the rest (this is an extreme I know) since living and having any kind of attraction towards women while not being attractive enough to get interest back is pure suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:48 PM
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In all honesty it’s just better that they cease all contact with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:19 PM
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A lot of men who aren’t good with women are bad at it because they see sexual tension where there is none, which leads to them being awkward or creepy. Since that’s the case a good way to ensure that this doesn’t happen is by completely desexualizing any woman you have to interact with. So basically seeing them as the morbidly obese short janitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:00 PM
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I agree that women deserve to be treated just like everyone else and are undeserving of any other types of treatment and that it’s good for men who aren’t capable of doing so to learn how to. But he’s not really gonna find success from this unless he already has something desirable since it’s just increasing the reach of his net.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:46 PM
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Yeah that’s not gonna help him or do you think women are vending machines that hand out sex after you put in enough ”I respect women and care about women’s issues” coins?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:27 PM
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The irony here is that my friends consider me ”chad” who has it all despite the fact that they all have gfs or at least talk to women other than when they have to. Me on the other hand? Well I haven’t had an actual conversation with a woman, not even a short one, in about four and a half years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 04:30 PM
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Definitively.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 01:36 PM
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I’m effectively a teetotaller because I don’t enjoy drinking so while parties are an option they also aren’t since mingling with people under the influence while you are sober isn’t that fun and you might even start trouble by not drinking since it can lead people to all kinds of conclusions. I’m student so try as I might I can’t escape having to interact with women on some level but other than that I’m comparable to a recluse since my schedule consists of going to my classes and then taking pub…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:10 PM
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Well I’m not overweight, lean but not lanky. I’m not short but neither am I a giraffe, since OLD is a necessary discussion when it comes to this issue I can say that I’m not under the 6” OLD standard. Looks are where things take a bit of a turn since I consider myself to be quite attractive but that’s through my own sense of beauty and others might not share the same view. Though I have never been called ugly, usually get plenty of regular compliments on just about any of my facial features from…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:33 AM
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Well glad to hear that things aren’t so bleak for everyone. In my post I’m essentially saying that it’s hell for average guys, the usual grievances, etc. But in all honesty it’s a bit pompous of me to assume I meet the standards to qualify as an ’average’ guy. When it comes to the ’voluntary passivity’ club I think there’s two groups, one that wants women to initiate, etc. And one that won’t do anything unless there is interest. I assume that the majority of said ’voluntary passive’ men belong t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:09 AM
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Did I say that it’s impossible for men to get laid or something? No. It’s just that some guys will just have to endure approaching countless women and hoping one says yes. Instead of just screeching ’incel’, could you explain what you find so off putting about this kind of mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:01 AM
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It’s hard to read or respond to something that has never happened to you. Sure some men have probably missed signals in their life, now take this with a pinch of salt but I believe that most men don’t get signals so there’s nothing for them to miss or misinterpret. I think this is why men are bad at reading signals because they’re trying to find and read something that simply isn’t there for a ton of men. Men would be better off if they discarded the idea of hints because if they are desperate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:06 AM
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