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It’s not called being full of myself. Men are nearly guaranteed an orgasm every time they have sex, while women have to get lucky especially if it’s a casual encounter. Penetration is more pleasurable for men than it is women, so if a guy (like many do) rush to penetration then the woman is getting the short end of the stick. Being used like a fleshlight is not worth the risk. And don’t act like a woman getting pregnant after sex vs a man paying for child support is similar in challenge. Pregnan…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:58 AM
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The experience isn’t worth it, because I’m not getting enough from it. Why please a man while not getting anything back? It doesn’t feel equal since he will more than likely enjoy the physical experience than I will. Sex is a risk, every time. ESPECIALLY for women. I’m not putting my body through the risk of pregnancy (no birth control is 100%) or abortion, or STD/STI for an experience that I’m not getting anything from. If there’s an emotional connection, at least I’ll feel safe and the sex its…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:53 PM
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The coolest guy I’ve seen on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:39 PM
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Yup. I had sex with my boyfriend pretty early but he showed genuine interest in me, made me feel safer and comfortable faster than with any other man in my life, and never pushed for sex. Literally was so interested in getting to know me that he didn’t notice I was the one trying to get it lol. It was all so, so worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:20 PM
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I love sex. Sex without an emotional connection to the person just isn’t as good. It can be exciting, sure, but it’s not the same as having sex with someone you are connected to and have feelings for. The pleasure is enhanced by the fact that you genuinely want to make each other feel good. You want to show the other person how you feel about them through sex, which increases your enthusiasm. Your eye contact is full of lust AND care. Seeing your partner enjoy what you’re doing to them is an exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:17 PM
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It doesn’t have to be officially committed, just some trust has to be built. Intimacy and time spent outside of just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:07 PM
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It doesn’t have to be withheld, it should be done when both the woman and man are comfortable. But some women will wait to establish an emotional connection before getting physical
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:19 AM
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Sex is only really worth it when my emotional needs are met first. A perfect LTR has emotional intimacy, financial stability, and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:08 AM
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D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:35 PM
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Exactly this!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:06 AM
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So you’d rather a hook up than a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 01:42 PM
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Women aren’t worrying about giving a man sexual validation as a reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:53 PM
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She’s using the hot guy for his body and being more careful with the second because feelings are involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:31 PM
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Because there’s nothing holding her back if she doesn’t have feelings for him, or cares whether he has feelings for her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 11:49 AM
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I understand what you’re saying but a lot of women have fallen for a liar or player at least once, and it’s not fun. Withholding is not being used as a weapon, it’s being used as a way to lessen the chance of feeling used and lied to. I’m not the type to rush into sex with anyone, and there are tons of guys who’ve tried to lie their way into sleeping with me. I know I wouldve felt absolutely awful afterwards, so I’m glad I don’t rush into it. It’s not a trick or a solution, but it CAN help if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:50 AM
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It’s not about being entitled to the person. It’s just trying to see if there’s a strong connection outside of sex before having it. It also deters liars. People who are not serious are less likely to wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:28 AM
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Having sex with someone you see and want a future with is a vulnerable experience. There are emotions involved, which will make it more painful if the guy was only there to sleep around. Of course, there’s no way to be sure if he will stick around either way but it’s a way to TRY to protect your heart. Sex means a lot more when you have feelings for the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:21 AM
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It doesn’t, but it can deter men who are only there for sex. There ARE men who will lie about wanting a serious relationship just to have sex, and will switch up afterwards. There are also men only interested in adding on to their list of sexual partners. If your emotions are involved, you definitely don’t want to be left after sex. Withholding it gives you time to assess the guy’s intentions without being vulnerable with him yet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:11 AM
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This exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:56 AM
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For the first man, it’s harder to resist. You say “make wait” as if the woman is simply rewarding the man with it. If there’s a hot guy who is turning her on, she’s gonna have sex for the physical pleasure and she’s not gonna be so interested in everything else in those moments. That’s why it can be just sex with a hot hookup. He makes it hard to wait, and there’s no reason to. There’s a high chance this guy will leave after so it doesn’t matter For the second guy, she DOES NOT want him to leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:42 AM
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My boyfriend is 8in (A little over even) and was super confident when it came to approaching women sexually because he wanted to show off. He still had low self esteem when it came to anything else including a LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:33 AM
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I will reminisce about the experiences that were good, but I wouldn’t feel tied to them or bonded to that person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:21 AM
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Personally, I feel strongly for whoever makes me orgasm for a while after, but it goes away. It’s just a flood of hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:11 AM
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It was something I did when I had free time like a hobby lol. If someone asked me out and were decent looking, I would say yeah because I like going out. It wasn’t a need and I was more interested in the experience of meeting new people more than actually dating them. It was mainly just one date per person. I also wanted to have sex, didn’t need it. That’s why I rejected so many guys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:51 PM
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I was slightly motivated by being horny but didn’t think any of the guys were good enough to have sex with. I gained fun dates and it’s actually cool to meet so many different people. And no. I love him, I love our sex life, and I hope for a future with him. I just know I would be okay on my own. I don’t need anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:44 AM
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Yeah, you could model
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:41 AM
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I dated dozens of guys (Never had sex with any) until I met my boyfriend. I was perfectly cool with being single and that’s why I was so picky and never settled. Meeting new guys was cool I guess and possibly finding a good guy that would actually make me desire a relationship was an interesting possibility. I then met my boyfriend and he met the bar. I would still be fine without him though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:37 AM
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If you showed me a picture of you, I could give honest advice. I don’t think anyone should feel the way you do and there are always ways to improve your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:16 PM
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I meant I made ONE single comment relating to the post and only replied to the people who responded to my comment. (As one does) The way you worded that sentence made it seem as though I made multiple comments about it to random people on reddit as if I were bragging. I’m not insecure and I don’t care about being my boyfriend’s best sexual partner just that our sex is amazing for us both. I just don’t understand why people are making it seem unlikely to be true it just doesn’t make sense why peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:08 PM
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I don’t mean traumatic physically although it can be depending on how far along you are. The abortion pill causes intense cramps, bleeding, and pain that is almost unbearable for some women. Also seeing the pregnancy pass with the pill can also be traumatic. Medical abortions are also not completely painless. But from the women I know who’ve had abortions, it is most traumatic emotionally. Some women are instantly attached to the pregnancy even if it is a clump of cells, they also feel guilty an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:55 PM
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When drunk at bars
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:11 PM
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When I used dating apps, it was an absurd about of attention which drove me off of it. On social media, there’s a lot. When I go outside, there’s only a few and that’s if I’m around a lot of people/guys. At my job, I’ve been bothered by a lot of customers flirting with me. It’s not fun and it’s very annoying. Actually makes me mad whenever a man comes into view now unless he’s my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:09 PM
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Bruh I made one comment about this because it related to the post. I then had about three people tell me he’s probably lying and downplaying the comment/compliment. I’m not sure why it bothered you so much that you’re here going back and forth with me but whatever. I have nothing else to say and you can believe what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:02 PM
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Okay but I’m just saying really attractive men are pretty rare so of course women are gonna wanna jump on them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:10 PM
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Because there are more attractive women than attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:49 PM
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Because she was abusive and manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:40 PM
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I’m just saying attractive people always get more allowances than unattractive people. It’s not just for women. A lot of men will ignore 68996 red flags if she’s hot, they won’t be so forgiving to an ugly girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:38 PM
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You’d do the same thing if a hot girl came on too strong and was a red flag vs an unattractive overweight girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:33 PM
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I’m just saying they CAN be creepy. I still rejected him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:31 PM
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Hot men are hot with or without glasses
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:21 PM
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I once dated (tried) this super hot guy who gave me the creeps. He was actually creepy even though I tried to push through because he was hot. Just offputting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:17 PM
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I doubt that 😭but since I haven’t had a toothache and I haven’t been pregnant, I’ll take your word for it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:13 PM
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Getting pregnant is like one of the worst things I think could happen to me right now lol I don’t wanna go through that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:10 PM
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I agree with you then. I didn’t know you were a guy but now that I know, thanks for not spreading shameful misinformation about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:31 PM
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I agree honestly. A guy willing and especially offering to make me feel safe is a huge green flag. (As long as he doesn’t try to put the moves on me afterwards) some guys just don’t see anything else besides getting sex as something in return
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:21 PM
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I think OP just wants to complain about how entitled women are and how he doesn’t want to do anything for them if he’s not getting something in return. I’ve seen this so many times here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:15 PM
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I don’t think vaginas can be LOOSE but they can feel loose to some people, If the woman is very aroused and lubricated, the vagina will “tent” and expand giving less friction. This will make her FEEL looser, but it doesn’t mean she’s loose. I don’t like the “loose vagina” topic either because it’s shameful, I’m just saying that when a woman is aroused, it will feel looser and not tighter. If I’m super aroused, my boyfriend feels less sensation and me as well. To combat this we either wipe some o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:12 PM
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Personally, no. I’m careful anyway. Even if abortions were easily accessible, they’re sometimes traumatic and overall not fun to have to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:07 PM
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It’s polite to want to help someone who is afraid/uneasy. I think it’s kind when men offer without expecting anything, but I don’t know any woman who EXPECTS men to walk her to parking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 07:04 PM
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The vagina is TIGHTEST when it’s not aroused. I can’t really put anything in if i’m not aroused. It loosens when you’re aroused so it can accommodate a penis. It doesn’t get tighter when you’re aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:48 PM
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My point is he doesn’t have to make a comparison at all, he chooses to make those comments after we have sex. I’m not insecure, I don’t ask about his exes, so I don’t understand why he’d feel the need to go out of his way to lie about me being the best to him. I most of the time don’t even reply to him when he says it so it’s not like he’s saying it to hype me up. I never even thought about being the best to him, he just willingly makes those comments. Again, I don’t even reply because it’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:37 PM
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I agreed with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:39 PM
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I don’t usually take anything a guy on this subreddit says seriously but I respect their (usually slightly hate-driven) opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:12 PM
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I’m not sure what men think about it but I thought top tier pussy is just tight and starfish means the girl doesn’t really participate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:10 PM
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No he doesn’t lol. I’ve never expressed being insecure about my performance and he’s always saying it completely unwarranted. I have never compared myself to his exes so it’s not like he needs to reassure me that he enjoys sex the best with me. He just voluntarily is always going on about how I’m the best to him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:06 PM
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True. That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:30 PM
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That’s scary. I honestly love how my boyfriend makes me feel so if it didn’t feel the same with another guy I probably would have him at the back of my mind. I don’t want that and I don’t wanna make any guys feel bad since my bf’s size is super rare. It sucks to feel sexually inadequate over something you can’t control and feeling like you settled sucks too. Ouch all around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:03 PM
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For some guys sure. I don’t know how the feeling of my vagina compared to theirs lol but everyone’s different. But now I’m wondering if my bf’s dick (It’s very big) will haunt me in the future if we break up and I date smaller guys 😂😭😭 That has to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:56 PM
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This is hilarious lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:46 PM
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That makes sense I guess. He’s always expressing that he’s never enjoyed sex with anyone as much as with me unwarranted so I don’t think he’s lying or anything. I also think that men value different things in bed. For example, a woman being a starfish even if she has “Top tier pussy” will make the man feel undesirable and the experience less enjoyable if she’s not showing she’s into it. A lot of men prefer being mutually desired rather than just a tight hole that gets him off fast. Sex is also m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:44 PM
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What do you mean? Plenty of men don’t want a starfish no matter how hot the girl is for a long term relationship. Maybe for a one night stand. I’m just saying that having sex with someone attractive and active seems to be preferred with a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:25 PM
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I agree. My boyfriend has been with incredibly hot women and have had prettier girlfriends but always comments that he’s most satisfied with me because I am very enthusiastic and explorative. Of course, it hurts not being the hottest girl he’s been with but I’m glad our sex life is great and we love each other :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:16 PM
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Lol well good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:30 PM
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Bro 😭 Go figure that out lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:25 PM
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Men won’t wait if they think another woman might take the bait faster. It doesn’t really matter if she’s super hot. A lot of men don’t care about the quality of the sex they might have, they just want sex. If a beautiful woman is taking too long, they would have no problem moving onto another woman. They just might eventually try again with the hot woman to see if she’s ready to put out but if not, take an average woman instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:24 PM
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Your ex is part of a minority of women. I don’t think most women are okay with risking assault, pregnancy, stealthing, STDs and a bunch of other negative things that could happen just to bang a bunch of dudes who probably aren’t even gonna try to make them orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:19 PM
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I’m just saying that I think a lot of women do have some casual experiences, but it’s rare for them to do it consistently. (ie Hoe phase) The only women I’ve known to hook up with guys often have had extremely low self esteem and do it for validation. I also have friends who aren’t into hooking up either, but have probably tried it once or twice due to pressure. Women probably just do it more because they CAN when they want, whereas the average dude can’t when he wants. I just really don’t know …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:54 PM
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I agree with you. I’ve been told many times “You’re young! You need to explore now and settle down later!” As if hooking up is more fulfilling than a long term and loving relationship. There have been times where I’ve felt pressured and wondered if I should have casual sex, but most people including my boyfriend tells me it’s not really enjoyable. I think this generation just likes quick & easy validation, cheap pleasure, rebelling, feeling “empowered” etc. I personally don’t like it also becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:31 PM
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The idea of swapping bodily fluids with total strangers grosses me out, although my boyfriend has done it. I think it’s common to have at least one or two flings but not a new dude every week like some guys seem to think happens. All of my friends have had one night stands but they don’t do it consistently
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:18 PM
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