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| 5 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADWomen want to have all the benefits of men without commensurate sacrifice, and anything that approximates actual equality is sexist. Solipsism is the default of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 07:43 PM |
| – | Average men struggle because standards of living have raised in the past 20 years and average is no longer good enough for anythingYes, the power of technology on production should be deflationary, but various monetary, fiscal, and organization schemes defeat that and more. I managed to buy my place as a single man after years of scrimping, saving, and living like a pauper in near third world conditions after coming from one of the worst backgrounds in the US. Is it a good lifestyle? Fuck no. The point I'm trying to make is that women's lifestyles tend to be more expensive than men's, and since men are now disincentivized f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 05:27 PM |
| – | Average men struggle because standards of living have raised in the past 20 years and average is no longer good enough for anythingTurns out when your lifestyle costs more money than a man's and men are either smashing for free (Chad, Tyrone) or are bowing out due to the behavior of women disincentivizing men from romance alongside the internet making note comparison easier for your average guy, women tend to lose out. Feminism ironically was the best thing for men, as women are finding out the adage "be careful what you wish for." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:55 PM |
| – | In the west, if you haven’t had one girlfriend or boyfriend by 25, something is probably severely wrong with youEven in the great depression, most people technically had jobs as the unemployment rate was 25%. It was such a ubiquitous phenomenon that it was seen as a social, not individual failing, like you said. It wasn't really until after the depression and WWII that the multi-gen household started disintegrating. Even if there's still a majority of 18-30 year old men having sex, at what cost to them? Not just financial. Also, having a bunch of angry, economically disadvantaged men who are also sexually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 04:40 PM |
| – | Women, self-reflection, and accountabilityThis is why, as a manager, I prefer working with men. Women employees want to give me a song and dance about why they're late for the fifth time this month or why they didn't get what I asked of them done for the day or why they took their lunch late or why their 15 minute break was actually 25 minutes, etc. Men largely either don't do this shit, or they understand they fucked up and change their behavior for things not outside their control because it's a lot easier for me to go to my boss and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 10:46 AM |
| 2 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?I'm talking about the subject matter specifically, not the hypothetical wife or the subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 04:23 PM |
| 3 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?If it's complaining? Well, women just do that regardless, so no big deal. Withholding sex, not helping out around the house or stepping out? Not tolerated. Just like I would have obligations, so does she. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 04:07 PM |
| 17 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?If a woman gives me her prime years, I'm obligated to care for her outside of those in a marriage. She may still be pretty or beautiful, but her best years are behind her in looks and fertility. I am not obligated to pick a woman up after her prime and take care of her, nor do I have to suffer a contentious woman, which is why courting/dating exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 03:15 PM |
| 10 | "You have to work 10 times harder than your grandfathers for women 10 times worse."Most women, if you really let them explain things, have an outlook not dissimilar to 19th-century open eugenicists or the literal Nazi party when it comes to mating strategies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:25 AM |
| 3 | "conditional femininity" vs "conditional masculinity"I mean that men can acknowledge aspects of themselves not traditionally masculine, but going against the grain is not rewarded. You don't acknowledge anything said otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 06:22 AM |
| 2 | "conditional femininity" vs "conditional masculinity"I'm saying that men in society can not be anything but masculine. If we're going by Jungian psychology, he can acknowledge feminine traits or his anima and incorporate that, but he cannot be anything but masculine in interpersonal relations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 06:17 AM |
| 4 | "conditional femininity" vs "conditional masculinity"Men have to be masculine literally all the time. We have to be assertive and capable leaders because we have to make our own fortune. Women in the West are on the whole, not feminine, and if her femininity is conditional on the man, what happens if he loses his job or gets sick? Therefore, if masculinity is really non-negotiable for a man, then that man can and should require the same of a woman and her femininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 05:49 AM |
| 4 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?In my experience, women and feminists do not advocate for our jobs to be easier nor for either equal registration or abolition of the draft/selective service. If businesses are greedy, which they are, and they can get the same quality and quantity of work from women cheaper than a man, why isn't the male unemployment rate significantly higher? Men take less time off and work more hours per week. They're stronger. Women hold more of the consumer debt and spend more versus men. We're not just talk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?Show me where women are signing up to be plumbers, electricians, welders, loggers, farmers, and oil rig workers, which are overwhelmingly held by men. These are all desperately needed and available jobs, most of them highly paid. My grandfather had to confront racism to get his job and in every fucking aspect of his life to get a career, he didn't have the choice of whining "the white man is redlining me and fucking up my job prospects." They were, but he had to just suck it up and fight for his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?The point is that women want to occupy the top tiers of the social hierarchy without wanting to occupy the lowest tiers and work less. Until women at large are occupying the most dangerous, deadly jobs at similar rates or advocating for it to be less dangerous for us, the cries about equal pay are 100% bullshit. Same for the draft, either get in line for equal registration or abolishing it or shut the fuck up. You miss the point on consumer spending. Regardless of whatever reason is trotted out,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 07:17 PM |
| 18 | Why do Red Pillers find it so hard to admit that men can be horrible people?The point the other poster is saying is that women were afforded the same status as men without commensurate sacrifice. Women don't have to register with selective service as men do or be subject to the draft. Women are the ones making the vast majority of consumer spending decisions when they work fewer hours than men, meaning they are getting value or money from elsewhere. This also explains the pay gap, as women choose lower paying fields, take more time off, and work fewer hours comparativel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:48 PM |
| 16 | Why do single and childless men who complain they cannot get dates or relationships also complain about the big numbers of single moms and that they would never date a single mother?Childless single men do not want to pay for a woman's indiscretions and poor choices, as women are largely not single mothers due to disease, accident, or war taking the father anymore. If a said man does take on the extra responsibilities of getting with a single mother, he assumes the obligations of a father by the extra costs a child brings without being granted the same authority of the biological father. Therefore, while a single mother is useful for sex to this childless man, her utility t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 12:47 AM |
| – | Women's personalities are more important than their physical appearance.Correction: women fucking hate men who simp, they just use them as useful idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 01:21 AM |
| 5 | What do men think of male sex robotsShit, if they made sex droids, Western women would have to step their game up quickly. Sex droid that can't take half my shit, doesn't nag me, doesn't tell me it has a headache when I want sex versus a western woman who like sex droid can't love me, doesn't do housework, is fat and nags. Real fucking hard choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Why do Western Women believe in casual relationships the most?Women by their actions are selecting for the fuckboy archetype and complaining that there are too many fuckboys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do Western Women believe in casual relationships the most?Because Western women have been given freedom without corresponding responsibility. They have modern birth control, so pregnancy is less of a concern. If they don't follow the use of birth control and get knocked up by some deadbeat, they get to get bailed out by either that man being forced to pay, her locking down a simp or the state subsidizing her irresponsibility via various schemes. Barrier contraception greatly reduces STI, so that's less of a concern as well. They've been accorded the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Since an amount of guys feel legalizing prostitution is the only way, can they protest the issue?Wouldn't date or marry a former prostitute, mostly because prostitution is the essence of dating and marriage when you distill it to its base, especially in the Western world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?No shit, women aren't interchangeable cogs, but communication is much more indirect with subtext than men, so it's harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?Nobody owes anyone a handholding through social situations, but a bit more leeway plus some generalities that aren't as vague. I'm autistic, so guess what, I need a script for most human interaction. It's not as robotic as one may imagine, but myself and many others on the spectrum do not know a clear demarcation and, as such, are hesitant. This is why I bring this up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 08:13 PM |
| – | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?No, men want realistic, practical, measurable, and executable solutions, not vague or ambiguous aphorisms. Where and what social events or venues? Again, with the increasing elimination of "third spaces" and women constantly telling men they don't want to be approached in other public venues, this is an important question for men in the US. Being ambiguous does nothing for the vast majority of men, especially those in a new city or neurodivergent men. Again, flirting is contextual on time and pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:49 PM |
| – | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?Women on aggregate give the worst fucking advice to men and this is an example. What characteristics and mannerisms does a woman who's attracted to a man have? Even for neurotypical men, this is hard. Also, where is he supposed to meet these women and interact with them given that women? Because seemingly they don't want to be approached shopping, the gym, at a coffeehouse, a bar and it's now taboo to date a coworker especially with #metoo alongside being a much more secular society is removing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:21 PM |
| – | If women say they don't enjoy casual sex, why does hook-up culture still exist?Remember, when women compare notes in dating, it's a sisterhood fighting the patriarchy and "toxic masculinity." However, when men do so, it's misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.Who says that I don't? Idiot simp men are worse because they enable this behavior. Simps are even worse than the trollops who select for the bad boys because they prevent natural consequences of fucking up from happening with marrying single mothers and supporting the destruction of the family with how the court and alimony/child support systems work. Men have fewer birth control options besides women, plus women are the ones to select for men knocking them up because they have so many flavors o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 01:20 AM |
| 22 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?From what I can tell, it's both, largely because she was a very carefree person for the first woman. The second woman, she was always talking about understanding your emotions and being attuned to them, but only for her. Women in my life have helped make me the man I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 09:52 AM |
| 8 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?The second scenario where my ex-girlfriend called me a punk for crying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 09:40 AM |
| 14 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?She saw my face and asked what the issue was, I told her I had to cancel a trip I had been planning for years to my homeland, and she basically slowly stopped talking to me after I showed fiscal restraint. In the second scenario, I was told to "man up" and stop crying after three days. She grew distant and then withdrew and told me that she couldn't handle me being such a punk about it when we broke up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 09:01 AM |
| 13 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?I reacted with some sadness, as I had to cancel a trip I had planned and budgeted for. She was an acquaintance of mine. When a loved one of mine passed unexpectedly and I cried over it, my girlfriend left me within three months over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:51 AM |
| 53 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?Every time I've shown vulnerability to a woman, they've recoiled or ghosted me. This is even over inconveniences such as a car repair or unexpected bill that puts a strain on me and I react to it. Women have shown me more so than men that being vulnerable is unattractive. Women, not men, have shown me that relationships are transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.I'm the product of a manipulative man sweet talking his way into a woman's panties. I despise the idiot simps that support women who don't deserve it and make it easy for them, same as I despise the men who are making alpha widows out of women and giving them delusional standards. I despise the enablers more than anything. However, just according to this scenario, with all the forms of birth control available to women, they still choose the fuckboys to lay down with and knock them up then ghost … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.The other gender's fuckups are more indirect and cause more long-term harm to a society up to collapse the more the fuckups are allowed and encouraged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 05:08 AM |
| 30 | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsMost men don't find the red pill of their own accord. Either they take it as a suppository, or they observe the incongruity between words and behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How much control do women really have over the dating market?Women who are honest about what they're looking for in a man instead of lying. Women who are appreciative of the time, effort, and money a man spends to be around them. Women who can hold a conversation about something besides whatever TV show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | How much control do women really have over the dating market?How she conducts herself romantically. Combative in terms of being confrontational and not pleasant to be around while expecting you to be a mind reader and angry when you read wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 08:27 PM |
| 0 | How much control do women really have over the dating market?I have. They're, on average, combative and overweight, and you'll never measure up in their eyes. These women have more bodies than the Taliban on their notch count. It's one thing to have a basic checklist: "Is he nice, does he have an average income job, is he at least of average attractiveness, does he share positive values" and another thing entirely to want the height of LeBron, the wallet of Jeff Bezos and the sexual endowment and skill of John Holmes based on previous encounters with men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 08:12 PM |
| – | How much control do women really have over the dating market?Shit tier women. The vast majority of heterosexual men don't want a "boss babe", don't want a woman who's extremely overweight, had multiple partners and is always comparing you to the amalgamation of her "ideal" man from her dating experiences and sexual experiences. Basically, it's the same thing as the dating apps, but in person: they still want gigachad to snap them up while only offering enough for a quickie in the backseat and maybe $100. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 07:40 PM |
| – | If you are currently unsatisfied with your romantic/relationship prospect, what is your next play for 2024?I already do at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Debate : The Bluepill doesn‘t exist anymore since around 5-10 Years.There is no natural morality amongst humans now that we're past the point of needing to cooperate at a local/clan level, as antisocial behavior is much more indirect now and largely goes unpunished. Men and women are both amoral. It's just that society calls out men for fucking things up and has very real consequences for them while women have little consequences for fucking things up and in many cases are rewarded for doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 10:51 AM |
| 3 | My Take On PPD: No One Is InnocentDating app stats where men rated women on a normal bell curve in attractiveness and women viewed most men as unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:30 AM |
| 5 | My Take On PPD: No One Is InnocentWomen find most men "dusties" according to the data we do have, so unless homeboy is 6'+ with above average facial/body genetics and above average income (100k+), he's a a "dusty" to most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | If you are currently unsatisfied with your romantic/relationship prospect, what is your next play for 2024?It's about the only way I'm getting any here without spending even more money, time, and effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 08:51 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's safer for me to operate on the basis that women are basically enemy combatants who will either try killing me, accusing me of something, or extracting resources from me without being there for me due to my disability and avoiding them outside of hiring a sex worker accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:52 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat women select for attractive sociopaths to fuck while trying to extract resources from men they're not attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:38 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEvery single time I've operated contrary to that view, I've been burned. Even when trying to be nothing more than a decent and giving person to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 12:16 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLet's see: between my mother attempting to kill me and abusing me, my grandmother abusing me, women being much more cruel about my intellectual disability than men, girlfriends cheating on me and the various relationships I've seen where the woman is either manipulative or selected for a man to be abusive while selecting another man to take their resources shows how I came to this conclusion. Every time I've cared for a woman outside of being an acquaintance for trifling discussions, I've been b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 11:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey want the aggression of a sociopath not directed in a violent manner towards them and select for the ruthless man with no empathy because that man is more likely to be successful comparatively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 10:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you're a man, you can love a woman romantically or platonically. Yes, physical features play a role in that, but men can love a woman for more than that. From my personal observations, I don't see women having the capacity to truly love anyone but themselves or their children to an extent. They select sociopathic men with looks to fuck while also looking to lock down a beta provider who they dangle the prospects of a crumb of pussy for if they aren't basically being more expensive versions of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 10:44 PM |
| 2 | If you are currently unsatisfied with your romantic/relationship prospect, what is your next play for 2024?Ironically, ever since embracing some aspects of the autism (black/white thinking, being hyper logical and pattern recognition/seeing incongruity between words and action) and treating women accordingly, they are treating me better. They still don't want to be a romantic partner, but they treat me with more respect now that I don't take shit from any of them in any capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 10:30 PM |
| 2 | If you are currently unsatisfied with your romantic/relationship prospect, what is your next play for 2024?Focus on my career. I'll eventually start my own business in a male field. If I need pussy, hookers exist and are honest about relationships being transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 08:49 PM |
| 5 | I hate it when people say “we don’t need men.”Societal collapse. Women aren't going to do the necessary work to maintain society and don't want to actually be with men, so enjoy the decline. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Let's Stop Being Simp!One thing I disagree with you on is sex work. Legalize actual prostitution, not this bullshit only fans and escorting. Most men would stop simping if they could just get a quick hummer for $50 every week or two or an hour of fucking for $100 or so without the prospect of going to jail. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 07:28 AM |
| 4 | I hate it when people say “we don’t need men.”The problem is that if men have no incentive to labor for society, which involves the prospect of reproduction, men withdraw from it. Men run risk/reward/benefit analysis to things, and if men aren't going to have real reward besides some temporal gain, why would they maintain things? You can possibly get rid of men for biological reproduction, but women for the foreseeable future need men to do the critical infrastructural labor to maintain society and their comfort levels. Women aren't physica… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 07:24 AM |
| 4 | I hate it when people say “we don’t need men.”Research what proportion of infrastructural jobs are held by men and get back to me on us being "de facto useless." | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Let's Stop Being Simp!If you have $100 in your pocket in any major city on the planet, you can get pussy. I got tired of the games women play, so I don't engage in the whole dating scheme. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 03:51 AM |
| 5 | Is marriage worth it?Hookers are cheaper and are honest about the relationship being transactional compared to the vast majority of at least Western women. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Let's Stop Being Simp!The issue is that women are the gatekeepers of sex, while we are the gatekeepers of relationships. It's trifling to get a straight guy to lie down with most women. It's a lot harder to have him commit his time and resources unless he's a simp who has oneitis or is just a punk. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Let's Stop Being Simp!Chad ain't putting anything out for them, though. He's just throwing them some dick. It's simps fault. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 02:44 AM |
| 13 | Let's Stop Being Simp!Stop giving them money and focusing your attention on them. Attention is like a drug to them. Don't validate their bullshit by following them. Multiple new women that have nice tits and ass turn 18 every day of the year and looks fade eventually. She's not special because of that, so what does she provide for society besides looking good? | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 01:11 AM |
| 45 | Let's Stop Being Simp!Without shit simp men, we wouldn't have this clown world. Men putting pussy and women on a pedestal is what's fucking things up. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/24 11:02 PM |
| – | Sex is mandatory in relationshipsIt's cheaper to get a hooker versus being married. Unless you're getting with a "high class" escort for thousands, it's cheaper. The price is known upfront versus supporting a woman and then having half your shit taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 12:08 PM |
| 4 | Why do feminists claim that most rapists are high testosterone men ?With my family history of mental illness on both sides, personal background, and being on the spectrum, it's easy for me to be a piece of shit. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/24 08:28 AM |
| 26 | Some men aren't fit to reproduce or date and it's okay to say thatAverage looking guy with a job: "he's not interesting/cute." Above average looking guy with no job, four felonies, three active warrants, and two kids he doesn't pay for: "Take me now!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/24 02:02 AM |
| 44 | What do you guys think about "nice guys" ?Women beat the niceness out of me. My father got more play being an asshole to them, same with every man I know that is successful in dating, related or not. Women made fun of me for my disability, took advantage of my kind nature, were thankless except for little old ladies who were raised differently and appreciative of even small things like holding the door for them. They never even attempted to thank me or reciprocate my kindness. Now? Don't care. Heavy groceries? You're strong and independ… | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Almost didn’t believe this when I found it on the shelfSociety has ensured that today's women can't be loyal. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 04:34 PM |
| 39 | Almost didn’t believe this when I found it on the shelf"If it flies, floats or fucks, it's cheaper to rent than buy" is some sage advice. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/23 07:09 AM |
| 8 | Please be carefull. Subs general directionWhen even your mother, when she was off her meds tried killing you, other women family members try killing you, they make fun of you even worse than guys for an intellectual or social disability, every girlfriend you ever had cheats on you, they get your friend fired for the same disability, they treat you as subhuman for having any interest in them besides being a sentient ATM for their whims and the overall behavior of women in the West, you tend to align with the viewpoint that they are all n… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 03:03 PM |
| -1 | The concept of "dating" and having healthy relationships cannot co-existWomen's nature rears its head yet again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?If my options are to be a sentient ATM for shit women who don't love me or die alone after building myself up, I'll choose the latter. Hell, I'll even take going out in a battle before that miserable existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 11:11 AM |
| 22 | “young attractive women live life on easy mode” - why this is a mislead statement.This is a shit take. Rich kids mostly have their hierarchy of needs met from jump. Nobody's saying they have zero problems, but their tribulations pale to the war refugee that saw their family blown to bits or the family starving from a bad harvest year. If God gave you all these gifts and you squander them, that's your fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 05:11 AM |
| 14 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?Average looking with above average intelligence, income, no debt, homeowner, and no kids means in a non clown world, I'd have much more opportunity besides single mothers and women thinking I'm a foodie or entertainment fix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 03:25 PM |
| 9 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?I've experienced dating both ND and NT women, and ND women still want Chad with game enough for ND women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:33 PM |
| 12 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?ND women still want Chad, unfortunately. Also, most women at the clay range are married as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:23 PM |
| 18 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?I should've been dead with my background and upbringing. I've faced death from my own mother, grandmother and cousins, had guns and knives pulled on me, been homeless, freezing, near died from infections, working menial jobs at times. Life has been anything but easy. I'm simply tired of bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 01:45 PM |
| 9 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?I'm autistic. High functioning, but terrible at reading facial expressions or emotions. I enjoy learning, hiking, and shooting clays. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 01:13 PM |
| 19 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?I wanted a relationship at one point, but women have shown me that relationships are transactional alongside my background, so I'm acting accordingly. I'm tired of women playing games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 01:00 PM |
| 60 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?I'm one of them. Between those who think I'm just a free meal or show and want to fuck Chad or Tyrone or single mothers who want a bailout, I'm good. I'll find a hooker to get my dick wet if I really need sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 12:54 PM |
| 5 | The Rise Of Male Subcultures is Disheartening.There's a reason every major religion and successful society put limits on women's behavior. When you don't, you get this clown world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Why do women pick the worst partners?Considering the women in the West who aren't married or basically common-law married and their tendencies, it's more beneficial for an average man to either get a wife from overseas or see hookers when he wants sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyThe more marriages a woman has, the more likely she is to divorce. Even if it's half, it's still a shitty prospect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Be a whore monger?My standards aren't extremely high, I'm cognizant of the fact that I'm not eligible for the 20 year old version of Salma Hayek or whoever. I've been burned too many times trying to date women of all stripes, so whores it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyI mean, I would like to just go up and order a blowjob or vaginal sex without that prospect. It is illegal to offer sexual acts for money in the US. It is legal for an escort to exchange her time spent with you for money, but not specific acts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Be a whore monger?Most women in my life, related or not, have shown me they reduce themselves to a sex object and use their sexuality to get what they want, so I will act accordingly. Let me put it this way: just like it would be pointless to order chateaubriand at McDonald's, it's pointless to expect actual love from the vast majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 06:15 AM |
| 0 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyI mean, without the prospect of jail time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Be a whore monger?They have shown me over and over that they don't care, and even worse, they pretend they care in many cases to suck your wallet dry and cry on your shoulder, so why pretend otherwise? Money for pussy because that's what it boils down to. Yeah, I'm sure I need therapy, but my life experience from childhood until now has shown me not to ever care for a woman again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Be a whore monger?Literal whores are cheaper because you know the rate up front and don't have to buy them drinks or food with the "prospect" of sex if they're playing the coquette and don't waste time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:50 AM |
| 0 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyThat's what I mean. You should be able to have sex and order it just like you would a big Mac anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:48 AM |
| 4 | Be a whore monger?Red pill acknowledges society and women's nature to be hypergamous. Would I ideally want a woman to be monogamous with me and care alongside sex and a family? Yes. Knowing that I'm average looking, autistic (high-functioning, but autistic nonetheless), have been abused by women and women's nature makes me realize that I'm going to pay for it either way and that women largely only love you for what you can provide means that I'll just fuck actual whores because they're open about relationships an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Be a whore monger?I'm going to be honest. All I'm going to do is be a whoremongerer. They're actually honest, and you actually get what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:18 AM |
| 5 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazy"Hey, this water doesn't have enough arsenic to kill you. Why are you complaining?" "Hey, you only have a 70% chance of having half your shit taken and your life ruined in the US if you get married. Why are you complaining?" This is why prostitution is only legal in Nevada, because if it were legal everywhere, the vast majority of men wouldn't attempt to put up with these women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Sex work is not empowering for women , its derogatory and benefits no oneHonestly, if I were the father, I'd up and die too. Some idiot simp, who's loaded, probably wifed her up and is getting lousy starfish sex a couple times a year while she is a c level exec getting railed by the guys she's actually attracted to at work in her useless job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Did the behaviour from women in your family confirm or disprove the red pill?Let's see: mom got with my much older father who openly put her in check, and when she knew this, was on him like white on rice in the bedroom. Being an open misogynist got him more access to her and other women. Alongside that, every time she got put in check, she was weirdly happier. My aunts are clearly treated as the inferior party in their marriages even though they are or were extremely good-looking women. My women cousins who are in relationships are fucking miserable and their boyfriends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 07:37 PM |
| 7 | DISCUSSION: Are autistic men just "lazy" when it comes to dating, friendship and employment struggles?I'm highly functional on the spectrum in employment as I manage a team of 20. This is alongside having mostly male friends, both NT and ND, as men are more direct in communication. Unlike NT people, social skills and reading people do not come naturally to me. I have to work much harder than an NT person to function socially. I have had decent success in dating before I moved to where I live now, but my interactions with the opposite sex have been so overwhelmingly negative on aggregate, I don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 09:22 AM |
| 53 | Sex work is not empowering for women , its derogatory and benefits no oneThe only reason women don't like prostitution is that it lays bare the transactional nature of relationships. As for porn, if women don't want to be seen as nothing but a set of tits and ass, they need to shame women that do porn and shame promiscuity among women alongside being realistic in dating and mating, aka, women need to stop chasing Chad when Chads make up 20% at best of the dating market. Further, even when there's zero coercion (look up Kelly Baltazar, daughter of a Goldman Sachs exec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 03:39 PM |
| 52 | what feminists say the "bare minimum" for men is, is just sexist as hell.Feminists lie about everything. Also, non simp men do things for a woman who's reciprocating the effort and appreciating him, which is exceedingly rare these days. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Men Who Have Been on These Forums and Have Dated - How do you manage?Don't think women have the ability to love anyone but themselves and maybe their child to some extent, so if I need sex, I'm getting a hooker. They're more honest about relationships being transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Most RP tactics and thought process are driven by a man’s abandonment issues.Lol, every fucking time. "Do better, choose better, just don't be a sperg." Thanks for the totally fucking constructive advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 06:48 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo women have agency or not? She's closer to 30 than 18. It's Schrodinger's woman: simultaneously strong, independent, and matures faster than men yet easily manipulated, has no agency or intelligence or higher level thinking whenever negative consequences may happen due to her decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 06:42 PM |
| -6 | Is the attention women receive from men the equivalent of being bombarded with food choices?Women are unappreciating until their options dry up. Women have zero game. If you told women that they'd have to romantically pursue a man and actively work to get his attention and affection, they'd have a harder time than I do as a man on the spectrum. Alongside that, women have almost no long-term game, as while it's very easy to get sex from a straight man, it's a lot harder for that straight man to commit these days, as women are selecting a smaller and smaller pool of what they consider el… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 06:11 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen on the whole have conditioned me to look at them as enemy combatants instead of people. I'm average looking and on the spectrum, so they don't even give me a chance when I approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 04:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't think I can love women after the abuse from them and seeing the hypocritical dating strategies of them, then wanting a bailout. I'm still sexually attracted to them but have been burned by them and see other guys burned by them too often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Many women are absolutely "Sexist", in spite of "Feminist Fundamentalists" claiming otherwise. According to a recent scientific study, women were found to be happier in their relationships when their partner had more "power".It's safer for me to operate as if they all are this way until proven otherwise, even if it's not the case. Every single time I've opened up and operated otherwise, I get burned. At this point, I have a heart of stone for women, going against my nature. People on the spectrum like myself have emotions and know people have emotions and body language. We on aggregate have less ability to socialize, recognize, and express emotions, but we have them all the same. I won't help women anymore, won't me… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Many women are absolutely "Sexist", in spite of "Feminist Fundamentalists" claiming otherwise. According to a recent scientific study, women were found to be happier in their relationships when their partner had more "power".At this point, given feminism and the unchecked legal and societal power bestowed upon women without any corresponding responsibility, I just don't care to interact with them even though I'm sexually attracted to them. They wouldn't piss on me if I were on fire, so they get the same treatment from me. The woman who bore me tried killing me. Women in my family abused me from neglect and violence for being non-verbal at one point. Women I dated cheated on me. A woman coworker got my friend fired f… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 09:11 AM |
| 12 | Many women are absolutely "Sexist", in spite of "Feminist Fundamentalists" claiming otherwise. According to a recent scientific study, women were found to be happier in their relationships when their partner had more "power".The vast majority of my interactions with women have been so negative and against that narrative that I have less than zero trust in them at this point. I truly believe they don't have the capacity to love anyone but themselves or their child to an extent at this point. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 08:26 AM |
| 20 | Many women are absolutely "Sexist", in spite of "Feminist Fundamentalists" claiming otherwise. According to a recent scientific study, women were found to be happier in their relationships when their partner had more "power".Women are supposed to be more caring and nurturing, but infanticide is about equal among both genders alongside dv stats, so I don't buy women being supportive, caring, and nurturing. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 06:13 AM |
| 24 | Are gen z men not becoming step dads?Millennial here, I'm not going to be a single mother's bailout because she can't keep her legs closed and can't be pleasant enough for men to stand. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 12:20 AM |
| 48 | Bryan Johnson wins legal battle with ex-wifeMen are the caring gender. 99% of women wouldn't piss on him if the roles were reversed. Men need to kill that part of themselves off and have a heart of stone to these women. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Gen Z and millennial women are waking up to the lies feminists fed themI can't trust women on aggregate given my disability and history with them. At this point, I keep all women who aren't direct blood relatives or ones I've known for years at arms length at a minimum. Are there exceptions? Yeah, but I've been fucked over and friends have been fucked over by them due to bullshit too many times to not thoroughly vet women. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 12:13 AM |
| 11 | Gen Z and millennial women are waking up to the lies feminists fed themToo late. I won't help them, won't mentor them, and won't bail them out. Aren't they supposedly equal? They can work just as hard and own a gun, just as I can. Otherwise, fuck them. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 07:53 PM |
| 10 | Education not responsible for the wage gap.Yup. Simp men are the enablers of this shit. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Most RP tactics and thought process are driven by a man’s abandonment issues.At this point, while I'm against shit like FGM, femicide and making women wear burqas, I can't help but think maybe the misogynists and misogyny are correct because at every point I try to operate otherwise, I get punched in the mouth figuratively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Most RP tactics and thought process are driven by a man’s abandonment issues.Here's the thing, we've seen the result of what happens when you have a society with little masculine influence. You have this clown world. Objectively, women make worse parents, as when you compare the results of a traditional household vs. single father or single mother, the single mother household does worse in almost every metric. CDC stats show that there's a gap of how many women have a biological child. Women file for divorce 70% of the time in heterosexual marriages, and seeing as how ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Male birth control illegal?This is part of why they won't approve vasalgel/RISUG, that and it interferes with big pharma profits. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 07:46 AM |
| 10 | Most RP tactics and thought process are driven by a man’s abandonment issues.Look, when your own mom tries killing you (no, not the hyperbolic smacked me as a kid, she literally tried killing me on multiple occasions), women make fun of you and people you know for a developmental disability, they get your friend fired for "harassment" due to said disability (asking a woman coworker to have lunch together in the company breakroom to discuss a project), the few girlfriends you had cheated on you and unrepentant pricks seem to have women wrapped around their fingers, you te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 07:15 AM |
| 11 | Most RP tactics and thought process are driven by a man’s abandonment issues.I analyze things autistically because I am actually autistic, diagnosed, and had to get therapy to function socially after that and abuse from women in my life. I thought maybe my father was wrong in his basic RP view on women alongside the intersexual dynamic and that I just needed to experience my own and my friends' interactions with women. Turns out that my experience, my friends' experiences, all validate my father's RP takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 01:55 AM |
| 53 | Mother and daughter allegedly beat rob and stab Daytona Beach man who had offered his helpOnce again, the monk mode and MGTOW men are proven correct. Don't help them. Don't bail them out. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/23 06:33 PM |
| 7 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?Yes, he's convenient because, in many cases, those are the men that women have ready access to. Becky from Atherton is not really dating the drug dealer in Oakland because her local pool is a bunch of other privileged white guys in Atherton. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 05:04 PM |
| 17 | Why don't alpha women date beta simps?Those bums triggered something in those women that exhibited leader qualities in a twisted manner. The drug dealer shows that he has social skills and resources in a twisted manner. The thug shows that he has the capacity to use violence to protect in a twisted manner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Jonathan Majors found guilty of two assault charges over domestic disputeThankfully, my parents are older and were decidedly not feminists. My father may be called either a chauvinist or misogynist due to his beliefs that women need to be protected from the world, including themselves, "because they're fundamentally self-destructive and like children." My mother, as a mother of a son, knew that women are definitely not 'sugar, spice and everything nice,' and to not "believe all women" because women aren't saints same as men, but was not a chauvinist. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Jonathan Majors found guilty of two assault charges over domestic disputeAt this point, as much as heterosexual men have that instinct to protect, provide for, and pursue women romantically, the MGTOW or monk mode men are right. It may not be a majority of women that will cause shit like this to happen, but enough do, and they have the capacity to do this. Hell, men are maligned if they're not conventionally attractive and neurotypical for basically existing at this point. I know a guy who's high functioning on the spectrum like myself, and he got told to make acquai… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 12:35 PM |
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