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Well you can not initiate, not plan dates, not strike conversations etc, and praise yourself for being active and alone, why not, Or I can simply date non lazy, non low effort women who know how to initiate and plan a date, for which they are a lot of, and leave the loser ass, chronically single, bitter misandrist women on PPD to continue to circle jerk each other about how lazy they are all while trying to scare men with fake threats of solitude. Not that this personally applies to you of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:54 AM
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Because they can? Why would they put any effort and take an initiative, I recon most men would be okay with this if the effort we do put in was acknowledged. Instead we get called lazy by women who are too pussy and cowardly to even text 1st much less do half of the things men do in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:24 AM
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Truly fascinating insights into the mentality of femal narcissism and entitlement... Exactly. The gender that(on average) doesn’t initiate, doesn’t plan dates, doesn’t pay for dates, doesn’t text first, doesn’t court men, and doesn’t compliment men, will turn around and say that it’s the men that are lazy. Like make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:08 AM
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Genuinely insane. Someone said Klay Thompson isn’t that well known which is just lol. Another said that basketball isn’t a global sport, which gotta be the worst take I’ve ever read here(and that’s saying a lot) People on this sub need to stick what they know and leave the ball talk to people who actually watch the sport
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:24 PM
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No, they don't. Megan is known throughout the entire world because music is listened to across the entire world. Just because music is listened to across the world doesn’t mean, she’s popular No one cares about the NBA other than SOME men in the US. The NBA is a GLOBAL sport. What TF are you even talking about?!?! The best players in the league aren’t even American My husband doesn't even know the guy. If your “husband” doesn’t know a top 100 player of all time, second best 3 point shooter ever,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:10 PM
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Save your breath dude. These women are literally insane, and you’ll feel dumber for even engaging with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:51 AM
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literal nobodies to the vast majority of women. The vast majority of women = 3 randos on a debate sub In reality far more people know who he is than her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:46 AM
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Nice gaslighting No one’s gaslighting you sis. You said something dumb and I and all of your replies are calling you out for it. So why lie? You keep asking me why men lie based on an analogy that makes no sense. What answers are you looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:15 PM
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Your analogy makes no sense as we’ve established.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:05 PM
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How do you know it was a lie? He very well could’ve been interested in a relationship with her, but changed his mind after hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:47 PM
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This analogy makes zero sense. Now, by your logic you can give him money, and he can keep the phone, When women get “used” for sex, they are still getting something that they want and agreed to, sex. In your analogy the person is agreeing to give money for a phone, but not getting the phone and losing the money. Using your example, a woman being used for sex would be like you going to the store and a seller is telling you that he will give you a phone if you will give him money. So you give him …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:37 PM
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Maybe this is how women justify hooking up with shitty dudes and having zero accountability for it, but most logical people would never say the man didn’t get permission
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:16 PM
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Ahh yes, men’s unrealistic expectations of checks notes A) Don’t be fat B) Don’t be a bitch. They’re really setting the bar high for women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:37 PM
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And vice versa. Good to let a man know upfront that you’re entitled so he can promptly ignore you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:47 PM
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There shouldn’t be a “buy in” in the 1st place
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 06:34 PM
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do think someone who is kind to others, emotionally stable and has emotional intelligence, listens to others and is open minded would be good traits to have. There are other traits though that I would need to see for someone to be have a "good" personality - like I would need someone who is socially outgoing (no introverts for me), shared a similar sense of humor Great so going back to my question, do you think a man with all this but who’s 5’5 and balding would have nearly the same success as s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:31 PM
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Interesting, friendly, kinda to others, shows emotional stability and emotional intelligence, open mindedness, being an active listener
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:02 PM
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It’s implied from feedcreepy’s comment. So assume that he does have a great personality. Who’s getting more dates him or someone like Clav?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:47 PM
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"I don't need to develop myself as a man because women should be okay fucking whatever" If that’s how you want to interpret my comment, knock yourself out I know many short men or poor men who are crazy successful Of course you do, everyone on Reddit knows 5 guys just like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:34 PM
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Men idolize other men who can get attention and casual hookups easily. Clav and Tate do that, This issue is something that only women can fix. If yall would stop fucking dudes because of their height, wealth, or status, and started fucking them because of their personality like you claim to do, guys like Clav and Tate would be out of business
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:20 PM
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Who made you in charge of determining what makes a person good? People in the med field are notorious for being cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:08 PM
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Men are ultimately going to only follow your advice if women started focusing on personality over looks This. When the 5’5 balding, chubby Indian dude with a great personality starts getting consistent dates and hook ups, men will start to idolize him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:00 PM
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Across multiple levels includes sex. In your situation you value the FWB more for sex than the boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:06 PM
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Then how that consistent with your previous comment? It is? So why is my boyfriend not desirable and my fwb is? Like judging by your own definition. The boyfriend and the FWB are after the same thing. The FWB is jumping through less hoops and promising less things to get it than the boyfriend is. The FWB doesn’t have to offer commitment and you’re telling him the same things that the boyfriend here’s (despite the BF doing more) The FWB is more desired
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:58 PM
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Dude, there are so many men that disagree with you Literally maybe one dude in this thread disagrees with OP, every other man is more or less in agreement with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:33 PM
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To be actively wanted across multiple levels and not just be tolerated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:28 PM
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You’re giving these men all the husband and boyfriend benefits without them having to do husband and boyfriend things and you’re wondering why these men feel desired? when i don't really care about them at all. You’re letting these guys fuck with zero commitment, you must obviously care about them on some level
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:14 PM
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Bye, boy and you never see me again. Especially if a man isn't that great at sex as he thinks. They don’t care sis. The saying “doesn’t matter, still hit” exists for a reason. You ghosting him ain’t gonna change the fact that he already got to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:59 PM
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lol right. These men get to fuck and leave. They don’t have to deal with the nagging or the arguing or meeting her friends or being around her during her period and she’s trying to frame it like these men aren’t desired. Of they are! It’s her future boyfriend that has to go through hoops that won’t be desired
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:55 PM
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It's rare for women to come after some famous woman's husband like this just because he's short It’s definitely not. Women do this all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:24 PM
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They’re giving women the same energy that women give short men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:20 PM
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Typical misandrist. Blaming men for an issue that men and women caused
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 05:38 PM
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They want to pick and choose which parts of the patriarchy they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:58 PM
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Women are aware that they can say no to those gifts right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:53 PM
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Man I haven’t heard Pokimane name in a minute. I just remember that stream she did with a guy that was very obviously her boyfriend but she denied it on camera because she knew admitting she has a boyfriend will make a lot of her simps stop giving her money. She’s been a bitch for so long, glad at least part of the internet is turning on her
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:50 PM
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Any woman that disagrees with you sounds like a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 01:08 PM
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Seeing as how the majority of that list requires next to zero effort on the women’s part yes, men’s standards could not be lower
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:54 PM
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It was started by a queer woman because dating women is unnecessarily hard. Had she had been hetero, she would’ve never coined the term incel in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:13 PM
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Funny how lonely women never complain that they're single because men are writing to killers in prison. No instead they complain about how men only want to date hot influencer type women which is ridiculous because men’s standards for their partner could not be any lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 12:02 PM
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Idk how mods allow this, Because she’s a woman. And as we’ve seen with Lilith, that extra X chromosome gives you more leeway on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:32 PM
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No. I’ve seen way too many unattractive, high calorie women brag about their dating options to believe that there are any women struggling with being seen on the dating market. Women like Lizzo, Susan Boyle, and the women that played precious all had orbiters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 02:21 PM
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Required by who? Imao Stop being obtuse. I already explained who in my original comment This is a debate. We are still allowed to disagree about other people's extremes. Good to know Just proving my point Likewise. Quick to call out a guy, but talks in circles when someone asks why you don’t respond the same way to women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 05:00 PM
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"Women on here" isn't the real world, this is a purplepill forum where you see the most extremes from one end of the stick to another Cool, by that logic neither you or anyone else in this thread should be critical of OP because this isn’t the real world, this PPD where you see the most extremes Men OR women do not need to adopt traditional roles. They shouldn’t but men more often than not are still required to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:55 PM
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This. They want the best of both worlds. They want the ability to be whatever they want with zero repercussions but the men they date still need to be tall, strong, make more than her and pay for all the dates. It’s the hypocrisy of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:28 PM
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lol traditional roles aren't a thing anymore. Yes they are, at least for men anyways. Women on here freely admit they wouldn’t date a man unless he displayed some sort of traditionally masculine gender role and no one ever presses them about it. Do you give these women the same response as you just gave him, or do you pretend you don’t see these comments daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:25 PM
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Making a comment = bitching
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:09 AM
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<image> Relax girlie, I don’t date loser ass broke women so this isn’t a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:57 AM
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What is this myth of men having unrealistic standards??? It’s something people make up to justify why men are single. In reality most guys just want a mid girl who isn’t obese, doesn’t nag and occasionally puts out. Thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:09 AM
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But I see ugly guys with women all the time. It's just always ugly women. Agreed. My tinfoil hat theory is that women overrate each other’s looks and underrate men’s. Thats why women say they see other women dating ugly men all the time, when in reality those women are dating men in their league
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:00 AM
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What extra stuff? ?? You literally listed a bunch of things guys need to do/be aware of But if you want to date an "extra" Instagram model, who is a 9 out of 10 obsessed with physical appearances and material things, then you're gonna have to do whatever she wants. And posing for a date is the bare minimum. Bold to assume that these are the only women that want to be paid for. Even the plainest of plain Jane’s still want the guy to pay for the dates. Alternatively, you could just focus on findin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:53 AM
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Crazy how a guy needs to do all this extra stuff simply because a woman won’t be an adult and pay for her portion of the date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:20 PM
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You're talking about a really specific type of woman. About 90% of the guys on this sub have all interacted with women like this. What’s more likely, all of those men who are from different cultures, ethnicities, and countries have interacted with a really specific type of woman, or there are more women than not who behave exactly how he described Also, do you feel the same way about dates? You're supposed to want to go on them and have fun. Ever wonder why it’s almost always women who say this?…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:54 PM
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No. It's that women (at least today, in the west) have a very overly-complicated, contradictory, and counterproductive relationship with sex. They have all sorts of standards for the guy that they will date, but they will have sex almost immediately with a guy that they think is hot. They will make that guy who they want to have a relationship with wait for sex, but they will readily give it up for that guy that all the other woman also think is hot, if he picks her. Agreed. Most guys aren’t ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 05:38 PM
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Exactly. This is what gets me. Women on this sub will say the most misandrist shit and then get mad when people call them out for it. Thinking 95% of men are repulsive makes you a misandrist. Instead of trying to gaslight people into thinking she’s not, she should have the ovaries to at least own up to her man hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:19 PM
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My well-adjusted man from that ever so elusive 5% came and found me because attractive, well-adjusted people tend to gravitate towards each other. A misandrist with a high opinion of her self is a nasty combo I also don't hate men. Yeah, you just think that 95% of them are repulsive. That’s totallllyyyy a difference. You definitely don’t hate men at all 🙄 just think yall have a lot of work to do as a collective when it comes to self esteem and emotional maturity. Stones, glass houses, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:12 PM
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As a guy that swings both ways, I much prefer dating women where I have to put effort to seek a match Since you’re bi, I’m assuming you’re dealing with bi women and women who are okay with you being bi. You’re not dealing with the average heterosexual woman that puts in very little effort and rarely reciprocates the effort you do put in. At least on the apps anyways Regardless, to each their own. I will easily take the unlimited matches and figure out a way to filter them out later as opposed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:45 PM
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Right you literally can’t make this up. They find every excuse to justify women’s behavior but when men do the same exact thing as them, suddenly it’s a problem. And women here will swear they’re not misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:40 PM
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Which makes it a huge headache for women. They get approached by so many men who are interested in them for their gender and appearance that they have no idea of any of them even care about who they are as a person. Won’t someone think of the poor womens with their endless options and more dates than they can handle. It must be so challenging 🥺🥺 There are a lot of trade offs so it is tough to say who has it worse in the dating world overall. But it isn't nearly as one sided as a lot of guys thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:21 PM
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This whole "women using men for free coffee/dinners" is not a real thing. Never mind the fact that actual women have written about using men for dates, in this very thread you have a woman admitting she only dates guys that spend money on her. Instead of trying to gaslight men into thinking this sort of thing doesn’t happen, how about yall use that energy to call out women who do it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:57 PM
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I've also been asked out at least once at every event I've hosted - I love that she adds this in just to remind the reader that she is hot
/r/MensRights25/02/26 11:23 PM
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Exactly, look at the paragraph she wrote While men are typically represented more on dating apps than women, within my own social circles, it seems men certainly have the upper hand when it comes to dating apps. I know so many successful, smart, beautiful, single women, and increasingly few eligible men, giving the men an advantage that often results in bad behaviour; Like how fucking out of touch do you have to be to think most men have an advantage on the apps. This one single paragraph tells …
/r/MensRights25/02/26 11:22 PM
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Most people still meet in real life. Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:56 PM
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You’re referring to this paragraph women, if a guys profile is just 6 of these photos, maybe he's a great guy I honestly am not going to make claims about his personality, but he's on tinder for sex. You see this profile, you go "wow this looks like the type of guy who's going to take me to an art museum followed by a candlelight dinner" and you're wrong. You misread what he meant. He’s not talking about the dudes he matched with, he’s talking about women who swipe right on Chad and are surprise…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:48 PM
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Huh? How did you come to that conclusion when the OP of that post said During this ordeal, this slog, I did get one (1) "wyd" message but got nothing inappropriate, nothing sexual. Every man was very respectful and considerate of any boundaries I put up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:31 PM
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I dare any man to try a dating app as a woman Someone on the sub already did that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:09 PM
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I know this is supposed to be some sort of reverse gender gotcha, but men would absolutely love this app
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:05 PM
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Both men and women seem to have an issue with this new era of deconstruction of gender norms Men don’t have an issue with this “new era.” What we have an issue with is the women who will pick and choose whatever gender roles they feel benefits them, but still require men to uphold to the most traditional ones. It’s the hypocrisy of it all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:49 PM
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Crazy to think that displaying empathy for young boys makes you a pick me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:32 PM
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If a woman needs a man to be a certain height to get aroused and won’t date someone that doesn’t meet that height, then by your own definition, it’s not a dating filter, it’s a fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:36 PM
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Men expect women to be perfectly groomed, have shaved their legs, put on makeup, have their hair done, have a perfect figure, wear an expensive dress and heels and perfume, and turn up and laugh at their boring jokes. If this were true only like 2% of women would actually go on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:19 PM
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If it's really that painful to you how about you stop? Or how about just putting in equal effort and making sure the other person doesn’t feel unappreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 05:18 PM
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Seems like they’re more mad that guys have started calling it out than they are at themselves for helping contribute to it in the first place. This dancing monkey meme wouldn’t even be a thing if women put in even half the effort in the early stages of dating that men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 04:41 PM
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Anyway, i can't say i hate men, but men do call me hateful here Men hate me the moment i refuse to adore them, even if i have no reason to be interested in them. Get over yourself. Most men are not thinking about you and definitely aren’t thinking about how you don’t “adore” them. Men on this sub (correctly) call you a man hater because you say misandrist shit all time. Literally two hours ago you said that most men are lazy and entitled. Last week you said that men can’t be taught.(As if we’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:35 PM
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And for years simply disagreeing with a women was enough to get you labeled as a misogynist. Sounds like men are treating some of yall the same way you treated us
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:37 PM
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Why do yall like pushing this narrative. Plenty of men here are in relationships, they’re just don’t feel the need to constantly mention it like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:40 PM
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Knowing what the peloton sub thinks about Kendall, the ASU girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:26 AM
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Huh? Is OLD not considered online?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:50 PM
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That's not how it works. "Everyone uses the internet" and "the posts I see that social media platforms have picked out for me based on what I have previously engaged with the most are representative" are two very different statements. What if I don’t engage with these post and I still see them. What now? Social media literacy is not about how much time you spend on it, it's about being able to critically interpret what you are seeing. And critical interpretation doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Spendi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:46 PM
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Do you think women posting about hookups online are a representative sample of the population? Yes. This “no one is on the internet” angle your trying to work towards doesn’t work in 2026. Everyone is on the internet and the majority of couples meet on OLD, so yes, those women are a representative sample of the population Or is your social media literacy so low that you create your view of the world based on content from highly personalized algorithms? The irony of a PPD 1% commenter telling me …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:19 PM
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No. If a woman makes the 1st move on one guy, she shouldn’t see it as a negative that another guy didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:03 PM
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What should a woman do to show attraction? Many men here say that only early sex counts. Men are never complimented. Ever. Nor do they ever have things paid for. You want to show attraction, compliment your man constantly, as in every time you see him, brag about him to all your friends, buy him gifts, remember things he said, let him know he’s valued. Do you think a woman who is not a top 20% woman herself but is only attracted to top 20% of men (rare scenario, but let's go with it), she should…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:01 PM
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Ideally women shouldn’t let a random guy she just met stick his untested penis in her without knowing him for more than a couple dates. But because of online dating and women’s propensity to post about their hookups online, men know that’s what a lot of yall do. Which is why guys aren’t okay with not being that guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:00 PM
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All men want is consistency. Thats it. Do whatever you want but just be consistent. Don’t hookup with a “Chad” within two hours of meeting him, but make the husband material guy wait weeks before he even gets to second base or vice versa. Don’t go out of your way to initiate things with one guy, but another guy has to do all the work. Don’t go on 1st dates with guys, tell them that you’re looking for something long term, and let them pay for the bill, all the while knowing you’re getting dicked …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:43 PM
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10:00 am - 11:00 am: compare sex/dick sizes of previous lovers Ok but most of y’all actually do this tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:10 PM
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Not courting men/initiating dates Expected the man to pay for everything Complaining about a dating issue to your friend instead of talking to your partner Generalizing all men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:18 PM
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Exactly. Women here routinely talk about how they only think 2% or whatever of men are attractive yet are surprised when men respond and call them lesbians. Idc how they justify it, if a woman think most other women are hot but 98% of men are ugly, then they are not 100% hetero
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:17 AM
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Most women don't seem to view causal sex as an achievement, and if they do enjoy it, it's just for fun, Of course not. Your privilege as a woman is that you don’t have to try or put in any effort for any of that. You just get to simply exist. You’ve never had to work for it, so why would you see it as any sort of achievement. Men are the ones who actually have continuously try and put in effort because if they don’t they get absolutely nothing. So it matters more to them It’s like if a nepo baby…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:04 PM
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You can form emotional connections with people without having to share private details about your relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:24 AM
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The biggest discrepancy just seems to be that the men who date and have relationships don't really talk about it as much compared to women. Because men actually respect the privacy of a relationship, women for the most part don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:13 AM
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Statistically don’t most women still prefer that their partner make more than they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:06 PM
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What aspect of dating and attraction do guys incorrectly put too much emphasis on when in reality women don't really care about? Being a genuinely good person has almost no effect on your ability to attract or date a woman. Being some combination of hot, tall, rich, and jacked will get you way further with women Also why do you think this disconnect exists? An entire generation of telling men that women value niceness over looks. The only good thing to come from online dating is now men get a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:49 PM
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Their “issues” are finding a man out of their league to commit to them long term. There’s been 1000’s of experiments done, including the famous PPD one that show that women who stay within their league have no issues finding decent men to date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:13 PM
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Either way, I tired of the constant implication this makes me bisexual or actually a lesbian to appreciate female beauty. What else are we supposed to think when you say women look better naked and that you aren’t attracted to most men? If a guy posted that he’s not attracted to most women and he thinks that a penis looks better than a vagina, you don’t think most of the women on this sub would assume he’s either in the closet or Bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:07 PM
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Yeah, they always take it too far. Claiming to be heterosexual and saying you like looking at women is one thing, claiming to be heterosexual and saying women look better naked is a whole other thing entirely. There’s definitely some sort of sexual attraction there, even if it’s low
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:01 PM
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It is man's responsibility to approach and court a woman, not the other way around. Must be nice to have this privilege Have you actually been constantly rejected by women? At one point or another, most men have
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:51 PM
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Right like I said, how convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:24 PM
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So not wanting to plan and pay for a date has nothing to do with you and instead it’s the fault of the men. How convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:15 PM
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Nothing, which makes it all the more interesting why so many women refuse to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:14 PM
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I'm not sure how being rejected can affect you so badly if the people you ask out are strangers. Because you’re a woman. How many strangers have you asked out before getting married? Try being most men. Most women and lazy and/or cowards and don’t want to approach men. So most men are stuck doing the asking out. Try asking out 5,10,15,20,30 people and getting a continuous sea of no’s and maybe’s that don’t lead anywhere. Now realize you can’t even be used for a hook up because women only fuck li…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:07 PM
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she revealed that her and one of her friends had discussed how big they thought my penis would be and said that guys with micro/small penises should come with a warning. It’s amazing how flippantly and nonchalant they talk about things like that. Especially coming from the gender that rags on about “locker room talk” and how much they hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:51 PM
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Agreed. This is an issue that doesn’t get talked about as much as it should. There’s a show on Netflix called You and in season 1 a woman hooks up with a guy she’s interested in dating long term, he only lasts 8 seconds the first time. The next day she tells all her friends about it and they make fun of him Stuff like that is all too common in real life. I don’t know why they feel the share every single detail about their relationship/hookups with their girl friends. Who does that benefit? What …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:36 PM
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So even if men are interested and date her and want to have sex with her, she's still not in their league? Potentially So how do you know when you're actually in the same league? I already answered that Are people only in the same league if they marry for life? No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:36 PM
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If Chad has his pick of women, he wouldn't need a placeholder woman because he'd also be pulling a woman he's attracted to. I feel like we’re talking about two different things. If Chad is looking for a relationship he’ll choose women who he’s attracted to and in his league. If he’s looking for casual sex, he’ll pick the women who puts out fast and immediately repulse him. OP’s post made it clear that these “Chads” in her dental school are opting for relationships with the dental hygienist stude…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:32 PM
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But if hot guys are dating her, that means she is in their league, doesn't it? Not necessarily. It could just mean that she puts out easily and the guy is biding his time until someone else comes along If they date her but then break up, she wasn't used, the relationship just didn't last. Are you referring to OP or a different women? Cause OP made it clear that these men are using her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:16 PM
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Who determines one's league? Previous experiences. Who pursues you, and who reciprocates if you show romantic interest. Where do you plateau out, In terms of the physical, emotional, financial and social standing of the people who you can realistically connect with. What if a woman doesn't agree with you on what her league is? Then she ends up like OP, getting used by hot guys and then complaining about it on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:55 PM
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the women I've known who are perpetually single are that way for a reason. They either want a guy who's more attractive than they are, are in "situationships" aka sleeping with a guy who doesn't take them seriously, refuse to do anything to meet men besides scrolling dating apps, or have some issues they aren't working on. A lot of people just seem kind of delusional about what they have to offer vs. what they want, both men and women. Agreed on both counts. It’s refreshing to hear a woman say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:24 PM
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men just want someone who's attractive, not a bitch, and not crazy, It’s not a joke, it’s literally this. The bar has never been lower than it is right now and yet so many women still have issues getting into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:08 PM
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men need to level up instead Men do not need to level up, women need to learn to date within their own league
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:02 PM
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Just so we’re clear, your whole post is because hot guys with options are choosing to date young, pleasant to be around women as opposed to you, correct? I'd say this is a good thing having lots of women in high places, unfortunately the negative side effect is that it makes it so that a bunch of women are trying to get in an LTR with a small pool of qualified men. This makes the men incessantly picky, choosy, Congratulations! Now you know how 99% of men feel on online dating. I would say that n…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:57 PM
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I should’ve stopped reading at her ridiculously false title.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:47 PM
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You don’t get it. These guys are so haaawttt that she had no choice but to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 12:41 PM
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Saying all this knowing full well you hide all your comments is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:57 PM
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Arranged marriages are a thing in India so I’m guessing them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:35 PM
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Women deserve to go on dates without fear of getting assaulted, kidnapped, stalked, ending up in abusive relationship or unwanted pregnancy. Agree and give more dates and chances for men too. Disagree. There’s no correlation between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:25 PM
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Why are you playing the comparison game? Better question is why are you all over this thread defending OP? It’s not that serious The price to get on the ride is fixed. Neat You can either pay it or not. Why jump at the guy that tells you how to get in? I don’t pay or play dumb games with women. If I have to do 52 things just for women to want to get in a relationship with me, then it’s simply not worth it. Looking at how many men have checked out of dating recently, I’m guessing I’m not the only…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:16 PM
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The squeeze has always been a squeeze. Life is how life is. I don’t speak bumper sticker slogans. What are you trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:08 PM
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It’s not a little bit one-sided, it’s entirely one-sided. You listed 52 things a man needs to do to get into and maintain a relationship. Can you name 52 things a woman needs to do to in order to do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:05 PM
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Imagine being a man and having to memorize/do all this stuff meanwhile the identical female looks match version of you just has to exist. No wonder guys are checking out of dating and saying the juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:53 PM
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It is but tbf the only people who seem to deny this are women and I assume it’s because they don’t like it when you point out that their dating “issues” are 90% their own doing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 04:21 PM
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No. I don't choose them. I simply experience them lol please. This sort of reasoning might sound good to your girl friends when you’re having a Kiki over brunch, but unless you are a child with zero agency whatsoever, you are choosing these men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:58 PM
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Nothing to do with porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:19 PM
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Right! It’s like OP, Lilith and Gecko are in a three way race to determine who the biggest misandrist on this sub is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:14 PM
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She’s a “catholic” women who spends all day, every day talking about sex and her love of young guys with big dicks even tho quite literally no one asked or cares. Literally cannot make this up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:12 PM
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The thing is, some dudes are so desperate for any sort of pussy from any quality of women , they accept this sort of shit behavior from OP, so can’t really feel too bad for her partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:04 PM
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Have you tried looking at this from a man's perspective? Of course she hasn’t. That would require her to have empathy for men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:55 PM
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BP dudes 🤝 RP dudes Temporarily uniting to call out OP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:49 PM
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No its not. That's just a pornsick take. I love how having a big dick is apparently sooooo important to you that you felt the need to mention it, not once but twice in your OP and yet despite that, you’re up and down this thread calling men pornsick The call is coming from inside the house girlie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:34 PM
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What argument is there to make? You’re a misandrist who’s bad at choosing men. Literally a dime a dozen on Reddit. You should’ve just kept this post in your diary
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 12:19 PM
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You ever think this may be the type of men you attract??? Yeah but why own up to the fact that she has a type and take accountability for her dating habits when she could simply put all the blame on the men she dates /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:12 AM
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I've said that one of my criteria for choosing a man is that he doesn't insult me too much. A guy once reacted with, "Why can't you just choose someone who wouldn't insult you at all?" And the answer is, those men basically don't exist. This makes me think that many of these men have probably dated women who didn't push back, women they effectively assaulted The men here who argue that women ignore "good guys" aren't good guys themselves, it shows in everything they say There's also the constant…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:02 AM
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Like not at all lol 🤫 If people here knew how easy it was to get around that, they would never post on this sub with the same account they post nudes on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:56 PM
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He asked you a yes or no question and you went on a tangent about capitalism and the financial expectations of men(which I’m pretty sure you yourself have admitted to forcing upon your dates) Should men care about women crying that they're not get laid by the dudes they want? Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:56 PM
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I like how you avoided actually answering his question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:25 PM
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Why would you treat a woman who really likes you worse? No, because that’s dumb. For most women, it actually feels good to be courted by a man they have feelings for. I feel like that's common sense It’s 2026, why TF am I as a man still supposed to “court” Why can’t both parties show an equal amount of effort in each other. She should be “courting” me just as much as I am for her it can really really suck to be in love with a man and never once receive flowers, never be taken out on a nice date.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:12 PM
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Idk, calling herself selfish and self serving is pretty accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:06 PM
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So we're simultaneously supposed to be chasing men who are basically strangers to us, and then if things don't work out it's because we overlooked the lack of effort in the beginning. You’re aware that this is the exact same shit women expect men to do? What circular logical bullshit you guys spew. It's so bipolar. Glad we agree it’s bullshit. Hopefully your gender starts to take accountability for forcing this upon men for generations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:52 PM
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They are definitely not conservative women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 12:19 PM
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Surely you’ve seen women on this sub defend wanting traditional gender roles for men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:38 AM
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It’s hilarious how even the most “progressive” women on this sub still want men to adhere to gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:35 AM
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Based Chloe Price
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:44 PM
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This is why it's better to be husband material. Guys who are husband material are picked because they're rare and special This sort of gaslighting might’ve worked in the days before the internet, but men today are smarter than our fathers were. We see how women choose their hookups vs how they choose their husbands. I don't know why guys would want to be that guy. Yes, why would a man want to have tons of noncommittal, no strings attached hookups with a variety of different women without any sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:15 AM
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That is the main reason, but it seems like you have a theory about it so say it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:31 PM
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Outdated gender norms forced onto men by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:27 PM
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Nothing is wrong with planning which makes it all the more curious why some women have delegated that responsibility to the man when it should be an even split 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:10 PM
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Not who you asked, but IME, women who aren’t into you are lazy, they take hours or even days to respond, don’t initiate, don’t plan dates, don’t want to pay for dates , and are bland on the actual date. For example I once went on a coffee date with a woman who was bad at texting but I figured I’ll still go. We meet and have this cold hug, while waiting in line she didn’t make any conversation, we get to the cashier and I order my drink and pay for it, she looks at me like she was expecting me to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:58 PM
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So, you want understanding when you yourself don't care to understand? Most men don’t care because most women have made it clear that they don’t care. Men are simply giving women the same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:26 PM
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She’s not filtering wrong, she’s just a misandrist who doesn’t want to take any accountability for her awful taste in partners
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:18 PM
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When "hookups" are especially bad for us Way too many women on this sub, on this app and in real life engage in hookups for men to believe that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:17 PM
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When half of young men have never asked a woman out, yes, we can say that How many men have you personally asked out? How many men do you think the average woman has asked out? When men won't commit or put a label on it, yes, we can say that Nothing is stopping women from DTR themselves. Y’all just choose not to do it. Either out of cowardice or laziness. When men refuse to socialize and talk to people and have no friends, yes, we can say that Hilarious when every man will tell you that women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:58 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:50 AM
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Do you think most women are meh looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:38 AM
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Only women get to get away with casual calling 99% of the opposite gender ugly. When men do it, they’re incels or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:38 AM
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Dating isn't harder than ever before. For women you mean. It’s never been easier for yall. 100’s of hot guys wanting to date and/or hook up with you and an army of simps ready to defend you and give you free attention. Pretty sweet deal for you guys Before this, it wasn't dating it was choosing because women didn't have a choice. You comment like you’re from the 19th century or something. Women have been allowed to have their own bank accounts since the 70’s. You have likely never been on this p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:27 AM
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And 4b is just a philosophy of decentering men without being sexist. They are atill nice enough, Maybe the South Korean version is idk, I’m not from there but the North American version is a misandrist group that despises men and aren’t shy about admitting that Misandry does pop up there occasionally Way to completely brush aside that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:03 AM
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Now a truly enlightened and egalitarian society should take that into account and try and help men get to actual equality. Instead what we have is feminism treating equality like a one-way street exclusively to the benefit of women, and women demanding endless empathy and sympathy from men for all of women's issues no matter how small or irrelevant, while those same women are almost completely unwilling to give even an ounce of empathy or sympathy back to the men they demand so much from. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:50 AM
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claim that women dont care They don’t, and women themselves prove that every day both on this sub and in real life. As a result of that men have started to ⬇️ post stuff that mocks, deminishes, decrys women. And vote for women hating politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:44 AM
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Are you krayon_kylie?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 10:01 AM
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do you hold these views even if the genders were swapped? You know she doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 03:45 AM
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individual men give up a lot of times on a stage "what, I need to talk? But she has a roster, why should I" All valid reasons. As y’all have made it abundantly clear women are only attracted to a minuscule number of men and chances are the 98% of men don’t meet the criteria. Why waste their time when they’re just gonna end in a situation like this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 12:47 AM
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excuse their lack of effort Yes, it’s the men that lack effort, not the gender that(on average) doesn’t approach, doesn’t initiate, doesn’t ask men out, doesn’t plan dates, doesn’t pay for dates and isn’t the first to DTR. Nope nope nope men are just lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:45 PM
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All the more reason to go 50/50 on dates
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:37 AM
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Agreed. Too many low self esteem guys put up with women’s toxicity just for the chance of some pussy. It’s embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:33 AM
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Only on Reddit would this be considered a hot take. Gosh forbid women actually acknowledge their privilege when it comes to dating, but apparently in 2026 that’s asking too much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 12:31 AM
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I do find that a lot of women nowadays have a "I love being mean to men" type of personality. This is what happens when misandry is not only normalized, it’s encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:07 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:51 PM
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Isn't she the only woman in Hollywood who always try to make male issues nuanced and have a discussion about it? lol no, she’s a performative, contrarian fake activist who is most known for inserting herself in other people’s business and her one sided feud with the Kardashians. By her own words she was a troll and a bitch. <image> There’s a reason this image became a meme. It’s because Jameela is one of the last people you want on your side
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:55 PM
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Like, I had 2 fwb a few months ago. But I got ghosted by 1 and I ghosted 1. And I want to build another rotation like that (maybe more) She’s taking about her potential partners like she’s a out of touch baseball owner trying to sign a bunch of pitchers to her team 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:38 PM
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Exactly. This is what women don’t get. If Chad and Brad didn’t wait, then why TF would I wait?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:33 PM
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They be so dramatic. Someone said that she’d rather shove 100 toothpicks in her nails than ever propose to a man. Like sis, it’s not that serious
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:57 PM
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For a lot of women, it is. They think it’s their birthright to land a chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:22 PM
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Lmfaooooo there's so many stories on Reddit of guys in a relationship who find out their GF was sleeping with and entertaining other men If you lurk around the dating subs you’ll find that the majority of women have consistent fwb’s while still going on 1st dates with other men. They’re getting dicked down by “Chad”, while some unsuspecting guy is buying them things and trying to court and woo them on 1st dates. Thats why dudes Should always go 50/50 on dates Never wait more than two dates to ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:09 PM
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This is another of example of women overrating each other. Likewise 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:28 PM
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She's not hot by hollywood standards but she is pretty for normal people standards, she looks good on screen. Looking good on screen with makeup, studio lighting, and expensive cameras is different from looking good irl. <image> If this is what’s considered hot for women these days, then the bar is truly underground
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:18 PM
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“Pretty face” is a stretch. Also simply being skinny doesn’t make someone attractive. Phoebe has zero curves on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:15 PM
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This is another of example of women overrating each other. I love the show and the actress, but Phoebe Waller-Bridge is not considered hot by any standard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 01:22 PM
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If the bar is as low as yall like to yap that it is , why wouldn’t you reward the “few” good men they are with praise and compliments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 02:57 PM
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So in other words, the bf material dude has to wait his turn, while the hot guy with no personality or good attributes gets to fuck immediately. This is exactly why men don’t want to be placed in the BF material box You know, the same reasoning men have Except no, men will sleep with both the GF material and the not GF material women within the same time frame. There’s no reason to hold off on sleeping with someone you’re interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:05 PM
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But I won't date a black woman, because she is black. The same way I won't eat certain foods because I know it will make me sick. You’re unironically proving OP’s point by saying this btw If that makes me a biggot, then so be it. At least you’re self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:41 PM
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I agree that it makes way more sense for women to chase men that they’re interested in than the other way around but good luck ever convincing women to do that lol. You can already see how combative and passive aggressive some of them are about doing so in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:25 PM
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Men aren’t given the privilege to break away from their gender roles. A lot of women still want men to earn more and provide for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 08:22 PM
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Her old face vs her new face. Idk what she had done but it’s like a completely different person. Money well spent I guess <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:30 PM
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The Fauxmoi sub was calling him a loser because of his divorce to Gisele, ignoring the fact that Gisele cheated on him with her Jiu-Jitsu trainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:23 PM
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I’ve always thought this too. Look at how women have treated Sydney Sweeney in the last 12 months compared to men. Women have called her every derogatory name in the book, meanwhile men were queuing up to buy her bath water lol. No one hates women more than other women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:14 PM
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These last two threads are hilarious Women in the last thread: Don’t shame us for being promiscuous. It’s wrong and not right to judge someone for the amount of partners that they’ve had. If you do judge us you’re an asshole 😡 Women in this thread: You’re a virgin past 25??? Ewww there must obviously be something wrong with you. 🚩🚩🚩 Stay away from me you loser
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:34 PM
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Yet somehow I never, ever see women on this sub call out other women for shaming men. Funny how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 12:24 PM
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the way many men date forces women to be even more selective. When men swipe right on everyone and are open to dating almost any woman, women have to screen harder You’re aware that most men only swipe like this because they don’t get any matches regardless of what they do right? What benefit is there to be picky if you’re not gonna get a match anyways? Perhaps if women swiped right on more than 4% of men, men would get more matches which in turn would make them more picky, and less likely to sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 04:25 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:46 PM
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Right tell me more how men especially tradesmen and blue collar workers don't look down upon white collar men and call them soft. ….They don’t. But you apparently know more about men than actual men do, so it sounds like you already made up your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:16 PM
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Huh? Men are not making fun of each other for being a teacher? I don’t know where you pulled that from
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 09:31 PM
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lol save your breath dude. They’re gonna say that some incel dude searched the internet for a couple with a height difference, stole their picture and then pretend to be them on the height comparison sub just so he can get a few upvotes. Apparently it’s easier to believe that than to believe a tall guy found a height obsessed women to use as a fleshlight whenever he wants. Because as we all know women definitely, totally don’t fetishize or ignore red flags in guys simply because he’s tall and ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:29 PM
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You never miss an opportunity to blame a man do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 12:26 PM
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That’s only because they reviewed his ring cam footage and determined that she deliberately lied about what happened. If he didn’t have his camera on that day, he’d be charged and arrested for indecent exposure based on nothing more than that women’s word
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:29 PM
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It shouldn’t be a surprise to anyone on this sub, but sometimes you just have to marvel at how proud the women here are to be entitled, gold digging losers with zero empathy for the opposite gender. Like they will make comments like she did and see nothing wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:12 PM
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Absolutely not. Girls girls are some of the most annoying and toxic women on the planet. She immediately went to saying that while she saw how my date was crazy and why I'd end it, "she's a girl's girl" and said she'd still take my date's side. I understand women like to stick together but in a situation where the woman clearly did something wrong and women take her side anyway simply because she’s a woman seems odd Instead of biting your tongue or trying to justify it, you should’ve actually sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:01 PM
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Those are the main ones
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:32 PM
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The bar for them is so low that simply not being fat and having kids immediately puts them in the top 20% and yet they still find a way to complain Could you imagine if that’s all it took for men to be seen as attractive? The loneliness epidemic would end tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:44 PM
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Men judge women on things they can control. Such as weight or number of partners Women judge men on things they can’t control. Such as height
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:39 PM
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The apps are the worst thing to happen to women’s egos. Got 4’s thinking they can land 8’s Why’d she unmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:26 PM
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On one hand I admire her confidence, on the other hand she needs to BFFR and start swiping on dudes that she actually has a chance to date What did her profile say? Looking for casual or long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:18 PM
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When men say that women overestimate each other’s looks, this comment is exactly what they’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:12 PM
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They don't. Most women stick to their own race, group, tribe. Well no. Statistically all ethnicities of women (besides black women) preferred white men and stop whining. Saying Pete benefits from being tall and white isn’t me fucking whining, it’s statistically true. You’re delusional If you think that if Pete were as short and brown as someone like Aziz Ansari he would have anywhere near the same dating history despite them both being mid looking but successful multi millionaire comedians Sound…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:07 PM
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Because for a lot of women it is so idk, ask them why they love white guys so much
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:31 PM
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Him being tall and white and in a country where the women fetishize tall, white dudes helped him more than being funny or having a big dick ever did
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 03:58 PM
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Those dudes are so desperate for female attention. It’s embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 08:07 PM
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Ignore her, she’s absolutely getting DM’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:07 AM
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I love whenever this gets posted because it blows up whatever dating complaint women on this sub might have. Turns out it’s really easy to date as a woman when you put in a bit of effort and stay within your league
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:05 PM
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BW=Black woman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:20 PM
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People(jealous women) really tried to convince others that Sydney is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 01:47 PM
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I don’t doubt the average woman on this sub would pick Loki. I’m doubting that the average woman on tinder swiping for hookups and dates would pass up the hunky blonde Australian with abs you can eat off of for the skinnier, dark haired brit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:57 PM
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Fair play to you then. I don’t think the average tinderella would agree with you but you’re entitled to your own opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:41 PM
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Idc what some random women wrote. I’m asking you directly. If they were both single and the average women had no idea about their backstory or who these people were, in 2025 who is getting more matches on tinder. Chris Hemsworth looking like Thor or Tom Hiddleston looking like Loki?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:20 PM
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And yes it is accurate that women prefer loki over Thor Do you actually expect anyone to believe that if Hemsworth and Hiddleston were both on tinder right now, Hiddleston would get more matches/dates/attention from women than Hemsworth would?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 05:03 PM
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They never do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 06:29 PM
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Keep that same energy for heels, push up bras and makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:35 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 05:08 PM
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But if a guy doesn't pay then there won't be a second date after that. Then you’re part of the problem with modern dating culture but you do you. Also you’re disproving OP’s main point. You’re not forcing these men to pay for dates, but them not doing so negatively impacts your perception of them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:57 PM
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She wasn’t a multi millionaire when she was doing that tho. She was a working, educated woman and per your own words you said “insane to me that people think women get educated and work and then date for the food” I gave you an example of a woman doing just that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 04:16 PM
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and it's like... again insane to me that people think women get educated and work and then date for the food. Here’s the LinkedIn page for Vivian Tu former Wall Street equities trader turned NYT best seller author and multi millionaire Here’s an article about her admitting on camera that she would go on dates 6 days a week just for free dinner and how she saved thousands by doing that If you want to keep pretending working women aren’t using men for free food, go right ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:59 PM
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1/3rd of women freely admit to going on dates just for the free food. If you wanna fund some girls dinner for the evening due to the outdated chivalrous expectations of men, knock yourself out. I and most men will simply date the non entitled women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 03:34 PM
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No one is misinterpreting shit. Saying men are more dangerous than bears is misandry. Trying to justify it makes you a misandrist. If you’re proud to be a misandrist then at least own up to it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:09 PM
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• Initiating at least half of the meetings/dates • Initiating touch. Random hugs, pinching my cheeks, etc • Planning and paying for dates occasionally • Being an active listener and remembering things I said • Buying random gifts. Doesn’t have to be expensive, it could be a little $2 trinket but just something to show me that you care Quite honestly, the bar for women is so low, doing at least one of those things will immediately put you ahead of 90% of women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 12:06 PM
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His best and most iconic performance this century was in The Wolf of Wall Street. I will never forgive the academy for not giving Leo the Oscar for that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 09:03 PM
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Some of the claims that she made on social media after the fact were not in fact true Investigators determined that the man, drunkenly unconscious on his couch, did nothing wrong 🗣️🗣️ Lounder for the people on here who still try to defend her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 10:58 PM
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Women are the prize. Women are worth everything. Yikes. It took a while but the mask finally came off
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:14 PM
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Seeing relationships as transactional and in exchange for sex is called prostitution Yes, I’m aware So you mean to tell me, you expect sex for less than bare minimum effort. Nope. I never said that, stop putting words in my mouth. What I do expect is for us both to put in the same amount of effort. I shouldn’t have to “act with some level of chivalry” while she gets to do nothing simply because I’m a man. It should be an equal effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 04:02 PM
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If his intent is to have sex with her after the date, yes. This could be considered coercion. Cool, then you must also think it’s equally bad when a woman accepts food and gifts from a man she has no desire to sleep with. From my experience, women seldom use men like this. Respectfully, you’re not dating straight women. Almost a 3rd of women freely admit to using men for free food and that was in 2019 so that number has likely increased
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:46 PM
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It's not like you won't get the sex too though. If you're aiming for the sex anyways Yall really are in completely different worlds than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 03:27 PM
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Why? Who are they to tell men they need to be better tho? Most women in the dating pool are awful themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:43 PM
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I’m not a PPB but I thought the whole point appeal was average dudes going to countries where they’re sexually desired for once and where they don’t have to meet 100 requirements before they can get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 06:25 PM
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They don’t want to fuck these men, but they also don’t want these men to go to countries where the women are more likely to fuck them. In other words they want those men to remain lonely and sexless because that way, they still have some sort of power over them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 05:54 PM
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Comments like that aren't rare but it's rare they are top or among the most upvoted. That’s true. I was just surprised to even see that comment at all Comments that say the same thing but reversed with the interests of women in mind are at the top all the time. Facts. That goes for all subs not just the dating ones
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:55 AM
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it just shows you're reliable and willing to put effort. There are ways to show that without spending money on a stranger but I digress same way even modern women show up dolled up to a date Which men never asked them to do one FWB is very different than multiple. also for a lot of women a FWB is a substitute to casual sex, One or many either way they’re getting dicked down by man A while still wanting unsuspecting man B to pay for their meal. They want the benefits of a traditional women while …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:52 AM
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I'm just making fun of you for whining
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:27 AM
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A. I didn’t make the original comment, I was simply quoting what another guy said so idk why you think I’m personally bitching about paying for dates B. Why does the thought of a man not wanting to pay for a date get you so pressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:18 AM
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paying for a date isn't traditional. Yes it is? It goes back to an era when men were the primary earners women could do this but don't, it's unrealistic. That guy was speaking in hyperbole, but most women absolutely could go on a date per day if they wanted to and a lot of them definitely have or had FWB’s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:14 AM
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Either choose not to pay and accept the consequences What consequences? Not going on a date with a woman whose attraction to you is dependent on whether or not you pay for her? You can't act like you're starving (for pussy) and then be picky about what's on the menu. Or you can be as picky as you want and just date women who will go 50/50. Contrary to what the misandrists on this sub want to believe, there are tons of women who will gladly split the check because they don’t feel that having a pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:08 AM
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women that are not traditional anymore by any standards expect men to play traditional gentlemen? Guys hate to feel like simps. Just like women dont like feeling used, right? Paying for a woman that prolly went on 20 other dates the weeks before, have 3 fwbs and 5 more dates lined up. Seriuosly, why should any man pay anything at all for such a woman? That is no traditinal woman. She's very modern. No shame in that, but then dont run around expecting men to be traditional. You want guys to treat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:42 AM
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Women: Most men are ugly losers Also Women: Why aren’t men interested in approaching us?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:08 AM
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For the one millionth time she has bought a date outfit, had her hair/nails done, possibly bought new makeup Men. Are. Not. Asking. Y’all. To. Do. This. Shit. We. Do. Not. Care. Show up in a freaking garbage bag if you want, just as long as you look like your profile picture, men would be okay with that. How can someone thinking logically expect their date to pay the bill, just because they did something that their date never asked them to do in the first place. If I buy a $1000 tuxedo for a dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 07:11 PM
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I mean, that’s pretty much the gist of it. I’m sure it must be a burden for you and other women to constantly receive sexual desire like that and I’m not trying to downplay your experiences, but most men are never desired. Whether that be sexual or otherwise. When you’ve never been desired, receiving sexual desire just for doing literally nothing doesn’t seem that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 09:18 PM
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The female suicide rates might actually catch up with the males rates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:03 PM
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When I wear a suit and slick, my hair back with hair gel... i become practically invisible. You have the option to go back and forth between the two choices tho. Imagine you’re stuck like that all day, everyday. No one acknowledges you, no one goes out of their way to be nice to you, or chat with you or buy you drinks. No one makes small talk with you because you’re presumed as a threat. You make a dating app profile and no one swipes right on you. You are constantly rejected day in and day out.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 07:58 PM
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But Ive noticed men seem to have gotten less manly, more emotionally unstable than we are supposed to be, MORE BROKE, and often need to go 50-50 just to afford a basic lifestyle. Oh, and let's not forget the haggling over paying for a damn coffee date. I can't be the only one turned off by the unmanly/non-masculine behavior. In other words, your definition of masculine is directly tied to how much a man spends on a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 05:47 PM
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<image> She said the quiet part out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:34 PM
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<image> This topic needs to be left in 2025, but Imagine being a woman and seeing the height difference between yourself and the 3 types of bears(as well as the strength, speed, lack of human emotions, as well as willingness to kill difference) and thinking “yep, I’d rather encounter a bear than an average man in the woods” ATP, if a woman chooses the bear, she’s letting everyone else know that she’s a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:23 PM
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Same I’m far more likely to see a hot guy with a mid girl than the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:24 PM
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In the very next image, he clocks her with a hammer <image> Guess she got her wake up call
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:10 PM
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Lol relax it wasn’t that serious. It was a reference to a movie! Are you gonna tell me gonna tell me you’ve never seen Back to the Future before? It’s an all time classic, you’ve gotta check it out!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:02 AM
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Crazy to think that in 1955, if a girl like Lorraine wanted to go to the dance, her only options were the shy, nerdy, quiet George, the town rap!st Biff, and her own son Marty. Nowadays 70 years later in 2025, Lorraine would have an abundance of choice while also complaining that dudes outta her league keep ghosting her after “parking.” Meanwhile, George would be considered an “incel” because he’d rather stay in and watch his favorite science show than date. My how times have changed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:17 PM
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If you asked 100 random bi sexual women which gender is easier to date, 98 of them will tell you men are. Somehow the two contrarians who would tell you otherwise wound up in this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 07:06 PM
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At this point you’re just yapping. If you want to believe the effort is the same between the genders, then you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:56 PM
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Men aren't gonna go thru pain just to get beef and suck a dick. Why do you keep talking about dick? This whole thread is in the context of a heterosexual relationship. Heterosexual Men would absolutely get waxed if it means a better chance at pussy. 87 percent of men aren't in shape. That means 77 percent won't even do the basic exercise for general fitness now. As if women are any better. The majority of men and women are fat so idk why you’re presenting this as a men’s issue You think dudes wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:44 PM
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I'll put it in a way dudes can understand: wax your legs and crotch. Rip out those hairs For the millionth time, men are not asking women to do this shit. WE. DO. NOT. CARE. If a woman wants to do all that, good for her, but she should acknowledge that she’s doing that shit for herself and not because of the man. All that for a free Long Island ic tea. Now: which side do you want to be on again? The one out ten dollars or Open up? If you told men that no longer had to abide by patriarchal dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:24 PM
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So she didn't watch her diet, make sure her hair was done, wasn't shaved, waxed etc. Both men and women are doing this so why are you acting like this is a gendered thing. Like do you think the fat, unkempt, hairy, scraggly beard, itchy crotch guy is going on dates constantly. Like Jicama said, in addition to doing all of that, men also pay, approach, plan, carefully think out every interaction to weigh the chance of success or not, flirt etc. That’s way more effort than most women are putting i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:07 PM
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This is a nonsense comment, every woman I have ever gone on a first date with showed up in jeans and put in exactly the same effort I think the guy you’re arguing with is just residing in movie land where every woman is dressing to the nines on every first date. In reality most women are in jeans and t-shirts for 1st dates
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:02 PM
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No one told her to do this. Exactly this. Men have been saying for decades we don’t care about any of that shit. Just show up on the date looking decent. Literally just wear a t shirt and baseball cap would and that would be fine. If she does any waxes, fancy hairstyles, starving herself, etc it’s because she wants to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:49 PM
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I spent like 15 minutes going through her twitter looking for that tweet. Lots of anti Zohran tweets by her, but couldn’t find that specific one. I did find this this reply to that tweet. So I’m guessing she deleted the post altogether because she was getting hate for it One look at her twitter bio though, indicates that she writes for the post and is a libertarian, so you just know she’s annoying AF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:26 PM
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I agree, those women are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:55 PM
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He did eventually marry a cutie who didn’t care about his ethnicity and they met on freaking hinge of all dating apps. So I guess it worked out for him
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:53 PM
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<image> Zohran Mamdani 🤝 80% of dudes on Reddit Getting called an incel by a woman who has no idea what the word incel actually means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:31 PM
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People magazine really tried to sneak in Blake Shelton and John Legend and thought no one would notice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 02:28 PM
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I know she likely made it up for engagement, but if true, imagine being such a height obsessed loser that you publicly admit you fumbled the future mayor of NYC because you thought he was 5’9 AKA the average height for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:33 AM
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Interesting how men like you don't jump on those men and try to discourage them from posting like you're doing to me. Interesting how you keep trying to act like you’re a victim after saying something stupid and getting called out for it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:03 PM
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I and most people think that if you don’t have any experience on a subject, you shouldn’t make comments pretending like you do. If you’ve never had sex then how can you claim that a nap or a book are better activities to indulge in
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:01 PM
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Then what was even the point of your original comment? As a virgin, you have no experience on this subject whatsoever, so how can you confidently claim that a mid day nap or reading a book with coffee is better than fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:11 PM
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There are so many much better activities to indulge in than just having sex Cool, then stop having it Men put way too much value on sex. You’re speaking from the position of privilege when you say this. It’s the equivalent of Elon telling a homeless person that they put too much value on money.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:33 PM
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Any woman who uses the dating apps properly will get hundreds of respectful quality men showering them with attention, having normal conversations and asking her out on dates Didn’t some guy on here do an experiment where he used the pictures of his average female friend and set up a dating profile. He said he got a lot of matches and none of them were overly gross. He set up a few dates with similarly average men and even showed the text conversations between them. I can’t remember his name and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:03 PM
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Yeah option 2 seems to be getting the best of both worlds(hookups + no expectation to commit)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 05:25 PM
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Tinder insights are the modern version of the OKC 80/20 study.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:31 AM
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I agree. Everyone, but especially dudes on Reddit, need to start raising their standards and stop accepting shit behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:54 PM
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Bets?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:45 PM
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True. She does mention that she’s going on dates and fucking others men, but that it keeps fizzling out because they don’t measure up to him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:39 PM
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Idk why dudes get called incels or insecure whenever they bring up terms like alpha widowed when there are more than enough women on this app who are wiling to confirm it’s a real thing <image> Feel bad for the poor guy who tries to date/hook up with her when all she can think about is getting railed by hottie McGee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:14 PM
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So when women try and debate men about who has it harder in dating, sex, and marriage, ask them who has it harder? The employer or the applicant? Exactly this. And to tie it in with your job market comparison, when women say having a lot of options is tough and overwhelming, ask them would they rather have a lot of job offers, or no job offers ever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:16 PM
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Now that women are half the workforce, we make our own money, and we have access to things like higher education and our own bank account. And yet somehow the expectation is still up to the man to initiate everything and pay for all the dates, but that’s a discussion for a different thread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:04 PM
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The scary thing is, these women are so far up their own ass they don’t realize how big of an insult this is to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 07:33 PM
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Men get called un photogenic for not wearing 10 pounds of makeup like women do. As we can see from these photos, a lot of women would look awful if makeup didn’t exist for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 11:26 PM
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Not even saying all these dudes are chads or whatever, but I’m once again begging men to have some standards and stop slumming it with women far below their league. That one guy at the beach in the top left corner is hotter than every single women I’ve seen from the app
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:45 PM
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Just going off these pics, it seems we really are in the middle of a chopped women epidemic. Genuinely tho, where do these girlies get the confidence to think they’re too good for most of the men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:40 PM
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Someone should tell girly pop that men don’t owe her shit. It’s not our job to inflate women’s(already huge) egos by approaching them. If she’s so damn interested in making a connection with someone, she should start approaching men herself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:30 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:16 PM
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No one’s falling for your oblivious bit btw. The only time women ever use princess to describe men is when they want to make fun of him, because like someone else said, you could’ve just called them prince
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:14 PM
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There are two bars. The first bar is for looks and it’s so astronomically high and unrealistic that most men won’t ever reach it. Only a few men can clear that bar and once they do, then there’s a second much easier bar which is pretty much just clean up after yourself and don’t be a jackass Whenever you hear, women yap about the bar being low, they’re referring to men who have already cleared the high, unrealistic first bar, but haven’t cleared the much easier second bar because those men don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:01 PM
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Yes and so does society. Unfortunately people tend to turn the other cheek when it’s a women creeping on younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:40 PM
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Wasn't just referring to her current boyfriend(who’s 40 years younger than her) She dated both Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer when they were 23 and she was in her late 30's. She dated Rob Camilletti when he was 22 and she was 40. She was in a relationship with Josh Donen and Richie Sambora when she was 9+ years older than both of them. She also tried to justify her love of young dick my saying men her own age were too scared to approach her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:49 PM
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Forget Madonna, Cher is arguably worse than Leo when it comes to dating people younger and no one calls her out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:13 PM
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