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1

so without women men have no ambition, drive or motivation to achieve anything in life? BS lol completely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:03 PM
3

Stuck with garbage eh? i wouldn't want to be with anyone who regarded me as garbage and idc about a man being inexperienced. i do care if he thinks i'm garbage and it's bye-bye lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:52 PM
1

Not all of them are, if someone's really into you they're not gonna get un-into you if you're inexperienced
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:50 PM
2

No. unless you really want to fit into those communities in which case looking the part helps but it's not just a look it's a lifestyle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:41 PM
1

Absolutely and I'm sorry to hear that. Not your body's fault it conceived or that the pregnancy was lost. Grieve all you need to (or not)
/r/MensRights15/02/22 09:06 AM
1

Anyone you can complain to? You could put it out there and ask for some support to challenge this? Assuming your content wasn't misogynistic ofc
/r/MensRights16/01/22 07:31 PM
1

He got fired because of his own choices. She wasn't an adult in a position of trust over him, he was over her. I'm certain he knew fine well what the consequences could be when he took her to bed
/r/MensRights16/01/22 07:27 PM
6

I love how this is the woman's problem! He's used you to cover his tracks. He's involved in some kind of illegal activity, what? Paedophilia? What a great guy! All you can see is how it's the woman's fault! I mean in fairness she is checking up on him and is allegedly blackmailing him. But he's a creep, disloyal to her and you. Why the hell do you want to keep his friendship? Where's your self-respect?
/r/MensRights15/01/22 08:53 PM
1

Cue the outrage when women in positions of trust abuse boys He IS being held responsible for his choices, rightly so
/r/MensRights14/01/22 06:32 PM
-13

She got a bit more than just a restraining order. They met at an induction day at college so he was in a position of trust. Read the article because it's being misrepresented here
/r/MensRights14/01/22 12:15 PM
0

Being murdered is kinda abuse yeah? I know it isn't proven that he killed her but it's highly plausible
/r/MensRights14/01/22 12:00 PM
-7

I think they were both as bad as each other tbf. Not that they both deserve to be dead, absolute tragic waste of life
/r/MensRights13/01/22 10:57 PM
0

Blah blah none of that demonstrates women have the right to rape men enshrined in law I'll say it again - all you are doing is picking a fight with someone who agrees with you. God knows how you'd get on with an actual rabid feminist
/r/MensRights12/01/22 09:55 PM
1

Of you read my comments properly you'll see exactly what I'm saying. Don't deny women need protection from violent men. I'm not denying men need protection too. Pretending women have the right to rape men enshrined in law is absurd
/r/MensRights12/01/22 09:27 PM
1

What's your point, other than picking at someone who is broadly on your side?
/r/MensRights12/01/22 09:10 PM
1

It's not illegal by omission. Not that women have this right written into law Still wrong and should be reformed. Do you think there is no violence committed by men?
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:59 PM
2

Humans are more than animals ready to mate. Vast, vast majority of men will need more of an invitation to mate than simply seeing a woman wearing certain clothes. You insult them all by making these arguments. Vast majority of men aren't the animals as you seem to imply they are
/r/MensRights12/01/22 03:13 PM
2

Crying isn't weakness, it's quite appropriate when sad things happen
/r/MensRights12/01/22 09:35 AM
5

You could try to build up to it? Ask for a hug saying it's because you feel a bit down and just want a hug. Might make it easier gradually being more vulnerable with her
/r/MensRights12/01/22 09:34 AM
4

Oooh that's an interesting angle! Way to go derailing the spirit of the thread. Yeah what if 🤣
/r/MensRights12/01/22 09:27 AM
1

These laws do answer a need. Like that or not, they are. And women have campaigned hard for a long time to get them. I completely agree violence and abuse goes both ways and men need and deserve the protection of the law as well. So make some noise and make it happen. Be pro-men, not anti-women, that's how to be taken seriously. I believe it will happen but men, you need to speak out, organise and support each other. Women are very good at that, learn from how they did it!
/r/MensRights12/01/22 08:06 AM
5

Get your parents to complain about the mental health session being withdrawn. Seriously it's so important for young men, go at it from that point of view
/r/MensRights12/01/22 07:59 AM
5

Something interesting from the trans debate - a detransitioner reverting to her original female gender commented that coming off testosterone made her able to cry again. This doesn't prove or disprove anything but is an interesting observation. A crying person isn't supposed to be a turn-on as many others have said below! I wouldn't want any man I care about to be involved with a woman like that
/r/MensRights12/01/22 07:57 AM
1

Virtually never happens in the UK! Shouldn't happen apart from medical reasons, adults can do what they like with own bodies but don't inflict it on babies
/r/MensRights11/01/22 11:31 PM
2

Yes. There's been other women murdered since with no outpouring of grief. Many young people losing their lives in London and no demonstrations, no anger, no grief. It is outrageous the way she was abducted by a serving police officer but the protests were before all that emerged as well as after
/r/MensRights11/01/22 04:16 PM
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Report her to her club/trainer if she has one? I know people doing karate have to declare they won't use it outside class except in self defence and even then proportionately. If you have actual proof of all this or witnessed it you should report to the police. It's assault pure and simple
/r/MensRights11/01/22 04:12 PM
2

Lack of shelters for male victims of domestic abuse. Lack of support for male victims of sexual abuse in childhood - huge issue that causes so many ills in society
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:17 PM
1

What a depressing world that would be
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:12 PM
3

There's tons of material without being contentious!
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:09 PM
1

Oh yeah I don't hold with anti-men stuff at all. Most of these issues can be applied to everyone such as like I say, living free from abuse.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:05 PM
2

Thanks for thoughtful reply. I'm with equity and do regard myself as pro-women and pro-men. I don't see a contradiction. Re equity, people aren't the same eg disabilities so treating 'everyone the same' leads to unfairness. I agree feminism is really hard to define and in essence the idea that women shouldn't be disadvantaged just because they're women, well what's the issue with that? A lot of it isn't gendered, eg everyone should be able to live free from violence and so on. It's how these ide…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 08:10 PM
4

You could ask her not to touch you? Say that it just makes you uncomfortable, that's all. Don't talk about not being interested
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:28 PM
2

Keep a diary. Times, dates, witnesses and crucially how it made you feel. Obviously report it all as it happens but if you don't at first, at least having a record of it all will stand you in good stead if/when you do report it.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:24 PM
3

What sort of things clash in your egalitarianism?
/r/MensRights10/01/22 06:12 PM
2

I haven't made it all about women. Saying basically you can always have another one would be a horrible thing to say and a strange response to the subject, which is men's grief over a lost pregnancy that they wanted
/r/MensRights07/01/22 03:58 PM
0

So there's no real consequences for men in these situations?
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:13 AM
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Men shouldn't have rights? Sure about that? Human rights apply equally to everyone, you either believe this or you don't
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:11 AM
1

So you want women punished for saying things like this about men but it's free speech when a man does it? It's abhorrent. Racial hate speech like this would get a jail sentence. Why the outrage because it's gender hate speech? Your quotation marks aren't needed, this is clearly hate speech
/r/MensRights07/01/22 12:07 AM
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... completely missing the point. This would be a highly insensitive thing to say to a woman who has lost a wanted pregnancy to miscarriage, please don't ever say this. Or to a man whose partner has miscarried a child he wanted, they both wanted.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 11:55 PM
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up to 20% of a conservative estimate of 320,000 suspected UK paedophiles were women. This is copied from your link! 20 percent are women. That must mean 80 percent are men This is an estimate of the number in the population. NOT number in jail.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 11:38 PM
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Your source, the Guardian, does NOT say 65,000 women are in jail for paedophilia. It says as an estimate 20 percent of paedophiles are women. I wonder what sex the remaining 80 percent are?
/r/MensRights06/01/22 05:24 PM
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That's why men should be allowed to grieve a lost pregnancy that they wanted, without judgement
/r/MensRights06/01/22 05:19 PM
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There aren't that many women in jail in the UK in total let alone for sex crimes! Your sources aren't helpful to you in understanding reality
/r/MensRights06/01/22 05:09 PM
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How do you know which women are nice? Define nice. Which women are threatening? You can't tell anything about anyone m or f at first glance Would I stand up for a falsely accused person that I knew to be falsely accused? Yes What would happen to me as a woman in that situation? Nothing How had feminism positively impacted my life? Many ways too numerous to mention but especially equality of education. No really negative impacts even though I disagree with some things How would I advise young boy…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 05:05 PM
1

And literally just decried the lack of men's shelters!
/r/MensRights06/01/22 04:57 PM
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Wearing a bra is a choice made by adults. Yes teenagers are assumed to want to wear them etc but this isn't something inflicted on babies, do you see the difference?! Wearing a bra doesn't reduce sexual function or produce any of the possible catastrophic consequences of circumcision such as death. They really are not the same at all.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 04:07 PM
1

How is supporting provision for men too in any way shape or form equivalent to supporting white-only shelters? You guys raise good points but then come out with such utter bollox like this, no wonder you're not taken seriously. And that's a damn shame. You don't do your cause any favours at all with this stupidity. No apology for calling your response what it is, utter bollox
/r/MensRights05/01/22 04:02 PM
1

That's literally what you said though! You'd be happy not to have him at all and mother's quite happy to ditch him with you to get on with her own life :-(
/r/MensRights05/01/22 03:59 PM
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With all due respect this may well be the case but I have never heard of anything resembling this before. So I have to ask you for a link? Because ngl at first reading this sounds crazy
/r/MensRights03/01/22 10:16 PM
1

Poor baby with parents like that
/r/MensRights03/01/22 10:14 PM
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Why does that model create societal problems? The problem is shelters being needed in the first place surely
/r/MensRights03/01/22 07:23 PM
1

And you could really just walk away from him and have another to replace him?
/r/MensRights03/01/22 07:22 PM
1

Do you think it does talk about men's issues? Cos if you do why disagree? If you think it doesn't, well that's a conversation worth having. And if you can do that and make the other person think, that's a skill that is
/r/MensRights03/01/22 07:21 PM
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Don't argue then, what does it achieve? Feminism isn't supposed to be hating men anyway. Talk about what men's issues are
/r/MensRights03/01/22 04:21 PM
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Parents have a duty of care! To make decisions to prevent harm to their babies ... Not to do whatever they like to them in the name of tradition
/r/MensRights03/01/22 03:23 PM
1

With respect this is nothing like wearing bras or not
/r/MensRights03/01/22 03:20 PM
5

Keep talking, your voice is so needed in this world. It's a barbaric practice that, outside of genuine medical necessity, shouldn't happen. I hope you find peace somehow one day
/r/MensRights03/01/22 03:18 PM
1

How do we complain about this?
/r/MensRights03/01/22 03:10 PM
2

Trying to cancel protests about sexual violence? You're fine with women doing that at a men's protest? Fwiw I agree violence and sexual violence against men is a huge problem. Do you think it happens in South Korea? I suspect it's even more of a taboo than it is in the West.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 03:08 PM
1

Do you have any children?
/r/MensRights03/01/22 03:03 PM
1

Point out to them that men's issues are different? That you can be pro-women and pro-men, you can want a decent society for everyone
/r/MensRights03/01/22 02:53 PM
0

Don't be absurd. I agree the provision for abused men is non-existent and this is very wrong. But don't deny this lifesaving service to women in need. Just look at the stats: women are at most risk of violence from the men they live with.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 02:51 PM
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Yes it is. Often women who have been assaulted DO acknowledge that it's an emotional response to be afraid of all men and they know logically that it's not all men. But yes you do see undiscriminating fear, distrust or hate going unchecked or encouraged. The argument is that yes we know it isn't all men but it's impossible to tell who is a danger and who isn't until it's too late basically. Maybe your anger could be directed at the minority of men who do abuse women; they're spoiling it for ever…
/r/MensRights03/01/22 02:46 PM
0

Explain how being bitter and angry is a good outcome for any young person?
/r/MensRights30/12/21 05:07 PM
2

It isn't all men. It isn't all feminists either
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:59 PM
1

Call it out for what it is. Always reverse genders and see if it's just as funny (my personal favourite)
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:50 PM
-1

Another poster said that if daughter ends up bitter that's still a win for dad. I'm arguing against that! I can't believe anyone would think a bitter child is a. acceptable or b. good news for dad
/r/MensRights29/12/21 03:52 PM
-6

That is absolutely not what I said lol learn to read
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:43 PM
1

I'll admit working with younger children, seeing the fallout landing on them time after time does change your perspective. I agreed in an earlier comment that 50/50 is his right and of it works for them I don't see an issue with it. But this to me is separate issue. He could have 50/50 no matter what if that makes sense? Whether daughter has good relationship with mum or not, the arrangement could be 50/50. Nothing to do with moral high ground. I agree she sounds dodgy and not really coping. But…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:41 PM
-2

How on earth did you get that from what I said?
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:20 PM
1

Just replied to another comment asking that
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:02 PM
0

Unpalatable as it is, show a little empathy towards ex-wife. All he is achieving now is stoking the fire of her fury. This will land on his daughter, have no doubt about that. Comment about offering to help rebuild the mother-daughter relationship is the best idea in this thread. But I get this is a big ask, but absolutely in the child's best interests If he wants 50/50 custody that's his right and if it's right for them no reason why he shouldn't have it. In the UK at least that's the presumpti…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:01 PM
-1

He's loving it, a little too much as far as I can see! I do understand that feeling, but even money came before concern for what his child is going through.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 12:50 PM
-2

How can you not see that his daughter is being emotionally abused by her mother? That's the problem here That isn't a loss in his book????? How can you say that? Children often resent the parent who failed to protect them from abuse. Especially when that parent knows what's going on
/r/MensRights29/12/21 12:48 PM
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And what I'm trying to tell you is that he can do better by putting his child at the centre of this. She is suffering. Her life won't be better if dad is motivated by punishing mum. His daughter's life will be better by at least one parent putting her centre stage. Mum can't do this but dad can. Does he want to? Or is winning more important? I understand wanting to rub his ex's face in it! But I'm seeing the child here and wondering what her life is like and how she can be supported. And unpalat…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 12:45 PM
-19

I absolutely agree mother sounds awful, see my other comments. But the idea that a bitter, angry child is a desirable outcome is just crazy. Would he genuinely choose that for his daughter? I agree fathers are often in difficult situations and do suffer when deprived of their children etc etc. Not as much as the children suffer, that's who is at the heart of this. I don't agree he's acting with grace and skill. He puts money right up there first so I suspect they're both motivated by money to so…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:57 AM
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So a bitter, angry child is a desirable outcome. Sod the child's mental health, implications for her teenage years, sod the effect on her relationship with her dad who hasn't helped her! But hey he's won! At what cost though? Put the child first.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:44 AM
0

Well said, this is what his daughter will carry with her forever if he even tries to do this, that he truly put her first
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:40 AM
-2

Because his child is bearing the brunt of it, that's why he should care. Assuming he actually cares about his child ofc, given he mentioned maintenance before his daughter's wellbeing No he doesn't have to listen to her rant but that isn't the only way of dealing with things
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:38 AM
3

Link?
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:34 AM
6

This is a desirable outcome?
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:32 AM
-6

Ngl she doesn't sound great. I could understand wanting to rebuild the relationship if it's broken and provided that is genuine and she is genuinely trying, I'd support that. As I often say on here it's the child's right to a relationship with both their parents wherever possible. Not the parents' rights. OP here mentioned money in his opener so tbh I do question his motivation too. He seems to be more concerned about what a great dad he is rather than the reality of how his child is living. Cla…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 11:30 AM
1

It isn't small for the men who can't find a relationship (ever), just listen to them and believe. It doesn't make other issues less
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:00 AM
17

Rebuild the relationship with who? This doesn't sound great to me, guessing that mother wants to rebuild the relationship with daughter? I suspect this might be more about the fact things aren't great at home for your daughter (abuse of some kind?). Try to see what's really going on if so? It isn't about you. You're only doing what you're supposed to do as a parent. How are you supporting your daughter through this very difficult time? Seeing as she just prefers you won't help her navigate a dif…
/r/MensRights29/12/21 12:53 AM
1

Best of luck
/r/MensRights24/12/21 09:06 AM
1

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-merseyside-59754035 Two counts of rape
/r/MensRights23/12/21 09:40 PM
1

To keep her children in the life they're accustomed to. And for protection from him, who has already done some shady stuff to two other wives, details of which escapes me. But yes it does seem insane taken at face value. If ex-husband isn't paying for protection should the taxpayer? To protect her from him lol no thanks. Let him pay
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:43 PM
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Most fathers don't take their paternity leave anyway so kinda moot point?
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:35 PM
2

If he doesn't feel comfortable he shouldn't be made to be in that situation without a chaperone. Patients, well female ones anyway, are always offered a chaperone
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:34 PM
0

Point out to court officials what she's done reminding them how vulnerable children can be when an unrelated male comes into their lives, and you don't feel your ex is able to keep them safe. Don't over question your kids or pump them for information, you could just ask how it went as if it's a quite normal thing to happen
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:32 PM
3

Not just ordinary depression, this would have to be severe post natal depression. Many, many mothers get PND, very few actually harm their babies or themselves
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:24 PM
-2

Why?
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:13 PM
3

Woman convicted of rape on the UK yesterday
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:11 PM
1

A small point: recovery from childbirth is no walk on the park a lot of the time! While you do make some valuable points I don't think this comparison of m/f mat/pat leave is a reasonable or fair one. Women won the right to not be forced back to work too soon after childbirth
/r/MensRights23/12/21 05:10 PM
3

Speak up for men in your daily life. It does make people think
/r/MensRights17/12/21 11:12 PM
1

Nice body- and sex-shaming you got going on!
/r/MensRights05/12/21 03:36 PM
3

The man also consents to the possibility of a pregnancy too, when consenting to sex
/r/MensRights05/12/21 03:29 PM
1

I agree this is very traumatic and the actual loss of a child for some fathers in the way that some mothers experience severe grief over a miscarriage. Sadly where there is disagreement about what to do about a pregnancy between the parents, the mother's word must be final. Otherwise you have forced pregnancy and forced abortion and when it's your own body really this isn't right. I have every sympathy and compassion for men who lose unborn children like this. It does happen and they should be a…
/r/MensRights05/12/21 03:27 PM
1

How is that not what I said? I called any and all forms of mutilation human rights abuses ... if you read that far.
/r/MensRights26/11/21 03:57 PM
1

This
/r/MensRights25/11/21 09:46 PM
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In some ways it is worse. Performed by amateurs out in the open for instance. Doesn't make either acceptable, both are human rights abuses and we should be able to say so
/r/MensRights25/11/21 09:45 PM
1

Be strong! Stand your ground and revel in shocking them lol F in the UK here, we just don't do it. Your baby needs you. I'd go so far as never leaving any son of mine alone with anyone who makes too strong a stand that he should be mutilated ...
/r/MensRights25/11/21 09:43 PM
3

Too much bashing men, not enough listening or even believing men have problems. I'm still pro-equality ofc. I'm pro-women and pro-men. You don't have to choose one or the other. Both have issues, both suffer albeit in different ways
/r/MensRights01/11/21 05:01 PM
3

Keep pointing it out!
/r/MensRights01/11/21 04:57 PM
1

I think both sectors are actively looking to recruit more men. Look into it and base your decisions on facts not feelings and especially not fears! Schools etc have procedures to safeguard children yes but also to safeguard staff, ie children are changed with doors open in view of others
/r/MensRights01/11/21 04:56 PM
1

That's not so long and she's still quite young for the alienation to have taken hold. I hope it hasn't for her sake. Having a close bond for so much of her life is also a protective factor.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 11:14 PM
1

Know what, I don't know why women want to be complimented. We don't compliment men And in the OP it is the only thing they mentioned. Both stereotypes
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:52 PM
3

It's limiting and stereotyping both genders. You could praise someone for being kind or being a good friend. More valuable than prettiness and strength
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:51 PM
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Do you want to be valued only because you look pretty? Isn't there anything else worth complimenting? Same for being strong. Isn't there anything else?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 03:39 PM
3

Could you imagine being forced by a bigger, stronger man?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 03:34 PM
1

I actually think a kick in the balls is disproportionate in this case. Kicking the legs first would be appropriate, but if these two little shits won't leave her alone and adults won't help, then really I would have a hard time disagreeing, as a last resort. Girls shouldn't be encouraged to kick boys' balls unless it's a last resort. Boys shouldn't be assaulting them in the first place and if they don't desist, really, they can't complain if ultimately they take a painful kick. But as a first re…
/r/MensRights14/10/21 03:30 PM
1

Meaning beat the hell out of the boys in this case?! Who should beat them? Apologies if I have misunderstood
/r/MensRights14/10/21 03:07 PM
1

What about the initial sexual assault? Is that ok or not?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 02:40 PM
1

Would you be ok with it if a boy kicked a girl who smacked his butt and wouldn't leave him alone?
/r/MensRights14/10/21 10:53 AM
1

The absurdity of comparing Nazi Germany with modern male lives
/r/MensRights13/10/21 10:14 PM
-1

Well being smacked on the butt is assault isn't it! That's what the boys did to this girl first
/r/MensRights13/10/21 10:11 PM
1

I'm sorry that happened to you. You're absolutely right, rape is a people issue not a female one. You could respond that either people believe in human rights for everyone or they don't. It really is that simple. Denying male victims of rape is denying them their human rights ... ask them if they really believe in human rights for everyone, or not. If not they should own it
/r/MensRights13/10/21 10:08 PM
2

No! It's the chemistry that's more important. I find good looking men to be a bit selfish and make you feel instantly replaceable. Normal men or the unconventional looking ones are much more fun than the poodles (no offence intended). It's often nice face, shame about the personality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 06:31 PM
1

Very likely. Imo and experience
/r/MensRights11/10/21 05:23 PM
1

Which is categorically not what happened to me.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 05:21 PM
3

Only solution is not to have sex then. Simples
/r/MensRights11/10/21 05:21 PM
3

Would you say that to a man? Oh just another man with a rape fetish. Next
/r/MensRights11/10/21 02:47 PM
1

I wasn't complaining. Just saying OP may well not know everything that's happened to his family
/r/MensRights11/10/21 02:45 PM
0

With respect many people who know abusive paedophiles are stunned to learn the truth
/r/MensRights11/10/21 02:43 PM
-2

Or just ... You Know ... Don't rape. Quite easy really
/r/MensRights11/10/21 02:40 PM
2

I wasn't complaining. Just saying that just because OP has never been told things by his family doesn't mean they didn't happen
/r/MensRights11/10/21 02:39 PM
0

He sounds dangerous, if you can gather your strength I think he needs reporting to protect others
/r/MensRights11/10/21 11:10 AM
2

I've never told my family.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 11:09 AM
1

My decision lol drunk or not was a big fat NO
/r/MensRights11/10/21 11:09 AM
1

Oh the technically is how I think of it. Yes it was upsetting but not the trauma of a full-on stranger rape. Took me many years to be able to see it for what it was
/r/MensRights11/10/21 11:08 AM
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Being drunk and falling asleep isn't a crime. Drink-driving is! Undressing a sleeping person and attempting to penetrate them, that's the wrongdoing here. I'm sure you'd feel the same if some man did this to you, not that I'd wish it on you
/r/MensRights11/10/21 10:58 AM
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Yeah a little more than women. About a sandwich's worth - not a significant amount more, no.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 10:41 PM
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Yeah I agree. Hence the use of technically. Forcing oneself on a sleeping drunk woman who would've said no if asked, well there's a word for that. Nice n safe, not walking the streets. One was so-called friend in workers accomodation, the other was my best friend's husband. I've never told my family
/r/MensRights10/10/21 10:39 PM
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Do you think they all tell you everything? Technically I've been raped. Twice. I don't go telling all and sundry about it
/r/MensRights10/10/21 09:58 PM
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Rape isn't always violent
/r/MensRights10/10/21 09:43 PM
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One slice of bread is around 100 calories. It's not a big difference
/r/MensRights10/10/21 08:57 PM
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Probably because of the difficulty of a woman forcing a man in the way that women are overpowered by a larger, stronger man. Overlooking the issue of men raped by men. Overlooking the children abused by women. Not being able to imagine a man not liking it due to brainwashing about male sexuality
/r/MensRights10/10/21 08:53 PM
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You are making an excellent and extremely important case. But it's too much info, to me this is the click here for more information. Can you reduce it to one punchy image? You're aiming for incredulity, then they get this. This isn't really a hook! Imo. Don't overlook women from black, ethnic, indigenous backgrounds. The publicity for Gabby Petito v missing indigenous women is good place to start if new to these ideas
/r/MensRights10/10/21 08:49 PM
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I wouldn't quite call it misogyny, which is hatred of women. But yes, societal expectations and portrayals of women in the media can be stereotyped beyond belief. It is a concern. What is also a concern is the societal expectations and portrayals of men in the media which can be stereotyped beyond belief. You're not wrong to see it with women, like I'm not wrong to see it with men. Switch off from it all for a while, if it feels like it's driving you insane. We all need down time once in a while
/r/MensRights10/10/21 08:40 PM
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It only ',suggests' that some people think he views harassment as wolf whistling. Not a Boris fan necessarily but I am a fan of truthful reporting.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 08:31 PM
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Good ... Well done that girl
/r/MensRights10/10/21 08:27 PM
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No we didn't cause either and are revolted by both
/r/MensRights09/10/21 02:57 PM
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Interesting case, complicated. For once I feel the same if genders were reversed although I have a feeling the report would have focused on the support given by wife to enable husband to paint! Always reverse genders to check if your response is the same
/r/MensRights09/10/21 08:47 AM
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Dumb/battered/stupid man jokes on social media, I say 'just as funny as a battered/dumb/stupid woman!' not many people comment after that. Small dose of sarcasm does it Apparently it's payback for centuries of oppression! My answer is I didn't think feminism was about punishing men? if a woman claims such nonsense
/r/MensRights09/10/21 08:32 AM
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That 'one in a million' person has still been offended against; that could be your brother/friend/son. Would you want him to have rights or not? 'one in a million' in inverted commas because I know it's a lot more. But that's how I'd answer. Either you believe in human rights for all or you don't, that's the essence of it
/r/MensRights08/10/21 07:34 PM
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Discussions about consent are important and yes should take place in schools. Getting consent AND giving consent, boys and girls. Thinking that lessons in consent would have prevented these murders is almost laughable.
/r/MensRights08/10/21 07:24 PM
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Women would also receive these benefits! I don't know where this idea that men can't work as a team comes from. Look at a wall, any wall. Each brick precision laid by hand by a man working as a team with other men. The world's full of these walls
/r/MensRights08/10/21 07:08 PM
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Disturbing to watch. What was appalling was that as time went on, they realised how important it was to support the victims and that the police officers were accompanied by crisis counsellors. And how much they learnt about the amount of support needed as time went on. So those poor men who they visited first weren't offered immediate support. Wasn't clear if they were offered ANY support in the immediate aftermath of being told what had happened to them. That's a disgrace
/r/MensRights08/10/21 07:02 PM
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Attacking women/feminists just makes it easy to dismiss legit grievances as men feeling threatened by strong women. Which is a damn shame because there are many genuine issues that affect men. Different to those affecting women. Sticking to the point about the issue would achieve a lot more. Feminism was initially dismissed as man-hating craziness!
/r/MensRights08/10/21 06:36 PM
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This is how women feel, bloody angry at the very few who ruin it for the many.
/r/MensRights29/09/21 03:49 PM
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Probably welcomed, in the UK at least. Don't be put off, go for it.
/r/MensRights27/09/21 09:00 PM
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Oh sorry it was free to me. Thought that much was obvious? It is a theme throughout the book. Why are you having such a hard time to even consider this let alone accept there's any truth in it?
/r/MensRights25/09/21 08:50 PM
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https://www.ft.com/content/ee728528-c538-11e7-b2bb-322b2cb39656 'women had been the silent sex' 'getting through the fear not of admitting them to me, but admitting them to themselves' etc
/r/MensRights25/09/21 07:43 PM
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Read the book lol
/r/MensRights25/09/21 07:03 PM
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You need to read the whole book lol
/r/MensRights25/09/21 06:33 PM
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Read one of the books I've read, My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday. She demonstrated that it was widespread. This is far more useful than like I say, retrofitting by MRAs. It doesn't help their cause by making out women's lives were a bed of roses in the past - they weren't. Men's lives weren't either. Incidentally I believe neutering women like this neuters men too and it would be the case vice-versa too.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 03:50 PM
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I'd suggest reading up on stuff from that era. I'm not old enough to remember it lol but I've read enough and heard/overhead enough anecdotal evidence. I do have time for men's issues but that doesn't mean that there were no injustices or just nonsense towards women historically or within living memory (just). Don't form your opinions on women's historic rights from retrospective MRA stuff. Leave them to explore injustices and nonsense towards men, these are important too. Learn about the situat…
/r/MensRights25/09/21 03:30 PM
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They felt pleasure but because it wasn't talked about they felt like freaks, dirty, perverted. Abnormal because women weren't supposed to feel those things. Was it Freud who actually thought women could only feel desire in the context of a loving, stable relationship? Whoever it was, at least they credited women with feeling desire!
/r/MensRights25/09/21 08:44 AM
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Oh absolutely I agree. OP was asking about women though
/r/MensRights24/09/21 05:47 PM
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Oh yes once there was nothing like the knowledge and openness about sex that there is now. An elderly colleague related a tale from her youth of a friend who was afraid she was pregnant. Friend hadn't had sex, only kissed her man and hugged, but no word of a lie 'she felt something run up her leg' !! Girls weren't told about periods, many believed they were dying. They weren't told about childbirth either, they had no clue about their own bodies. Hard to believe. I don't blame men for this. Just…
/r/MensRights24/09/21 05:19 PM
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Should be stickied. So very important
/r/MensRights19/09/21 07:16 PM
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There's a case for feminism. There's also a huge case for some kind of men's liberation too. These two shouldn't conflict as issues are different. Don't let a handful of crass women turn you away from supporting women, the same as few dh's shouldn't turn you away from supporting men
/r/MensRights19/09/21 07:15 PM
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I'd like to see this understanding extended to men too. I'm certain it's true
/r/MensRights19/09/21 07:09 PM
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Imagine not reading my comment properly ... you still don't see it. Look for where I say both genders. And in fairness I was answering the OP talking about men in bed Edit to say men enjoy it more with a little more practice . that isn't all about women either
/r/MensRights18/09/21 08:14 PM
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my point exactly, it's not lack of respect or care, it's lack of experience
/r/MensRights18/09/21 04:48 PM
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Imagine not noticing that I included both genders and a website dedicated to male pleasure...
/r/MensRights18/09/21 04:47 PM
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Help your dad with the building - it strikes me is that you maybe want that relationship with him?
/r/MensRights18/09/21 07:24 AM
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Raising a child as a single parent will not be easy with all that going on untreated. Look after your own health especially before taking on an adopted child. Through no fault of their own they are often very damaged and no walk in the park. But if you're serious later in life start your research years in advance. 20is too young to give up on finding someone in any case
/r/MensRights18/09/21 07:19 AM
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I hear what you're saying but you'd be surprised how many men aren't very good at sex. And how quickly they learn and how much more enjoyable they find it. And how much better their orgasms are! Re-phrasing all the above into 'learn about sex' for both genders would improve the situation no end! Lack of skill comes across as those things but isn't necessarily a lack of respect. Orgasmicguy.com is great, there's loads dedicated to exploring women's bodies. If it was lack of interest and respect m…
/r/MensRights18/09/21 07:09 AM
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Presumably you'd get to know her before marrying her. Just have discussions. You don't have to be anti-feminist to be open to men's issues. Learn to discuss them and be purely empathetic to men and don't even mention women. You might even open a few minds doing that. Don't run women down, you can say men's concerns are different which is basically true.
/r/MensRights17/09/21 02:54 PM
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You disagree with me; that's not the same as not understanding. You do have the right not to be a father, it's called contraception. Can I ask if you're in a relationship?
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:16 PM
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Most women don't hate men. Most feminists say they don't either
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:11 PM
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What part don't you understand?
/r/MensRights16/09/21 09:01 PM
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Any idea the emotional toll of relinquishing a child takes? You speak of it as if it's nothing. Yes it happens but don't trivialise it. I'm saying things are not as clearcut as this sub makes it out to be. The first sign of pregnancy is not coming on your period as expected. It's not unheard of for a woman to have periods throughout pregnancy but it is rare.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 08:39 PM
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That things are not as one-sided or clearcut as often portrayed on this sub
/r/MensRights16/09/21 08:35 PM
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I don't think society is. I think both genders have different but legit grievances and it's possible to be supportive of both genders without having to take sides. Because the issues are different
/r/MensRights16/09/21 06:51 PM
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Yeah even vasectomies can fail. Put yourself in the position of a woman who has tried her utmost not to get pregnant but it happens. Suddenly being faced with the reality of carrying a child that she then has to get rid of. Some women can do this easily, others can't. And yes, almost as. I think there's a couple of percentage points in it. You also don't know how you would react. Look at the mental health post on here from an 18yo man, gf unexpectedly pregnant. How much he misses his daughter an…
/r/MensRights16/09/21 06:46 PM
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I hear you. There are fathers' organisations all over, maybe you can find some support or just to connect with others who understand?
/r/MensRights16/09/21 06:27 PM
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They already have
/r/MensRights16/09/21 06:19 PM
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Yes it can. Read the labels, ask the question every time, does this interfere with the pill? Stomach upsets can affect it too. Obviously missing pills is a massive no but you do have the choice of condoms, always. They're almost as reliable as the pill
/r/MensRights16/09/21 03:34 PM
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If you don't want to be a father use condoms and get the morning after pill if one breaks. Seriously. Those two things together are very reliable. Have the difficult conversations, ask her what she'd do if she got pregnant and be very clear about your wishes. If the two don't stack up on your head be it if you stay in that relationship.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 03:31 PM
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You mean genuine accidents that result in pregnancy? Or slapdash not taking it seriously cutting corners then a pregnancy follows? Most contraceptive methods are very reliable and for broken condoms there's the morning after pill
/r/MensRights16/09/21 03:23 PM
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Just the one person? Or both of them?
/r/MensRights15/09/21 10:40 PM
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You don't have no rights. You can obtain and use contraception (condoms), you're not completely helpless. someone posted that in half of all terminations, they were using contraception. So half of them didn't use anything. Which half are you in?
/r/MensRights15/09/21 10:08 PM
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whose actions?
/r/MensRights15/09/21 10:01 PM
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Thanks. I asked what you read to inform your opinion, whatever you read is an acceptable answer
/r/MensRights13/09/21 05:27 PM
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No proof women didn't also hunt when young or past child-bearing, unless you've come across some?
/r/MensRights12/09/21 02:34 PM
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There's plenty of genuine concerns in society without stirring in some bs
/r/MensRights12/09/21 08:15 AM
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2,3,4,7,8 aren't facts. 9 is questionable ... after filling the factories in WW2 women didn't want to give up working. Outside of child-bearing years women work full time nowadays
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:41 PM
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because women have more freedom to express themselves in the first place? imo that contributes
/r/MensRights11/09/21 05:29 PM
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you mean knowingly? yes because it deprives the child of a relationship with their actual father. Kudos to the many step-and adoptive fathers who step into the breach, but that isn't the same
/r/MensRights11/09/21 05:20 PM
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woah - dad of the decade eh. am so sorry to see what you went through, and your children deprived of a clearly devoted father
/r/MensRights11/09/21 05:19 PM
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Do men (in any number) see women as sex objects? How many men were questioned before that became a thing
/r/MensRights11/09/21 02:40 PM
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One example, homelessness. Way more homeless people are male (75percent in the UK) than female. Ideas about patriarchy and male privilege, well it's clearly not a universal privilege is it. I tend to lean more now towards capitalism as being a more fitting explanation. Men tend to be the worker bees just consumed by the system, that also consumes women. However I don't deny that the ruling classes, police, judiciary etc is overwhelmingly male and that's an issue. Why? How would you feel if they …
/r/MensRights11/09/21 02:30 PM
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Once again, sources/properly referenced article? I admit to being open to changing my perspective on this but not because someone said so on Reddit! How do you know? If I'm going to take these thoughts out there well I'm not prepared to do so without backup. So, how do you know? What did you read to inform you?
/r/MensRights11/09/21 01:51 PM
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It's fairly well known among feminists, women's circles etc. Provoking much genuine upset and outrage as some female disorders are real world difficult to live with, difficult to get diagnosed and difficult to treat. So understandably the idea that female issues don't get funding the way male ones do (generally taken to be ED), understandably that's genuinely upsetting. If it isn't the case, or is spin as is suggested here, that's something that needs to be explored and understood.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 06:00 PM
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Just a guess, I would assume whatever rights she has in law will still stand no matter what an agreement says. So in the event of a dispute it would mean nothing. Why do you want her to move in? You don't seem to trust her to behave decently in the event of a split and I'm not being unkind here, but is this a good basis for a long term relationship? Would you want to move in with her on this footing, cos I wouldn't. Maybe you need to choose what you really want and stick with that, be really hon…
/r/MensRights09/09/21 03:04 PM
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Sources? Or an article that's properly referenced? Because this notion is very deeply ingrained, I come across it all the time and it's good to challenge fallacies. Particularly ones that cause genuine outrage and upset.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:51 PM
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Look at the context
/r/MensRights09/09/21 06:10 AM
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Much as we've crossed swords over the purpose and fairness of maintenance, if you live apart from your children I do acknowledge how hard this can be on fathers. And children
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:01 PM
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She wasn't in a position of trust over you though, not like a teacher that this woman is. This woman is suspected of repeatedly abusing her position of trust too
/r/MensRights08/09/21 04:45 PM
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It's not intended to be an equal split, not in the UK anyway. That's the whole point, that children have two parents and their lifestyle should reflect this. All this stuff is about the child, not the parents! So far you've conceded that a person with children needs a bigger home than a single person and that it's fair for the non-resident parent to contribute towards this.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 04:40 PM
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Maintenance isn't intended to be half the cost of raising a child.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 04:32 PM
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How does Jeff Bezos possibly spend that much money on himself? How is mom going to support the child then? Anyway back in the real world, how much do you think you'd spend on your family if you lived with them? More or less than maintenance?
/r/MensRights08/09/21 04:26 PM
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How is that unfair? Dad's a billionaire, why should child's lifestyle not reflect this? That's what maintenance reflects, the fact a child has two parents and to have the corresponding lifestyle. For the child
/r/MensRights08/09/21 04:06 PM
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Read the comment I was responding to
/r/MensRights08/09/21 04:02 PM
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No there wouldn't be an upper limit if it's done on income, that's how it's calculated in the UK. It would be wrong if there was an upper limit
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:38 PM
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Remind them that ED isn't just about men. But yes there is an enormous amount of shaming of men goes on
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:33 PM
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Maintenance is a contribution towards housing and all the costs associated with housing for instance heating a larger house in winter. Then a contribution towards everything else the child needs to thrive. How much of your income do you think you'd spend on your family if you lived with them? For the cost of the maintenance your child gets fed, clothed, kept warm, you get before and after school care provided, hobbies, every expenditure related to school paid ... How much do you think that actua…
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:25 PM
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The cost of the mortgage/rent will reflect the fact that it's a bigger home
/r/MensRights08/09/21 02:45 PM
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Which is what maintenance is a contribution towards! It's not supposed to cover the whole cost. What other costs do you think children incur?
/r/MensRights08/09/21 10:53 AM
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No I don't lol. You're literally putting words in my mouth. Read my other comments, particularly the one where I mention the group of men you completely overlook, ie the ones who lose a child when the woman terminates a pregnancy that the father wanted. I'm happy to debate so keep it on track yeah? Read where I say it isn't acceptable to deprive a child of their father for no good reason, then come back at me with something that isn't nonsense
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:57 AM
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I give up!
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:52 AM
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Paying bills is using it for the child, so is keeping a roof over their head. Raising a child costs more than maintenance anyway, so all of it, directly or indirectly is spent on the child
/r/MensRights07/09/21 10:03 PM
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How much do you think the child's share should be?
/r/MensRights07/09/21 09:12 PM
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Do you have any children?
/r/MensRights07/09/21 03:45 PM
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Try living on what you pay in maintenance alone, it really isn't that much. It's a contribution towards raising the child and in reality that's all it is.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 03:43 PM
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True but a family needs a bigger home than a single person, which is what the maintenance contributes to. It isn't intended to cover the entire cost of raising a child. You get bigger bills with a bigger home so maintenance goes towards that as well
/r/MensRights07/09/21 03:32 PM
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It goes towards food, housing, bills, clothing, school costs etc etc that the child needs. No it isn't prescribed in law what it must be spent on, rightly
/r/MensRights07/09/21 11:20 AM
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I literally said it isn't acceptable !
/r/MensRights07/09/21 11:18 AM
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What is in the best interests of the child? This is how the world works. It isn't about mum v dad, men v women, it's about the rights and needs of the child, half of whom are boys Of course I don't think either of the above are acceptable. I do 100 percent believe in contraception which should be freely available to all
/r/MensRights06/09/21 02:53 PM
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Child maintenance is about recognising that a child has two parents and adjusting standard of living to reflect that. It isn't intended to cover the cost of raising a child If you don't like the idea of babies being abandoned that makes you pro-contraception ie condoms and morning after pill in the event of a breakage?
/r/MensRights04/09/21 10:17 PM
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The man is abandoning his child either way, no difference. I really don't see a difference
/r/MensRights04/09/21 04:36 PM
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Er ... It is for the child
/r/MensRights03/09/21 10:11 PM
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That's exactly what you're saying. Then you're mad at feminists for saying men want to walk away. That's exactly what you're asking for; if not how is it different?
/r/MensRights03/09/21 03:52 PM
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No feminists do not think fathers are a terrible idea. Perhaps the extremists do but this isn't a mainstream or majority view. And forgive me but it's posters here who really think men should be able to walk away! You're digging your own grave then blaming feminists? Some fathers walk out. Some are deprived of their children. Neither are acceptable
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:41 PM
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I'm saying that it isn't always the man who wants to terminate and the woman won't. It happens that the man doesn't want a termination but the woman does. There are no comments in this thread acknowledging that.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:36 PM
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Men who wanted a terminated baby.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:20 PM
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That's a damn shame because men have quite legit grievances with society !!!
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:19 PM
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But you have responsibility to pay for eighteen years. Not a trivial matter so I would have thought you'd take evading a pregnancy quite seriously. Otherwise cough up. Fair enough
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:18 PM
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Exactly. I do genuinely, massively feel for men who want the child but the woman doesn't and terminates. It is gross, unfair and unresolvable. Thought I'd give those men some representation because none of the MRAs here seem to realise they exist
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:15 PM
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Feministsreally care about boys growing up without fathers don't they
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:04 PM
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No of course they shouldn't. Many fathers just can't do 50/50 although in the UK at least it's a legal right. It just doesn't work like that in many cases, so why have an unworkable as.a default? Parenting arrangements are about the children not parents. What is in the children's best interests, that's the starting point. Default is that children have a right to a relationship with both their parents. I do agree there is much still to be done and many fathers don't have access to justice meaning…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 01:55 PM
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Men & women face different issues in life. I get a little fed up hearing about male privilege knowing this. Bashing the opposite gender does nothing really. Be positive about men, be positive about women. Standing up for one gender doesn't mean you denigrate the other, or it shouldn't anyway
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:34 AM
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Default 50/50 comes with its own issues. Eg the parent working full-time suddenly has childcare needs and might have to look for another job that allows them to work round school half the week. The impact on children yo-yoing between two homes isn't always a positive one. Both parents would need a home big enough to be a permanent family home, etc. Glad to see non-compliance is going to be taken more seriously. About time too, courts make these orders - they need to enforce their own orders or i…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 11:23 AM
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I wouldn't say that you can't possibly understand because you're quite clued up on how much it costs financially. Nothing else gets a mention on here, so I'd say some criticism is justified, yes! Sorry but this is really gets to me. The aftermath for the children, half of whom are boys! of dads walking out on them. I'm very well aware of the pain being denied access to their children causes real fathers. And of how men who initially panicked and fled over a pregnancy actually turn out to love th…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 08:37 AM
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Haven't seen any posts saying this but many advocating for men to be allowed to officially abdicate as parents. Incidentally it's the child's right to a relationship with both their parents wherever possible. Not the other way round
/r/MensRights03/09/21 07:41 AM
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Wrong
/r/MensRights03/09/21 07:37 AM
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Don't most of you want to be able to walk away from any children you might have fathered? Thought you'd be in favour of easy access to abortion in that case and well understand why women want to also be free to walk away from a pregnancy by termination
/r/MensRights03/09/21 12:09 AM
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I said this too ...
/r/MensRights30/08/21 11:02 PM
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It's not an idea I take seriously
/r/MensRights30/08/21 11:01 PM
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The big problem is that yes there are criminals out there. And there is no way of knowing, so like I said, it's highly unlikely that I will encounter one I stay out of the woods at night. Do you roam around the woods at night? If not why not?
/r/MensRights30/08/21 11:01 PM
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It makes me angry that there are bad scenarios! Like WTF gives some tosser the right to attack women and create fear in us! For obvious reasons I laugh at the idea of a night-time curfew for men, but if I knew there were none around? I'd wander the woods and stargaze to my heart's content. Who has the right to make it a bad scenario for others, nobody does. But it is what it is. It's not right that there are bad scenarios, bottom line.
/r/MensRights30/08/21 10:12 PM
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It's very hard not to think safety as a woman. Ofc I know and I tell myself that most men are decent people it doesn't change the fact that a few are not. It makes me angry that I don't feel safe to wander in the woods at night, just in case there's a baddie in there. It's highly unlikely. But baddies are real nonetheless so I don't go in the woods after dark. Several male friends feel the same and wouldn't go in either
/r/MensRights30/08/21 09:19 PM
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That choice is called contraception. Use a condom and give support to get the morning-after pill if it breaks. Ain't rocket science
/r/MensRights29/08/21 05:57 PM
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The child has a right to a relationship with both their parents, rather than the parent having rights that can be relinquished
/r/MensRights29/08/21 05:55 PM
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For my height alone? Never. I've never rejected a man for his height alone either (yes I have dated shorter men. 5'6 and less prob 5"4. Unknown to me at the time 5'4 was married)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 10:22 PM
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If it is a societal issue rather than an individual one ... get rid of the apparent shallowness in dating. Better mental health care, less abuse. So less consequences of said abuse. The idea of women wanting to be at the top in the workplace but still carrying the traditional expectation (subconsciously) about the man being her equal or above, again if this is a societal issue then this is something for women to reflect on. Heard it said we're raising kick-ass daughters but failed sons. It'll ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:33 PM
1

I'm wary cos men fall for me, not being big-headed just very honest. I'm attracted to unconventionally beautiful men so maybe they don't get much attention idk maybe. But I'm not going there again, me just wanting some fun and ending up hurting someone aka just using them for thrills and not giving a f*ck about their feelings. It doesn't make me feel good about myself. I wouldn't call it neediness or being clingy. If I could guarantee how it would work out, my feelings and his then maybe yes. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:17 PM
1

Yes it would bother me! I wouldn't marry or partner someone like that. But respect to this hypothetical man for not walking out on his child, even if he lacks imagination as to how to raise a happy child
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:57 PM
1

Go along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:47 PM
0

Any idea how frightening it can be to feel like you're being followed? For the sake of crossing the road or overtaking. Most men are not assailants, most men don't behave like assailants!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 10:44 PM
1

You're being excessively hard on yourself! You have a fantastic knowledge and a sense of justice. Really just do what you can (your activities are phenomenal) and don't worry about the rest. You don't need to fix or heal the world.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/20 08:26 AM
1

the woman makes it a good fuck or not!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 11:02 PM
1

casual sex wouldn't care. ltr it would be a red flag because like does he 'need' variety and will get bored after a short time. all too easy to go off and have a meaningless fuck that men who don't sleep around won't cos he won't risk the relationship for just a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:57 PM
1

lol still the disconnect! 'whoredom' isn't women acting alone, it's women having consensual sex with willing men! Don't forget the welfare state supports men who are looking after their children as single fathers - not many granted but I can think of about 4 irl that I know. It's about the needs of the children. and why do you want to see people being punished? if men lived with their children all their income would go into the family and you don't have a problem with that. But the idea that a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:52 PM
2

glad to hear you wouldn't abandon your own child cos to me that is degeneracy. At least in the past men made a show of wanting to provide for their own children and credit where due many thousands of them did, without question, decade after decade. Men nowadays, all they seem to see is their money, valuing that over being a father! One of the most important things you can be. your money don't love you back!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:18 PM
2

and if any of those women had conceived a child you'd be quite happy to abandon your son/daughter and for them to live in poverty with no help from the state because it serves their mother right for your joint degeneracy. Got it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:05 PM
3

Ah. so you don't practice what you preach by waiting until marriage! But now you do, having enjoyed something resembling a wild youth that you don't think other people should be allowed to enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:58 PM
5

do you practice what you preach?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:50 PM
4

men shouldn't sleep with women outside of marriage anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:49 PM
6

same could be said about the men who don't wanna pay for their little brats, it produces horrible character
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:46 PM
3

like the men (allegedly) crippled by child support payments, hardship produces perseverance and good character, gratitude for what you have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:44 PM
1

you make fun of women's insecurities?! lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:36 AM
0

oh … that extract above was all the more shocking for not being hyperbole lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:34 AM
2

this is about the needs of the children half of whom are male after all! are you saying boys should live in poverty? think a little lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:31 AM
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that's a fact that nonbio dad still has to pay? proof? There is a point that in disputes over pregnancy/terminations the mother's decision is final and yeah that is an inequality. But I don't see any other way or you end up with women pushed into terminations against their will and that cannot be right (lets be honest its what most of the men want; you don't see men pushing women to keep the baby all that often; can't recall any irl but did see one on tv so they do exist). but men FFS if you don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:28 AM
1

Can't or won't? i'm thinking won't; a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:21 AM
1

woah that is quite a retraction! imo a lot of feminist thought around men and their motivations is constructed without ever consulting any men; this piece only confirms it. wouldn't stand up to peer review except it would cos everyone has the same biases
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:19 AM
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lol good luck with making fun of women's insecurities, cos its funny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 11:09 AM
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women's insecurities are no laughing matter tho when they're too obese, menopausal or flappy to be attractive to men. we all have to be respectful and tell them have value
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:00 AM
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nice bodyshaming of men! kinda like when men bodyshame women for all kinda things and you all lose your shit and start yelling about being objectified! which is funny
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:24 AM
2

being a billionaire isn't a realistic aim in life; wanting to have a sex life is realistic and a normal thing to want. you're a strange one alright!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:31 PM
1

masturbating is great but don't compare to sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:27 PM
1

well I love it & feel for anyone not getting it who wants it! don't you like it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:03 PM
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