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Reasonable_Most_6788/r/Divorce_Men22/08/25 09:05 PM
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Reasonable_Most_6788/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 11:02 PM
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I think every guy has at some point has had something similar happen to them. Look, situations like this you have to laugh it off because the more you engage the more you seem insecure. Truth is engaging like shouting "I'm not crazy" to a doctor in a mental hospital. Makes you looky look crazy trying to protest you are not 😅 Those that want to believe it will and everyone else will see if for what it is. Trust me when I say no one cares. If you have to defend yourself and you absolutely have to,…
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/26 07:33 AM
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I just focus on the future and if I find myself romanticizing about how it was when things were good or what it could have been like if things worked out I simply come back to reality of how things "actually" were and I continue to look forward. No point in thinking about it, it's done and over.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/26 01:28 PM
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Wait what? How is not loving yourself your fault for her terrible behavior?
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 08:38 PM
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I don't know if this is helpful or not but you need to take control of your thoughts are you lonely or are you enjoying solitude? The point I'm making is you need to reframe things a little. Bring your focus back on you, become the person who doesn't need anyone else. Ironically when you don't need people the more you'll find people gravitating towards you. Focus on yourself mate, show up for yourself. Small steps, progress not perfection. Take it day by day and if that's too difficult, take it …
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/25 03:13 PM
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To be honest I don't know why you posted this, not sure if you are just fishing for people to tell you to go for it. In my opinion, it's over, this dude didn't work out but she is in the market and you don't think there will be another one in the next town? That being said, I've had people call me an idiot for not divorcing my wife sooner and I made a lot of the excuses you are now, "my kids" I'm doing it for them. In my situation no matter what I did it didn't work and it was dragging me really…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 07:26 PM
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I just recently told my wife I wanted a divorce after trying for two years to make it work. Deep down I knew it would come to it, even if I desperately wanted things to work out. I don't know your situation but I'll give you what was going through my head. I thought that if I hung in there she would eventually change back to who she was when we first got together, when I realized that probably wasn't going to happen I did it for my son, but she was being horrible towards me in front of him. One …
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 05:22 PM
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Listen, just so you are prepared. She will come back to you again once she is finished with this dude or he is done with her 😅 DO NOT ENTERTAIN HER She was never yours just your turn.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 03:09 PM
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I went through a divorce about 7 or 8 years ago. She cheated on me after nine years—I never thought she was capable of it, and she wasn’t even that attractive. I was heartbroken, similar to how you are now. But that sadness quickly turned into anger. I’ll show her! I used that anger in the gym. Of course, that phase didn’t last long. Eventually, I didn’t need motivation anymore—I had built the habits. Once I had my body and newfound confidence, I started sleeping around until I met my current wi…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 08:40 PM
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