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| 14 | Would you rather be with a man who’s very good looking but is reserved and quiet or a mid looking/ugly man who is very charismatic and outgoing? | Question For Women | Reasonable_Sock394 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 08:39 AM |
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| 0 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.Once you go black (pilled) you can’t go back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 09:00 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidI wouldn’t call places like YouTube, tiktok, Reddit and Twitter very small places where that’s the majority of what you’ll see regarding the MLE and where it has hundreds of thousands and millions of views. Even words in relation to it from the manosphere outside of the discussion like “Chad” “Xmaxxing” “Xpilled” have become memes. Feminists weaponize the MLE against men themselves in the ever ongoing online gender war lol. You can act like it’s all some niche thing but most ppl know about it Ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 12:37 PM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidIf it was only affecting a small minority of men, none of what I mentioned earlier would be a hot topic and it would be more of an afterthought. There would be no need to coin the term “male loneliness epidemic” if it was only a small minority. Calling it an epidemic means it’s not in a small amount this goes in hand with the stat of 63% of young men being single according to Pew Research I’ve even seen people blame incels for Trump winning the election. Why blame supposedly a small minority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 11:41 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidIf one of the reasons for 4B not going to last isn’t because most dudes aren’t getting laid then why has the term “male loneliness epidemic” been coined? Why has the manosphere gotten popular out of nowhere then? Why has there been studies showing male virginity being on the rise of the past 10 or so years compared to before? Even feminists themselves say “it’s not our job to make them feel less lonely” and “men aren’t entitled to a relationship/sex” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 10:18 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidBoth things can be true at once | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 04:03 AM |
| – | The 4B movement won't work because most of us already don't get laidAnd good looking men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Are female virgins past 23 typically very desirable?I’d prefer it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 10:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Males should continue to make the first moveThis is true only for top tier men/Chads Nearly all attractive women and most fat women aren’t approaching, especially approaching an average Joe. Average Joe more than likely has low standards and is gonna take whoever he can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 11:25 PM |
| – | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?But none of those are as powerful as money or clout, good smile/laugh or not they’re still gonna be lonely if they don’t have anything else to back it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?Yes and money or clout can make an unappealing man attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?at least one feature. Yea it’s either looks, money or clout | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 07:55 PM |
| – | Would you rather be with a man who’s very good looking but is reserved and quiet or a mid looking/ugly man who is very charismatic and outgoing?It’s normal to want to date people that you are attracted to. Atleast we agree on this The average looking man is usually stuck in a limbo since they’re not Chad or someone that looks like Gollum. It’s funny how you mention the 6/6/6 rule since those are one of the manospheric advices I’ve disagreed with since average looks can be left more to interpretation and can definitely cancel out other things like money if she finds you attractive enough and plain average joe could potentially be seen as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be with a man who’s very good looking but is reserved and quiet or a mid looking/ugly man who is very charismatic and outgoing?It’s normal to want to date people that you are attracted to. Atleast we agree on this The average looking man is usually stuck in a limbo since they’re not Chad or someone that looks like Gollum. It’s funny how you mention the 6/6/6 rule since those are one of the manospheric advices I’ve disagreed with since average looks can be left more to interpretation and could potentially be seen as cute leaning or mid at the worst. “Looks are subjective” said by the blue pillers is a half truth since so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:10 PM |
| – | Would you rather be with a man who’s very good looking but is reserved and quiet or a mid looking/ugly man who is very charismatic and outgoing?If the shy and introverted man looked like Gollum from LOTR would he still be your type? Introverted women definitely do exist but they’re still not going to date someone they don’t find attractive regardless, a few of the comments here admit that. And a lot men don’t really care about being looped into a hivemind because even they admit a lot of them would go for “stacy” but will most likely lower their standards if he isn’t qualified to get with her (which is most of them tbf). Women are more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 04:24 PM |
| – | Would you rather be with a man who’s very good looking but is reserved and quiet or a mid looking/ugly man who is very charismatic and outgoing?What you think are “negative” aspects aren’t Maybe introversion isn’t a total negative but being undesirable in terms of your looks definitely isn’t a positive either. An ugly/mid looking introvert isn’t a good combo at all, I know so because I used to be exactly that when I was younger it wasn’t until I shed a lot weight. And it’s not necessarily that women hate introverted men, it’s more like the men will be just ignored or go unnoticed in contrast to the more social one assuming both have the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 03:44 PM |
| – | Would you rather be with a man who’s very good looking but is reserved and quiet or a mid looking/ugly man who is very charismatic and outgoing?My good looking and someone else’s good looking are totally different Yea that’s true but two people can be good looking for different reasons And how tall are you if you don’t mind me asking? Your options are designed to push a narrative. It’s not reality. Cute try. But you just look childish. It’s a debate sub, and no it can very well be reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 09:59 AM |
| – | Would you rather be with a man who’s very good looking but is reserved and quiet or a mid looking/ugly man who is very charismatic and outgoing?I’m asking this because I see a lot of “personality vs looks” debates online. I see so many ppl say “it’s just your personality bro” and I also see “Looks above everything else” so I picked one side with a positive and a negative aspect about them depending how you see it. Ik if I were to switch the looks for both of the options it would be far too easy. (Being introverted as a male usually doesn’t get you anywhere and being extroverted makes you more likely to get some action atleast) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 09:28 AM |
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