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Field ReportReasonablyGoodMexica/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 04:40 AM
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ReasonablyGoodMexica/r/askTRP13/06/19 03:57 AM
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Contrary to popular belief, in nature suffering is not "wrong", it's just undesirable. It's simply the other side of the same coin as pleasure. Evolution doesn't care of what's "good" for us is also painful. Consider other examples of pain and suffering: childbearing, raising children, physical training, injury pain, opposite sex rejection, fear of inadequacy. All of them are perfectly natural and biological processes that produce suffering in various degrees, but all of them have a purpose: chi…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 05:08 PM
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Ask him if he's uncomfortable with it. It's also a terrible idea to wear rings to any sort of place where you need to grab things (don't Google ring avulsion). I've seen men on workshops wearing it on the neck with a chain, Lord of the rings style.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/22 03:10 PM
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The way you look at him, the tone of your voice, the way you move your hands on your body as well as his. It's hard to describe, but you simply let yourself be driven by your animal lust as the commenter suggested. Funnily enough, it's quite hard to do if you're not actually turned on by your man. Why don't you try sensual massages? Relax from a long day at work and enjoy the company of your woman at the same time.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 12:58 AM
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I agree it's both. Talent is nothing without discipline, and discipline without talent will always fall behind disciplined talent. In this context, she'll have the most back arching orgasms when both her head and her cooch get the right amount of tingles
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 04:38 PM
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Praise the sun, brother! Hahahah I was looking for the Solaire mention somewhere. I mean, his whole backstory is that he's buff precisely because of hard work, so it's something.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/21 04:10 AM
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"Dude, she's my lady friend. Don't ever say the g-word again" - Jay, Deep Space 69
/r/askTRP01/04/21 07:03 PM
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Depends on how well you do it. Do you have an actually attractive look? Maybe. Do you have fucking anime powers? Definitely not. Not all anime is filled with simps. Having said that, fiction, while good for reference and ideals, it's never a good point of comparison.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 03:50 PM
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Hey, no. Look it's fine. Now this might be a shitty analogy given the time investment dimentions, but I believe it fits. I was re learning how to bake certain dishes with my mother a few months ago and I wanted to test how would a certain dish 'fail' when cooked intentionally in a wrong way. We both knew it was going to suck, and it did, but in the process I learned about the dish. You experimented and you learned your stuff. To me, this random internet stranger, the ` i wanted to test this theo…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 02:20 AM
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Proceed at own risk! Hahaha, wouldn't be saying that to someone about to do tumble wrestle with an alligator.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 11:53 PM
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I like your scale good sir. I'll steal it. Might have added: banged but regret, but then those just fall under 2.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:20 PM
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Although the cringe is spine breaking, I get the exact opposite reaction you describe. No matter how rusty I get, I won't be as bad as this guy.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:01 PM
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Look bro. When my ex-wife decided to end the marriage, I did too care for her as a person. But I absolutely cut contact for absolutely everything that was not divorce related. It was the fucking hardest thing I've done, but four years later I've finally stopped dreaming about her every other day. I shudder to think what would have happened had I kept in contact. You need to look out for yourself. Understand that she is no longer a healthy part of your life. Like a gangrened limb, it needs to be …
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:03 PM
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Here's my own story: Found out mother had an affair while I was a teen. No one knows but me. She actually covered her bases quite well, but dad got jealous at the time. Likely from that natural borne instinct, still, being weak he didn't do shit because he discovered nothing. It's been 15 years since then. She succumbed to lifelong illness, that both knew about, and he now cares for her in their twilight years. I don't regret not saying a word. It's not been particularly heavy knowledge to carry…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 02:44 PM
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I like the idea. "Of course, woman. I've always been like this." Which is the equivalent of saying "Woman, I was borne out of my mother's womb full clad in armor and proceeded to fucking slaughter my 400 brothers before they killed me, aztec deity style." Much like the aztec religion, this is full of shit, but they want that. They crave the fantasy. Amazing insight.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 04:18 PM
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Imagine a mormon knocking on your door on a Sunday. Imagine you don't believe in a god. The dude promises you an eternity in heaven, you need only to sign on the dotted line, but you know better. That's bullshit and neither he nor you can get to a place you know doesn't exist. It's clear as day to you that you're being sold a lie. Yet, for him, whose entire life has been one of indoctrination, heaven is so real he would give up 10% of his lifespan for it. Literally, so much preaching and church …
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:51 PM
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Just stay away from the FBI and you'll be fine. Try running to Mexico or Asia if caught plating kiddies. For real though, I did have one. Milfs are fun plates, but you can't expect prioritization of any sort. They usually aren't really single and want to keep you a secret, or they really are single and have little free time for you.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:14 PM
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What I get from it is not being afraid to make mistakes. If you embrace your flawed nature, you'll be tempted to expand your boundaries. This will inevitably create mistakes, which inevitably create drama. Which is pure fun for girls. Consider that you found a good recipe for relationship. And it's stable, no drama whatsoever. You're so good at that, that you become predictable. Even if you're in good shape and doing fun stuff, if you fall in a perfect rut, it's still a rut. Most us are a long w…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:45 PM
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That's... weird. Had I read this reply before the main post I would have thought your humor would have gone up. Being funny is one of those things that come for two reasons, I believe, confidence and fear. Opposites. Either you're confident enough to joke about stuff or you're afraid of something and joke both to take away attention from the situation and to force a laugh. In The first you do because you don't care, in the second you do because it detracts from you and laughing works as a coping…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:47 AM
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Nah. My humor did get darker, but I believe that's just me being more confident and unapologetic. Maybe it's not that you're more 'serious' now, but that you were more of a people pleaser? Before, you had to resort to humor to ease yourself in. Today, you're confident enough not to care if someone in the room is not laughing at your jokes. Perhaps? I myself like the process, so my own degree of humor hasn't gone down. It's one of those things that just add to your charisma.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:29 AM
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There are a couple of things that come to mind. The usual meetings are pretty much organized parties that celebrate interpersonal expression. You usually see people being quite candid. Your own club is a good place to run game, albeit not a smart one. But at other clubs you're very welcome and that's where your game can really shine. The other are the conventions. They are recurrent events with tons of attendants from around the country, for the local ones, and the world, for the big one. Having…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:57 AM
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Second the toastmasters. There's also the benefit of the regular conventions where they meet on a nice city to network thoroughly. Learning expressiveness alone is a good point for them, extra promiscuity is a bonus. Sadly, with the health thing going around, it's going to be a while before they restart activities.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:53 PM
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Tip: if you do go for the phone, pay special attention to her friends messages. Side dick messages are a no brainer and are usually sanitized, friends chats, on the other hand, are usually not and women will tell their friends everything.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 01:41 PM
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That's your mistake. LTR a woman that requires you to take day off work to see. 2 hours to her house, 2 hours back to yours. That's a long distance relationship if I've ever seen one. Deal with it, chew it. Let it rest and get a couple of women closer to your place.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:38 PM
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Then rape the kid
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:26 PM
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Unless you have a very good reason (i.e. you have celiac) to do so, I'd advise against that. It cripples your cooking possibilities.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/20 10:22 PM
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Make sure to record it so we can later see it on /whatcoulddowrong lol
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:48 PM
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Lazy me wants to think of something to counter but you're completely on point. With no biches or outside social influences to side track you, if you don't come out of solitary confinement a better man, no amount of incentives will ever help.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:43 PM
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This is actually on point. Risky, but those dumb biches shouldn't be plotting to break labor laws in the company messaging platform.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 08:24 PM
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Bruh. That's not a good idea. If you approach it like just a patch relationship you'll only get another failed LTR and in 5 years you'll be having dreams with both of them. The way I see it is that an LTR is not an end in itself, but a means to an end, such as kids or family.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:32 PM
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No idea. I hope she finds out in the future how I'm going up, in a sort of revenge way, but I'm not obsessed on that. Regardless, she's not going to find out through me. I'm not seeking her out unless, I don't know, her mother dies or something equally tragic. And even then I'm not sure it's a good idea to do that one gesture of kindness.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:48 AM
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Jesup I just let myself go and had no spine whatsoever. 25 year old me thought it was a good idea to eat out twice a day 6 fucking days a week. 25 year old me also thought it was a good idea to have full disclosure with the wife, ask for permission for everything, and bend over backwards to please her. By having her eat her favorite shit of course! That me was about the slimiest good guy I've ever been and I don't blame her whatsoever for leaving. I've come a good way since then and in no short …
/r/askTRP22/03/20 05:08 AM
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Thanks. I was getting concerned it would turn into some weird obsession.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:01 AM
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Sweet baby jesus. There's no way I'm calling her at this point. Last time she tried to contact me in between breakups I just ignored her. But I strongly appreciate the reference. I'll keep in mind to be very wary of thoughts of contacting her. But yeah. I know well that whatever I miss about the relationship is likely half fantasy at this point. It's just harder to grok than to rationally understand. You know, being emotional irrational animals and shit. Studying is certainly a good energy drain…
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:19 AM
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If you need it, then you must do it. Men take difficult decisions and do the hard things to better their life. Congrats, you alpha widowed a girl.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:56 AM
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I mean, we both know there's no way in hell she's better after a relationship with him, but leaving her is certainly a good way to cut both of their losses in regards to time.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:53 AM
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YES. I needed this. Thank you good sir.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 05:04 AM
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Look here OP. First, 5 women since your ex is barely any women and 6 months is barely any time. 5 year marriage ended 3 years ago and just a few months ago I stopped dreaming about her. Do remember that while she sounds amazing, right now and specially in the future, she's likely going to be a product of your imagination: The PERFECT fucking bitch. Don't be fooled. She had flaws, you just don't remember them because you miss the sex. In my case, it was the exact opposite, I missed everything exc…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 02:09 PM
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Well, this technically goes in TheRedPill. Also, dear god, reading this was physically painful. Cringe, shame and sad all at the same time. I'm so thankful I'm not that dude and I didn't get to that point. Jesus christ
/r/askTRP05/03/20 01:51 AM
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Wahaha. Since I got to see the light, I still think Johnny is the kind of guy that would have slain more pussy than animal control. Today I see in the creators nothing but pure, unadulterated envy.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:35 PM
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Good books are hard to digest because its authors are good at what they do, not at writing books. Good non fiction with good writing style is as hard to find as it gets. Imagine a blind, virgin, amish Sasha Gray of books. They exist, but spending your time looking for those is better invested somewhere else and make do with what you have.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:32 PM
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Hahaha. Too bad the post died, but I still got to keep the 'mario star frame' phrase for myself.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:00 AM
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I think it was just a manner of speech and bad grammar. I'm not saying: "You cucks ended my relationship!" I'm saying you helped...
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:10 PM
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Simply to avoid over using it as a crutch. Like alcohol
/r/askTRP30/09/19 07:12 PM
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I'd say just go ahead and do it. Find a good one +don't go cheap, use protection, enjoy. That will scratch that itch. You're a human being with needs (even if self deprecating as I noticed in your previous post). You will be very tempted to rely on them as a crutch though. Don't. Set a Max number of times you'll use one before you get to play with a girl that desires you and stick with it. But that's just me. Although a late bloomer like you (first time was at 22) my smv wasn't as low as you pai…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:37 PM
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Tinder is about the worst thing you can try unless you're top 10% in Looks. No other way around it.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:27 PM
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You got me there. For some time now I've thought 21gals were the perfect age to start an LTR (with the purpose of procreating that is). Maybe 25? But why is that necessarily better than... IDK an 18yo?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:59 PM
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Think about the first time you rode a motorcycle, or drove a car. It's likely you felt some stress, but overtime you got used to how the ride works and you relaxed. Women are exactly the same, except they ride you. Just keep going, perseverance is the name of the game.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 08:52 PM
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Small tip: when censoring, use the good ol black bar. Fancy filters may be reversed with enough elbow grease. Do NOT underestimate the power of autistic haters. Having said that.. those are some sick abs
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:00 AM
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Wrong order. Get the exorcist, fuck the psychiatrist and then run.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:22 PM
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Wow. You're pretty much describing the whole thing so accurately it's almost creepy. Point 1 is evident to me simply because email. Point 2 I know for a fact is true due to her economic situation. Point 3 is exactly as you say. She's been asking about me to some shared acquaintances, and I've had no contact with her outside legalities, which ended around half a year ago. Point 4 is what I feel as well. I believe she wants either closure or a relief of her current situation. Such an accurate desc…
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:52 PM
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I don't, but I do admit I've caught myself checking her fb every now and then since her posts are connected via one or two friends. Last time I did that was around two months ago, so it's not that often. That's how I more or less found out about the breakup. Whenever I do that, tho, it just brings my shit down, so I've done it less and less. I know wounds don't heal as fast as they should if you pick them all the time.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:40 AM
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Good call. I'll fuck one of my girls all tomorrow, or get a hooker if unavailable. Less likely to binge if eating something healthier.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 03:09 AM
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Well, shiet. You just turned this into a challenge. Thank you, good sir.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 12:16 AM
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Haha! I think I can keep to myself, but I wouldn't have the heart to do that. To be fair I'm still struggling not to talk to her. Her email sounds half like a farewell and I know she had clinical depression during the marriage. Part of me feels guilty of this for being such a beta chump at the time and dumping the leadership on her. So, even now I'm mentally preparing for the worst, even if the best thing I can do for both is keeping my distance. At 'best', she's just emotionally blackmailing me…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:26 PM
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To be perfectly fair, as much as I can attest to his knowledge, his reproaches to the state of the manosphere are less scientific journal entries and more the onion articles. Gotta love those. His only interview, however, left much to be desired in the appearances department. He didn't appear to be thoughtful of even in control. Manly and aggressive can also be calm and in control. Just look at Jordan B Peterson. His charisma is simply monstrous and he always seems in control, regardless of his …
/r/askTRP09/07/19 09:07 PM
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Given they drive, what 70% of all purchases? I'd say it's pretty darn accurate to describe the modern woman as such.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 06:10 PM
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Yes. Ever heard of the "would you jump off a cliff if your friends did it?" Because kids do self destruct when they feel pressured by peers.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:49 AM
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I'd rather get her interested in a psychologist. They work their patients issues with behavioral change and therapy, a psychiatrist focuses more on treatment through meds. That said, a professional is better than no professional at all when dealing with issues of suicide. An angry, but living, kid will always be preferable over a dead one. Best of luck, good sir.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 01:45 AM
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You are mistaken, that's whalephobic and an insult to actual whales.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 11:16 PM
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She will feel that you fake it and tear you apart. I might add. If your personality is both natural and strong, she will instead tear your clothes apart.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:48 PM
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Blame the OP for not using an archive.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 02:22 PM
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> Are you tall You just revealed you have a lot of work to do, good sir. Don't use your height to excuse your current status, which I bet you're totally doing right now. Pussies find excuses, men find a way.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 03:34 AM
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It's not mainstream at all but there are stories like that out there somewhere. Have you seen Deep Space 69? It rocks! It's a space cadet that knows only one thing and he does it well: 'How to bang women'. He travels space banging girls with his beta koala friend. Divided in easy to watch, 5 minute clips. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wp8LCifX3JA&list=PLIDvcay74HOklr0tB103VTCU2JC9_dDFG Hamilton: 'We gotta talk about your new girlfriend.' Jay: 'Dude! She's my lady friend. Don't ever say the G w…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/19 03:21 AM
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I mean, I didn't ask her. I stated what I wanted her to do and she replied with the usual `yes daddy`. But your answer intrigues me and I might be missing something. I think you're saying that `want` makes a statement weak. Am I too far from the mark?
/r/askTRP13/06/19 04:13 AM
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What in the actual fuck... [Meticulously takes note]
/r/askTRP03/06/19 08:16 PM
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What I mean is that, if virtually all(or none) subjects fit a certain criteria for a filter, then such a filter is not necessary because it just amounts to all or none and all other filters always do the job. Statistically speaking. In this instance its worse because it becomes a huge red flag if all exes are dead for any number higher than one (specially if what you mean by ex is ex husband).
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:39 PM
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These items are jewelry. Why would she use jewelry that no one would see? From there, you can infer high notch count.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:20 PM
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An ex being alive is a good marker for most of humanity, dude. I would be MORE worried if I learned ALL of her exes are dead.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 05:13 PM
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"Well I was just trying to install Spotify."
/r/askTRP20/05/19 09:37 PM
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Getting out of your head is hard. Furthermore, the failure will hurt and you must embrace all of it. The awkwardness, the bad posture, the weak voice and all other. Right there, however, is the gold. You'll learn and at some point you'll achieve critical mass and start noticing lots of successive wins. And since 80% of men don't know shit about it and you do, that will put you very far ahead of the game.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:28 PM
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Wahahaha oh this one. The irony is that while we both know this will get her off you, others will think you have the hoots for her. I'm not exactly on board with that last one tho.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 05:15 PM
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I find two alternatives very viable: close male friends and therapist. You can also add a few close girl friends if you have these, they are just riskier. You know, the kind of girl friends you would still be friends with if they had a dick.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 06:07 PM
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I'll be honest here. I just imagined goddamn Bob Marley narrating this
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 04:46 AM
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Yes, yes it rules and now I have a shit ton of it.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 02:09 PM
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Allow me to elaborate. You might come here for specifics, but learning your strengths and weaknesses requires experimentation. As much as you might read on bike riding, you won't learn to ride bikes by memorizing 'Learn to Attract Bikes: A guide on bike fucking'. Women are just the same and you must learn by doing. Go on many dates, fuck many women. As a man, you should be striving to do that until the day your body literally cannot go anymore. Just be careful of the pitfalls. Lifting, sports an…
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:29 PM
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Went on date, kissed a girl. What do? Repeat until dead
/r/askTRP07/04/19 04:08 PM
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Remember what's usually said here about thinking FIRST about how shit affects you? Yeah. It's either moving out and sorting that shit or staying, getting resentful and hating their guts for 'holding you back'. One bucket of shit or the other. As I see it, at least the first bucket of shit makes everyone grow as a result.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 08:09 AM
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moped I'm saving this as a personal reference. It completely cracked me up yet spoke a hundred percent truth.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 07:31 PM
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He's getting them before the system indoctrinates them. OP is approaching the 7 year olds
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:50 AM
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Yes, it's hard for most mortals. And no kipping on my watch or I'm gonna break your legs.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 11:05 PM
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What I meant when I wrote 'elsewhere' was other posts in this community, not another community. In general, all those big bits of info that make you hard to resist. The ones that I feel made it for me were, in no particular order: fitness, speaking with balls, touching her confidently and not letting my own lust overtake me, but communicate it through touch so it overtakes her instead.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/19 09:51 PM
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Are you sure this is not satire? By the gods...
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 02:24 PM
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I'm not being stupid here. Air might get blown without even being intentional, or even strongly such as a soft natural exhalation. https://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/sex-life/a9103/sex-after-giving-birth/ https://www.healthline.com/health/air-embolism#causes
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 02:24 PM
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Just let him know he can't give you oral. It can actually kill you due to air embolism.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 02:10 AM
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Activities to challenge 'good guy's ' status quo. They pretty much force you to mature by facing behaviors and fears. You should really give it a try. It was a creepily accurate description of my past and felt a lot like reading the rational male.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 03:41 AM
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Although I believe the efforts of the fine gentlemen in this post are useful, I would encourage you to find an IRL confidant. In cases such as yours, a therapist might also do the trick. They are, after all, paid to be safe persons. Nothing beats verbalizing difficult shit in front of another human being.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:01 AM
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I don't see it that way. It's entirely possible she was being entirely truthful. It's just more likely she was wrong about what she would truly do. Think about when a 5 years old is asked about Santa. She'll say he's real. She's being honest, yet that's false.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 03:40 AM
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https://youtu.be/cKUvKE3bQlY "If every instinct you have is wrong, then the opposite would have to be right"
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:19 PM
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Hahaha! The yeast infection part got me. I have this girl I've been seeing. Only one date, little make out at the end. Last time she went home we baked some bread. I was getting touchy and while she didn't push back, she wasn't really reciprocating. Few minutes after she starts making some funny asthma breathing. She forgot to bring her inhaler and the feeling got real awkward. Kiss goodbye and blue balls but at least some beautiful warm sweet bread.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/19 12:37 AM
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And work for a boss petty enough to deny overtime pay for an entry level job? That's not just slave mentality, that's lack of foresight.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 01:12 AM
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Wow, how much she hated you to take even the cat. There is lack of attraction an then there is outright malice. I'm in a similar spot, we just didn't have enough shit for mine to attempt to screw me. She at least left the cat, but I noticed a couple of things here and there that were setup to piss me before she left. I believe that the lack of attraction breeds resentment in them while in a relationship. Best explanation that comes to mind. Also, get a pet. Furry friends are a great help for tho…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 04:04 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ. This is the first time I've seen a man talk in such a vitriolic way about himself. No wonder people won't get near you. As weird as it may seem to you, other people see you as you see yourself. The world is a reflection of your own self. What I see that you need to do is fix how you see yourself first. Forget women, your sense of self comes first. Have you tried professional help? Therapists, specially male, can be very beneficial when dealing with this shit. Begin acceptin…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 04:39 AM
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Do you treat yourself as such? Care to elaborate or give examples?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:51 AM
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Oh no, you don't want that. You want acceptance of your sorry ass. The acceptance you're not giving yourself. Have you heard the saying: 'you have to love yourself first'? IF you're UNlucky enough to actually land a girlfriend in your current state, 9 out of 10, she's going to be a manipulative insecure gremlin. In the 1 out of 10 she is not, you're actually going to hurt her and put yourself in a worse place than today. In both cases, you lose and you end up back alone and with heartache. First…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:44 AM
5

I second this. While a Reddit post history is not reliably reflection of him, his is impressive.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:33 AM
2

A fatalist! Unless you have diagnosed third stage cancer or are paraplegic and need a computer to speak, you don't get to say that. Hell, even then you can still pull shit that gets you bucks.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:29 AM
3

I don't see goats or immoral acts by today's standards.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:17 AM
11

That's the hole idea. You exploit that drive to get what most men nowadays think is quite hard.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:23 AM
3

Probably yes, and definitely yes. World population just above a third of a billion. But that doesn't make his achievements any less remarkable. The intoxicating feeling you talk about is power. He was a ruler of men and as such, he had a lot of it. Nowadays, most men can't even rule over their own goddamn house.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:06 AM
2

Stallone?! Ha! Imagine bigger bro. Genghis Khan had a conquered a fucking quarter of humanity. He was so drenched in pussy juice, that 1 out of every 200 men today are direct descendants of his.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:21 AM
16

Jesus fucking Christ that last one...
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:52 AM
6

As the other commenter said. You're better off showing. Men specially a are visual animals. The visceral feeling of witnessing you beat the shit out of something or someone is different from a shitty told story. Have them see for themselves how you get violent. Get them a video or even better, have them train with you.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:02 PM
1

Of course we do! The fact that you do is proof that you outgrew your old self.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:46 AM
5

When god gives you lemons, you find a new god. These guys aren't even giving you lemons.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 04:03 PM
3

I'm sure this can be pulled off quite easily with enough testicle power. You're still taking initiative, after all.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 06:30 AM
1

I don't usually post here, but I couldn't help but notice the last sentence. It really sounds a lot like what people try to do when they first practice meditation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L7u5N2MfTNU Don't try to force unpleasant thoughts out. You either accept them and let them go or act based on them. If you avoid them or attempt to mute them, they will only keep coming back.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/18 06:26 PM
3

Before I started to get my life in order I was genuinely afraid of a life without them. Today, I find myself having little time to play. It surprised me just how little I craved the thing. It's like waking up in the morning perfectly rested and knowing you don't want to go to bed. That's the closest I can describe it. I still play and enjoy some time of virtual stuff, but I don't have this deadly hunger anymore.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/18 01:28 AM
1

I understand your point. If it helps, I know my writing is low quality and it's likely I write english worse than I write in my own language. But I know quite well where the responsibility lies when things go south. Yes, some of it is vetting, but you can't blame the woman when the man is outright weak! I know this thing failed because I didn't put anything but money on the table. And even that, I didn't put outrageous amount of it. The worse of all, is that she wanted someone strong so she coul…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 03:11 PM
1

I'm doing exactly this! I just found it unusual and wanted to understand, rather than get in her pants at this point. Also, I met her downtown. The fact that she was a college girl was just to put additional context.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 02:51 PM
1

Couldn't stop laughing to your more extreme example. I haven't checked the numbers precision, but the whole premise seems on point. If all you interact with of a group X it's Y, then you are more likely to believe that all of the group is Y, regardless of it's accuracy.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 01:18 PM
2

Lol this one is Golden. I'm adding it to my repertoire
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:08 AM
1

Hey, thick women can be fun depending on where their thickness resides. That said, you can get oneitis for pretty much anything.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 11:11 PM
1

Wahahaha and mine was certainly a failure of epic proportions. Thank you for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 04:58 PM
2

Wow this is new, albeit perfectly reasonable. Not only does decreasing your value has tree potential to diminish your attraction but her improvement as well. Once you look at it it makes perfect sense, but it's otherwise risky situation if you don't see it coming. Your wisdom is much appreciated, kind contributor.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/18 12:19 AM
5

I honestly wish for two things. For me to get lean and earning top buck and for her to find someone else that does that as well. This is the only other real alternative, as I can't go back in time and be a better person. She inadvertently put me in the right path, good wishes are the least I can give to her.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 09:02 PM
3

I'll check that movie later.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 08:49 PM
1

Yup. And it seems it's only going to get worse in the coming years. And yes, nortenio.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 08:46 PM
3

One of the things the therapist really tries to push forward with me: That I don't put all the blame on just me. Weird enough, that's one thing I have difficulty with. I don't usually blame others. Not letting those feelings hold me down tho!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 08:44 PM
1

Holy shit, the thing is expensive. Although I might as well go for it now. I'll see into it once my finances heal a bit.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 08:41 PM
1

I'm going to put this on the main post. It pretty much summarizes what I think about her.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 08:30 PM
3

I didn't even need to push myself to abandon unhealthy video game usage. Putting my shit together takes up a lot of time. I've even had to consciously sit and play something to relax and unwind. It feels good. My only other crutch is porn, but I'm also working on diminishing that in favor of actual human interaction.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 08:18 PM
5

I'm ashamed to admit that's the case. Emotionally at least one other time as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 08:14 PM
2

We did visit pussy doctors. They treated it the way they thought best and nothing changed. The thing did go away on occasion when visiting her parents. I remember the expression used by one of them "I know I'm not crazy, I'm literally looking at irritated tissue". Although she did turn into one, I am more inclined to believe I let her descend into one. If she's a monster, then isn't the job of a man to be an even bigger monster? The cosplay did come later in the relationship. And yes, foolish me…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 07:46 PM
15

Three or four pussy doctors treated her in the span of a year and a half. At this point I just believe she felt so stressed about doing her wife duties in bed and I became so undesirable to her that it became a psychosomatic disorder.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 12:59 PM
8

If you mean lack of ownership and frame while in that relationship, I wholeheartedly agree. I hate looking back and understand that in many ways I was the architect of my own destruction
/r/TheRedPill25/10/18 12:54 PM
3

I'm gonna go with my hunch and say you're quite smart. Smart guys overthink relationships. We overthink pretty much everything and that's our downfall. From interpersonal relationships to business starting. See there? You're stating you don't know why you're overthinking. You want to understand shit. It sucks major balls if you don't know how to act more and think less. In this specific case, consider yourself thoroughly and royally fucked. Women smell confidence from the moment they lay their h…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:32 AM
1

You find something else to do. Sports, arts and science are the way to go. They will suck up all the time you want to pour into them. As long as they are worthy of something, you're good basically spending your life into it.
/r/askTRP25/10/18 02:21 AM
3

Think for a moment the following: I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain. That's six months of relationship down the drain. It feels bad. ​ Now imagine just how much pain and suffering would that be if you were in that relationship ten years. Do you know what's worse about that? The fact that once you break free from it, there will be parts of you that want that back. You got out. Own it, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 09:07 PM
1

Think for a moment the following: I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain. That's six months of relationship down the drain. It feels bad. ​ Now imagine just how much pain and suffering would that be if you were in that relationship ten years. Do you know what's worse about that? The fact that once you break free from it, there will be parts of you that want that back. You got out. Own it, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

Think for a moment the following: I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain. That's six months of relationship down the drain. It feels bad. ​ Now imagine just how much pain and suffering would that be if you were in that relationship ten years. Do you know what's worse about that? The fact that once you break free from it, there will be parts of you that want that back. You got out. Own it, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

Think for a moment the following: I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain. That's six months of relationship down the drain. It feels bad. ​ Now imagine just how much pain and suffering would that be if you were in that relationship ten years. Do you know what's worse about that? The fact that once you break free from it, there will be parts of you that want that back. You got out. Own it, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:37 PM
1

Think for a moment the following: I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain. That's six months of relationship down the drain. It feels bad. ​ Now imagine just how much pain and suffering would that be if you were in that relationship ten years. Do you know what's worse about that? The fact that once you break free from it, there will be parts of you that want that back. You got out. Own it, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:35 PM
1

Think for a moment the following: I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain. That's six months of relationship down the drain. It feels bad. ​ Now imagine just how much pain and suffering would that be if you were in that relationship ten years. Do you know what's worse about that? The fact that once you break free from it, there will be parts of you that want that back. You got out. Own it, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:34 PM
1

Think for a moment the following: I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain. That's six months of relationship down the drain. It feels bad. ​ Now imagine just how much pain and suffering would that be if you were in that relationship ten years. Do you know what's worse about that? The fact that once you break free from it, there will be parts of you that want that back. You got out. Own it, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:34 PM
1

Think for a moment the following: I imagine you're in quite a bit of pain. That's six months of relationship down the drain. It feels bad. ​ Now imagine just how much pain and suffering would that be if you were in that relationship ten years. Do you know what's worse about that? The fact that once you break free from it, there will be parts of you that want that back. You got out. Own it, learn from it and move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 07:34 PM
0

Incel at 19? I'd say you can't claim that title until you're 30 years old. At that point, you're less an incel and more a fool.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 01:27 PM
3

Good points. Doesn't seem worth the risk unless smv is high and frame is solid
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:18 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:10 PM
1

Elaborate a bit more, if you would.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 06:04 PM
3

Added a bit more context. At the moment I tried making the thing into a quick instant date. She also said she was married and that might have influenced the ending result. What intrigued me was the reaction, it wasn't the [lower gaze into smile] thing that is more easily recognizable as an IOI.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:34 PM
1

Added a bit more context to the one interaction I better remember.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:31 PM
1

Added a bit more context
/r/askTRP19/10/18 04:30 PM
3

I've been cold approaching for about a couple of months already. Overweight and no lifts in forever, so results are poor. Few numbers, only about two dates and no good closes. It might limit me not to have a wingman, but I'm getting the hang of approaching strangers and keeping up a good conversation. Why I didn't do so before? Because I was a dumb blue idiot.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:49 PM
2

Same thing you would do if the interview was male. Own your shit, show confidence. Refrain from using uptalk, it extremely weakens your speech. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yDZYCagHeqQ
/r/askTRP12/10/18 05:25 PM
0

Thank you, I didn't see it as something I had to work on at the time. Quite apparent after your explanation. Although I'm relatively new to this, I wasn't expecting to still have a trashy approach. Also, thanks for the items at the end of what not to do. I'll remember those. The approach was fun, but I agree I didn't make her feel as comfortable as she should have been to close the deal. I did notice that, I just assumed at the moment that since I was relaxed at the moment her comfort was out of…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 06:40 PM
1

Ok, no. I thought when I read the title that you had a physical disability or malformation, but then I get to the content and turns out you're just the average stem nerdy student. All those challenges lie in your mind only. Read the sidebar of the main sub, because clearly you haven't, and do your homework. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:40 PM
1

RedReader works wonders, doesn't show a warning or hides TRP content. The most red pilled reader you could find!
/r/askTRP06/10/18 06:15 AM
-1

Dream? Are you sure that's not an actual memory? [Laughs]
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:24 AM
1

Couldn't help but laugh out loud in the middle of my office at the sight of the last picture. Thank you for your continued contributions, Rollo!
/r/TheRedPill29/09/18 06:30 PM
3

And yet, there is room to make mistakes. Look at the bigger picture, learn from your mistakes and improve. Have fun along the way!
/r/askTRP18/09/18 01:40 PM
-1

I assure you it's not. But I did learn I don't need to write the reports with so much a stupid complex prose. And shorter. Also note I didn't get happy ending, which you would want in a fantasy story.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 12:15 AM
4

I believe I could have gotten away with it. But I'm going to try my luck with no kissing on the first date, then full escalation on the second. One of the commenters on my last FR recommended such approach based on a certain blogger. It seems easier that way since we both are under all the chemical influence of the kiss of a new partner and it gives her time to hamster she might want another date like the first one. The one difficulty in this approach is that the first date must go well enough. …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 12:51 PM
3

No need for worry, be feel happy, fellow human. No, really. Was it that hard to read? I mean, I know my writing isn't Nabokov level, but pass for an alien?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 12:16 PM
3

This, along with just how much Kino makes our breaks your escalation, was one of my main takeaways from this experience.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 05:15 PM
2

I haven't. I'll check it out as soon as I get the chance now.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 05:08 PM
6

Ha! Of course you did. What else did you expect from a newbie report? I assure you, though, you didn't cringe as much as I did when redacting it.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 03:21 PM
6

Thank you, good friend! I'll take these words to heart. Although I don't think I can pull the sit on my lap thing and kiss her at the same time since she's slightly taller than me lol
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:15 PM
1

Do consider Rollo often mentions its impact on his relationship with his mother and daughter. That's the only reason I'm asking.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 03:20 AM
1

'obviously don't escalate en your mom' Lmao just reading the thing makes me jiggle. 'Provide value and support' good idea. I'll try this for some time and watch my results.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 11:38 PM
2

What kind of evil motherfucker would to this to a fellow blue pilled brother? Isn't their suffering already enough?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 03:38 AM
1

I believe that was a good answer. Just going your way is a good response. You must understand that not all sets are winnable. They are not unlike a puzzle or a battle scenario. Sometimes all the pieces are in place and there is just no possible win scenario. You ask what problem you have in the other comment. Look at yourself, are you proud of where you are?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:04 PM
1

This level of insight and observational power. You, sir, should be profiting of this.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 02:18 PM
1

Let's see. First, how did you handle it, friend?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 02:16 PM
2

Sweating off the fat What form of caveman do you take us for? Fat is exhaled https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=C8ialLlcdcw
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 11:03 AM
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