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| 1 | Jessica Valenti: America should model rape laws after Sweden's -- where some legal experts want to make sex a presumptive crime whenever a woman cries rapeI'm sorry, you earlier stated there was more data, and I assumed it was available to you. My presumption was offensive, and I very much apologize. Hopefully, at an individual level, we can both encourage the powers to be to bring this data to the light. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/10 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Jessica Valenti: America should model rape laws after Sweden's -- where some legal experts want to make sex a presumptive crime whenever a woman cries rapeI've always seen higher incarceration rates linked with the increase on the focus of drugs. However, I could see the links between the feminism movement and welfare expenditures (Divorce rates -> Single-parent families -> Welfare increases in supporting children (mostly children's health care & food stamp systems)). Btw, you said you had additional data earlier? I was interested to see that. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/10 01:05 AM |
| 1 | More than 12% of youths in juvenile prisons are sexually abused while in custody there, according to a Justice Department study out Thursday, (note most are male, but article ignores that fact)I interned for the DJS (Division of Juvenile Services) for 3 summers during college, twice at a diagnostic center, which was a mesh of a group home and an incarceration center; and once at the state's maximum incarceration center for juveniles. At any point, I felt I was walking on needles to make sure I was being appropriate. I wasn't much older than half the boys, I was 18-20 when I was working, and I could do nothing about developing rapport with half the young men by just walking in the room… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/10 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Jessica Valenti: America should model rape laws after Sweden's -- where some legal experts want to make sex a presumptive crime whenever a woman cries rapeI'm actually not a big fan of feminism, but I was more so focused on the question, "Are we 100% sure if the feminism movement soley caused the rise in incarceration rates & welfare." Other countries that also experienced the feminist movement don't seem to be having the same problems the US is today, so there's two possible questions, I believe. Either 1) What part of the US feminism movement that is different from other countries caused these rises, or, 2) What other factors worked with the fem… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/10 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Jessica Valenti: America should model rape laws after Sweden's -- where some legal experts want to make sex a presumptive crime whenever a woman cries rapeIn the 1970s, there were so many changes however. I'm not sure if women's "liberation" would be the sole cause, and women's "liberation" was popular in a few other countries around that time as well. In almost every continent, there was at least one country with a female leader (UK, Argentina, India, China, etc.) I was trying to look up prison rates, at least, for some of those but haven't been able to find any that date back to the 1970s for either UK or China. I'd be curious to find out how th… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/10 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Jessica Valenti: America should model rape laws after Sweden's -- where some legal experts want to make sex a presumptive crime whenever a woman cries rapeI got rather ranty and emotional :( | /r/MensRights | 16/12/10 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Jessica Valenti: America should model rape laws after Sweden's -- where some legal experts want to make sex a presumptive crime whenever a woman cries rapeRape laws scare the shit out of me. I already fear that an accident could happen between my boyfriend and I that could seriously injure me, and if he took me into the hospital and I was drugged up, the staff or an advocate would misconstrue my words against him. My boyfriend has pinned me down, we've had "surprise sex," we get rough sometimes, but he has never seriously harmed me. Unfortunately, there are PLENTY of assholes out there who would hear a girl who is first waking up, laying in a hosp… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/10 04:19 AM |
| 9 | After getting 4 years for killing her boyfriend, she is writing a PhD thesis on women who commit crimes.I don't know about abuse - I won't rule out the possibility, but she screams flat-out sociopath. | /r/MensRights | 12/12/10 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get AIDS? Because there are menYeaah.. while you have wonderful logic, I think we both shared the shudders in our brains. Thank you though :) | /r/MensRights | 11/12/10 09:13 PM |
| 4 | If not wearing a condom is rape, is it also rape to lie about taking birth control?Women's sexual and courting actions are, in their basest, about the same with men. Young men and women, in general, are having more open sexual relations (such as having sex outside of a relationship), having sex sooner within a relationship, etc, at least within the US. I am really waiting for the day that society's viewpoints realize that. Society needs to stop assuming young women are vulnerable to "playboys" that will take advantage of them at the club - many women are looking for a hook-up,… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/10 12:29 AM |
| 2 | If not wearing a condom is rape, is it also rape to lie about taking birth control?That would make things much simpler - if we said goodnight at the front stoop. At least for the youth, and for people my age - staying the night is sometimes just to avoid driving home (in my case, if I had drank too much, or its just too late to drive 25 miles home). Also, more and more people are having less dates - its cheaper to have dinner at a date's house, watch a movie on Netflix, etc. I agree, it would be beneficial if we either caught up with the times with new "etiquette" or go back t… | /r/MensRights | 11/12/10 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do women get AIDS? Because there are menSounds much more reasonable to me. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/10 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Why do women get AIDS? Because there are menI know early on, one of the ideas of the beginning of AIDs was that a man had anal sex with an ape. Why wouldn't it be possible that a woman had sex with an ape? They're juvenile ideas to begin with, but still, it shows not only the targeting of gay men, but men in general. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/10 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Anybody watched "The Office" Last night (12/09) and thought hmmm they are tackling fathers rights issues.Absolutely, yes. It was a great episode- it showed how Darryl and his daughter's relationship was harmed by the lack of time they got to spend with each other - he had an extremely difficult time keeping up with her life because he wasn't there 24/7. It put the blame more on the system instead of the father, and I think they implied a very valid point. Its one reason I've enjoyed the Office - they are very subtle about bringing issues to light. It was great seeing them bond again, and he got to … | /r/MensRights | 10/12/10 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Anybody watched "The Office" Last night (12/09) and thought hmmm they are tackling fathers rights issues.Darryl was supposed to have his daughter over for Christmas and was very excited. His ex-wife calls and tells him that their daughter wants to stay with her for Christmas because he didn't have any fun with him before, and wanted to be with her "real" family (not sure if real was the right word, was it whole perhaps?). Pam and Andy encouraged him to bring his daughter to the Office, and helped him show her a good time, and help them bond more. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/10 08:44 PM |
| 2 | If not wearing a condom is rape, is it also rape to lie about taking birth control?It protects from STO - Sexually transmitted obligations. Women should not lie about being on the pill - its immoral and in some way, it should be illegal. The law should be focusing more on preventing these situations from happening than what to do afterwards. It would be simpler, I think. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/10 08:39 PM |
| 9 | If not wearing a condom is rape, is it also rape to lie about taking birth control?I liked some ideas about Sweden's "sexual assault" laws. I think there should be misdemeanor charges brought to both sexes concerning the lack of honesty that happens during sex. I think there should be some type of enforcement that if a condom breaks, a man or woman should be able to say "stop" and be legally supported by it. And I think 100% that women should be legally charged somehow if they lie about birth control. I don't believe these should be major charges - misdemeanors, and not called… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/10 08:35 PM |
| 9 | Thank YouIts important that women pay attention to Mens' Rights. When the feminist movement was going on, not too many men paid attention or worked with it - and shit hit the fan since. Both genders need to work together, respect each other, and care about each other in order for both to feel dignified and equal. Besides - how can a woman say she loves a man and not be concerned with his rights, his well-being, and how hes treated by the judicial system, as well as society? Thank you, OP, I'm glad there'… | /r/MensRights | 10/12/10 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Apparently heterosexual missionary position sex is anti-feminist "because ... it isn't even sex". That's right guys, even consensual sex = rape.Thank you janearcade, I apologize as well. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/10 05:11 AM |
| 4 | Apparently heterosexual missionary position sex is anti-feminist "because ... it isn't even sex". That's right guys, even consensual sex = rape.Could they not come up with anything better than PIV? At first I thought it was some type of sexually transmitted disease.. and then I realized it meant penis-in-vagina... Really? -Really?- | /r/MensRights | 26/11/10 05:09 AM |
| 38 | Apparently heterosexual missionary position sex is anti-feminist "because ... it isn't even sex". That's right guys, even consensual sex = rape."stop thinking about vaginas as “holes” to be filled with, or penetrated by stuff. because they arent." I agree, they are organs.. but they're still holes. And yes, their purpose is to be penetrated. There are plenty of other purposes for a vagina, but one of them is to be penetrated. If a vagina here or there, or even a great deal of them aren't penetrated - that's okay. Its not the end of humanity. You know, I've never had a man tell me what my vagina is for. I wish the feminists would stop te… | /r/MensRights | 26/11/10 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Is it sexist that women lose the right to consent to sex if they have have been drinking?I did read the wrong, thank you. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Disney decides that they want to make movies for boys and girls instead of just girls. Feminist: "That's sexist!"I think shes a decent female character. When I watch Jesse, I personally don't feel ashamed of my own gender. And most times, that's all I request! And I can definitely agree that women are better identifying with men than vice versa. I would rather have 2 out of 10 movies have a -good- strong female lead that isn't made of a bunch of gender-pampering bullshit, with 8 of those being no female leads... than 7 of 10 movies having female leads with that bullshit. Quality of quantity. I wish more fe… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it sexist that women lose the right to consent to sex if they have have been drinking?The law needs to completely get rid of the clause, paraphrased, "person would not give consent if sober." How the fuck are judges or lawyers going to be able to prove that person really wouldn't give consent if sober? The law should be: If you're drunk and you initiated the first drink, then your intent was to be drunk, and you accepted the consequences of being drunk, which include consenting to sex that might have embarrassed you later. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it sexist that women lose the right to consent to sex if they have have been drinking?But who is going to interpret them fairly? A judge can still interpret that law in favor for a woman, but not in favor of a man. Why? Read the line "and who would not have agreed were it not for that influence will be treated as having consented." In the judicial systems eyes, its perfectly believable for a girl to consent while drunk, but not while sober because shes viewed as a creature of purity and vulnerability. Its not as believable for a guy to consent while drunk, but not while sober bec… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Imagine a world where women are treated as equals to men. Equal numbers of men and women fight and die in combat, Women are treated exactly equal under civil and criminal laws, prosecuted and sentenced equally; equal numbers work in dangerous jobs, men and women share responsibilites equally.Imagine a world in which a girl can meet a new guy and not have her ass kissed left and right. Imagine where she can say "I collect dolls", he says "That's kinda lame," and they both laugh (not at each other, but just in mild humility), instead of him lieing: "Oh? Wow. That's the coolest thing I've ever heard. Why don't you get the most expensive thing on the menu?" | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Disney decides that they want to make movies for boys and girls instead of just girls. Feminist: "That's sexist!"Another idea - which goes back to marketing: Girls are more likely to like boys things in today's world. Boys liking girls things, like princesses and doll babies? Probably not so statistically common. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Disney decides that they want to make movies for boys and girls instead of just girls. Feminist: "That's sexist!"I've never heard of men's studies! I figured programs like that would be shut down. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Disney decides that they want to make movies for boys and girls instead of just girls. Feminist: "That's sexist!"Kid movies often do have character development - the pigheaded girl has to learn a few things: Shes a fucking princess, and with that comes fucking power. She can't be negligent to her born dedication to the kingdom, even if it isn't fair. This can work for boys too - whether you're male or female, you're born into a family, and if you neglect your family, you have to understand there may be consequences. Or, in general, choices have consequences. How do you compromise what you want with not hur… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Disney decides that they want to make movies for boys and girls instead of just girls. Feminist: "That's sexist!"I watched the Princess and the Frog, and I'm not saying I hated the movie but it was what I expected out of Disney. The protagonist was the "Sigh, you men are so dumb" type as she lead the story and solved the story's issue, while the male counterpart was this selfish prince who had no real heart for anyone until the end. She wasn't a bad character - she had dreams and goals that she wanted to fulfill, and she was challenging the role of women for that time period - and then they pull in the dum… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Disney decides that they want to make movies for boys and girls instead of just girls. Feminist: "That's sexist!"This is true, I think I went after too many "callous" men that ended up a bit abusive, and thought I could "save" them. Then my own thought process of "I am going to enlighten you, I have the real power in the relationship" just crunched them even more, and made them want to lash back even more. And then most the real guys out there that were just normal - I found boring cause they weren't the Beast. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:11 PM |
| 13 | Disney decides that they want to make movies for boys and girls instead of just girls. Feminist: "That's sexist!"Thank goodness! Disney has been milking fairy tales for a long time, and honestly - it doesn't do anyone any good. It teaches girls to be the damsels and guys to be the heroes and run after the girls. Disney does need to upgrade - Toy Story is a good example of a good kids movie - regardless of gender, everyone has a role, and its not gender-serving. Yes, Jesse might not be the biggest character, but shes neither a female soley there to serve the guys, and not all the guys are chasing after her.… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/10 05:08 PM |
| 7 | Men, stop tricking women into loveless marriages!I've found relationships in which the man stopped loving me wasn't a trick, but me driving him into the ground with drama and over-reactions to little things. I'm not sure I've ever been "tricked" into a loveless relationship. | /r/MensRights | 21/11/10 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Is this rape? First hand account from a girl who convinces herself she has been rapedFrom the guys point of view, I don't see any details or comments that suggest he was intending to rape her. If I was in his shoes, I would think she was drunk, confused, and wanted it to. Did he take advantage of her? Sure, but... seriously, she asked him to make her come twice. She should be blaming her ignorance (in getting drunk and her raising) more than blaming him. If calling it rape helps her get past it, whatever. I just hope shes not deluded enough to take it to court some day. | /r/MensRights | 03/09/10 02:29 PM |
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