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Reckfulness/r/askTRP10/12/16 05:05 PM
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Reckfulness/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:04 PM
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As in she might just be testing him and willing to come back at a later point if he keeps his frame and her in NC, not impossible but unlikely.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 02:24 PM
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I dont think you need to dump her right away, but make yourself unavailable for her, as she has been treating you. If she doesn't come back crawling for your ass then you know it's too late and time to dump her.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:23 AM
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Well, lesson learned. Text messaging gives you the options to review what you actually will tell her. It's harder face to face, or on the phone. I know it feels like 'Damn, I blew it on the woman who I really thought was the one' But trust me, once your oneitis is gone you wont think about it like that anymore.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 10:16 PM
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I wouldnt say it's totally unsalvageable, but if she wants you, she will contact you. There is no point in wasting your energy on a woman who isn't FUCK YES, about you. Especially when she said 'It would be better if we didn't meet' And the first thing she hears from you is 'So lets hang this weekend?' That made you seem very needy, she made a point even if it was only a shit test but you failed it.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:44 PM
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Saying she doesnt have time is just an excuse, if she really is into you she would MAKE time. Can you see how unrealistic it is that she is busy 24 hours a day every day?
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:25 PM
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Solid advice, few weeks of NC seems harsh but then again, if she falls for this other guy because I become unavilable for her, then that would have happened sooner or later, am I right?
/r/askTRP10/12/16 11:46 PM
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They met during our relationship, through some stupid gaming community. And yeah it's obvious he is interested in her, he got so jelous one time when me and her spent time together and not paying attention to him, and he removed her from his phone. Then she goes back to him and gives him 'another chance'
/r/askTRP10/12/16 08:53 PM
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She's been acting more and more careless, like when we spend time togther she gets busy texting him and barely pays attention. Hard to not fall into beta behaviour and grab that phone outta her hands and smash it in the wall.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 06:20 PM
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Yeah it's so shitty, like we were really good friends at least a year before I saw her as potential dating material and we actually hooking up, so it sucks to not be able to keep her as anything.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 10:28 PM
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Ive been thinking about just giving her as little attention as possible but still keep slight contact, showing her that my life is great and fully functional without her in the picture. But most people suggests radio silence, so I might go with that one.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 09:34 PM
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Thats a pretty spot on read actually, thing that could have been seen as something 'wrong' is that I didnt maintain frame and showing weakness when I felt it in my gut that this 'friend' of hers is something more and they are getting really close, but it's a hard one because she tells me he is just a friend and thats where trust comes in. But as we broke up, they hooked up really fast, even though they arent officially a couple. But I should have showed her that I werent as dependant on the rela…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 09:27 PM
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