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| 5 | Have you witnessed any case of leftist men being more successful at dating?Reddit is a leftist echo chamber. You already know what people are going to say before asking. | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 06:58 PM |
| 16 | 10 Rules To Becoming Good With WomenOk but what about rules 2-10? | /r/seduction | 11/07/25 01:10 AM |
| 3 | You can't get girls if you need to get girls to feel good about yourself.Tell yourself you are the prize till you believe it. Obviously it's not going to just work, but we do have real science that shows if you believe something you can make it much more likely to happen than if you didn't. Also stand with good posture and take up space, you're body will release chemicals that help you take risk/assertive. This is shown not only to be true for humans, but also even animals. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 01:15 AM |
| 2 | This is why you guys suck at pulling women, keeping them and getting them interested with you ..Narcissist is a rare personality trait, you're bastardizing the term. People do that so they can see themselves as a victim of their partner instead of looking in the mirror and reflecting their own flaws and problems they caused. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 07:33 PM |
| 36 | How to talk to a girl to see you as a potential partner, not as another guy-friend?I stopped getting friend zoned when I stopped feeling shame and trying to hide that I found a women attractive. Even without saying it there is nonverbal communication going on and it shows confidence. You can't be a creep for finding an attractive women attractive. Is she gonna be mad that you don't think she's ugly or that you're not into guys?? C'mon, that's antisocial mental illness. She's giving behavior that would make the human race die out. You shouldn't be valuing opinions of people lik… | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Why does this always happen to me?I wouldn't ever reveal my intentions until you guys are already something. I would've just had a quick chat or filtered with her for a bit. I would wait till you've flirted/talked with a couple times then asked for the number. She wasn't into you enough for how strong you came onto her. You need to value her less. | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Why does this always happen to me?You should not make it obvious from the start you're into her. Let her have some pleasure in thinking she has to get you as well. | /r/seduction | 03/07/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Got ghosted need helpIf she wanted to talk to you she would respond back, more messages is just going to make you look desperate and undesirable to her. | /r/seduction | 24/06/25 05:31 AM |
| 21 | If you have a gut does a ‘Compression under shirt’ feel like you’re deceiving?I don't see how it's any different than women wearing leggings that make a cottage cheese ass look nice instead. Do it if it makes you feel more confident. A girl that is superficial enough to care probably wouldn't match with you either way. | /r/seduction | 22/06/25 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Where can I find women who fit my lifestyle/are attracted to me?Sounds like you did no flirting, created no sexual tension. Acted just like a friend instead of a romantic partner. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 05:21 PM |
| 34 | men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be aroundThe worst way to get women is to take advice on how to get women from a women. Listen to women for advice on appearance & explanation of what a women is doing. Anything else and it's actually harmful. For example OP says it's bad for men to only talk to women for sex. Then proceeds to explain why you should befriend a women... For sex. Shit is autistic. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 04:32 AM |
| 41 | men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be aroundWomen are really good at making friends compared to men, but women are absolutely snakes to each other. A lot of their friendships are fake and/or toxic. Feel bad for them on for that. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 04:30 AM |
| 10 | If she wants me to give her my numberIf she messages you she's interested, if she doesn't then she is not interested. Worrying about it is a waste of your time. You did good doing what you did. Now move on. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 08:21 AM |
| 12 | Is it easier to get a cougar than a girl in her 20s?This argument works with literally everyone. You can't talk about a group of people without doing generalizations. Are you gonna say not all women like dick because some are lesbians next? | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 08:46 PM |
| 1 | EyeglassesSome do and some don't. Unfortunately for you, being so concerned what women think makes you a little bitch. | /r/seduction | 14/04/25 05:10 AM |
| 2 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?From your other comments it seems what you're doing is right. How much effort are you trying to contact the other person after sex? I feel like there is probably something off about you that you're not sharing or even aware of. Are you attractive looking? Clingy? Distant? Crazy? Maybe it's the men you're choosing? People with less options are going to be more willing to be in a relationship. In general less good looking, less confident, reserved guys are going to be more willing to enter a relat… | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 10:03 AM |
| 5 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?The wording of the last paragraph is a bit confusing. I'm talking about when a women says a man should pay for everything, take care of her, do everything for her. And this should happen because she is a women, she isn't offering anything besides what's between her legs. That's not that valuable tbh, and why would a man stick around when she doesn't have any more value. And to be clear I don't have problems with doing some of that, but it has to be because I want to and I value that person as a … | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 08:53 AM |
| 12 | What’s something I should never do or say to a man if I want him to take me seriously?Tell me you deserve special treatment because you're a women. I instantly feel like the only thing valuable about you is what's between your legs since you're telling me that. | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 05:14 AM |
| 1 | “ a lot of boys tried to talk to me “She's trying to tell you that you have to treat her well because she has a lot of options. But she's full of shit or an idiot because guys will fuck anything that looks like a women. I usually tell them "go be with them, then." To show I'm not desperate and have options too. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | would you rather live in a congested area with lots of available non traditional women or spread out area with not many available traditional women?Immigrant women tend to be more traditional imo. And big cities like NY and Chicago will have a lot of them. I guess the south makes more sense if you want traditional white women. But the big cities in the south like Dallas & Houston won't have traditional white women either. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:40 AM |
| 0 | What are some good questions to ask women on dates?Have you tried being hot and saying this? | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 02:22 AM |
| 5 | will baldness make me unattractive to women?Some women will care and some won't. A lot of girls your age will probably care. I've had older (than me) women tell me my bald head is sexy af. Confidence is extremely important to women and bring insecure about going bald will be far more unattractive than being bald will. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 09:29 PM |
| 0 | For women that are shy and/ or reserved, what'd you do to seduce a guy over time in the office/ work place?Sounds to me like she liked you. But she doesn't think you like her since you didn't do anything for 7 weeks, so now she's being cold. | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach a woman if you don't know if you can perform sexually?Sounds like performance anxiety. If you're only struggling to get hard right before sex but it's fine the rest of the time it's all in your head. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | What healthy and uplifting advice do you have for a soon to be 22 year old virgin?Nothing changes if nothing changes. If you don't want to be a virgin anymore then you need to make changes for that. Work on your appearance and confidence. It's easy to know what to fix but it's hard work to actually fix it. | /r/seduction | 01/01/25 01:07 AM |
| 1 | do women prefer if a man is super jealous if another man is hitting on her and gets defensive or is that a turn off to her?Typically the crazy ones like the jealousy and the boring ones not so much. | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 07:28 AM |
| 2 | Any tips for women on seducing men?Make eye contact and smile or bite your lower lip seductively. A lot of men will think that's hot. Compliment his body in some way and touch the body part. Tell him he has sexy forearms and gently run your fingers on them. Or whatever body part you like of his. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Got stood up by my managerWell they didn't hence this post... The real R move is him trying to think he should punish his manager. | /r/seduction | 13/11/24 07:24 PM |
| 7 | Having trouble getting men interestedGo after men with less options. Why should a men settle for you if he has other options? Or be special enough to where other options are not as good as you. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I feel resentful towards women?They don't want to tell you no but they also don't want to see you. Most people don't want to make other people feel bad and women even more so. Women also tend to be more neurotic and fearful of how someone might react when they get rejected. It's not their fault they were made that way. You would probably do the same thing if you were a women. Be confident, fun, and make them feel safe. Appear to never lose your cool. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Hooking up with a woman at work?First was fine, everyone knew, people didn't care, left couple of weeks after it ended. 2nd was great, no one knew. 3rd was ok, she got feelings attached. 4th was was pretty bad and the girl quit because of me. Never got in trouble, never got fired. | /r/seduction | 23/10/24 02:37 AM |
| 20 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?Because of the resources it takes to reproduce. It takes little resources for a man to create a child so men can easily spray-and-pray. It's a huge toll on the female body to reproduce, so they need to be selective. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Video games are holding you backYup, living your life to appease women online is peak attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Working out makes you more attractive?Unless you have an actual deformity, anyone can be at least a 7 if they put the effort in. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 06:14 AM |
| 41 | Attracted physically, but no real connection beyond that?Better to be with a 7 or 8 you get along with than a 9 who you don't get along with. Her being hot is not worth you bring miserable over. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 08:02 PM |
| 4 | How do I let go of my incessant need for “closure”?Is that really a women you want to be with? That judges a person so harshly on their Instagram? You will do better once you start thinking if this women is good enough for me. Instead of being so worried about are you good enough for her. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Are women honest about their ideal body type?There is a difference between physically attractive to have sex and physically attractive for a relationship. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 11:21 PM |
| 16 | Would a women date a man, in a lower income bracket?Yeah, just like some guys hunt whales. While others want to play with h stick figures. Most wouldn't like it, plenty won't care. Some won't care if they think you will make more in the future. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 02:45 AM |
| 11 | Showing mental weakness is a turnoff to most women.Think it depends on what you're crying about. Crying because another man abused you is gonna turn her dryer than the Sahara. Crying because a grandparent passed away is going to bring out her nurturing instinct. I've never had crying have a negative influence with a girl I was in a relationship with. Have heard multiple girls complain about men they had dated in the past that made them see that man as a bitch. Generally when the guy is afraid of other people or isn't standing up for himself. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 11:37 PM |
| 4 | How can I be more emotionally unavailable as a Woman ? Any tips or advice pleaseYou're problem is going after guys who don't want the same thing you want. Stop giving guys what they want when they don't want what you want. If a guy just wants to fuck, you shouldn't be surprised when you get ghosted after fucking. Being emotionally unavailable isn't gonna magically make him fall in love you. It's not hard to attract guys, maybe you're shooting out of your league. Just because they will fuck you doesn't mean they would consider a relationship. Half the girls I've had sex with… | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Question from a bald daygamer, beginner level.Seems equivalent to makeup or hair extensions/weaves whatever the fuck girls do now, no? Wear the hat if you want to wear the hat. Other people hide a bunch of shit about themselves to give a good first impression anyway. | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Bringing girls back to your parents' houseIf it's a hook up why would she care if you can take care of her? If she wanted you to take care of her she wouldn't be looking for a hookup. This doesn't make any sense. I don't refuse to fuck a girl because she's not wife material. Why do you claim girls only fuck husband material guys? | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 06:23 PM |
| 26 | How do I get rid of my “Smart” lookI don't even know you and you sound like a pretentious know-it-all already. Go read some book on how to talk to people, it seems like you could use that. Helping people doesn't make you not arrogant. Being arrogant isn't that bad anyway when it comes to girls. Start looking to what people can teach you. You might be more intelligent then them, but I guarantee they know some things you don't. My last GF was dumb as a bag of rocks, but she could friends with people at a godly level. | /r/seduction | 12/04/24 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Dating does not work black/ethnic men in the U.S.Online dating for most men is bad. No shit a online dating for black men isn't good, it's also not good for most white men as well. I think I have realistic chances of pulling an 8, maybe a 9 in person. I'm lucky if I can get a 5 on the dating apps. I'm mixed race, with a very ambiguous ethnicity look. | /r/seduction | 17/01/24 10:08 PM |
| 28 | Seducing a girl with a boyfriendI feel most women cheat when they've checked out of the relationship. They just do this to sabotage it rather than manning up and ending it. | /r/seduction | 18/11/23 02:27 AM |
| 6 | So why EXACTLY are guys afraid to talk to women and why are women afraid to talk to guys?Creepy is subjective. I think just about anyone will be creepy to someone out there. And you just have to accept that some people might think your creepy, but you have to not live your life in fear that everyone will be that .5% girl who thinks you're creepy. The problem is when you do something that a large amount of people find creepy. Like not sensing body language when someone is uncomfortable or stalker shit. That's just universally bad. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 09:40 AM |
| 4 | To the MALES: glitch for Karisma, less approach anxiety, and more confidenceTheir is some evidence that after 5-7 days of not busting a nut testosterone start declining again. This is why I'm said once a week and not to completely stop. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 01:43 AM |
| -1 | Why do people say a girls body count isn't a red flag for an LTRNot necessarily, their is biological differences between women and men. Just because high body count for women means she is more likely to cheat doesn't mean the same for men, but it could. IIRC amount of sexual partners is the largest correlation for women if they will cheat. Amount of income is the largest correlation for men. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 11:24 AM |
| 5 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?It's way more common than 1/4. About 1/2 adults have it. A lot of people are just asymptomatic and STD tests don't check for herpes since it's so common. Do you guys not know their is like 30 strands of HPV and the vaccine only protects you from a few of those? You're not even close to being immune from it because you got the vaccine. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Crush texted me that I look hot. She had rejected me a year ago. What do I do?Because he's hot now and he wasn't before. We gonna act like you would have the same interest in a women if she weighed 120lbs or if she weighed 220lbs? Appearance matters, how is this even an argument? | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Small update for what it's worth...How you say it can be just as important as what you say. Sounds like you're unconfident so keep trying till you don't feel so nervous and then it will be easier to sound confident. Most men can reach 8/10 of they put effort into their appearance. Haircut, moisture, clothes that fit well, don't be fat. That will get most men to looking pretty good. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How to pick up/ask out girl I like at a retail store? Hypothetical/based on a dreamSounds childish to me if someone is going to stress out after telling someone no to an advance as long as you're not overbearing about It. Just act like it isn't awkward and their isn't really any reason for it to be awkward. If you're creepy about it then yeah, it's going to be awkward. Some guys get crazy and as long as you don't do that it can be fine. and I would only ever do it if you feel like something is their. Not just do it because you think she's hot and you have no reason to believe … | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | How to pick up/ask out girl I like at a retail store? Hypothetical/based on a dreamYou could ask her out and still do the same thing independent of what she says. Also you're kind of saying she is only being nice to you to take your money. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Girls that workout....I don't get the headphone argument. I have seen 1 person (besides groups) not listening to their own music at the gym in 6 months. Everyone listens to music and a lot of people will have conversations with other people. I don't know how you can have walked into a gym in the last 10 years and think people who have headphones on = don't want to talk. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Women I attract reflect on the type of man I am?I'm betting you have low self esteem and you don't realize you're attracting other girls. Fat girls are more desperate and will often show their attraction to you more. Plus since you think you're more attractive than her your low confidence isn't getting in the way. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Expressing Yourself (Models) vs Not Criticizing (How to Win Friends & Influence People)It's about saying those things to people directly. If I call you a dumb motherfucker you're going to feel bad and/or want to tell me I'm an ass. If I tell you u/wiwoo is a dumb motherfucker then you won't feel the same negative emotions. It's way different if you want to criticize the guy in the movie. A girl is not going to feel negative emotions about a fictional portrayal of a character she has never met. If you critique the girl right in front of you she's going to feel negative emotions. Bt… | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 11:00 PM |
| 3 | To all my brothers battling in the trenches..this is for youLack of confidence is the biggest attraction killer. Some girls won't like a guy being underweight and some will. Also a lot of girls are insecure as well and they won't only accept a perfect looking man just like most guys don't only accept perfect looking women. If you really want to gain weight it isn't that hard. You just need to put effort and be patient because it will take a significant amount of time. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 07:17 AM |
| 3 | how important is the "hair game" when it comes to becoming attractive?Shadowmoon valley | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 05:27 AM |
| 5 | A surgeon once said: When I improve someone’s face they get more woman, it’s not because of his looks but because he believes he looks good.An ugly confident guy will be seen as creepy. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 01:36 AM |
| 4 | I absolutely envy and despise young guys who are lucky enough to find women who are attracted to them without money and willing to sleep with them shortly (or later) after meeting without much in returnIt's because you value those women more than you value yourself. So they don't aim to please you because your easy. Start doing things because you want to and not because you think they will like it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | The thing i hate or resent the most about men always having to approach women is the risk of being labeled or perceived as creepy, weird, making the woman uncomfortable.You need all 3, not just 1 of them. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | The thing i hate or resent the most about men always having to approach women is the risk of being labeled or perceived as creepy, weird, making the woman uncomfortable.Go to the gym, practice good hygiene, and live with confidence. Those creepy things will now have the girls smile at you instead. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Ok guys I need help with dating. Why does no man consider me? Why does no one like me? Why do men cancel on me?How many guys have you talked to and and clearly expressed interest in. Without seeing a picture it is really hard to tell, even with just height and weight we can tell if you're probably, maybe, or definitely not attractive. Maybe you just have a huge resting bitch face as well. Most decent guys don't have infinite confidence either, and if you look like you have a stick up your ass all the time they're not going to want to approach you. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Ok guys I need help with dating. Why does no man consider me? Why does no one like me? Why do men cancel on me?No, that doesn't mean your ugly. It's just saying don't put any value in what other girls tell you or desperate simps. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Ok guys I need help with dating. Why does no man consider me? Why does no one like me? Why do men cancel on me?But what % of men do you actually find attractive? Judging by my exes it's insanely low for women compared to men. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?Na most women just think they deserve someone better then what they actually deserve. if you can't get a top tier guy then your not a top tier women. 80% of women think they deserve a top 20% guy because they're not honest with themselves. You need to be a top tier women to get a top tier man in a relationship, sleeping with 1 is fucking easy. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Men showing emotionI've heard several women say they wanted their boyfriend to open up to more emotions with them. And then later say they have lost attraction to their boyfriend once he did it, they feel bad they did, but nevertheless the attraction is gone. You might be different, but it's really bad advice to cater to the 1% of women, much more effective to behave in a way that attracts 99% of women. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:37 PM |
| 20 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?You either are full of shit on what you say you eat or you need to go to the doctor and get blood work done. If you eat 15 cheeseburgers daily and you look like you've been in Auschwitz for a few years your body is FUCKED up and you need to get some real medical help. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Do girls get more attracted to us if we have a nice body and workout often?Lance Armstrong used gear so anyone bigger than him has to be on gear right? RIGHT? | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 04:50 PM |
| -1 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?Do you just not preform oral then? If you don't shave than their will be hairs. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:57 AM |
| -1 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?You really prefer hairs in your mouth? | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I attract a lady while I’m doing something I love doing without seeming to be unapproachable?You probably don't want to date an ugly women, it's not unreasonable for women to not be receptive to someone approaching them they don't find attractive either. The difference is women have a higher standard for physical attractiveness then men do, but also women can find men attractive without as much focus on physical appearance as men do. Approaching is hard, it's not easy to just put yourself out there like that and women don't need to. Men need to. It's just the way the world is, no compla… | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:54 AM |
| 2 | How do I attract a lady while I’m doing something I love doing without seeming to be unapproachable?Because women get approached and so they don't need to do the approaching. You need to look really fucking good as a dude to be approached by women. A women looking at you and smiling is about the most you should expect women to do. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Advice on how to approach a girl at the gym 🙏🏻How many men have you approached? | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 09:39 AM |
| 9 | This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach.That's really cherry picking. It's a female asking a question. What kind of answers are you expecting? Are you expecting men to tell this women how men should approach women when she was specifically asking why men are not approaching her? | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 03:03 AM |
| 25 | she wasted my time then laughs in my faceOnly thing you can do now is bang her mom. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :Your right, but guys who get girls get even more confident they can get girls, and girls find that attractive. Also why go after the less attractive person if the more attractive person is available? No one is going to do that unless they specifically learned to avoid those people. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 01:03 AM |
| 3 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :You should specify if you're talking about low volume or low frequency. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :You mean generally attractive people are attractive to most people? No way! Who would someone date a less attractive person when they can date a more attractive person? | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 09:17 PM |
| 0 | First approach! How did I do?That logic seems pretty poor. You might make a girl uncomfortable no what she is doing, or where she is at. So you might as well commit to being single forever if that's how you think the world should work. Dude left her a long as soon as she said idk. I think it's unreasonable to say what he did was bad. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 11:55 AM |
| 4 | How come some men are good at whatever they do while others never seem to be the samePareto distribution. The more you have of something the easier it is to get more of it. When you don't have much of something it's stupid hard to acquire it. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:04 PM |
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