ReclaimingMine Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
67	How do we clean up MRA?	discussion	ReclaimingMine	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/05/25 04:34 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Feminists Can’t Seem To Define Feminism It’s become they all can’t agree to something. It’s so mind boggling that they were able to play victimhood to gain support while can’t even agree on something. If you go deep into feminism, there is so much subgroups. They are all just playing nice to defeat “patriarchy”, mask will come off as soon as they gain more support, eventually it’s just the majority voice (white middle class women).	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/03/26 01:41 AM
1	I would advise not to use the "black on black crime" gotcha as a response to feminists bringing up statistics about men being violent. I’m saying is that we are not even at the point we can look at race. If white men can’t even get equality in certain situations then black men are not even close. Sure, we can use statistics of black men but what I mean is not focus on rights that benefit only one section. Base requirement should be that benefits all men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/03/26 11:30 PM
-14	I would advise not to use the "black on black crime" gotcha as a response to feminists bringing up statistics about men being violent. Problem is the MRA still has many racists ideologies in its movement that attract racist (who could be for men’s rights) which muddies the water. It needs to be a movement focused on one single thing, men’s rights. No racial division, no religious affiliation and definitely no political siding. Edit; down voted because of denial that it doesn’t have racist faction or that it SHOULD be racial, religious and political?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/03/26 02:09 PM
37	Men's Issues are invisible in discourse It honestly baffles me that 50/50 custody isn’t the default standard. It should be. But it’s not. Instead, it feels like it’s automatically 100% the mother unless the father actively fights for shared custody. And then, somehow, if he doesn’t push for it immediately, he gets blamed for “not asking.” So yes, equality will feel like oppression for these mothers in court. The whole custody system feels stacked against men. I’m not saying every case is like that, but there have been investigations w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/02/26 07:59 PM
7	How Is "Women And Children" Not Misandrist? Feminist love to talk about equality while keeping all the benefit from the “olden days”.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/10/25 06:32 PM
9	Does the Movember Charity Have a Feminism Problem..? How do we ensure a 50% association of men in the company and what goes toward helping men not propping up women or feminism?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/10/25 11:05 AM
3	TYT the Leftist media criticizes AOC for mocking that guy for being short... Surprise eh Left critiques left. Wish right does that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/10/25 04:01 PM
0	Are right wing politics generally worse for disabled people? Conservative believe in survival of the fittest but don’t believe in evolution.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/10/25 07:27 PM
1	Our political disagreements are why men cannot unite. Men’s political, religious and race to some extent are the reason.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/09/25 05:01 AM
2	The Lifelong Cost of a "Routine" Procedure: Our survey is documenting the profound regret and physical complications men carry from a surgery they never consented to. I think “proud” translate to “I’m confident or happy with what I have”. “Regret” translate to “just found out I was mutilated and wonder how it feels to have it intact”.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/07/25 05:10 PM
14	The Lifelong Cost of a "Routine" Procedure: Our survey is documenting the profound regret and physical complications men carry from a surgery they never consented to. That 11.49%, 22.99% and 5.75% circumcised are living in ignorance or in denial. If you are a father, say no to your spouse when she makes the decision for future men and boys.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/25 09:50 PM
14	Men, share your experience with misandry and help other men recognize it and speak up! You mean pay gap for men from 20-32? Yes women out earn men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/07/25 11:03 AM
55	Men, share your experience with misandry and help other men recognize it and speak up! Workplace still pushes gender roles. I worked in microbiology department, with other 4 co workers who are all women. My supervisor, a man, still hands me the hardest tasks and tests.Supposedly, all of the women complained that this test is “too hard” on them so I got it by default. They all know they will do these varying work when they applied for this job. We all roughly make same salary with years of experience adjusting it by 3-5k. I did it for couple of years before I moved on to another de…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/07/25 11:13 AM
4	What are some notable examples of male disposability? Not enough care or support for men’s mental health. Feminism has converted 25-40% of the men to be against men and support feminism instead.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/07/25 03:18 PM
6	Misandry in mental health field. It’s easy to go extreme when you are ignored. Left wing politicians don’t carry about men’s health, they look at men like many women, expendable, work till you die.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/07/25 11:10 PM
4	Female privilege and men issues are connected. So it makes so much sense why Feminists are usually so hostile towards any movements for men. Last i heard, “toxic masculinity” is pushed, I don’t see many men pushing “toxic femininity” into the mainstream. Because “femininity is divine and can’t do wrong”	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/25 03:38 PM
8	Female privilege and men issues are connected. So it makes so much sense why Feminists are usually so hostile towards any movements for men. Feminism/feminist can dodge all the negative and only take in the positive. Anytime someone who is feminist does bad “they are not feminists”. Woman kills her husband. Feminist don’t do that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/06/25 05:51 PM
12	Any married men with kids here can share their insights into the pros and cons of family values in today's financial and sociological climate? Marriage life is not good for men…. Well from men’s appreciation perspective. I work, come home watch kids, laundry, cooking, dishes…. So we do 50/50, maybe she does 55 and I do 45. Then on top I do all yard work, gardening and house maintenance alone. Pretty much teach kids daily life skills like how to weed shoes, tips to not put the shoes on the incorrect feet, putting zipper, combing hair, putting seatbelts. Washing hands/face, brushing, potty training. Wife doesn’t have patience. But from w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/06/25 05:16 PM
10	"I don't hate men, I hate the patriarchy" What are some things you think of when you hear this statement from feminist? “I hate men but if i say that then I can’t push my agenda efficiently. Additionally, by blaming Patriarchy I don’t need to take accountability for my failures and actions, plus I get to blame ALL men for the action of the top rich men throughout the history”	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/06/25 08:01 PM
27	I like this community If feminism can’t criticize itself and believe it to be infallible, the it is the problem. Feminism just doesn’t want to loose victim status so they make men issues seems negligible or redirect with patriarchy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/05/25 09:20 PM
0	How do we clean up MRA? Let’s imagine that. What can the Jews do in peak 1942 Germany? You can’t just take out the Nazi in their powerful form. But hey, here we are today and Nazi is dead and banned. If they can do it, I’m sure men in powerful positions can easily do that.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/05/25 02:10 AM
2	How do we clean up MRA? You can’t simply eradicate something that has huge support. First we need to point out flaws (we know many exist) and slowly dismantle it. You will face many opposition and will simply fail.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/05/25 08:44 PM
2	How do we clean up MRA? I understand feminism and I do not approve of it. If you check my post history I have commented on ask feminist often, and have many downvotes to prove. I just feel like men are separated instead of united. I want to eliminate the factor that separate us. I feel like left wing men are the one who can do it. Because we understand left wing ideology but don’t approve feminism. MRA is not inclusive, they have religious and to some extend racist undertones. Let’s be clear, it’s for Christian, white …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/05/25 01:43 AM
-1	How do we clean up MRA? I understand feminism need to be fixed but we need to be better than feminists. Currently radical feminist have funneled their way in to the status of socialism while they are not for equality. (This is where some feminist say they are, but reality is feminist has been hijacked from equality to superiority). However, if we make our only goal to kill feminism then we won’t even get any support from moderates and fathers. We have to build a strong core and get support, that means all type of men w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 08:16 PM
2	How do we clean up MRA? I understand and support not letting feminism/feminist dictate men’s lives and how they should regulate their feelings. What surprising to me is that feminist have driven the narrative men don’t cry, I have seen my father and grandfather cry, not to level how a women cries but they cry in their own way. My theory is that feminism is a he reason why male suicide has it gone down or still rising. They inherently blame men for their issue, when men open up, their are labelled as unhealthy and avoid…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 07:39 PM
0	How do we clean up MRA? If women can get so much done, why can’t men, when we hold some power in politics? I don’t mean insult I’m just angry.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 05:02 PM
9	How do we clean up MRA? Green flag ones, you can usually tell when someone’s not just yelling “patriarchy” every time they get, not trying to one-up your experience or use some specific archaeological fact about women being ancient spear-hunters. They don’t label every disagreement as “mansplaining.” Basically, if someone can talk about gender issues without sounding like they’re reading from Twitter, that’s a green flag. My wife used to lean pretty average feminist with the usual stuff about gender equality, workplace…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 05:01 PM
3	How do we clean up MRA? Men’s lib is just extensions of feminism and I don’t agree with them. They always put women issue over men’s issue. Menlibs is pretty much this: Men got raped? But Women got raped too let’s discuss that. So no, I’m not saying men’s libs but also we need to productive when criticizing feminism and act like it’s the only problem we face. Think about how much male politicians are there, who may have sons? Why can’t we have them help men’s cause? Why can’t Trump say something about men’s mental heal…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 04:40 PM
-4	How do we clean up MRA? They won’t budge, we need to be in our own. Some feminists say it’s not their problem to fix men’s issue and some say it is.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 11:35 AM
10	How do we clean up MRA? Hi, I did use AI to enhance as English isn’t my first language. But my points are my points.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 11:34 AM
7	How come only men complain about loneliness ? I can tell you from married man perspectives. There is a subtler reasons and “responsibilities” to get men to leave their friends group. While women friends group is still going good. Why is men going out with friends becomes more like “can I go tonight with guys, you going to be alright?” While, when she goes out it’s more like “I’m seeing name and name today, okay?” I see it as very common married couple. Women made it “bad” for men to hang around with their friend with preconceived ideas of w…	/r/MensRights	03/02/25 01:06 AM