ReconciledCapitalist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Red pill meetup groups?		ReconciledCapitalist	/r/askTRP	20/01/18 07:49 PM

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1	How to tell someone not to mess with you LOL, k	/r/askTRP	10/06/21 02:19 AM
1	How to tell someone not to mess with you Height is probably more of a factor than face for many women. But again, for you, and your journey, it doesn’t matter because you have no control over your height. So the best thing to do is not spend anymore time thinking about height, and focus on bettering the things you have control over. Guaranteed a 6’1 guy with a successful business, interesting hobbies, great fitness and health, is going to have more long term success with dating than a 6’5 wagie with no opportunities, and boring as fuck…	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 04:34 PM
1	Is it normal for men to cry...? How in the fuck do I stop drinking every god damn night... I cannot control my alcoholism... Good news is, you’re admitting you have a problem. There’s a bunch of things you can try. AA, therapy, rehab programs, etc. On the more fringe end of the spectrum you can try microdosing or working with a physician to try “the Sinclair method” seems to work for a lot of people	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 03:07 PM
1	How to tell someone not to mess with you At 6’1 height shouldn’t be a limiting factor with women 5’10 and under. Honestly even women closer to your height likely won’t think about your height. One thing I do know, is the more you think about your hight, women will sense that insecurity and it’ll be a turnoff. I too wish I was taller, and my dick was bigger, and was born into money, etc. The reality is I’m not, I wasn’t, and no amount of wishing will change that. BUT… There’s so much I do have agency over that I can improve. Focus on th…	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 05:55 AM
3	Does it get better? It gets better. Not unlike the movie this thread gets it’s name from, the protagonist is traumatized after discovering the new true reality. Though later he gains mastery over this new reality, and is better for it. Waking up fucking sucks. But as you adjust, and get your mind right about what women are and how they work. Things become much easier, especially for someone as clearly motivated and disciplined as yourself. Losing weight is one of the hardest things to do. On top of that you’ve hust…	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 01:04 AM
1	How to tell someone not to mess with you Only 6ft. So just barely above manlet status haha	/r/askTRP	09/06/21 12:59 AM
1	I have never had this many options. How to not let this feeling get to my head? “Regression toward the mean” basically, you’ll have times when shit is great, and you’ll have times when it’s a fucking desert. Keep that in mind, and know that despite how many women you have or don’t have, you can always continue to chase greatness	/r/askTRP	08/06/21 05:10 AM
1	How to tell someone not to mess with you I’m kind of tall, lift and have a giant beard, so people generally don’t mess with me. On the rare occasion someone tries to start shit with me, I usually deescalate it by just maintain a relaxed and friendly attitude. This sounds unintuitive, but people who mess with people are expecting fear, or anger…if you’re relaxed and chill…that throws them off, also… what does maintaining a relaxed or neutral vibe tell them…if they’ve been around the block a few times, it tells them you got something for…	/r/askTRP	08/06/21 04:11 AM
1	What are some signs that you’re going to get fired? What everyone else is saying. But also, if they are suddenly starting to build up documentation of things you did wrong, or how you aren’t meeting your goals. In a larger organization, management will sometimes have to basically provide a dossier of evidence of why you should be fired to HR in order to fire someone.	/r/askTRP	03/06/21 07:15 AM
1	Ignored by every girl, ever, on every platform, and in real life. It's making me depressed. You look good, but something tells me you might need to fully realize the DGAF attitude. Monk mode might help. Basically find something other than women/pussy to invest your time into that makes your life better. Enjoy the process and stop giving a fuck about women for a little while. Chances are this will get you some attention from women, even if it doesn’t, you’ll be further along with your goals. Also dude, speaking as someone in their mid-thirties...if you keep at it, you’ll likely be drown…	/r/askTRP	08/05/21 10:55 PM
2	Update from the last post on the girl who unmatched with me on hinge but wanted to go on the date. What the f’ing hell. Should I hard next? Honestly, if she’s stressing you out like this already, consider that either she’s not worth it, or you’re too invested.	/r/askTRP	08/05/21 02:17 AM
1	Am I in the wrong? Lol, “she thought I called her toxic” no, she’s being toxic by shifting the problem to be about her feelings, and pulling you back into her frame, instead of being a mature self-aware adult. Girls don’t do this consciously. She’s been playing you like a fiddle. Trust me, this is the kind of girl you should run from as fast as you can.	/r/askTRP	08/05/21 02:14 AM
1	Is it possible to make one sided open relationship? In my experience it’s WAY easier to set up the one-sided open relationship if you set that expectation before the relationship really begins. I do this by joking about starting a sex cult, or talk about how sister wives would be beneficial for everyone involved, etc. that way you can get them used to the idea before it even becomes an issue. But with an established relationship, idk. I’d say slowly introduce the idea to her. At first through humor, then thorough “Funny how when you think about i…	/r/askTRP	30/04/21 04:11 AM
2	How to slay White Knights Sharp blade, ear-to-ear	/r/askTRP	29/04/21 06:24 AM
1	People who used to play video games alot, how has stopping changed you? Video games are by design, more exciting and more interesting than most things you would have access to on a daily basis. This isn’t an inherently bad thing. But consider how our brains work. That feeling of enjoyment you get from a video game operates from the same wiring that triggers all the good feelings from real-world achievements. Eventually this makes most people habitually gravitate to games as it’s a low-cost/low-risk opportunity to feel great levels of accomplishment. Consciously we k…	/r/askTRP	19/04/21 05:29 AM
3	Girlfriend mad because I liked another girl's sexy dance video on instagram? No	/r/askTRP	27/03/21 06:55 PM
1	Have any of you actually faked it till you made it to success? My company builds custom software. I also work with some people as a coach. Not trying to sell anything on the thread here	/r/askTRP	02/01/21 03:23 PM
3	Have any of you actually faked it till you made it to success? I grew up kind of poor, not poor poor, but white trash for sure. Grew up refinishing wood floors with my dad, which is good income if you aren’t an alcoholic/compulsive hoarder like my old man. Either way, I knew I was too smart to be slinging sandpaper and breathing in sawdust my whole life. Went to art school because it was the only college that would accept me with a 1.14 GPA, and no SAT/ACTs, got financial aid and worked my ass off to pay what financial aid and subsidized loans didn’t cover.…	/r/askTRP	01/01/21 02:11 AM
0	Kissed a transgender woman accidentally I wouldn’t marry or date a trans, but the way I see it. If they fooled me, I would have wanted to fuck her in the ass anyways, so 🤷‍♂️	/r/askTRP	27/12/20 03:24 AM
5	Hot babe who doesn’t shave her armpits Would bang while burying my face in her hairy pits	/r/askTRP	18/10/20 03:39 PM
1	Why is it that girls are better looking in richer areas? Better genes, orthodontia, taught better hygiene, taught healthy habits, more likely to value athletics as a part of a well rounded lifestyle, less stress, more love and support, better cosmetics, better clothes, better food, better water quality...etc, etc	/r/askTRP	22/06/20 05:04 AM
3	No condom hard condom soft Echoing what others have said. But some personal experience here. If I’m not using “large” size condoms like magnums, I might as well not fuck. I’m not huge either, regular size condoms seem to just be so tight they kill the nerves or something. Also, lubing up before rolling one on helps. I’m starting to think the ideal way a condom works from a pleasure perspective is that it would mimic a foreskin and massage the glans. Other than that it’s in your head. Girls I’m really into I have more wood…	/r/askTRP	14/12/19 05:33 PM
1	What's a good lifting routine to get ripped? Can’t go wrong with starting strength or stronglifts 5x5 if you’re just getting started. That will build some base strength and build some muscle. When you plateau on one of those programs, it gets more nuanced depending on your goals. No matter what, diet/nutrition has to be in alignment with your goals. This is where most people struggle the most. Also, get your 8hrs of sleep in, it’ll help the hormonal effects from lifting, will help you get bigger, stronger, and leaner.	/r/askTRP	04/12/19 08:04 AM
3	Girlfriend posted image of her and personal trainer shirtless on her Instagram... I was livid Soft next, focus on your mission, get someone younger with more respect for you.	/r/askTRP	28/09/19 02:06 AM
1	World of Warcraft - bluepill? Library and more gym. If you’re still bored start a business.	/r/askTRP	22/09/19 06:01 AM
2	Online dating is so hard for average guys So, mostly what other have said, get jacked, get a life YOU feel is amazing, bitches will flock. Read the sidebar, learn about game, get your social skills up. But also I think tinder heavily weighs against all but the top dudes unless you pay. Also, maybe your pics/profile suck? I get a few matches a week, usually can convert one or two into a date, but when I paid, I was getting 3+ matches daily, couldn’t make enough time for all of them.	/r/askTRP	22/09/19 05:51 AM
1	Sugar Babies: You will be stunned! I’ve used that site, gotten laid plenty of times, never had to pay the girls. Lots of girls are just looking to make some $, and will bolt/get aggressive the minute you indicate you aren’t paying. There are some girls though, where if you play your cards right, will be happy to spend time around you as a dominant, successful man with nothing given to them in return but a hard cock and a few hours of companionship. For me I think it almost has worked as instant frame building. I’ve had better luc…	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/19 03:07 AM
5	Why dont I ever see fat guys with good looking girls but I see vice versa all the time? Many men seem to not realize what they could have if they had the confidence to chase after it	/r/askTRP	02/06/19 09:45 PM
1	Why should I not kill myself? There literally are monks and monasteries of many religions and denominations, stop making excuses, own the fact that you can create whatever kind of life you want to create, and start doing it. Too weak, too dumb, too poor, too whatever, there’s very clear paths to changing those circumstances, but ultimately it’s up to the individual to choose a path, and get after it. Starting is the hardest part, and your path might change as you progress and learn. Fact is, you ARE going to die, it is inevi…	/r/askTRP	31/03/19 10:43 PM
1	How do I lower my sex drive? Meditation	/r/askTRP	21/02/19 05:37 AM
1	BPD Get your shit together to be independent, then start worrying about the rest. Like others said, you can’t pick up another mom, what you can do is become less dependent on her, which will allow you to have more agency in how you choose to have her involved in your life. There is no fixing BPD, but being aware of it you can learn to manage that relationship in a way where it won’t effect you negatively. The moment you start thinking “if I can just get her to _____ _____” you’ve lost the way. You c…	/r/askTRP	16/02/19 08:30 PM
2	Is there anything I can do to help out a case of vaginismus? Everyone else is right, you would likely be happier if you had better opportunities. That reward you say you feel from opening a woman up sexually is a different thing, that also works as an easy excuse to try to fix this one. But something tells me you’ve already decided to spend your time on this one, despite any rational or logic suggesting otherwise. Her problem is likely best address by her self, finding her own path through. The best way you can try to help fix her is for you to ask her wh…	/r/askTRP	15/02/19 05:08 AM
1	Should I let women know I'm also attracted to men? Depends on the type of women, more traditional women might care and be totally turned off. More progressive women or queer women either won’t care or think its interesting/sexy.	/r/altTRP	12/01/19 02:41 AM
0	Meetup? I tried starting a meetup group for men’s issues, leaning in the direction of TRP ideas. Trick would be getting the language right on promo materials, so you can avoid “male feminists” and “thoughtful gay men” types from taking over, while also not being a target for demonization as a MRA. I still think it’s a good idea, especially for men currently getting divorce raped or at a tipping point to become open to TRP. Just need to figure out the right way to balance the message.	/r/askTRP	28/07/18 06:51 PM
3	Woman loses attraction to boyfriend because someone else was richer Sounds like her boyfriends cousin wouldn’t waste his time on a woman like her.	/r/MGTOW	23/06/18 08:01 PM
16	Tinder trolling part 2 Devoting time and mental energy to women who probably won’t even notice. Way to go your own way bro.	/r/MGTOW	17/06/18 03:45 AM
2	Consent with a fwb Sure thing. There are a bunch of different types of events you might find, but most commonly are “munches”, it’s a weird name for basically just a group of kinksters getting together at a bar or restaurant and talking about kink stuff, it’s a great way to ask for advice or seek out new friends in the scene. There are also conferences, classes, workshops, and if you get to know people you will likely find out about private play parties in your local area. One huge misconception about BDSM/kink is…	/r/askTRP	08/01/18 06:39 AM
1	Consent with a fwb If you start getting really into kink also don’t be afraid of checking out events in your local kink community, there are some things you really just need to find mentors/teachers for. Fetlife.com has a pretty good index of local events. People are usually super respectful and open mined.	/r/askTRP	08/01/18 06:22 AM
2	Consent with a fwb Like others said, establish consent before hand. Google RACKS and “Safe, Sane, Consensual” for some of the more established “models” of consent the kink community uses. Talk about any hard limits she might have, ask about any injuries or sensitivities to careful of. Make sure thinks like a safe word or safe signal is established, and you’re both on the same page regarding starting/stopping protocol. As the “top” you need to read her reactions and get a feel for her limits, as you master this, yo…	/r/askTRP	08/01/18 06:12 AM