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| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenI’m pretty sure I specifically said in the last paragraph that sex is not a big deal to me after maturing past being a hormonal charged teenager. Just because somebody makes a post about a topic does not mean that topic is the sum of who they are, or that they’re not able to do other things. Great reading comprehension you got there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/26 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenI support women’s hoe phases, and I think this only applies to men that desire casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenI should’ve made the distinction in my post originally about this being for the men who are inclined to desire casual sex. I think it’s needed to be able to experience women without inevitably ‘ruining’ the friendship over mixed feelings or trying to make a move on that friend I view my past casual partners as having mutually shared something fun and also sensitive. For the ones that I am still friends with it has established what I’d describe as another unique layer of camaraderie between us. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenWhat is 4B? I’m not up to date lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenAgree, and I should’ve specified that. I meant to have my post apply to the men who are interested in casual sex, because this is the natural progression of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenI’ve been going through the comments and I want to say that you are completely right that I should’ve said and acknowledged ‘not all men’ in a few ways. I wholeheartedly believe that there are many many men that do not have the desire to play the casual game, I always have. I should’ve specified my post to apply to men who do have the desire to do casual stuff and do place worth upon it whether by choice or by therapy-needing experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenI wholeheartedly agree. I think their heart is in the right place, but in real life things are applied differently than internet logic. I personally am unaffected by any thoughts of being compared to those terms, but I have also never once been called an incel or virgin in life. The ones that do are very bitter, disconnected, and sheltered. I kind of feel sad for their younger selves because it takes quite a bit to go as far as they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenIt was great to learn to untwine my self worth from the validation I got from women. It was also great to get past the fantasy aspect of what sex is marketed to us as. Once I did that, it became much less polarizing and therefore there was not much women could do for me that would have me speak to them any different than I would a ‘buddy’ besides a slightly lighter tone of voice. I think there’s nothing wrong with getting to a been there done that point when it comes to casual sex. The harmful p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenYou’re right, I should’ve been more mindful when making this post about acknowledging the grand spectrum of personalities. I do think it applies to men that have personalities or experiences that make them feel inclined to participate. So any player that is playing the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenI think they’re both true and totally separate as well. I think the authentic confidence, self respect, and freedom from fantasy is an invaluable byproduct of having experienced all this. But what the above commenter is saying is relatable to me as one of the original reasons why that progression was set in motion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenThat’s actually one of the things I had to do to help myself grow and heal, because you’re right to be honest. I did do exactly that. I remember quite a few times I felt gross and numb after having it because I did it as some kind of validation thing. I have since healed a lot from that, and I am thankful. You seem like a very empathetic person, and I hope you accomplish everything that your heart desires! I think my post’s viewpoint is separate from this but still simultaneous. The viewpoint I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenMost men who call women who have casual sex slurs are usually men who have become bitter because they can’t get selected for casual sex and now if they do then it partially would be a power kick where the experience for the woman could be scarring. This is where SA fantasies begin to brew I live a very active life socially. I know tons of men and women from all cultures, ages, races, you name it. I do not think this describes most men, but I do think it describes too many being that it’s still a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenThe first response to you hit the nail on the head. If we were friends/acquaintances, I will feel even more comfortable with them. I’ll feel like they’re a solid ally in this chapter of my life. I’ll feel like we have a mutual +rep. Because I’ve had so much time and experience around women, I as a man can now completely grasp they are human just like I am and therefore we are the same in a lot of core ways while still being different and they are just doing the same human thing I wanted to do an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenIncredible viewpoint, I hadn’t thought about it that way fully. Perhaps I was thinking about the satisfaction part in more of a wanderlust sort of way, but you’re still spot on! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenI think I might’ve been projecting a bit hard. However I do think that the type of man who has sex as one of his biggest goals in life will have this apply to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenThat makes a lot of sense, and I agree. It’s hard to say if there’s exact correlation but I can say it’s pretty true about myself. I’ve become much much healthier about that than I was in the past though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenYou’re right about the part where I said men need it. I should’ve been more open minded and said some men. Perhaps I projected my own perspective too hard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Men need to have a certain amount of casual sex before their thirst and desire for it is satiated long term. This amount is unique to each man and he needs to be honest with himself about it. Until you've been there done that, you won't experience the true platonic human side of womenThe looks and game part is fair. Grooming and exercise does the heavy lifting though. All the casual sex in the world be nice, but I never said I want a woman with no experience. There’s nothing appetizing about that to me, because I already know she won’t be a great reciprocator in bed. Some of the best I’ve ever had has been with more experienced women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Casual sex can get old. But until a man gets full off of it then he might feel a lingering hunger for it. For most self improvement, you must lift yourself up firstThat’s fair, I didn’t mean to insinuate that’s the rule that it will always get old. I was meaning to say that it becomes less of ‘the best thing in the world’. I’m mostly hoping to reach the men that are depressed and insecure because of their lack of sexual encounters. Casual sex feels good, and I don’t always turn it down. But have you ever turned it down because you didn’t feel like it was worth your time and/or effort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 05:17 PM |
| 7 | What do you consider a high N-count?I’m 23M and I’m in the 30’s of N-count It really depends what my intentions are I guess. If I just want something casual with a girl then I don’t care. Higher N count means more experience and probably a better lay, but lower N count means I will be more memorable to her and can show her things she’s probably never experienced before. Either way I win lol. If I’m romantically interested, which isn’t often, then I’ve noticed in the back of my head these things actually make me sad. So I guess thr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Blowjob BarometerI’ve been in a relationship for about a year and a half and she is just not a fan of giving blowjobs. She says it hurts her mouth and jaw and honestly she can only take like 2.5 maaaybe 3 inches before she starts having a gagging fit. Recently she’s been trying to do it more often to make me feel like she appreciates me but I feel like I miss genuine enthusiasm for a woman to do it to me because she wants to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 04:04 PM |
| 7 | Where have all the good men gone?Not the previous commenter but I’ve seen both happen many times. I’ve seen men in all ranges of their 30’s marry and start a family with women in their early-mid 20’s without lying about their age. I’ve also seen and heard stories about girls I know going on a date or even being in a relationship with a man who lied about his age and said he was a bit younger than he actually was. I’ve never seen or heard of it working out in the situations where a man lied about his age and rightfully so. I hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:54 PM |
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