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Awful idea. Masculinity and femininity are halves of humanity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 06:01 AM
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1 in 6 men will kill you? Clearly some well researched and unbiased logic there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/25 09:41 PM
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Conservation. It’s often a good idea to protect ideas that are working or mostly working.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/04/25 05:06 AM
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I’m denying it. 🤯
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 02:29 PM
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Significant is subjective. Do the math yourself, prick.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 04:11 AM
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Me, and probably millions of others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 03:37 AM
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The right thinks for themselves and doesn’t cower to every single idiotic and dumbass impulse of Dump’s? Some do and some don’t. The right is tens of millions of people. The right lost credibility from 2016 onwards. Because you took them so seriously before. /s You all deserve everything you get. This is called a just world fallacy. votes left strictly out of a respect for a modicum of decency and morality That’s a common fantasy, but the left has plenty of their own hatred, bigotry, and hypocri…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 10:54 PM
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I can’t think of politicians, only right wing streamers and the like.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 09:39 PM
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The right =/= Donald Trump.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 08:15 PM
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Have not watched that vid, but I’m finishing Adolescence right now and it’s easily amongst the worst shows I’ve ever seen. It adds nothing meaningful whatsoever to the discussion about young men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/25 01:00 AM
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Because you advocated for women to be treated like men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 04:09 PM
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All three of those questions are vague and unclear, so I’m ignoring them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/25 06:38 PM
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I think those are both true. Women aren’t inferior, they’re just better at different things, like spreading joy. But that’s a role they’ve abandoned.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/25 02:57 PM
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I have given up altogether. There’s too much against me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/25 10:37 PM
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I realized most of this already. It doesn’t seem like people should have to force women to care about men when so many claim to want gender equality, but maybe they do. I think this reveals women are basically just psychopathic toward the opposite gender and may never help men willingly without reward the way so many men willingly help women without reward.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/25 08:54 PM
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Nothing would ever convince people to support our cause. People are biologically disincentivized from helping men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/25 02:47 PM
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I hate feminism because it pretends to fight for equality but creates a bunch of fake, bullshit problems for women and fake, bullshit privileges for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 03:05 PM
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Delusional as always. Also love the guy showing off his virtue by submissively agreeing with everything she says. Being the same gender as congress isn’t a privilege. Women should stop choosing low paid jobs then. She ignored low paying male positions like police. Viagra and vasectomies are quite different from abortions. No, you are not forced to fuck people who buy you dinner. Nobody gives a fuck if something bad happens to me. There are tons of famous female athletes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/25 04:03 PM
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Online, they’d be instantaneously banned at light speed. Offline, they’d probably be hit with a classic “something something Fox News.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/25 02:29 PM
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Those questions just sound condescending.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/25 05:42 AM
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Scapegoat as old as time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/25 04:16 AM
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A society that favors men. My earlier comment was the left wing definition.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 11:29 AM
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If any man has anything good, it’s a patriarchy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/25 02:20 AM
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Really, you’ve seen women smiling at me? What was the location? You remembered a scenario that happened to you and baselessly declared it also happens to me. You’re the delusional one, and I think you’re doing it intentionally.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 10:47 PM
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There aren’t women smiling at me. That’s probably why your answer felt obvious. You can’t just create a fake scenario and depend on that being real.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 07:42 PM
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Doesn’t answer my question
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 02:59 PM
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Where in the universe would I find women who like men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/25 03:36 AM
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I experienced this exact thing. My mom was abusive to me and my sister, which led to my sister’s suicide. I told my other relatives this shouldn’t be excused and they said things like “oh, her heart breaks every day because of it. Her childhood wasn’t easy.”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/09/24 04:40 PM
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My initial comment referred to “people on the left.” Why would automatically think I’m talking about guerilla wars from history books? You sound like you read two history books, then decided you know everything and have to force that knowledge into conversations where it doesn’t belong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:11 PM
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I think you just use “feelings” and “lived experience” interchangeably based on what suits your argument. As in, people’s firsthand experience can’t contradict your argument because those facts are actually just feelings. But you read some books, so that makes it feel justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:03 PM
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What makes the left you’ve read about in history books more valid than the left I’ve personally encountered throughout my life (in the present era)?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:49 PM
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Claiming that fighting stereotypes isn’t adversity isn’t quite the same thing as saying there is no discrimination and we live in a just world. Since you’re not even trying to face my actual words, I’m done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:37 PM
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“Depending on the woman?” How exactly is this different from mind reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:20 PM
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Okay, so what’s a place where it’s okay for men to approach women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:03 PM
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There is no left-approved time to approach women. They’ve said to leave women alone in every public place. “Situational awareness” is code for mind reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:59 PM
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None of those examples are what you were talking about. You were speaking of battling a patriarchy that doesn’t exist. And you can’t pretend you feel empathy for incels as a blue pill woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:44 PM
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That would be using the same logic as you, so no. I don’t believe in Just World fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:37 PM
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When I say adversity, I mean things that interfere with basic human needs, like not having food, a home, or a family. “Fighting against stereotypes” isn’t adversity. You seem to be supporting my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:28 PM
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We’re not talking about “being wary,” and you know it. I’m talking about the left completely villainizing men for approaching women, and then denying that this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:14 PM
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Sounds like a No True Scotsman fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:11 PM
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Who is vilifying men for ever approaching women? Already answered. when a woman is at a coffee shop or at the gym with her headphones on, she’s not putting out signals that she’s open and available to being approached. There are no approach signals. You can’t think of one that wouldn’t be called crazy if a man said it. “General scorn and disrespect” comes from scornful and disrespectful behavior. This is the head-in-ass Just World fallacy that’s become the standard on the left these days. It’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:10 PM
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the Left has only ever been a coalition of largely oppressed groups Well that’s the most delusional thing I’ve heard in a while. All the leftists I know were born into stable middle class homes and have rarely ever experienced adversity in their lives. Where did you get this idea from? “The Left” didn’t decide that, all “the Left” has evidently largely stood for has been autonomy and egalitarian social relations Again, I don’t think you live in reality. The left constantly categorizes people by …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:04 PM
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Giving people a choice in how to live their lives doesn’t require vilifying men for ever approaching women, or any of the other misandry spread by the left. And the general scorn and disrespect pedaled by the left has undoubtedly contributed to loneliness and lack of social skills for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:04 PM
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…what? I asked you to explain your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:56 PM
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As OP said, how do you know dating has gotten easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:49 PM
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Because established gender roles used to exist. Men were expected to approach women by default. Then people on the left decided it would be fun to challenge that tradition just because, and now men aren’t approaching and people are saying they don’t know how to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:36 PM
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People wouldn’t be so lonely if that was the case. Maybe it’s easier for hot women exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:31 PM
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“True” feminists always downplay and excuse each other’s misbehavior. There aren’t decent feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 02:10 PM
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And you’re worrying already about aging? Relax. Most women are in their sexual prime throughout their 20s. Either men will hit on you (especially on a college campus), or you can show initiative toward them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:46 AM
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A little initiative from a woman can go a long way. I bet you could find someone. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:37 AM
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By then you should have already found an emotionally intimate relationship with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:08 AM
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Terrific. It’s not what feminists believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:57 AM
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I do, and he’s right. Being critical of feminism isn’t automatically dishonest or insincere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:56 AM
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Go to a feminist and try advocating for equal accountability for women, or equal responsibility, or anything else “equal” that isn’t strictly beneficial. You’ll just get shunned and called an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:55 AM
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Yes. I won’t date a woman whose hobby is being angry at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:31 AM
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That’s not what feminists believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:29 AM
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I’m anti feminist and I’ve formed my version of feminism from numerous interactions with them both online and in person. None of it is made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:27 AM
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Yes. It would probably make him feel sexually inadequate. Either he needs to step it up, or she needs to calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:36 PM
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Women don’t need to hide how toxic they are. Their misbehavior is usually excused, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:51 PM
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I’m saying there is no difference. I’ve known tons of toxic women in real life just like these women. Whether or not they specifically use pill language is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:42 PM
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What? “Pill language” has nothing to do with what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:37 PM
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I’ve turned off my screen and interacted with women in real life. What are you saying is the difference between them and women on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:31 PM
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Like taking revenge
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:30 PM
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You’re just choosing blissful ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:26 PM
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What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:16 PM
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Under “gender equality,” women have no expectation to check their privilege, and men are not compensated in any way for women’s privileges. Women stay in the spotlight and are eternal victims, including women who have never experienced adversity in her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:13 PM
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“To those accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.” This is just one of those excuses to be a bitch. This is up there with “if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best.” He doesn’t want equality between the sexes. Neither do people like you. You just want stuff for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:10 PM
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I could see that being justification to end the relationship at some point. I think that would be preferable to cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:06 PM
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Some naturally are that way. Many are upset after being mistreated or altogether cast out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:17 AM
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I’ve seen far worse be excused. You can talk openly about wanting to murder people on this site as long as you’re left wing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/24 10:49 PM
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So you pretend to admit women have toxic traits, yet assume if I mention them, I’m just complaining about women having standards. Is this just cognitive dissonance?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:19 PM
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You don’t need examples to know what toxic behavior is. There are billions of women. They are not completely free of toxic behavior. I didn’t insult you, just called out your feigned ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:14 PM
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You can’t possibly be so sheltered you genuinely don’t know what toxic behavior is. You’re feigning ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:27 PM
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Terrific, but not relevant to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:13 PM
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Because modern toxic women require such behavior in order to not be made a social outcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:18 PM
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This is just another “men’s problem’s are automatically their own fault across the board” post. It’s an extremely oversimplistic view and not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 03:16 PM
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It’s true that it’s sometimes subjective opinion, but other times they’re just deliberately dissing to try and lower others’ value. Both genders do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:57 PM
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Well yeah, because that’s what love means. But the claim was that women are there for men, not just men they love.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/24 01:14 AM
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Women are there for men One of the most delusional fantasies I’ve ever read on this site.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/24 12:53 AM
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If she’s kind and treats me well. I’ve finally found someone recently who fits this description. We’re only 3 dates in, and I’m trying not to jump to conclusions, but I at least feel optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:57 AM
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Had an abusive mom who was excused by the women and liberals in our family Dated several women who were disrespectful or started arguments for no reason Have had several female coworkers who were openly misandrist or otherwise unfair to me, and always got excused by my liberal or female boss Generally, women are always exempt from the standards they hold men to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:31 PM
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OP is very simply asking what puts you above other women in the dating market, and only one woman I see gave a logical response.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 12:23 AM
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You’re continuing to avoid actually answering the question. We’re asking what about you would make him choose you over other women and you can’t think of a single specific thing. One example given by another woman was because she makes good Mac n Cheese. That’s an actual reason, even if it’s a small one. That’s a valid answer, not some vague “I have what he wants more than the other women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:56 PM
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…You can’t think of a reason for him to choose you over other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:43 PM
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These women could have as much sex as they want within long term relationships. Their body count would remain low. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:42 PM
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You saw that with the whole recent Man vs Bear trend. Tons of women agreed a man breathing and minding his own business is endangering her more than a bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:04 PM
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I just said that. Someone mentioned misandry and you felt the need to impulsively downplay it and frame it a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:46 PM
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“Attacking people orally” always includes literally any suggestion what women aren’t perfect. If any women have wronged me, talking about it ALWAYS automatically always qualifies as “attacking people orally.” It doesn’t matter how correct I am, or how civilized I’m being. There’s no acceptable way to men to call out women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:14 PM
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This is exactly what always happens when people mention misandry. not “shitting on men for breathing.” That’s exactly what you just did. Someone called out misandry and you felt the need to impulsively downplay it and frame it a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:06 PM
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Some people like Jordan Peterson have plenty of reasonable advice for men, but he still gets lumped in with “incel rhetoric” because he criticizes the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:00 PM
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Same. Clearly women need to listen to women more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:00 AM
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My evidence is because women say so. Check out Eliza Schlesinger’s War Paint routine. It’s the title joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:51 AM
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You’re male and had standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:41 PM
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I can probably cook better food anyway, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 12:09 AM
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B if she’ll actually be nice to me and put effort into our relationship. That means the traits like “confident” and “secure” can’t be code for “jk, she’s actually just a huge bitch.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:27 PM
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Yes, actually they can say it’s fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:15 PM
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I was thinking of right before the climax when Spongebob lists his achievements before whipping out the guitar. Believing in yourself is basically the same thing as confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:59 PM
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I Am Legend. It’s a great depiction of male loss, crippling loneliness, and the primal urge to protect and save others. And this might be a silly example, but the first Spongebob movie. It shows that real confidence comes from achievement, not from being granted by others, and the enormous impact confidence has. And again the urge to protect others.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:49 PM
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Yes. Funny things is though, these women will totally date conservative men who they pretend are off limits. I’ve been messaged by numerous women on apps only to find something on their profile like “Conservatives, swipe left! 💅🏻” These aren’t the kind of women known for their chastity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:52 PM
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Sometimes hot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:57 PM
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Nothing I’ve said could be logically interpreted as me believing I’m harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:14 AM
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It is just an issue with women, because nobody’s expected to believe a fantasy that men are perfect. Men are allowed to be criticized and distrusted. Men are allowed to be blamed. Men aren’t allowed to have a completely passive role in dating where they get their value for free. If you talk about abuse committed by men you’re not going to get vilified and blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:05 PM
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Letting women hurt others and just walking away doesn’t address the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:01 PM
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Avoiding blame and consequences for their own actions, either by just being a woman or also crying if necessary. I’ve encountered it multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:48 PM
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Maybe true, but people keep pretending rejection is the worst thing men have to fear in dating, and it’s not. Women have a tremendous amount of freedom to hurt other people without consequences. That at least makes it hard to be confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:16 PM
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Not socially constructed whatsoever. It’s necessary for our species to survive. Next you’ll be telling me hunger is a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:25 PM
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My point was perfectly clear. Your logic means women should be considered far more dangerous than bears because they kill more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:50 PM
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Women still kill thousands of people per year, while bears kill far less. Sounds like women are “infinitely” more dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:35 PM
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Fucking exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:40 PM
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"The fact that you have to even ask that question shows how dire things are out here." Except you don’t have to ask. You’re choosing to. Women are yet again choosing to create victimhood where none exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:38 PM
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Women’s behavior is not men’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:43 PM
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That puts her above at least 95% of the women I’ve dated. I don’t want her to be a complete pushover, but even if she is that makes her better than 95% because she’s actually doing things for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:59 AM
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My previous gf who I saw without makeup when we went swimming. She was hot. I don’t think she ever wore makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:21 PM
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🤯 I wanted to be the one to reveal this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 03:24 PM
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2, because my experiences with women have been overwhelmingly negative. That doesn’t mean I don’t want a healthy relationship with a woman who doesn’t treat me poorly. It’s not complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:18 AM
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Maybe Gay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 04:17 AM
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The only data I see in these comments is a study of 600 British students. Usually, data doesn’t support the belief that women are in danger any time men are near.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:37 PM
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Nope. No reason to. Women are supposed to hold their men to a reasonably high standard, and feminists don’t want to do this. They want to be angry at men. They want to believe that every disagreement is misogyny, or toxic masculinity, or some sort of inner evil on his part.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:16 AM
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<image> It’s closer to the bottom than “men not existing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:42 PM
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You said men pose you a threat, and most women are near men most or all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:40 PM
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Mortal danger 24/7 isn’t something you “experience.” It’s something you imagine. Besides, I’m supposed to treat women as my equals, and that includes equal empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:11 PM
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Those sound like two totally separate arguments. Women can be free to choose who they want to date based on love, and also have delusional standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:49 PM
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Nope, I made a completely valid counterpoint and you just didn’t like it. You’re retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:08 PM
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Fucking what? No, that’s actually completely random and unrelated to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:58 PM
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Do YOU have any preference between people viewing you as a “what” or a “who?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:28 PM
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You do control everything in your body, and you know it. A fetus isn’t a “what,” it’s a “who.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:16 PM
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Modern women: Ugh, my fetus isn’t ENTITLED to live and grow inside me! Frighteningly dystopian.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:02 PM
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Actually women have the “rights to their own body” in every state. What you’re likely referring to is abortion, an entirely different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:56 PM
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Nope, men are very often interested in helping with the opposite gender’s issues. Both online and in real life. Women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:40 PM
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She should want a man who makes roughly the same. Women have spent decades claiming men and women are exactly equal, and that they want and do all the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:07 AM
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I just answered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:06 AM
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You’re talking about looks. I’m talking about attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:54 AM
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No, we cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:13 AM
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Nope. You are. Women’s free sex appeal doesn’t magically only appeal to low quality men. It appeals to most straight men, and that means you have an easier time attracting quality partners. It’s not just “easy access to bad sex” as you pretend. Quit downplaying your privilege and learn some humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:45 PM
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…yes, I do. Many of them. I’ve been to college and known dudes who could lay dozens of women in a semester. They’d bring women over to our room, give them multiple orgasms, and never see them again. Do you think these men cared? Your Just World fantasy isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:40 PM
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I’ve gotten women off without caring about them, and I don’t see why other men couldn’t do the same. You’re really stretching.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:35 PM
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Attractiveness includes being good in bed. Attractiveness means YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO THEM. If they can’t get you off, they’re not as attractive, are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:33 PM
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Family is pretty close to the bottom of the hierarchy of needs and should therefore take priority over women’s inconveniences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:32 PM
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I’m not talking about sex. I’m talking about family.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:31 PM
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Nope. Please enlighten me of the different sexual standards held by men who are good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:36 PM
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Yes, it is. Why do you keep acting like women’s free sex appeal ONLY attracts unattractive men? It doesn’t. You would have a far easier time finding a suitable partner than a man would. Quit downplaying your privilege and learn some humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:34 PM
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Regardless, it’s incredibly naive to deny that women have privileges in dating, or expect billions of people to just change their human nature. Learn some humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:32 PM
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Okay, can you explain to me how I would change the dating market?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:26 PM
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You’re just intentionally wasting people’s time, so I’ll ignore you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:23 PM
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Why would it only be bad sex you have access to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:21 PM
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I didn’t suggest the two privileges are somehow interchangeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:20 PM
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I just did explain it. You even copied it into your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:14 PM
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I didn’t say in the dating world. Sounds like you’re trying to avoid checking your privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:13 PM
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Yes, it is. Women are given a thing for free that’s valuable to other people. You sound like rich people complaining of others wanting to steal their money. It might be a concern, but it doesn’t nullify your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:07 PM
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Do any of women’s advantages count as “true advantages?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:05 PM
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Why don’t men just stop wanting families? Basic human needs aren’t artificial. You can’t expect to forcibly change human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:03 PM
0

Nope, shouldn’t have to. Women don’t have to sacrifice to not be considered dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:07 PM
4

It’s because they have lives that aren’t worth living. It’s pretty rational. Suicide doesn’t require mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:24 PM
1

I’ve had relationships before but am currently struggling. Confidence feels impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:05 PM
9

“Desirable” usually means confident, and lots of confident men are definitely not worthy of companionship, yet they get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:11 PM
-3

…Well, the women who have known me in real life disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:59 AM
0

Still has nothing to do with OP’s argument, even if your claim was true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 02:51 AM
1

…what? Why would that be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:37 AM
-2

Because power is supposed to come with responsibility, like Uncle Ben said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:35 AM
-9

I’m attractive and agree with OP. Don’t really see why his attractiveness is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:33 AM
61

Red pill takes a somewhat bleak view of both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:24 PM
25

I don’t really care about rejection. I care about the rudeness and misandry which is far more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:05 AM
1

Yes, it did. Nothing more to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:50 PM
3

Doesn’t explain why men don’t have more male friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:40 PM
-5

Really doesn’t matter which individuals he’s talking about. It’s a common, recurring trend in feminist circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:07 PM
15

Exactly. Just the latest insult-from-a-hat when men do things women don’t like, such as having basically any standards for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:22 PM
1

I’ve only been unmatched a few times. Ghosting is the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 05:26 AM
1

I wasn’t aware you could “block” people on a dating app. I guess I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 10:01 PM
32

I might be top 5%. I’ve gotten hundreds of matches and get dates relatively easily. I have rarely met any women I consider girlfriend material though, and have put up with tons of rudeness and misandry. Rejection is the least of my worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 05:09 PM
-1

I didn’t describe a larger pattern of bad behavior by women because I didn’t feel like typing up every instance where a woman has wronged me. That doesn’t make it reasonable for you to conclude I only have one anecdote. Women have been quite rude and sometimes hateful to me throughout my life, and have NEVER faced repercussions for it. It is a larger pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:40 PM
0

Got it, I’ll tell my sister the abuse didn’t happen in the context of dating and therefor isn’t valid for me to worry about. Again, I didn’t need to “dig up” anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:37 PM
-2

Digging up obscure horror stories to prove your dislike of them Obscure horror stories? My mom abused my sister to death and was defended by everyone she knows. Then people like you push this childish narrative that women are harmless. Really doesn’t make me comfortable being around women when so many people want to live in a fantasy land.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 02:35 AM
-2

I care. I want people to be happy and families to form.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:02 PM
0

I’ve never told any of my girlfriends that men are dogs and predators. Sounds like cringe white knight behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:19 AM
38

I don’t want more casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:09 AM
4

Doing very few of the chores and paying no rent (when we lived together), storing stuff in my apartment without asking, and getting upset over stupid things such as 1. Being asked to keep my half of the futon clear so I can sit down when I come home from work 2. Me commenting that skipping breakfast and eating twizzlers for lunch isn’t healthy 3. Me not always being able to find a 5 hour carpool home from college to see her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:47 PM
7

That’s not what my last girlfriend of 4 years said when I broke up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 11:38 PM
5

They show a lack of respect and are unappreciative. They take me for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:53 PM
21

I’ve found very few decent ones, and they either didn’t treat me well or weren’t interested in growing our relationship. Had two girlfriends. My online dating experience has been like 3% polite rejection, 97% rudeness and ghosting. That makes it extremely difficult to be confident and charming for the decent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:19 PM
95

Correct, that’s why so many insults toward men are related to his sexual worth. See Tiny dick energy, incel, insecure, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 12:25 PM
0

Could have sworn the reason was because I broke up with my previous girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:29 PM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:42 PM
1

Ignores my question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:41 PM
1

Not just because I’d like them to- because women have said they wanted to be equals with men. That means sometimes giving a shit about men and boys who’s problems are worse than yours. Instead, “gender equality” is always followed by a gigantic asterisk that says “as long as it’s only men helping women.” Women are lucky men don’t share this extreme aversion toward helping the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:20 PM
2

Didn’t Johnny Depp actually need to wear a wire when he dated an abusive woman? It shouldn’t take such lengths for people to not automatically defend women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:17 PM
4

I answered that in the comment you’re replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:15 PM
2

Knew someone would say this, but sadly it needs to be said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:15 PM
5

That’s not a real question, so I can’t answer it. It’s rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:00 PM
3

But that would be her relying on someone else to help her with her problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:52 PM
3

I’ve had several girlfriends and lots of sexual attention from women before. I’m not a wimp, or always losing. Would you care to try again with another random insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:51 PM
6

Yes to the second one. But as for the first, the therapy itself needs to be changed, because therapy tends to be made for women. Therapy is often just used as a dumpster unwanted men are thrown into.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:49 PM
1

What do you fantasize I’m “telling” by not listing examples? I chose not to because no one on this site who asks for examples ever actually cares what the examples are, and now I’ll prove it. My mom abused my sister to death and no one cares in the slightest. Any time I talk about it, other women always excuse her. What will women (or anyone else) do about this CRIMINAL problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:16 PM
4

Sometimes someone’s problems actually are other people’s responsibility though. If I cause a problem for someone else, that problem is not their responsibility to solve. It’s mine. It’s really incredibly simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:09 PM
7

I see you immediately created a fake answer to your own question. It doesn’t matter what the problems are. You just declared that across the board, people’s problems are automatically their own responsibility to solve, not the responsibility of who caused them. That’s an insane take, so I created an example to show why you’re wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:05 PM
3

If I cause problems for women, is it their responsibility to deal with it? If I grab a phone out of a woman’s hand and smash it on the ground, is it her responsibility to pay for a replacement?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:53 PM
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Help men and boys with their problems instead of always telling them to just deal with it somehow. And like I said in my second point, do something about misbehavior from other women. Women sometimes are able to ruin peoples lives without consequence. Knowing that makes it hard to be confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:45 PM
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Women could play a part in helping men to be more confident instead of just telling men to be confident. Or actively destroying men’s confidence. Women could shame each other for being rude, hateful, or abusive. They could do away with the delusion that men have nothing to fear from women besides rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:20 PM
0

I went bald by choice and women say it looks great. And losing value at 60 isn’t quite the same as 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:38 AM
0

Wouldn’t really believe it, because I’ve already dated hot women and felt mutual attraction between us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 10:23 PM
22

This is called a Just World fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:22 PM
3

This is at least the third time you’ve asked me how to achieve other people’s goals. If you ask again I’m just blocking you. No one is complaining about men being attracted to women, and you know it. What I’m saying there is a problem with claiming to fight for gender equality, but then saying “women get to keep their enormous privileges because it’s conveniently impossible to account for them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:58 PM
2

You’re really reaching with that first line. Nature gives women their sex appeal. Quit trying to deny or reduce women’s privileges. a lot of women already do take that blessing into account Not while fighting for so called gender equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:55 PM
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I want the people who claim they fight for equality to fight for equality instead of only for themselves. I want them to check their own privilege. No, I do not have a clear idea how THEY would achieve THEIR goal of equality. You seem to think it’s crazy that I don’t help other people finish their half-baked ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:38 PM
9

You ignored me the first time, but I guess I’ll try again- I’m not the one claiming to fight for gender equality, so I don’t have an exact answer. Ask the women fighting for “””equality””” how they plan to account for their privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:56 PM
3

I’m not the one claiming to fight for gender equality, so I don’t have an exact answer. I’m saying all the women who want “””equality””” ought to stop overlooking their massive biological privileges from the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:45 PM
5

That doesn’t relate to what I said. I said nothing about restricting women’s dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:16 PM
3

Men can’t deactivate their sex drives. There was just a very similar post. Women’s sex appeal is given to them for free AND they have lower sex drives. They need to take this enormous privilege into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:10 PM
-1

Because having a family is a basic human need, and having a family would make me much happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:01 AM
1

Once had a coworker snap creep shots of my ass while I was swimming and post them to her Facebook. And my mom was super abusive and neglectful to me and my sister. My sister even killed herself over it, but our mom cried her way out of accountability and no one really cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:35 AM
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Right, because women’s choices are never their own fault. It’s always somehow someone else to blame for her personality problems. Why exactly am I supposed to want female friends again? And what exactly do you imagine I’m “vetting” differently in men? Do you picture I’m performing a multistage psychoanalysis of every person I interact with? I’m friends with people who are friendly to me, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:03 PM
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Terrific, but I do have friends. Male friends who I’ve had for over a decade, and that’s because I do vet my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:18 PM
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So essentially, you’re saying I should only associate with women who have good personalities? Golly, why didn’t I think of that? Unfortunately it’s certainly not a majority of women. I’ve never known a woman I could ask for emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:01 PM
4

In other words, “Find evidence of people saying this besides the people saying it.” There’s abundant evidence any time a left wing sub mentions men’s issues, but you’ll automatically rule out any evidence I provide as an unlikable Karen. Even if it’s thousands of them. How about you provide me evidence antisemitism exists, without citing anything antisemites have ever said or done?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:29 PM
4

Men should ask for help! asks for help Why do grown-ass men always expect others to solve their problems for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:48 PM
3

Because high body counts are less of a turnoff in men than they are in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:30 PM
5

We’re not talking about the dawn of civilization. I asked you a question in the present tense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 11:48 AM
0

I’m male, and my serious issues have never received 1% of the attention women’s inconveniences receive. Maybe never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:39 AM
2

What area of society do men benefit from?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:37 AM
8

That doesn’t conflict with what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:36 AM
11

Bootstraps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:34 AM
2

Actually yes, I did just concisely define hypergamy. If that’s not good enough, check the dictionary. Age is a quality given to everyone for free. Everyone gets to be young at some point. But the hypergamous things women value are not usually given for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:39 AM
9

It’s not ambiguous at all. Women are attracted to men they view as their superior. That’s it. What changed is that women still want men they’re attracted to (ie superior than her) while somehow also being equal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:21 AM
5

He was an insane, violent manchild, the kind of man women are not supposed to have babies with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:50 PM
12

Makes me think she still does hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:01 AM
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The women who have actually gotten into a relationship with me know that’s not true. That’s who.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:01 AM
1

It’s factual data about the subject we were discussing. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 08:24 PM
2

…as you willfully ignore the data I presented
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:03 PM
0

Data’s not on your side. Fewer than 10 per 100,000 people get murdered per year in the US, with women being the minority of those victims. I’m not slow, you’re just a white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:38 PM
-1

I’m a man, who’s considerably more likely to be murdered by a man in my lifetime, yet isn’t planning my life around avoiding men. Because men’s existence doesn’t endanger other people. Get a grip. It’s paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:11 PM
-1

I also had a woman insist we meet in the secluded woods
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:13 PM
-1

No, I’m bothered by being treated like I’m a danger to other people by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:11 PM
-6

Several women on Hinge have straight up asked me if I’m going to kill them, or said they’d only meet up if it’s daytime and there are “witnesses.” Paranoia is widespread.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:10 PM
-5

Think of a new joke for the love of Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 09:51 PM
6

Same. I’ve had several girlfriends and hookups yet every complaint I have about women is usually impulsively struck down as incel misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 05:02 AM
9

So being murdered massively more is less significant because it’s not because of their sex. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:58 AM
8

women are more likely to be raped, kidnapped, and trafficked. that is because of their sex. Could also possibly be because they do stuff like this <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:57 AM
-2

The break room isn’t a designated place to debate this kind of thing. They’d find a different forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:51 AM
6

Have you not met the entire feminist movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:42 AM
6

A lot of leftists shame men for ever complaining about ANY women, even individual ones. And they imply rejection is the worst thing men have to ever fear from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:38 AM
5

Radical feminist content is definitely allowed on Reddit. I see feminists wishing death upon men regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:50 AM
12

You’re continuing to try to reduce the severity of women’s wrongdoing to just rudeness and hurt feelings. You’re being intentionally disingenuous and I’m not going to let you waste more of my time. Get blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 10:38 PM
11

Same thing as any other group of people- they sometimes commit rudeness, hatred, and abuse, even abusing people to death sometimes. The difference is, men don’t pretend hurt feelings are the worst thing we’re capable of inflicting, whereas abuse committed by women tends to be reduced or joked about, like you just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:29 PM
2

That women are perfect, because complaints about them are never valid or warranted.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:15 PM
9

That’s likely because women aren’t as harmless as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:13 PM
2

Because they’re often hot, and because often times there isn’t much other choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:47 PM
8

Then you’ve had the good fortune of avoiding these women in real life. Others have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:13 PM
7

Real women aren’t much better. Misandrist online spaces spread laziness, entitlement and misandry among real women, who then try to date in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:14 PM
22

I feel like this post is a response to that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:08 PM
2

Of course. If you want an example, I once visited China for three months, where I’m considered George Clooney by women’s standards. I never cheated on my girlfriend even though women were regularly hitting on me, and I could have easily gotten away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:09 PM
4

Women occasionally approach, but as others have said they usually give signals they want to be approached- something like smiling and making bedroom eyes, or sticking her butt out a little further, laughing harder at his jokes are some examples. And it’s hard to appear approachable as a man with women sowing murder paranoia like they do these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:27 PM
1

And that would be a big improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:22 PM
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I didn’t realize we were talking about money. Yes, money helps a man tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:14 AM
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His point still stands
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:06 AM
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I’d argue that’s lower because it usually involves at least SOME amount of skill, whereas being a hot woman does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:05 AM
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I’m above average in many regards (like height, handsomeness, career success), but that only gets me attraction from women, not effort. I’ve gone through hundreds of matches and many dates, as well as some hookups, but almost never has a woman put effort into starting a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:54 PM
1

My ex girlfriend’s underwear would suffice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:45 PM
34

I’m not resentful of women for being ahead of me, but I’m resentful when they continue to pretend it’s a man’s world and women don’t have a fair shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:59 PM
1

Sorry, I just feel like no women deserve any support so long as any of them ever commit murder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:25 AM
1

Sort of sometimes, but still inferior to an actual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:19 AM
2

I don’t, because women have intentionally caused me a tremendous amount of hardship, which they take no ownership of and don’t plan to address or alleviate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:08 AM
0

That doesn’t conflict with what he said. Women still have more rights than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 04:20 AM
6

Because having a family is a basic human need, and some of us would like to have that need fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 02:26 AM
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<image> I actually made a meme explaining what I bring to the table. It’s on my Hinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:41 AM
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