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Talk to more of them without any romantic intention. And also make sure you have self esteem.
/r/seduction05/12/25 05:09 PM
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😂
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:51 PM
82

You have to take the initiative. Source: I used to be a shy needy guy
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:47 AM
13

Of course. A lot of dudes need to learn how to deal with rejection like a champ and move on. Rejection doesn't mean you're not good enough.
/r/seduction11/11/25 01:50 PM
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Also, I think most dudes that often end up in the friend zone DON'T clarify their intentions, and then it comes as a surprise to the woman once they're awkwardly and desperately revealed.
/r/seduction11/11/25 01:18 PM
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Explain how this is creepy.
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:20 PM
32

BTW, this may seem obvious but keep an eye on your drinks. I'm almost positive someone drugged me in Barcelona. Luckily my buddy recognized that something was off, and he kept me safe. Don't assume that because you're a guy, you're safe from that kind of thing. Other than that, I had an amazing time. You're going to have so much fun. It was quite literally the adventure of my lifetime. I hope to go again soon--solo next time.
/r/seduction09/09/25 04:22 PM
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I backpacked Europe about a decade ago. I was not the man I am now and did not have the wherewithal to hook up with any women. However, we met sooooo many cute ones, a lot of them were very interested in me simply because I was an American or because I was a backpacker, and I think it'd be ridiculously easy if I ever go again. There are two types of women you'll meet. Locals Other backpackers The locals vary from country to country. And included in this list is are expatriates who live there but…
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:48 PM
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There's only one way that's not obnoxious in my opinion. Wait until you've seen them there a few times. Then walk up and say "Hey, I'm [name]. I thought I'd introduce myself since I've seen you here a few times." Don't hit on her. Just talk to her like you would any other person. Build up a friendly rapport. Talk about fitness. Then figure out where to go from there. I just think it's a context where women (people in general) want to be left alone so they can focus. But on the flip side I also t…
/r/seduction03/09/25 05:24 PM
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The "regular" interval is 6 weeks, however I've found that if you have a fade and go lower than 2 you need to go more often to maintain it. I get a 1.5 so I changed my interval to ever 5 weeks. If I get a 1 then I have to go every 3-4 weeks. When my hair was long, I'd go every two months. A buddy of mine has his hair really really long and he goes ever six months. So the point is, the shorter you want to keep it, the more often you need to go. Also, keep in mind everyone's hair grows at a differ…
/r/seduction31/08/25 12:13 PM
81

I mean, sometimes THIS is the advice you find here. This is excellent advice and more dudes need to hear it. I would have slept with far more women in college if I understood this, but I was too busy putting on a persona to notice I was scaring some away. Women want to be around someone they feel safe enough to be vulnerable with. If they already like you enough to go back to your place or invite you to theirs, then you're in. Just keep doing what you were doing to get there and she will send a …
/r/seduction28/08/25 12:58 AM
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The other one? She hadn't been doing it long when I met her and she was unsure about continuing it. We didn't work out so I don't really know how it all turned out for her. However, I saw her working at a daycare (I was there for work) like ten years later so I doubt she's still stripping. I dated her when I was like 19-20 lol, so she's in her mid thirties now. I was like 27 when I dated the one who was taking care of her mom. She's definitely not doing it anymore because a few years ago I saw o…
/r/seduction25/08/25 11:12 PM
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I've dated two, lol. When I was really young. I met them outside the strip club context. One was just dabbling in it, and the other one was doing it to take care of her mother who had sustained brain damage in a horrible car crash. She was/is a good person, and I never judged her for doing it. She took care of her mom and fed her two brothers. She was head turning beautiful. I don't know how I did it. Met her once at a (female) friend's house for like twenty minutes then she slid into my dms on …
/r/seduction23/08/25 08:07 PM
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Thanks Shodan
/r/seduction14/08/25 08:02 PM
36

If you're talking about what I think you're talking about, I try to disarm them by giving them a few minutes of attention. Get out ahead of it, introduce yourself, chat, be friendly. Then go back to holding court. If you're perceived as a friendly they won't try to unseat you. But if you're spending your attention only on one girl in the group then the other group members will see you as a threat and try to cock block you. And if a guy thinks that you're taking their place in the group, of cours…
/r/seduction31/07/25 08:03 PM
9

If you're rating on a bell curve then the average girl is always a 5, lol
/r/seduction31/07/25 04:10 AM
1

I don't understand why you believe that she thinks you stalked her? I re-read that paragraph and don't get it. Can you explain why you think that?
/r/seduction28/07/25 07:28 PM
2

Oh good. A hail Mary is not the worst idea. Just not that one.
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:04 AM
1

Noooooo..... Did you really?
/r/seduction26/07/25 04:57 AM
1

It's a very sexy movie with believable banter. J-Lo looks unbelievable in that movie.
/r/seduction15/07/25 03:48 PM
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They're both great in that movie.
/r/seduction15/07/25 03:48 PM
2

She should feel like shit for saying such a thing. It looks like the burden has fallen on you to teach her a life lesson. Tell her that she hurt your feelings and that you can't be with her anymore. Make her feel like shit for what she said. Don't fight her rebuttals. Just dump her and make sure she feels it. It's a win/win. You either offload this shitty person from your life, or she begs you to take her back, which would leave the decision in your hands and restore some of your power in the re…
/r/seduction11/07/25 08:33 PM
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How old are you/her?
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:05 AM
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Yeah I know what you mean. I kind of got over it with age though. You're not doing anything wrong. Just try to keep in mind that you're doing what is natural. If you get rejected just take it like a champ with a friendly smile on your face and no one will think less of you. It's all good.
/r/seduction30/06/25 09:31 PM
2

Ghosting after four months is absolute bullshit. You're better off without that person.
/r/seduction10/06/25 04:54 PM
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Moving to Instagram is such a weak position. A phone number is so much stronger. I get that some girls don't want to give out their number because it's harder to block someone, but I'd rather just coordinate a date through the dating app than get put on the shelf with all the other backups.
/r/seduction15/05/25 01:01 PM
1

Online dating doesn't work for a lot of guys, however, if you're going to do online dating don't use tinder. Everyone uses it for "window shopping" these days. Try hinge or bumble. I can't guarantee they'll work for you but they work a whole lot better than tinder for me.
/r/seduction25/04/25 01:02 PM
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This is so true, but I don't even think it's just that. People also go cold because things don't go perfectly. The vibe drops off for a minute and the slightest bit of doubt leaves them to let it die. People just aren't patient. They're waiting for the one to come along that makes them swoon. It happens less as you get older because people mature and they realize it doesn't really work that way, and that they'll never feel that way permanently because people are complex. They learn that attracti…
/r/seduction18/04/25 02:44 PM
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Just tell her that you think about her all the time. Nothing more, don't say you love her and stuff like that. Just state your simple truth regardless of the possibility of rejection. In fact, rejection is often part of the process, you just need to show that you can take it like a champ. Just lay your wreath at the gates of her beauty and if the gates don't open, ride off over the horizon on your metaphorical horse with your head held high. The key here is authenticity, honesty, and detachment …
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:05 AM
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Did she not hear you? If all you did is ask what her name is how would she have any idea you were even interested in her beyond just a regular human interaction? Is there more to the story? There's no reason you should stop going there. It's not like you harassed her.
/r/seduction10/04/25 05:30 PM
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Exactly. The guy the gets with tens doesn't worry about whether or not they're worthy and they certainly don't concern themselves with outcomes. They're just following their natural curiosity and desire and seeing what happens.
/r/seduction03/04/25 12:36 PM
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I mean they're just people. Take them off the pedestal and try to see who they are underneath the beauty. Your desire can help too, eventually. You are being honest when you say sweet things to them. You're doing what comes naturally, you just need to control the flow of it. Too much and you come off like every other guy that doesn't see them for them. Too little and you come off like a friend. Be upfront about your attraction but put them straight into a series of qualifications. Ask questions …
/r/seduction03/04/25 12:30 PM
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If you already kissed her, you're in. It's OK to be eager now.
/r/seduction26/03/25 07:51 PM
3

Thank you for saying that. I think some young men fail to realize that the really good sex, that they so badly want, requires enthusiasm from both parties. Enthusiasm requires connection. The connection doesn't even need to be romantic but it does need to authentic. Once you've experienced it you can't go back, it's like you've had love heroin. I'm always looking to recreate the times where it all fell in line and I had mind blowing sex with someone I deeply desired. I'm just wise enough to real…
/r/seduction24/03/25 03:23 PM
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I'm not talking about romantic feelings, I'm talking about feelings in general. Have you ever seen a woman that a lot of people find attractive, and you can tell she's attractive but you feel nothing? Like she's just not your type or something. While conversely maybe you've met one that makes you feel like your heart is going to explode because she's so hot. She has perfect skin, a pretty face, athletic body, thick thighs, and on top of that she's nice, kind of smart, and ineffably cool. What I'…
/r/seduction23/03/25 08:32 PM
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No I agree with that. But before the first date, before I even walk up and introduce myself I, personally, need to feel like "wow she looks incredible", and when I start to figure out who she is she can't be a bad person or I won't be interested. I have to feel like there's something there. That's just me. And despite the fact that I'm 38 I'm dating women in their late twenties and they are all looking for an emotional connection.
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:15 PM
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You can't feel emotion towards that many women at once, and you can't fake having feelings. The point is to have feelings, I don't understand this idea of not wanting to form an attachment. I think it's better to be strong enough to feel attachment and accept when things go wrong than to insulate yourself from any real connection and expect the sex to not be garbage. Honestly I think it also comes down to age. I'm 38, if you're in your early twenties you may feel differently.
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:07 PM
0

Yup, that's the problem.
/r/seduction23/03/25 01:15 PM
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I disagree, lol. Women are emotionally intelligent. They can tell when you're being fake. Two or three maximum. I've also found that I perform better when I follow my heart. I genuinely feel like I have a better chance with a kindhearted 9 or 10 than a catty 6 or 7 because I have to let myself believe that I could love them so I can say and do the things that truly make her wet. And ultimately I want to find one I can become attached to. It just never happens for long. 😕 Edit: Sure, if you have …
/r/seduction23/03/25 01:06 PM
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Yeah move on, but don't give her the cold shoulder. Don't show that you feel slighted or rejected in the least. Often times rejection is a part of it. So maybe this girl ends up interested in you in the future--but not if you start acting weird, or if you act like she's dead to you or, conversely, if you get stuck on her. Just move on but don't change your behavior with her. You're fine. You're in college so available women are abundant. The best thing that could happen now is that she sees you …
/r/seduction14/03/25 01:51 PM
1

😂
/r/seduction11/03/25 03:15 PM
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The problem was that you weren't warmed up. You gotta get warmed up first. Talk to the guy at the deli, ask a clerk a question, chat up the old lady picking out apples, say hi to random people. Get info an open state of mind first, then it will feel natural to approach the pretty girl.
/r/seduction11/03/25 12:32 AM
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Never mention it. But, if they can see it or infer it that's great. Like when another girl comments on or likes your photo on Facebook or ig, or when you get a laugh out of the waitress, or when you're at a party and you make small talk with every girl there. You can't get caught trying to make her think about it though. If she thinks you're trying to act like a player you end up looking so bad.
/r/seduction03/03/25 09:10 PM
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Hygiene, fitness, style, confidence, courage, and humor.
/r/seduction26/02/25 03:29 PM
3

Nah I think that's a fundamental misunderstanding of the matter. The only reason being an asshole works (at least when you're younger) is because assholes are honest, and stand firm on the conditions attached to their affection. So, just don't be a soft pushover. They need to charm you too. Authenticity is the important part.
/r/seduction24/02/25 02:29 PM
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Noooo..... Never. There's a conflict of interest not to mention the fact that you're alone in a room with her so any romantic attempts could make her very uncomfortable if you're wrong. I would wipe this from your memory banks. I wouldn't even allow yourself to consider the idea--too dangerous. Edit: sorry op, I know it's not the answer you're hoping for. You could still try it if you want. It's just a big risk. It's going to be soooo awkward if she turns you down. I've done shit like that when …
/r/seduction24/02/25 02:16 PM
1

Kind of, yeah. Cats have very feminine energy.
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:33 PM
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It depends on how you're wired, how old you are and how much time you've had to think about it. I think the average dude--the average human--wants to be loved. Love is powerful. However, some dudes are wired to fall in love with every woman they meet--typically younger men. Also, the more you learn about seduction the more you see that authenticity is at the center of it. You cannot lie to yourself for very long, and lying to women is even less sustainable. You eventually realize you want the ki…
/r/seduction20/02/25 04:08 PM
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Oh, I learned this in my early thirties. Never got cats before that. First, learn their body language. Unlike dogs, they don't wag their tail to indicate their happiness. Instead they do these kind of slow blinks. You can slow blink back at them too and they will read it as a friendly gesture. They're also very indirect about everything. If you walk up to a cat and pet them the way you would a dog, they probably won't like it. You want to behave kind of like a cat and be aloof but friendly, curi…
/r/seduction20/02/25 03:33 PM
5

No. Act like other girls don't exist.
/r/seduction16/02/25 09:20 PM
3

Women not approaching you may not mean what you think it means. It may be that they're all just waiting for you to approach them! Treat yourself kindly. You not being approach doesn't necessarily mean you're lacking. You're enough. Now pony up and be the one to boldly approach people with a smile on your face. You can do this.
/r/seduction15/02/25 04:38 PM
2

That's ludicrous. Look it up, it's 47% on Gallup. It doesn't even make sense either. Think about it. How can he have the highest approval rating ever while the country is simultaneously more divided than ever?
/r/seduction07/02/25 02:10 PM
1

Activities are so important. Gotta show that you have a cool life where you go on adventures. If you don't have that why would a potential mate think that you offer a fun program for them to be a part of?
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:55 PM
1

Imo the most important thing is variety. Get a few different locations to show that you do fun and interesting stuff, get a few different distances and angles to show that you're physically fit, and make sure you have at least one picture where you're doing a big confident smile. It wouldn't hurt to get some that don't look like selfies. Use the shutter timer on your camera and set it up a few feet away. Also include some candids and some portraits--as in, don't look right at the camera in every…
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:53 PM
1

I hear you can also fascinate them with a piece of cheese
/r/seduction05/02/25 02:15 PM
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I'd go. It will be good practice and texting does not indicate what a person is actually like. I mean, if you're not physically attracted to her and you outright dislike her based on the interactions, then don't go. But if you're simply having "doubts" then I'd go anyway.
/r/seduction22/01/25 04:24 PM
1

I'd go see the doctor again, or maybe even a new doctor. It's fixable but your dick is a surprisingly complex contraption.
/r/seduction18/01/25 07:46 PM
1

Yesss... Rejection is key. Not only does it detach your sense of self worth from externalities, it's also part of it. Rejection is often the first step in romantic attraction, at least in my experience. Taking rejection well is a vital part of "game".
/r/seduction17/01/25 06:53 PM
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Subtlety, subtlety, subtlety. Basically you want to be that guy. Carry yourself a certain way, think before you speak, be a gentlemen but with a slightly sexual edge. When you're attracted to someone, make it known. When you're feeling something voice it. Be strong enough to be vulnerable in front of others and be the type of person that lends validation to others rather than the type of person who seeks it. The way you do this is by focusing on how you manage your time. If all you do is jerk of…
/r/seduction17/01/25 06:48 PM
1

Totally. It's a mistake to think that the game stops when you find someone. To keep the spark alive you have to continue making them love you. It takes work and it takes heart.
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:26 PM
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It's more common than you think. It's fine. Make sure you have personal grooming and presentation sorted out. Then beyond that, focus on how you feel and behave. You got this. You're enough. Now work on whatever externalities you need to in order to feel that way.
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:14 PM
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That's great. They say it takes about three months to form a new habit, so keep going. Once the habit forms it becomes much easier to keep doing the new behavior. Just try to be kind to yourself. You're right at that age where things are going to start turning around. Legally you're an adult at 18, but in my opinion most men aren't adults until about 25-27. So don't worry, you're not behind, and there's plenty of time to figure it out. And you found your way to this subreddit which is also a ste…
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:04 PM
3

A lack of self worth and confidence can have damaging effects on other areas of your life. I'd work on that, because even if it's hard to imagine, you can change that. It doesn't have to be that way. I know this advice gets thrown around a lot and it may be frustrating to hear, but working out can make a massive difference in your sense of self worth. I suggest picking up at least one masculine hobby--be it body building, martial arts, hiking, mountain biking, whatever interests you. It's import…
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:48 PM
7

If you often end up in the "friend zone" it actually means you're not far off from succeeding. You're much better off than the dudes who are repellent. You just need to learn to plant the seed of sexual attraction earlier. Naturally, since you're a kind person, you try to eliminate tension in social situations to make people feel comfortable. Counter intuitively, you want to create and stay in tension with the women you're attracted to. I've been where you're at and I can tell you that it only t…
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:57 PM
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I used to feel that way. Then I realized that it being a game has evolutionary reasons and it has to do with indomitable truths that women are faced with. Since for them sex can potentially commit them to a long and miserable gestation period, the birth of a colossal responsibility, and since men are stronger and can be dangerous to them, they must be highly selective about who the choose as a mate. This creates an environment where men must compete for the highest quality women. And where you h…
/r/seduction13/01/25 02:30 PM
1

A lot of time rejection is part of it. Give them time to regret their decision as they witness you charming other women.
/r/seduction10/01/25 01:23 PM
1

It's empty. There's a title but nofhing in the body of the post.
/r/seduction09/01/25 04:50 PM
6

Same. I always pay on the first date. And after that, I like it when they offer, but I still like paying. I feel like it's part of my gender role--not in the sense that it's my responsibility buy in the sense that it brings out the masculine energy in me.
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:27 PM
2

It's up to you at that point because you've had time to assess whether or not you want to date her. It's your preference as to whether or not you want to date the kind of girl who never pays for anything. Personally I'm looking for her to offer to pay on the second date. If she does, then I know she's good people and I'll probably end up paying anyway. If she doesn't, then I might see her differently, and I might become only interested in sex. It gets into a gray area where you have to decide wh…
/r/seduction08/01/25 09:24 PM
35

Yeah. The last thing you want is for her to think you're cheap. Keep the date venue cheap but pay. It's the best way to save money and save face.
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:43 PM
14

You don't need to say something witty. Be direct, don't pussy foot around. Don't come on too strong either. Too soon to say they're beautiful. Just say "because I like you". It's that simple.
/r/seduction08/01/25 03:55 PM
3

She was a wild girl, but also kind of sweet. I think she was just young and horny and figuring shit out. And I would make her laugh and flirt with her constantly. I was a shy lanky nerd who she undoubtedly saw as unthreatening. She probably saw me as an opportunity for her to suck the dick of someone who was nice to her and she felt deserved it, but who was also too mentally immature for her to date. She has most likely settled down since then. This was about twenty years ago.
/r/seduction07/01/25 04:29 PM
1

Sometimes rejection is part of it. Just be the same person. You can still flirt but do so subtly. Don't get hung up. Focus on different women, but don't turn off your charisma towards the one that rejected you. I've been rejected by half the women I've slept with. The timing is just not right sometimes. And while you can't get attached and hold out hope that she'll break up with her partner, you can continue to be the exact same charming, funny, thoughtful human being. It sounds like you already…
/r/seduction07/01/25 02:29 PM
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Yes. Every time except for that last time when I accidentally creampied her.
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:11 PM
42

You generally have to show interest. The key is to show indifferent interest. You're interested, but you aren't attached to any outcomes. Don't be the guy that shows no interest. Showing interest demonstrates masculine vulnerability. If you can't show vulnerability you can't create a connection.
/r/seduction06/01/25 07:47 PM
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We were super young, I was 18 and she was 19. Everyone would stand around talking about whatever. It was a car parts store so everyone was rough around the edges, no HR department. Conversations would get wild with dirty jokes, disgusting stories, sexual experiences, etc. So the first blow job day it was me, her, and one other guy who was a 16 year old virgin. He was completely obsessed with sex so he actually raised the topic. He mentioned that he was going to get his first blow job later that …
/r/seduction06/01/25 07:01 PM
45

My friend group had this inside joke where they would say "clock me in" when they saw me because they thought it was hilarious that I got head before punching out, so technically we both got paid for it.
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:37 PM
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Once at the very end but it was kind of awkward because we never even kissed during this whole series of events. She just gave me head usually, and on my last day when I was getting a particularly amazing sloppy bj, where she was suckling my balls into her mouth and everything, I was like "we should fuck". She agreed kind of reluctantly since we had no condom, and then I lasted like two minutes before uncontrollably losing my load inside her to which she was pissed. Total accident though, I wasn…
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:59 PM
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I got my first bj from the assistant manager at my first job. We used to stand around talking about all manner of inappropriate things when there were no customers. We somehow ended up talking about blowjobs and she claimed she was great at giving head. So I mentioned I'd never had my dick sucked before and she said she'd give me head after work when we finished counting the cash from the registers. So we did that, and to my disbelief, she said "OK, whip it out!". So I shyly took out my penis wh…
/r/seduction06/01/25 05:51 PM
2

You probably can't take an active approach to pursuing them without it threatening your job. However, you might be able to catch a few with a net. Be handsome, charming, and impressively professional and you may generate some interest. Think about what you can get away with. You can get away with eye contact because there's plausible deniability in that. You can pay them compliments as long as you keep it professional. You can ask questions. Just cast a beautiful net and you might catch somethin…
/r/seduction06/01/25 03:15 PM
1

Practice... And get out of your head. Don't try to hold up a facade. Don't think about outcomes. Just focus on being laid back, authentic, and vulnerable. Maybe try chatting with some random people. Old people are easy. Work on your conversation skills before worrying about your flirting skills. It will come with time when you start to see yourself differently.
/r/seduction24/12/24 03:00 PM
2

Yeah. She might not have even noticed you. Do the approach and look for IOIs during the conversation.
/r/seduction23/12/24 04:47 PM
1

"excuse me, can I get your unbiased opinion on a gift for blank?" Or, the universal "hey, I like your style and thought I'd come say hi" If you do the second one, make sure you're just passing through, and not hovering around the ladies underwear section or something 😂
/r/seduction19/12/24 03:36 PM
4

I almost feel like you should wait a little bit--depending on how long ago it was that you last saw her. The last thing you want to do is send the message that you we're afraid to talk to her in person. You want to make the impression that she just kind of popped into your head, or maybe that she keeps popping into your head every once in a while. But you also don't want to wait so long that she forgets who you are. Also go into this assuming that your chances are slim. It would be way better to…
/r/seduction13/12/24 03:03 PM
4

Does she know who you are?
/r/seduction13/12/24 02:43 PM
7

When a door shuts, a window opens. You know what to do.
/r/seduction12/12/24 10:01 PM
1

Those are ridiculous concerns. It's completely normal for a human being to go out alone. If you bump into someone they won't judge you for that. They probably won't even give it a second thought. If anything they'd be impressed by your independence, as long as you don't make it weird by thinking about this shit. Think of it this way--and this will help you "warm up" too--you're not going out to seduce women. You're going out to meet people and make friends. Friends of all ages, shapes, sizes, an…
/r/seduction12/12/24 03:57 AM
5

You're 20 so you job is much less important than your looks, confidence, and sense of humor. Shoot for the moon. No woman will expect you to have it together. Many won't be interested, but plenty might be. Just be bold enough to try, and smart enough to read the signals.
/r/seduction11/12/24 02:09 AM
5

Tinder is the worst. There are too many people with no intention of meeting up irl. Try bumble or hinge. There are more people that are serious about meeting on those. As far as what you actually do, just focus on getting in person dates as quickly as possible. Make sure you have a good profile that makes you look interesting by showing you're high value and dynamic. You're in a variety of locations and do interesting stuff. Candid shots where you're smiling but not looking at the camera. When y…
/r/seduction27/11/24 03:22 PM
7

Romania is where all the dating coaches and PUAs moved to.
/r/seduction21/11/24 04:25 PM
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Yeah, I mean that's what I'm saying by subtle communication. They'll rarely come out and say it, I definitely agree with that, but the way they're responding is a strong indicator to what is working. This is also where creativity comes into play. If you can show them something new, that is very powerful. I think that's one of the strongest drivers for repeat encounters.
/r/seduction15/11/24 04:51 PM
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Well... Im not saying no girl likes aggressive sex, I just think (I know) that they will indicate exactly what they want and the best thing to do is listen. If they want to get fucked hard, fuck them hard. If they want to get their clit licked, do that. I think attentive is the most important detail. You just gotta pay attention and respond to the subtle communication they're giving you. So by all means, be aggressive when that's what they want, but if you got them in the sack, you've got nothin…
/r/seduction15/11/24 04:44 PM
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Uhh... This is terrible advice. I'm surprised to see any upvotes at all on this complete nonsense. If you have your dick inside a women, masculinity achieved. They already think you're masculine enough go fuck. At that point they just want to feel good and cum. Don't be aggressive--be enthusiastic, energetic, strong, creative, responsive, rhythmic, and attentive. And sure, sometimes they want to get fucked hard, but if you start pile driving right out the gate they're not going to want to sleep …
/r/seduction15/11/24 04:28 PM
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It's possible. If you really like her I'd give it some time then ask her out again in a few weeks. Just don't make the mistake of being too eager. You want her to feel like she's losing a great opportunity because you're a great person that's in high demand.
/r/seduction13/11/24 05:24 PM
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Move on. The seed is planted. It may or may not grow. The best thing you could do is move on. It would be even better if she sees you talking to other women but I don't know if that's possible... Basically the balls in her court now but she may not throw it back so I wouldn't wait around for it.
/r/seduction13/11/24 03:45 PM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/seduction13/11/24 05:05 AM
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You gotta start with attraction, then build rapport, then flirt your way in. Build attraction by looking good and behaving like you have value. Be seen talking to other women. Build rapport by being confident and vulnerable without looking weak. Get to know her, share a few interesting things about yourself, connect. And finally, flirt your way in by being funny while simultaneously being a good listener. And be good at reading body language to know if the flirting is working. The next part is t…
/r/seduction13/11/24 02:13 AM
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The biggest one imo is prolonged eye contact, but context matters. What you're talking about creates the context for what the eye contact means. Is she holding eye contact because you said something crazy and she's trying to understand wtf is going on inside your head? Or are you talking about life and sharing things about yourselves and she compliments you and holds eye contact? There's a big difference there. Then there's playful touching. She might touch your hand or give you a soft playful s…
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:46 AM
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Nonverbal communication. It's an entire language that takes practice to read, and women are better at it than we'll ever be. However, if they really like you they will make it absolutely clear.
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:42 AM
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Because men are the ones asking to be let in. It's societal but also biological. If she gets pregnant, that's a miserable nine-month gestation period followed by a huge responsibility. She needs to be careful because of that and multitude of other reasons. Men can be and often are dangerous to women as well. She must be selective, she has the opportunity to be selective, and thus the responsibility falls on us to make a case for why she should pick us out of all the guys that want entry. I mean …
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:02 PM
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You mean escalating with touch? Try not using your hands at first. My go-to move is sitting next to her and letting my leg touch hers. It's a great opening move. It has more plausible deniability than the old arm over the shoulder routine. Edit: I don't mean like rubbing your leg against hers or playing footsy. I mean your leg is just touching hers as if you don't even realize you're doing it.
/r/seduction12/11/24 10:39 PM
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That will improve with time and practice. It never completely goes away though. Sometimes their beauty is overwhelming. What changed for me is I realized that I perform better when I follow my strongest desires. If I'm overwhelmed by a woman's beauty I make that clear to her in a charming way. It's not something you should hide. Like, you don't want to be too over the top or anything but it's OK to mention it. For instance I've actually said before--"it's nice to meet you... (clutching my chest)…
/r/seduction12/11/24 04:41 PM
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Smiling is good. As long as you don't have a giant disturbing joker grin, it's fine. As long as you open your mouth and words come out in a non offensive manner you're fine. Just converse and get past the initial high their beauty gives you. You want to show how you're feeling. It shows masculine vulnerability in the sense that you are willing to face their reaction or rejection to what you are honestly and truly feeling. Put it out there in good faith even if there's a possibility they're not i…
/r/seduction12/11/24 03:24 PM
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In college I was insanely anxious and shy but I was starting to become somewhat handsome despite having poor self care. I had no game but I was good at dancing and would show up to parties and dance with girls I would be too afraid to talk to usually. This gave me my first taste of self confidence. One night I was at a party looking good, feeling cool, and I saw a girl I'd never seen before. She was the prettiest girl at the party--the prettiest girl at the school, even. I positioned myself near…
/r/seduction12/11/24 05:33 AM
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You don't need to talk about anything specific. The objective is to get her talking. Ask her interesting questions and let her talk. Don't try to impress her. Let that happen naturally. Don't try to be cool. Be genuine, but playful. Flirt. Make her laugh. Break down the barriers of what you wouldn't normally say in a way where she allows it. Don't scare her away by being overtly sexual but circle around the issue while making it obvious what you're interested in. And do that in a way where you'r…
/r/seduction08/11/24 08:02 PM
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I know it sounds kind of weird, but practice smiling in a mirror. Learn what that feels like. Smile when talking to women. Smile with your eyes. Mild crows feet look good on a man. When you approach them, think of it like you're doing what is natural. It's OK to show that you enjoy taking in their beauty and that it excites you. And one of the things they're looking for is that you can emote properly, and that your body language matches your intent because otherwise it signals that you're hiding…
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:53 PM
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Sounds like you don't know fuck all about women.
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