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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | When is it the right time to tell a child? If ever … | Red-Campaign | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 02:36 AM |
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| 2 | I Don't Think I Ever Loved Her...This sounds like my situation. Also an Scorpio lol maybe we overthink a bit idk | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/23 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Pushed in divorce earlyI hope you’re situation resolves in a peaceful and quick manner my friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Pushed in divorce earlyMan I am in similar position as you are. Right now, I’m experiencing emotional abuse and I don’t react or respond in fear that if I act out, that will be the catalyst to her filing for an order of protection. Each day I’m stuck in limbo of whether I should move out or stay. I stay every time so I can be with my son until the split actually happens. I keep my phone with me everywhere I go in the house and to my car. I lock the doors when I go to the bathroom and to my bedroom when I sleep at nigh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | When is it the right time to tell a child? If ever …Thank you for the candid advice. I appreciate the truth and I as painful as the message will be to receive, I know one day my son will appreciate the truth. I plan to say something close to the effect of what you have mentioned. I’m starting to be very accepting of the situation just so I can start the process and we can all begin to heal. Thanks for the solid feedback. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 10:37 PM |
| 1 | When is it the right time to tell a child? If ever …I appreciate the feedback and the message. This is mainly what I was struggling with. I understand that I can’t control how my son feels about the situation so I will let him process it as he will. My main goal was what you stated in delivering an age appropriate message and ensuring that he is loved. Sure, there will be questions and feelings and I plan to address as such. I am also waiting in order for my wife to cool off as she has shown some bitterness and vindictiveness. I cannot blame her … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | When is it the right time to tell a child? If ever …This is excellent advice!! I have been doing a stellar job at controlling myself even at times when she has been aggressive and visibly upset. I will definitely practice stoicism just as you mentioned so I can be mentally prepared for that day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 04:46 AM |
| 3 | When is it the right time to tell a child? If ever …This is my goal and I’m trying to be logical about things going forward. My stbx wants to tell him as soon as possible so she can move out of the house and hit me with a temporary custody order as she has alluded to in a heated discussion. It may not be her plans now however I still question why she wants to tell him now and nobody has even filed yet or even had a mediation appointment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 03:20 AM |
| 1 | When is it the right time to tell a child? If ever …Thank you sir! I appreciate the wisdom and will proceed as such. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | When is it the right time to tell a child? If ever …Understood. Thank you for providing the insight. I feel as if she will want me to go into the whys just to make it that much more emotional for me so I can act out and she can get an order of protection. She has been really toxic to my face but extremely neat via text. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/23 03:17 AM |
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