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| 15 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them? | CMV | Red-Frostraven | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:02 AM |
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| 1 | Bluepill: Is your disagreement with the Red pill that there is something inherently immoral about researching and applying methods that would guarantee any man the ability to have sex with any woman?feeling too bad to post any answer right now... will come back later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?It's self-improvement in terms that men don't reckognize as practical abilities, no matter how much they appreciate the results. And no. That's not true. They DO. "To study this pattern in terms of preferences with regard to the partner’s age the scientists gathered observations from a population-based sample of more than 12,000 Finns. They found that women, on average, are interested in same-aged to somewhat older men than themselves and that this pattern displays itself across the entire lifes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?It means most men are selecting for a woman's social abilities, sexual compatability with him and how she makes him feel -- rather than her abilities to lead and solve problems. I have problems accepting that "how a woman makes a man feel" has nothing to do who she is as a person, because not every woman can make every man feel good about their relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are more attracted to women that are interesting, extroverted and passionateThank you. As a guy who mainly tries to date shy introverted girls, I literally can't count the times these girls have sent me to the closest empty desolate space where I can be alone... There is no way to discern fearful hope from disgust and contempt, for the onlooker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?Disagree... I don't understand why more people aren't far more interested and invested in the questions: Why are we even HERE, what are WE, and what the hell is this place -- beyond known physics and astronomy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?And that's the point about this topic. Men spend more time at self-improvment and making things work. Women spend more time making things appear great. Women look for slightly older men, and genuinely prefer men with an education AT LEAST equal to their own -- and considers the man's abilities to be more important for her, than a man considers hers abilities to be, for him. Men look for partners that naturally -- difference in time spent on self-improvement aside -- would have less abilities; Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?Do you think having a job, as opposed to a good job, automatically makes a person worth less..? Good looks GENERALLY means more healthy genes -- and healthy genes no education > Unhealthy genes great education Men take responsibility of securing quality of genes. Women take responsibility of securing quality of realized abilities -- be the success from nature or nurture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?But... is the percieved misogyny in TRP about looks..? No. It's about abilities -- looks completely ignored. ... Furthermore, girls spend far more time on their appearance -- time that men spend on self-improvement for physical or mental qualities. Even playing videogames improves your mental abilities, compared to painting your face. So much of what women, and men, actually DO with their time increases the difference in abilities between them, even for those in relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?That's just one of the ~3 billion men who agrees with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?Passionate about: Reality and society: Politics, sociology, physics, astronomy, geology Theoretical physics and philosophy: Theory of Everything, existence, will and conscience, ethics.. Psychology and artificial intelligence: Behavior, trauma, emotions, split brain patients and the effect components of the brain has on the individual, making artificial intelligence with complex decision-making based on the entity's actual observations Aesthetics and beauty: What makes something beautiful? What … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Bluepill: Is your disagreement with the Red pill that there is something inherently immoral about researching and applying methods that would guarantee any man the ability to have sex with any woman?Okay. What is the BAD manipulation that the Red Pill applies..? And how is the entirety of society collaborating to lie to a person NOT cruel..? "You're attractive. Fuck that girl for turning you down like that!" "Just be yourself, and everything will be fine. You're a nice guy." "Seriously, you're -at least- average, at worst. Just give it time." ... And one of my best girl friend wonders why three guys she knows has commited suicide... (...the girl that for years was the only reason I didn't, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?And you just said that Frank Kobola from Cosmopolitan is pathetic and needy and only wants a new mommy. http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a2441/what-makes-men-fall-in-love/ ... I'm truly sorry you feel bad about your ideals for love are different from that of a mans'. Perhaps you just don't understand what makes the average man happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?Wow. I didn't expect deep argumentation against my point, but this right here proved me so much wrong! I will have to take a short break to evaluate all the arguments you present here, and I'll be back with a more in-depth answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Bluepill: Is your disagreement with the Red pill that there is something inherently immoral about researching and applying methods that would guarantee any man the ability to have sex with any woman?"I don't understand why you can't find a girlfriend, you're such a nice cool guy!" "You look great! <3 " Giving people false hope. Stuff like that is cruel, compared to..: "I'm telling this as your friend. I love you. But, you have to lower your standards. Significantly." "You're gaining weight. You should come work out with me and Marie. <3 " | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?Why the hell do everyone suspect that I don't actually take care and responsibility for my children? I LIVE WITH MY THREE CHILDREN. And that is the source of most my rejections: Women don't seem to want men who have children of their own for long term relationships; I get deleted the second I tell girls that the child in one of my Tinder photos is mine. You should rather put a sock in your mouth, and stop assuming things about people. I want one more child with another girl -- if I ever find a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?For women, that is probably true: You must feel that your man is exceptional, above the rest. Men just needs someone who makes them feel loved, comfortable and whom is their friend -- without giving them too much shit. And it is usually the "giving them too much shit" that makes a man leave, not her lack of exceptional-ness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 06:15 PM |
| 1 | It's not so much the 'misogyny' that BPers are concerned about. It's the inconvenience of having female sexual strategy exposed.Of course spergs are disappointed when they learn that women want narcissistic psychopaths. They were born with a disorder, but the wrong one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: what makes you interesting? What are you passionate about?You write stories..? That is interesting. ... (I write stories that no mortals should ever read -- for persons who wouldn't qualify as human unless having a mother makes you one -- ... and I have absolutely no idea why I said this, instead of just saying "Hey, I write stories too, what kind of genres are you into?"... I guess it might have been to avoid any further dialogue with a giant red flag. I'm great at not making friends with normal people. And now I'm talking to myself. Wow. Okay. Wait. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?But if you could CHOOSE between a man who is superior to you in every way except appearance, and a man that is worse than you in every way except appearance... Who would you choose? For men, there is no such choice, because the superior woman simply won't consider him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Bluepill: Is your disagreement with the Red pill that there is something inherently immoral about researching and applying methods that would guarantee any man the ability to have sex with any woman?No, I'm sure you're a special snowflake... never used a pussy pass, never cried during any arguments with anyone, never used shit testing tactics on anyone, never told someone they looked great when you think they only look average or even bad... and so on and so forth, ad nauseam. ... And seriously, the above was offensive. Sorry about that. I know that you're probably a decent person. I know that you may think that emotional manipulation -- by both genders -- is wrong, and we'd agree. The funn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?In context, I was saying that it doesn't matter if she's not the brightest of lightbulbs, if she's charming. Personality > Intelligence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Bluepill: Is your disagreement with the Red pill that there is something inherently immoral about researching and applying methods that would guarantee any man the ability to have sex with any woman?So... if the red pill only IMPLIED that women, of this generation, are irresponsible and immature without explictly SAYING it or arguing towards such a conclusion, letting the Red Pillers actually reach that conclusion themselves based on the evidence that is there, evidence that just isn't summarized into arguments that leads to conclusion, officially... the Red Pill wouldn't be immoral? ... I mean... Women likes self-centered men with bloated egos and unrealistic beliefs in their own abilities… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Q4RP: Do you seriously believe that using the same persona and sexual strategy works on all women?Only the majority. ¯\(ツ)/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?It's just a difference between man and woman. Man: How does this work? -- Woman looks at him in disgust, and leaves. Woman: How does this work? -- Man: *hard-on intensifies* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?Who's rejecting..? If a girl asks a guy out, chances are he's saying yes. If a boy asks a girl out, chances are she's saying no. Female standards for males > Male standards for females Quality of the man in a relationship > Quality of a woman in a relationship ...because the women have higher standards. As a result, low quality men are unmatched, while low quality women are matched... and then there's crazy cat ladies spread across the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?Well. She lied. She wasn't on the pill. So, it was a trust problem, not a problem with contraception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Lets discuss "women are children"Unwanted attention, tension, people looking nervous, people talking angrily or being frustrated near you, people looking at you with non-sexual interest, a group of people looking in your direction, a person or group reacting to your movement or presence when you move around, people who look at you with feelings of contempt or jealousy when you approach a girl, men looking at a girl with feelings of contempt or jealousy when a man approaches her... and so on and so forth. Purely rape: When a rej… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?You can only trust yourself and not others, right? Yes. I should not have trusted her. ...this kind of reminds me of the victim blaming I've been accused of in another thread. My mother has never held a girl baby before, and also wanted a girl grandchild. I wasn't being literal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?Do you agree that women have higher standards for mens' abilities, than men have for womens'? Who rejects the other side the most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?Short answer: No. Long answer: You really don't want to know, so: It's not necessary for a man to consciously measure or evaluate a face, so we don't do it. We're either already attracted, or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?She was supposed to be on the pill. ...Some women are like that. But whatever. If the child is a girl, it'll be the first in generations, and my mother will be babysitting 360 days per year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?While for men, the standards are lower. And we settle for lower. Because women have higher standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:07 AM |
| 4 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?What the do you think perceieved beauty is based on? Symmetry, skin condition and their eyes, facial features individuals have compared to what you have observed to be your species' average... That's beauty. That is what we consider beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?I can buy a better world? How much does that cost? I managed to get my ex girl friend, who is also my friend with benefits, pregnant this summer -- and she's considering keeping the child. ...suuuuure, I could pay for what I want, but I doubt I'd be able to live with myself. She REALLY wants the baby. But we already have three kids, so... she'll lock me down pretty damn hard, and she'll make dating even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Wait a second. Aren't most women **essentially** looking for a man that **is** physically and mentally superior to them?My priorities in women: 1) Looks; Symmetry, fairness, facial shape: Fitness and strength is hardly a priority, for as long as they're not disorderly fat. 2) Personality: I don't care if she knows how a screwdriver works or can change the tires on her own car, for as long as she's pleasant. 3) Abilities: I don't care about her education, for as long as she's pleasant and good looking enough, and at the very least is capable of holding a job, and capable of learning. ...interests are of value, obv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Lets discuss "women are children"I never get drunk. Waste of braincells, money, time and a night out. Just like your previous post, it's just nonsensical bait. There's few violent people in the world, and I've literally NEVER been in a fight while drunk or mildly intoxicated. Most people don't start a fight for no reason. If you don't give them a reason, there won't be a fight. Rape is a lot like a fight: Unless it's an assault out of the blue, or happens when you are alone with a predator you trusted, chances are there was a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 01:25 AM |
| 6 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Just like no man deserves love, of course not. Nobody deserves happiness just for existing. They should be honest about their pasts, and try to find a person with the traits they desire in a partner, whom accepts them for who they are. Just like everyone else. Personally, I'm not interested in people who have had many one night stands or short term relationships, because that never was my thing, and I don't know the mindset of a person capable of having casual sex -- and thus, I'd rather be with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Lets discuss "women are children"Fuck off. I never indicated that attacks coming out of the blue is something you can avoid, and never indicated that I have a belief that you should not do anything in your power to punish people who have commited a crime against you. If someone does anything to hurt me or any of my friends, I want them to suffer. In court. However -- I prefer that neither me nor my friends get hurt in the first place. What I DID say, was that the MATURE thing to do is to avoid confrontation, avoid the danger, W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Lets discuss "women are children"Aaaaand you're missing the point. Which is: IF YOU CAN avoid a situation where you are likely to be hurt, because someone has in some way painted themselves in a light that causes you to suspect they're up to no good -- the mature thing is to do so. Obviously, if some girl kisses me and I'm too afraid to say anything, and I kiss her back because I'm afraid she'll punch my nose and drag me to the toilet and force her butt onto on my face if I don't have sex with her right here -- it's too late. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 09:26 PM |
| 6 | Lets discuss "women are children"A guy asks you if you want to fight. You tell him no. He sits down next to you. He looks at you whenever you look at him. He wants to fight. A man tells you he wants to fuck you. You tell him no. He continues to lay next to you. He touches you. He still wants to fuck you. ... In both situations, it's clear that you may get hurt if you stay: People who are intent on getting what they want don't care about consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 02:28 PM |
| 6 | Lets discuss "women are children"A person points a gun at you. He tells you to move, before the count of 5, or he will fire the gun. Do you move..? He has no right to shoot you. You are in your right to not move. You can choose to take no measure to avoid the threat. But he has a loaded gun. And you may be hurt if you do not move. He is responsible for his actions. He is the only one to blame for shooting you, if you don't move. BUT -- for as long as you are vulnerable, for as long as you can't defend yourself against a crime, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/16 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Q4MEN: How do you derive your confidence and value, worth?My confidence, value and self worth comes from comparing myself to the people I know, and people in the world. I learn new things, work on improving myself and meet new people to build my confidence, self value and worth. I was about 20 when I started consciously working on skills and abilities specifically to become more valuable to others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 04:42 PM |
| 6 | TRP is not morally objective or objective in generalWhat are we going to discuss here..? Just like a debate on chrisitianity vs islam, it's pointless to just start out by saying one is bad. Source examples, and counter the argumentation. Don't quote conclusions, and exclude the arguments that led to said conclusion. "They also seem to paint everything women do in a negative light. Even housewives are lazy fucks" What were they talking about? "Housewives without kids work 2 hours a day max!" Well. THAT is lazy as fuck compared to having an 6 hour … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:51 PM |
| 2 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?(I notice you tried to reply to LunarPowered's post below, but I think this was interesting as well...) A percieved emotional inferiority COULD be caused by the womans elevated status within dating and relationships: A large part of the younger female populations may not have developed emotionally, unlike the older generations, because they've not had their emotions challenged, and as a result, they may feel entitled. ... But I'd love to hear actual arguments for why HE thinks that (current gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 03:07 PM |
| 2 | "Withholding" is the wrong word."Their partner doesn't want to because they don't feel sexually or lovey dovey towards you. Troubleshoot that first. And the first action step toward troubleshooting is to stop mislabeling the issue. It's willful ignorance/denial to do so." And this is it, really. It's extremely hard to be on the receiving end of wanting to touch someone, wanting to kiss someone, wanting to make them feel great... and knowing that they don't feel the same. ...sex isn't about making yourself feel good, it's about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What would it take for people to realize TRP isn't a hate sub?Give examples, and we can discuss those examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Raising the deadbeat dad issueIn that case -- for as long they have been offered a fair and gender equal custody arrangement and financial support plan, the state is free to rape whomever doesn't comply to it. ...however, unwanted children in a marriage is another topic. The woman still has the right to an abortion, in a marriage, so the man should still have the right to an equivalent; Not paying for the child -- OR -- stop paying for the child after a divorce. She can leave him, or threaten to leave him, for not wanting to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/16 11:54 AM |
| 4 | [CMV] Avoid online dating if you want to meet the love of your lifeI talk to people for several hundred messages -- and prefer to skype them several times -- before I date them. The relationship with my first Tinder date lasted for 10 months after our first meeting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Raising the deadbeat dad issueWomen have the option to have an abortion Men should have the option of a financial equivalent. Why? Because that is a fair equivalent to the woman's choice. Her body -- she can abort even if the father wants the child. She can keep the child if she wants to. Since the woman can terminate the pregnancy regardless of the father's will -- she has power over the man. BUT she has another option; She can have an abortion. For as long as she has the option of abortion -- the man should have the option… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Do men's standards make them hypocrites?NARPALT. I'm highly sensitive and hyperempathic -- essentially anti-psychopathic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Do men's standards make them hypocrites?Well. Boys don't get help if they have a problem. It's suicide, or learn to cope all by yourself with absolutely no help what so ever from anyone else. For women, there's support groups, friends and family. Men are abandoned. Not even psychiatrists can help you, because they simply can't empathize with a boy who feels unattractive and lonely. ... Demand that women lower their standards..? That's why men come to the Red Pill. It's easier to work out 5 times and run 30 miles per week, abandon your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Do men's standards make them hypocrites?Dark Triad personalities are found EXCESSIVELY attractive by women -- despite everyone sane wishing it wasn't so. But it is. That doesn't make it a good thing. In fact, I hate the fact more than anything in the world -- the fact that women actually feel more excited about narcissists and psychopaths than... non-pathological guys. So I don't dreadgame nor dark triad -- I just do everything else to make myself more attractive. Still doesn't change the facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Do men's standards make them hypocrites?There's a difference between independence -- a person's ability to function without his or her mother, and codependence, which occurs when a child isn't taught independence. The point being: They should be independent enough to do whatever they want at 18, even if it's wiser and more economically sound to live at home. For many of us, we were thrown out head first when we were 18 by our single moms, who couldn't wait to forget about her mistakes and start a new life and get a new family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 11:35 AM |
| 0 | Do men's standards make them hypocrites?Girls judge men by social status. If a guy and a girl compete for the position of manager within a business, and the boy wins, his social status improves dramatically for the purpose of dating girls. The same doesn't apply to the girl if she has a better job. It's just a fact, and the girl isn't to "blame", nor am I arguing that girls shouldn't be leaders -- I'm just bitter about the fact that girls care so much about a man's career that we're forced to compete for the sake of social value in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't unreciprocably use their partners as "emotional tampons"When I'm depressed, I feel lonely most of the time, even when I'm with people. (And my girlfriend was the last person I wanted to talk to: She was the reason I felt like that. And she didn't talk to me about her problems, but wanted me to guess what was wrong. Before going to her other boyfriend to tell him how shit it was to live with me because I'm too emotional and not a real man.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 10:48 AM |
| 1 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?It's not entirely pointless, per se. They have to admit that a large part of the red pill is unconditionally good advice -- and after accepting this list, changing personality to be desireable was also found to be acceptable in a lower thread... Leaving only the disagreement between the pills the stereotypes and tone of the first post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 10:32 AM |
| 0 | Do men's standards make them hypocrites?Men need accomplishments for women to consider them dating material. Women don't. Women who compete, are competition, and for every woman who becomes a manager, one guy gets a harder time finding dates. Men and women are fundamentally different in several areas. I found out I don't enjoy playing Dungeons and Dragons with geeky girls, because they're playing the game too socially, with too little focus on combat and dice rolling. So we play board games and card games instead. There are feminine b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 10:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemThe ratings are by thousands of women, not one. Everyone will find someone who is considered extremely attractive, but there's just no agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/16 08:09 AM |
| 5 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?And what value did it add to the discussion..? What are the highlights from the posts, and what should the original poster learn from the wisdom contained in the post? ... An agressive red-pill post would be full of actual suggestions for what HE CAN DO to change his situation -- if agressive at all. This agressive blue-pill post is full of insults and generalizations, with zero constructive criticisim or advice -- advocating Blue Pull as trollish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?"I'm honestly sick of the incel types coming on here like oh I'm so sad, treating women like sexbots isn't getting me laid, please convince me that there is another option!! Like, if we have to come to your rescue and spend our day trying to convince you that women are human beings just like you then honestly maybe it's better that you stay away from women. Try talking to your mom." You seriously don't think this is any condecending to the original poster -- who came to the blue pill because he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Lets not be ridiculous, men are not attracted to "empathy"My greatest crush of all time... A highly sensitive person with hyper empathy. Essentially the opposite of a psychopath. Half angel, half human. *Sigh* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?It is implying he thinks they are sexbots, aren't considering them human beings and suggests he should talk to his mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Why do TRP and the manosphere feel such a deep contempt for single mother?I live with them, for the time being. Waiting for better times, when I feel comfortable leaving them in the care of their mother. At that time, I don't know what we'll do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?"oh I'm so sad, treating women like sexbots isn't getting me laid" "Like, if we have to come to your rescue and spend our day trying to convince you that women are human beings just like you" "Try talking to your mom." ...I realize it's kind of a troll post, but... It was upvoted hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 10:15 PM |
| 5 | Q4BP: If your sub stands against hate speech so much, why is hateful content frequently upvoted on your sub?Introverted guys don't look at girls as sexbots. Yet -- I've heard a dozen comparisons like that: "Want a vending machine for women" "Treat women like sexbots" ... People who know absolutely nothing what so ever about introverts actually believe that about introverts. That is excessively hurtful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 10:08 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemBut... But... I bought a razor and everything..! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Q4RP: Why do TRP and the manosphere feel such a deep contempt for single mother?Two of my Tinder matches are single mothers. ... While I talk to both of them, I'm not all that interested. I have children myself, but... The ladies' lives are miserable! Like. Seriously! Both of them appear to be seriously depressed. Just like my ex. I pity them for their hardships, but I don't feel any contempt. I left my girlfriend and kids because she didn't love me -- and I want to be loved. I seriously want to be loved. But I don't want to take my chances on people who are in positions wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 09:15 PM |
| 5 | Are men actually intimidated by successful women?Sex is about procreation. Genetics. Accomplishments tells you practically nothing about genetics. Personality, does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?I would not question my love for my girlfriend if she changes in a way that hurts me; I would question her love for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?You act like I'm saying I'd go fishing, and hug the first thing I drag out of the ocean, and announce my unconditional love for an poisonous squid. Of fucking course there's standards to be met before I'd even CONSIDER promising to love someone unconditionally for the rest of their lives: I would have to feel that they're worthy: Initial attraction, desireable qualities, personality, past, plans for the future, compatibility, sexual compatability... ... Permanent standards: Not being a psychopat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?You've been trolling for quite some while now. There are no paradoxes -- just requirements to initiate the relationship, requirements which allows you to nullify the "contract", because your love was based on a lie. 1: Your love is the gender he or she claims to be 2: He or she is actually a living, breathing, empathic human being 3: He or she is doesn't have an ancient curse from some random mummy that's going to cause your firstborn children to become the dark fucking messiah ... I don't think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 08:09 PM |
| 8 | Are men actually intimidated by successful women?Men only care about what a woman IS -- not what she has done. Genetics > Environment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?I don't believe in souls. But I'm still going to call a person who feel no guilt, no compassion, no love, no loneliness, practically no fear nor distress... Soulless. Because that is the most fitting word for the condition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?For calling psychopaths soulless? I think that's the description is very fitting. Feel no guilt, no compassion, no loneliness, no love... and feel practically no fear or distress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?Not conditions; requirements to qualify for it in the first place: Having a soul. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 07:20 PM |
| 1 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?But they are attractive? If you add "change personality to be more attractive to women" in place of "...", would that make a difference? Would that be wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 06:53 PM |
| 2 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?And changing your personality to achieve short term success is..? The women like that kind of behavior. And I'm truly sorry for the fact -- and I hate the fact. I wish to the gods, old and new, dead and forgotten, that the female population liked nice guys. But... "Women rated the high DT character as significantly more attractive." Women think that Dark Triad personalities are SIGNIFICANTLY more attractive. http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886913012245 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 06:14 PM |
| 1 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?It sounds more like a thread about an angry and frustrated person who's at his wits end, and is asking for any reason what so ever to not swallow the red pill to improve his life. Or a person who actually achieved success through these strategies, and is even more disappointed with the fact -- because he had hoped the world was a better place than this. Look at what he's conveying, not at what he's writing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 06:01 PM |
| 2 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?You're like a man denying that makeup makes a girl more attractive. Stop. Just. Stop. ... Wait. Okay. The dark triade thing is kind of shitty. I agree. I'd never do that to anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 05:45 PM |
| 1 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?Is working out immoral? Is letting go of your ideals, in favor of adapting to reality, immoral? Is dressing better because you want vain people to like you more immoral? ... Is planning your future and getting your shit together immoral? Is improving yourself to achieve your goals immoral? The Blue Pill thinks so, yes. But that is the CORE of the Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | BP: Why *shouldn't* RP guys strive to be dark triad/Machiavellian/Chad alphas?Except... It DOES work. It literally does work, if you don't want long term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?For me -- empathy is the very basis of what it means to be human. So. No. They're just zombies, to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemI had my best girl friend help me choose my pictures; I doubt they're shit. And I don't believe when who consider themeselves to be average AND successful within dating; You're likely 7 or above. 7s likely consider themeselves average, just like the middle class consideres themselves average in terms of economics -- despite being significantly above the mediocre averages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 02:42 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemWe just observe facts; Average women simply aren't interested in dating average men. And there's evidence that we're right: Based on the OKCupid statistics, females are absolutely incapable of approprately assessing a man's physical attractiveness in online dating apps: Female ratings of male attractiveness: http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/your_looks_and_inbox/Female-Messaging-Curve.png Just compare to male estimates of females attractiveness: http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/your_looks_and_inbox/Male-Mess… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 02:31 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women Compartmentalize Men Based on the Context in Which They Meet ThemActually, women don't even swipe right unless the guy is their SMV +2. So most average men simply don't get a chance to SAY Hi! to the average girl. And the men that they DO match with don't HAVE TO say anything but Hi! to the girl, because they've got 20 other matches for the weekend... While the average man gets a match or two of his SMV -2, and just throws the phone over on the sofa and calls his FFB on Skype. Or -- in the case of men without FFBs -- he sais Hi! to a SMV -2 match and then thr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?I will love you for as long as you have a soul. "Hurr durr -- it's not unconditional if you don't love them if they're dead!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?If you love your children unconditionally, and it turns out that one of them were replaced by a hellspawn from the darkest depths of some twisted pit in hell before birth, it's obviously wrong to stop loving him. Sure. No. Actually being a creature deserving of any form of love is kind of a requirement for unconditional love -- and psychopathy is one of the few things that makes a creature unworthy of any form of love: Lacking empathy makes you a biological monster in my book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?RP warns against the idea because they believe women can't reciprocate. Onitis and unconditional love are not the same: You can love any number of people unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?I have loved unconditionally. She broke up after 7 years. I set her free. She didn't want to fly. So I gave her another chance. Didn't make her happier though -- so I broke up to ensure she had a chance to find someone else while she's still youthful and beautiful. We are still friends (with benefits), and I still love her unconditionally. Unconditional love: You love them as if they were your own flesh and blood, like you love your parents, siblings and children. Only psychopathic behavior from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Gender neutral equivalent to RP as a tool for victims of abuse?Unconditional love isn't bullshit for a lot of us; Not all of us are emotional capitalists. Loving someone unconditionally is a risk -- but that's a risk you have to take to be someone's Soulmate. You can't apply psuedo-supernatural properties to any relationship that doesn't contain true love, unconditional love. ... Sigh Red Pill tells us that girls can't love unconditionally -- they can only love conditionally, until the split second the condition is gone. And blue pill will mock the very ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Being "warm", especially in social interactions, is more of a masculine traitInteresting. Want to tell me... I mean us, more..? :O | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 12:20 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average MenBased on the OKCupid statistics, females are absolutely incapable of approprately assessing a man's physical attractiveness: Female ratings of male attractiveness: http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/your_looks_and_inbox/Female-Messaging-Curve.png Just compare to male estimates of females attractiveness: http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/your_looks_and_inbox/Male-Messaging-Curve.png ... There are 7 tiers: 0.00: Men: 26% | Women: 6% --- percent considered UGLY 0.83: Men: 31% | Women: 16% --- percent considered u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 12:09 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average MenAh. I understand now. Attractiveness rating is based on what women report about the man's attractiveness -- meaning this chart still applies: Female ratings of male attractiveness: http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/your_looks_and_inbox/Female-Messaging-Curve.png Just compare to male estimates of females attractiveness: http://cdn.okcimg.com/blog/your_looks_and_inbox/Male-Messaging-Curve.png ... There are 7 tiers: 0.00: Men: 26% | Women: 6% --- percent considered UGLY 0.83: Men: 31% | Women: 16% --- per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 11:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average MenSource..? If that applies to Tinder as well, I guess I'm just considered to be far below average for my age by the girls there. :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 10:30 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average MenAND 7-7.5 was one of the worst looking girls he has dated. HAS dated. If we are to believe him -- he IS above average. Average being 5 and 6/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 05:03 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average MenOn the contrary. Men are looking for girls on their level -- but are swiping right on girls slightly below their level, and message girls slightly above their level if they match. Mens' estimates of a woman's appearance is pretty accurate. Average women thinks that the average man is ugly, however. https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ ... Yeah. But yeah, you are right that men can find LTRs through other sources -- Average men should just stay away from dating apps, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 04:46 PM |
| 2 | TRP mistakes online dating with real lifeOut of 2 girls willing to give me a chance for a LTR, I met one of them on Tinder. They lasted 10 years, and 10 months respectively. The Tinder one ended because my kids got in between us. But hey -- I made two girl friends from Tinder as well. Three if the 10 month girl comes around and talks to me again. This was dating for a LTR, with appropriate statements about wanting something serious in my profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 04:11 PM |
| 4 | TRP mistakes online dating with real lifeHow many average girls do you think are actually willing to give an average man a chance on Tinder..? I think I'm average for 33 years old... +/-3 years and accepting 5, 6 and 7s... It's about 1% chance of a girl I swiped right giving me a chance to talk to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 03:57 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Dating Apps Have Destroyed Dating Prospects for Average Men-someone who's just with you because you happened to be the least-bad thing laying around Which is how the average man's dating for LTRs looks right now: You're the least bad match they have when they finally decide to give up on meeting for ONS and realize that ONS is everything more attractive men are looking for from them -- and you're the first guy down their list actually looking for a LTR and not shitting them about wanting a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Men: what is a mixed or contradictory signal you receive from the wider society about gender or romance that you feel one of the pills helps explain or sort out for you?Reminds me of when my girlfriend started cheating after 10 years. ...she had taken some photos of me and my kids, and shared some of the worst ones on facebook. So I wanted to share those I thought looked best on my facebook. I told her to send all the pictures to me through messenger. She couldn't work it out, and handed the phone over to me before leaving for the toilet. I opened messenger... The last conversation was automatically opened fullscreen. "Does your boyfriend know about this?" "Nop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Why does TRP seem so sociopathic?"The world of TRP is one devoid of hope, compassion, altruism, and love. " What can I say? The women in our lives have taught us well. The Red Pill is just intelligent, emotional, feeling men adapting to the fact that most girls don't give any fucks about us unless we possess the narrow set of qualities they desire from us. Men like shy girls. Men like girls with low self confidence -- girls with realistic beliefs in their own abilities. Men like girls who prefer to ask for help rather than scre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Why does TRP seem so sociopathic?And my experience is the opposite. Girls -- even my mother -- began shunning me from the first day of my long term depression. She was just like; "Go ask someone for help!", without any desire to talk to me or support me. Female friends didn't care about my problems, and didn't want to hear anything about them. One of my female coworkers I thought to be a friend just asked me "why are you telling ME this?" when I was fumbling around in the darkness, desperate for someone to talk to. ...it was fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 02:29 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] What is YOUR average day like and what do you look like?Male 33: 0600 Morning routine 0700 Work out if I'm working late / Go to work if I work early 1500 Go to work if I'm working late / Go to work out if I worked early 1800 Run uphill for an hour tuesday and thursday 1900 Kickboxing monday, wednesday, friday 2100 Long distance running monday and friday/saturday: 15 km/1 hour ... I hope to the gods I'm at the very least considered "average"... http://oi67.tinypic.com/s28703.jpg ...please, just please don't crush my soul... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Any theories why men contemplate suicides post breakup?I bet you laugh at the end of Romeo and Juliet, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What was your Best Sexual Experience Like?The problem with girls is that they don't think Chad is Chad. They don't know he has 400 matches on Tinder. They think he's a slightly above average guy, and just feel attracted to him for reasons they don't know. And they don't know they're his 150th partner, and don't want to know, or don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Men: what is a mixed or contradictory signal you receive from the wider society about gender or romance that you feel one of the pills helps explain or sort out for you?She is supposed to be willing to give him the chance of experiencing what she has, because he's curious -- and feels hopelessly unpriviledged about not having experienced those things. I mean. For men -- past experiences are about as important as current experiences are with girls. A girl with a wild past that stops being wild with the guy she loves, is like a guy having fantastic friendships with his exes, and refusing his girlfriend to take part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Men: what is a mixed or contradictory signal you receive from the wider society about gender or romance that you feel one of the pills helps explain or sort out for you?Problem is: He has not experimented yet. And she refuses to let him: It's her drug, or nothing. Then he hears that she has done all the other things in the past. ...he thinks about how he'd love to experience all those things with her. About how he wasn't Her One. ...and he wishes she hadn't done all those things without him, because now he's never going to experience those things, for as long as they're together... ...he's going too wish he had a girl with no experience, or one willing to let h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Men: what is a mixed or contradictory signal you receive from the wider society about gender or romance that you feel one of the pills helps explain or sort out for you?Upvote for days. ...example from a friend of mine: (I'd have killed myself if this was me, and I praise every day I live in blissful ignorance about what my partners have done with Chad in the past.) Chad in our social circle -- the guy who has slept with the majority of the girls we know -- told us about his sexual experiences with my friend's wife before they hooked up: They did anal, she used toys and buttplugs, they had a threesome, she sucked his cock and swallowed, regularily, and with enj… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men Are Lazy By NatureWhy do men stop spending time with and stop talking with their wife, to such a degree that the wife feels neglected? I get absolutely everything I want, with zero downsides, from a Friends With Benefits arrangement -- except the guarantee of her being "faithful". I felt hurt the one time she saw someone, but... she ended up dumping him in order to get to see me more, again. And that's the problem here: I have no problems cleaning up my own space. I have no problems maintaining a sexual relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?Ah. Yes. Innocent flirting. Leading to innocent tickling. Leading to "Don't touch me..!" because she's starting to get aroused, leading to the guy looking at ther in confused silence, leading to the girl feeling bad and confused for the sudden change in mood, leading to more physical contact to, leading to a emotionally charged violent fuck in the back room, that is bound to be repeated on multiple occations from here on -- until she quits her job because she doesn't like it there, out of guilt,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do women use their sexuality or sex as a weapon?If they're attractive enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men Are Lazy By Naturehttp://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8111_leave.html Basics of a relationship with a woman: -Complaint -Solve the complaint -Nothing improves what so ever -Ignore the complaint, because it's a proxy, or she's irrational ... And I can only speak for myself, but... When my girlfriend for 7 years tried to break up with me, the only reason I wasn't happy about it was because I didn't have anywhere to stay at the time, and... while things didn't improve, the sole reason we continued for another… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 10:51 AM |
| -1 | Why does TRP seem so sociopathic?*Bear hug* ...that is exactly how I feel on my lowest. As if girls have an instinctive crude as hell game plan, and genuinely don't give a fuck about the 80% of guys who don't get 400 tinder matches in one week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men Are Lazy By NatureWhat is the number ONE reason women leave? Because they don't feel like their husband is there for them, isn't their friend, and doesn't talk to them. Men tell women what they want, and get rejected. Women don't tell men what they want, and feel rejected. Women wonder why men aren't spending more time with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men Are Lazy By NatureLet's just break up. :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men Are Lazy By NatureIn other words: The men find that the rewards for doing it doesn't match the effort. They don't care enough about having a tidy home to do it for their own sake, and the girl doesn't care enough about the man's efforts to make him feel the chores are worth doing for her sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/16 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men Are Lazy By NatureYep. I'm seriously not sure, though... Perhaps women simply aren't doing enough to motive average men to give a fuck..? I mean -- the obsessive compulsive need for order and tidyness aside... And the " men should do more at home even if they aren't happy and don't give a fuck about their girlfriends leaving them, because... Reasons! " aside... Perhaps it's just really, really, really hard for a man and woman to actually understand and love eachother -- without a housekeeper OR severe poverty..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Which one would last longer: a society of all men or a society of all women?Life would be meaningless. For non-homosexual men. So, the answer is: a) It doesn't matter or b) Women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 05:49 PM |
| 5 | What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand?Male partners, friends, fathers and coworkers. Warning: Do not attempt this fix on non-functional men you aren't familiar with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 05:44 PM |
| 4 | What is the single most important thing that you wish every member of the opposite sex could understand?If the problem persists, try hugging him tightly for at least 15-20 seconds. If he rejects you, you're a part of his problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are men allowed to brag about their intelligence but not women?This sounds like a question by a woman, for women. I like women with high self confidence. Might have something to do with women generally having more realistic beliefs in their own abilities than the high confidence men, making the exceptions stand out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do people that are unable to form relationships, "incels" and "ForeverAlones" become asexual or demisexual with time?It's important because she's a girl who has tried to find a boyfriend, but failed. I think it's a tragedy whenever a person who is open for love is struggling to find anyone over a longer period of time, and I identify strongly with introverted and shy people. I can only guess that the same applies to those that are seriously trying to help her here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Where do you think you would be right now if you didn't take "The Red Pill"?If you start some sort of social media site and/or become CEO, sure. If you're the wizard actually doing the work -- it's going to hentai for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Where do you think you would be right now if you didn't take "The Red Pill"?Have you forgotten why we're even here..? To pass these genes of ours on to a new generation, if we can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Traditionalism in the end game of TRP, why can't TRPillers see?Power over people is only required if they're selfish, and... our communist society would already be useless if people were selfish enough to make power over other people necessary for anything. "Who will watch the watchers?" -- obviously, we just go capitalist and have competing companies watch eachother for selfish interests. Equality is only about justice. The advancement of the human race is a goal for society; ensuring our survival beyond this planet's lifespan. Understanding of the univers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Q4RP: Where do you think you would be right now if you didn't take "The Red Pill"?Fuck you. It was my dream since I was 12 -- doing something meaningful in the world, as opposed to working for personal gain. I literally never had any desire what so ever to be rich, own a fancy car or anything else my peers wanted: I only wanted to improve this shitty place. a) Make extremely deep artificial intelligence (or artificial limbs) b) Enter the military When I was trying to become a wizard, b) was kind of impossible. When I was trying to become Chad, a) became impossible. When my so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Science finds that nice guys finish lastMy best girl friend's latest ex was a sociopath that told her friends she talked about them behind her back, poisoning their minds, and laid a foundation of socially isolating her. She lost a lot of friends. When she broke up with him, after her parents bascially forced her -- he spread pictures of her giving him a blowjob over Snapchat, to all her friends, and worse. He even gave alienating her from all her friends one last ditch effort with a serious smear campaign that took days to for her to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Not All Incels Are Like That1: I consider C5s to be incels: 5 years is a lot. 2: I have no clue; I know that some won't consider C5 incels, and I know girls who'd pity boy friends who didn't have sex for a month. 3: I pity C6 and worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 01:41 PM |
| 2 | The best possible partner to have is your FOIL.My sentiments exactly. 90% similarity and 10% difference in an insignificant area is preferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men Are Lazy By NatureI only became "lazy" when I realized I don't care if she breaks up with me or not -- and began hoping she did. Our relationship was dead, but ... I love my kids. I just didn't have any motivation what so ever to do chores. If she wants a tidy home, throw all the shit she doesn't use and don't need out to make good room and a dedicated space for everything we actually need. When she didn't, I stopped helping her. She didn't make me happy, didn't even partially accept my solution to our problems w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Science finds that nice guys finish lastMy experience is that women wants nice guys as friends, but not as sexual partners. They may fuck nice guys if they're desperate, but -- why would a woman be desparate when they can find idiots on Tinder any time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 12:46 PM |
| 9 | Q4RP: Where do you think you would be right now if you didn't take "The Red Pill"?Personally, I came to many of the same realizations as the Red Pill 12 years ago: I got my first girlfriend, whom I stayed with for ten years, by changing who I was to something women universally desire. I stopped pursuing my hobbies within computer technology, artificial intelligence and digital arts and got ripped, going from 183cm and 107 kilos to 82 kilos and an eight-pack. I began socializing with ordinary people who care more about their everyday lives, instead hanging out in pure male int… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 12:35 PM |
| 1 | What does the normal day of a Red Pill man look like?We live together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Here's why equality is the answerhttp://brainblogger.com/2009/05/10/medical-controversy-when-does-life-begin/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 01:03 AM |
| 2 | What does the normal day of a Red Pill man look like?-- Got my knee fucked up badly from kickboxing and am currently taking a 6 week break from kickboxing, running, work and actually dating; a 6 week vacation from LIFE -- 02:14: Talk to best girl friend and ask her about her job interview Swoop Wooop 07:15: Time to get the kids to school and hit physical therapy! 07:55: Get out of the car with my crutches. Awkwardly realize that I have to go around the building with crutches from the parking lot, because the shopping center is closed, while the ph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Here's why equality is the answerBecause most reasoning for not allowing abortions are religious -- because non-religious separation between fetus and human logically starts when the fetus transcends from a bunch of cells that the mother keeps alive to a sentient and feeling entity -- and there's no good reason to not allow abortion up until a safe time before the that transcendance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/16 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Here's why equality is the answerFor as long as religion and state are separate, there is no reason to go with any law but one founded on scientific research. Let religious people who believe life starts at conception treat their own pregnancies that way, and let people who don't believe in a soul, or people who don't believe fetuses have a soul until they've become sentient, have abortions for as long as it's humanely defendable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 11:56 PM |
| 1 | [Ask BP] Where does a shy man go to meet a shy woman?And if you had the choice: Be a perverted boy and actually hook up with wild girls and shy girls starting your sexual experiences at 14 -- or -- be a shy boy and be a virgin until your twenties despite being social and going out? You may hate the perverts, but they're far more successful than shy boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Here's why equality is the answerAnd the logical cut-off point for allowing the termination of pregnancies should be when the fetus has got an active brain. http://www.bbc.co.uk/ethics/abortion/child/alive_1.shtml People can be allowed to hold any beliefs they want, and act accordingly, for as long as the law is just and not influenced by religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What does the normal day/week look like for an attractive woman?I love you already, thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?I don't want to be in a relationship with someone to who I'm in the bottom 25% in terms of overall value. Do you -- or don't you -- care about how attractive, funny and sexy you are compared to your partners previous sexual partners? Do you -- or don't you -- care about how happy, horny, kinky and confident you make your partner compared to your partner's previous sexual partners? It's not just about me. It's about my partner as well: I don't want to disappoint anyone by being their bottom 25%. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Here's why equality is the answerSimple. Mothers should think twice about having babies with random strangers or men who do not want to be fathers. Currently, a pregnancy is only a problem for the man, because he doesn't have a choice. The woman can just terminate the pregnancy if she doesn't want the economic, social, educational and/or professional liability a child will be. The man is screwed either if the woman disagrees with his wishes. The only thing that happens, functionally, is that we unscrew the man -- without screwi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?I asked a Yes or No question. Sure -- you may find arguments for either side of the Yes and No, but you didn't even answer my question or discuss the problem I presented -- you just went on a rant suggesting that I propose that I think I know what's best for another person, when I left the question up to everyone else to decide for themselves: Do you think that an average person is generally better off in a long term relationship with a mate that has not had a significant amount sexual partners … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Here's why equality is the answerI can see how law can make tings complicated, but -- luckily -- we can discuss right and wrong regardless of laws. No matter how much a man wants a child, the woman can terminate it. No matter how much a man DOESN'T want a child, the woman can have it. Case 1: Mother wants a child Father wants a child They have a child and have equal responsibilities for it Case 2: Father wants a child Mother doesn't want a child The pregnancy is terminated. No child is born. The father can't raise the child alo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 05:08 PM |
| 1 | [Ask BP] Where does a shy man go to meet a shy woman?I've seen boys have more success with telling girls the size of their 8 inch cocks and telling them to "come back later when their friends have left" than by not talking to girls. And girls simply don't make any effort to talk to shy boys. Ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:56 PM |
| 1 | [Ask BP] Where does a shy man go to meet a shy woman?When a shy guy is shy, he has 0 chance of meeting girls. When a pervert is perverted, he has a larger than 0 chance of meeting girls. When a shy guy overcomes his shyness, he has a larger than 0 chance of meeting girls -- but your average girl's #1 turnoff is lack of confidence. When a pervert overcomes his perversion, he has a larger than 0 chance of meeting girls -- and he's confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?Do you, or do you not agree, that: An average person is generally better off in a long term relationship with a mate that has not had a significant amount sexual partners far above that person's level, in terms of attraction AND social value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:34 PM |
| 3 | [Ask BP] Where does a shy man go to meet a shy woman?And pushy perverts are still getting more positive attention from girls, as in; sex and friendship, than shy guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?A 6/10 man is better off with a 6/10 girlfriend who has had the fewest possible partners above his own level. That is the core of what I am arguing. I don't care if she has had fifty 5/10s. I'd never want to be with a girl who has had five or more 8/10 chads. Not again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Here's why equality is the answerIf a woman wants to have child, and the man does not -- given the fact that she can have an abortion, he should also be allowed to be freed of any economical and social responsibility for the child -- OR be the father of the child and spend time with it. Anything else is inequality. How equal rights should be when it comes to having children: 1: Each parent should have the right to 3.5 days with the child 2: Each parent should have the right to a different type of "abortion": Female: The pregnan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Is being a male virgin really such a weird, strange thing? {Male, 26}This is so true. It's first when you don't have it, you realize how much you miss it. ... Got knee surgergy and can't walk for six weeks. I can't even get to the general store 200 meters away because walking and skipping is too painful one week after surgery. and if I got there, I'd still not be able to carry anything or bring bags home. Can't drive. ... Missing a sexual partner feels exactly that much taxing: A hole in your life. However, if you never had it -- you can't miss it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 10:35 AM |
| 0 | [Ask BP] Where does a shy man go to meet a shy woman?...oh wow. Jamie Scott -- Unbreakable https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZAs5K7L8KA ...I know so many girls who just love this song... But switch the roles, and they'd puke uncontrollably, instantly. I wasn't prepared to feel this hurt, and I got hurt because what you say is literally the opposite of the truth. The shy guy IS the vending machine, stuck and without options, and he just wants ONE GIRL to even look at what he has to offer, sometime. Not all the time. Just once or twice per year, even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 10:18 AM |
| 2 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?Stop right there. Pretend that this is a girl saying this: "I want to be a boy's One -- just like the boy is my One. I don't accept being a boy's Eight again. Not eight sexual partner, but eight down the list of people he was attracted to and had sex with." Disagree with that girl? Then what happens when a man and a woman that's going to meet up eventually have 10 sexual partners before meeting up? Do you actually doubt that the guy is going to sleep with a lot of more unattractive girls -- whil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/16 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Traditionalism in the end game of TRP, why can't TRPillers see?Equality for equal people. Equal pay for equal work. No room for narcissistic bullshit. I won't pretend that some people aren't better at their jobs, or that some people are horrible at pretty much everything compared to another person. Better students would have better chances of reaching their academic goals in life. Power over other people is bad. I want those under a leader to have a fair chance to have the leader replaced -- regarless of the area the leader is a leader -- just like I want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?Would you say the same about a girl who won't have one night stands or fuckbuddies, and who's only into monogamous relationships -- or would you respect her for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?Happier..? A part of me hopes it was just a random excuse to make herself feel better about her low libido, because if not, it means I'm less attractive than I've believed I was -- and I already had low self confidence. A part of me believes it was caused by her sleeping with a dozen guys of higher value, causing her experiences with me to be bland and boring in comparison, making me only unattractive compared to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?I'm not the one you asked the question -- but the exact same question applies to me too. For me, my 10 year relationship died on the day she said she never actually found me all that attractive. It happened when I confronted her about our dead bedroom case -- which is what eventually led me to Dead Bedrooms, years after breaking up with her, and then -- here. (Officially, it's 11 years -- unoffically, it's 10...) She might be low libido, but... she refuses to believe she is. And I'm not sure she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?This is part satire: A 6/10 girl's list of casual sexual partners: 8/10, 7/10, 6/10, 8/10, 9/10, 7/10, 6/10, 8/10, 8/10, 7/10, 7/10. 8/10 A 6/10 beta boy's list of casual sexual partners: 5/10, 6/10, 4/10 An 8/10 alpha boy's list of casual sexual partners: 7/10, 6/10, 8/10, 10/10, 6/10, 7/10, 6/10, 8/10, 7/10, 7/10, 9/10, 6/10, 5/10, 7/10, 9/10, 8/10, 7/10, 6/10, 7/10, 8/10, 9/10, 7/10, 6/10, 6/10, 6/10, 7/10, 8/10, 9/10, 7/10, 6/10, 7/10, 6/10, 6/10, 7/10, 8/10, 7/10, 6/10(...) It will not be j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?Because even an average girl can get higher value men to have casual sex with them, and they get multiple options to further increase the quality of their casual sex experiences. An average man can't have casual sex with higher value girls unless he wins some kind of social lottery, and has to sleep with lower value girls -- because girls on the same level easily can sleep up for casual sex. I don't believe any girl gets to have 10+ partners without being "taken advantage of" -- being one or sev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Does an individual's "N-Count" have a direct correlation with the success of a marriage?The female n-count is rougly the amount of other guys you're worse than. The male n-count is roughly the amount of other girls you're better than. I seriously don't see how the difference isn't huge: Average girls with a lot of partners are bound to be damaged by their experiences with sleeping around with men of higher value. http://before-i-do.org/ Why do I care about how many partners my next girl has slept with? I've slept with 3 girls. 11 years relationship for the first one, 3 months for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP Are Military Dictators Beta?More like; They're generally stupid, psychopathic and/or paranoid alphas They probably believe in their own propaganda, making them paranoid or simply dumb. If they don't, they're willfully deceiving the population. The majority of a population that allows a dictator to rise to power is going to be uneducated and/or poor, and the typical approach to creating a dictatorship is: A man and his lie -- or rather; beliefs. Because lies aren't lies if you believe them. Just like high self confidence is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Shouldn't we try to make women less hypergamous to solve the problem of incels and undersexed betas?... You just hurt me... Real bad. :'( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe there are women who genuinely find beta males mores sexually attractive than alphas,?Only if the woman wants out. The beta man could go years without having sex again. The girl can have sex absolutely any day she wants, thanks to Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Traditionalism in the end game of TRP, why can't TRPillers see?I'm practically a communist, but I realize the world is too full of selfish pricks for that to actually work, and because I don't want to ruin the world, I'm forced further right than my nature in order to not contribute to the destruction of any society. I don't support any communistic regime, and wouldn't support the creation of a communistic state -- simply because we all know where that would go. Selfish people get power --> Corruption --> Ruined Human society only works if people's selfish … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/16 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible this red pill/blue pill thing comes down to people's life experiences?Hah. Probably. And I'm 33. Outside the main search range for users. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Is it possible this red pill/blue pill thing comes down to people's life experiences?My experience; 1: Didn't have any girlfriend, but enough girl friends who thought I was nice enough. And they slept with my brother. I was fat and depressed. 2: I decided to get fit. I wanted to get into the army and clean up landmines; Do something for the world. So I started running and kickboxing, and went from 107 kilos to 83 kilos in one and a half year. Suddenly, I got invited to parties on my way home from gym, by complete strangers, asked out by girls while I was at work, and called at b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/16 05:51 PM |
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