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Sounds like it could be the US. It sounds a lot more authoritarian when he's not being specific about it, maybe that's what's scary.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 07:13 PM
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PE is premature ejaculation. We've all struggled with it, particularly at the beginning of our sex life and whenever it's "been a while." It's a vicious cycle because it's aggravated by nervousness, so until you can get your head straight it's just going to keep happening.
/r/askMRP28/11/15 08:17 PM
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No problem brother. 25y/o, married for 7 years, 2 kids (yeah, started young). I was fairly alpha (as far as one can self-evaluate), until I got out of the military and into college. I buckled to the expectations of other students at an extremely liberal school and took a class on feminism. I was making a real attempt to understand an ideology I didn't agree with. It wasn't until several weeks into the class that I started to get frustrated at the "victim olympics" conducted within feminism, and …
/r/askMRP20/11/15 09:58 PM
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I would advise that you don't title a post with a request for validation. That's absolutely the opposite of what you should be looking for. Next, the IM thing isn't a shit test as far as you describe it. It's her looking for attention and validation from you. If she's sending you chore lists, you need to get to a point where you're owning your shit and dealing with it before she brings it up. You know what needs to be done, so do it. I would also advise you to slow it down a bit. These changes a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 09:36 PM
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I understand the "leave me alone so I can work" concept, but most of us started our beta slide with that line of thinking. Next thing you know you're agreeing with everything she says just so she'll shut up, she's captain of the ship, and you're wondering where the sex went. It's a learning process, and I still occasionally fuck it up. Keep improving, and ignore the other crabs in the bucket.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 09:26 PM
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First, it doesn't sound like you're unplugged, but still in the process of unplugging. That's fine, it's not supposed to be an overnight change anyway. Second, you didn't swat any shit tests concerning the flirting at work, you actually supplicated to her bitching and said you wouldn't do it anymore, as in "sorry mommy." You shouldn't feel the need to relate all of these stories to her anyway, unless you're looking for validation or acceptance of your behavior. Next time there's a stain on your …
/r/askMRP20/11/15 09:10 PM
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This. Right now your wife is loving it because she doesn't see it as permanent change. To her, this is just a phase you're going through. Over time (perhaps days, weeks, or months), she will decide that you're a selfish, arrogant, narcissistic prick who doesn't want her opinion. Embrace that, and be ready for those shit tests. She will "suddenly" decide that you're an asshole - not the "good boy" who used to make her coffee every morning and rub her feet at night. The "good boy" metaphor exempli…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 08:51 PM
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She'll be pissed off the first time you slap her hand, but that behavior will stop quick. My wife did the same thing, and I got the "all girls do it" thing too. If it doesn't stop, just start slapping the hand and walking away.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 06:52 PM
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This will turn into a shit test the first time you do it, just ignore her shenanigans and continue to enforce your boundaries. This is a bizarre thing for you to be allowing to yourself.
/r/askMRP20/11/15 06:30 PM
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As far as I've ever seen, a partner only distracts from the real goal. I've tried a partner several times and it always ends up as a fuckaround session. Make lifting into a time of personal reflection, meditation, or audiobooks. Kill two pterodactyls with one stone, as has been said here before.
/r/askMRP19/11/15 08:58 PM
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This is a contradiction I see over and over. At my worst I broke down and spilled my guts to my wife about my insecurities, fears, and depression by PTSD. Her response was a pat on the back and then heading out to the bar with her friends. After I shut that shit off I found more respect from her and our sex life is better. Then, I get the occasional "you don't tell me anything that's going on with you, you're so emotionally cut off." But again, we weren't having sex until I learned to shut down …
/r/ExRedPill19/11/15 07:48 PM
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The screaming is childish, and the only way to work around that is to walk away when she turns the volume up. She thinks that screaming is the way to make you listen, but by walking away you're teaching her that it's counterproductive. What level of dread are you at?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 11:18 PM
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I was in a similar position as you, where my wife's behavior didn't improve as I was improving myself. It was around month 5/6 when I was going out more, talking to other women around her, and displaying my ability to socialize with anyone I met, when something clicked with her. One day she asked flat out "are you seeing someone else?" I'm not, but I amplified and told her that my girlfriends were top notch and making her look bad. It wasn't until later that I realized that even though I had rai…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/15 09:59 PM
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After a year of no sex, this is the kind of thing you can really, truly laugh at. It helps the Amused Mastery when the shit she says is actually hilarious when compared to her behavior.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 04:37 PM
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