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I’m 35M and I got herpes a long time ago. I live in a big city and STI panels here don’t look for herpes because most likely if you’re having sex you already have it. I am not sick or dying, I don’t have any pain, I have all my hair, fingers and toes. At my age the people I date already have a history of partners and we’ve been tested for STIs. The more troubling ones get treated with medicine, you’re treating the symptoms. Most 19 year olds probably don’t have anything, maybe hooked up with the…
/r/seduction01/04/26 05:36 AM
1

Give up the search. Stop trying so hard to find this woman for you. You should’ve been doing these fun things for yourself and not to find someone
/r/seduction16/03/26 08:26 PM
26

Hey, you look great tonight. That drink looks good, what is that? Hey, how’s your night going?
/r/seduction21/02/26 07:03 PM
1

He’s right. Fix your mindset and fix yourself. Work on yourself, that should be your main focus in all things
/r/seduction21/11/25 02:46 PM
15

Men don’t get taught how to approach or date women, and really bad scenarios can come from men who don’t know at all what they’re doing. Basic human decency isn’t a standard for men in the US, it should be but Murican male culture is based in power and we get fed that as kids. Us lucky ones who really want to have partners eventually learn to practice empathy and patience.
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:29 PM
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Or as Luigi green hat with a backpack
/r/seduction22/10/25 01:53 PM
1

What did you send her? Don’t double text, just wait 2-3 weeks as if she’s busy in life.
/r/seduction11/10/25 12:30 AM
2

You chat women up like people. If they’re dressed well say they look great. Keep trying and change your approach, your ideas of what it should be. Genuinely let go of the pressure of hiding something and acting like something else.
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:23 PM
1

This. Women have a goal but they can take a detour
/r/seduction21/09/25 05:05 PM
3

Not the Naked man, works every time two thirds of the time
/r/seduction21/09/25 04:57 PM
2

I’m not a tall dude and I’m not rich but I get dates. You are wrong
/r/seduction17/09/25 02:10 PM
3

Nope
/r/seduction17/09/25 02:09 PM
5

I dated someone like this. Like you. I loved her dearly and we took all the precautions. Are you a very anxious person? There’s more stigma in STIs than there are actual symptoms but I won’t be able to change your thoughts on that. When you meet people, just ask if they’ve been tested and show proof. I have my results on MyChart which is a medical app that shows my results and appointments. I’m non-monogamous, with multiple partners and we all get tested. No one’s passing around crabs or the cla…
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:53 AM
3

Did the lady follow you out? Did yall get separated?
/r/seduction02/09/25 02:05 PM
1

I dated someone for a year without sex. I’m also NM and was 28m at the time
/r/seduction05/08/25 04:56 PM
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If it doesn’t help you then it’s not meant for you.
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:29 AM
1

Sexual tension can come from you being confident and having a plan. Plan things in advance like a date at 7pm with a (unspoken) plan b in case the restaurant isn’t cool or is busy. Make it about her, like you want to see them dress up because they look so good. Plan 2 weeks in advance, don’t just pick the weekend for a date and ask her to clear her evening so you don’t have to hope she’s free that day. Tell her she should wear walking shoes if you want to walk through a garden or down a boardwal…
/r/seduction24/07/25 10:09 AM
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First time? Don’t hook up with just anyone. I did and I hated it. That being said Not everyone you find attractive is supposed to be your gf/bf, and it’s okay to make out/hook up with them if you communicate that and they like you too. Literally start with ‘Scuse me I think you look so good tonight’ Have sex with people you like, someone you’d like to get to know in some capacity but be honest with them if that ends up being the only kind of connection you have. An attraction but not a romantic …
/r/seduction24/07/25 09:59 AM
3

What are you doing for fun? Are you having fun?
/r/seduction23/07/25 07:20 PM
3

Miserable men give angry advice, cause they’re stubbornly refusing to learn. Aptly named user I see
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:57 AM
6

You can be honest but don’t give gross or juicy details. How many people you’ve have relationships with is fine, how long is fine, mentioning how the sex was, the color of their skin, gross habits etc is a no no. You’ve been on a few dates, don’t say how many or if you’ve hooked up with them. Are you looking for something serious or just meeting people? That’s a decent conversation to have so both of you know if you want the same thing.
/r/seduction16/07/25 02:52 PM
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Are you planning the dates? Who’s picking the restaurant? Are you enjoying her company? Women don’t test you with their clothes, they test you if they’ve had bad experiences with men. If she’s had shitty ex boyfriends in the past, she won’t show you all the good things she has to offer and you should be a good goober to her. It’s also okay if it doesn’t work out, understand that not everyone you like needs to be your bf/gf
/r/seduction15/07/25 08:06 PM
2

More compatible dates can be found by going to clubs, events and especially when you’re out doing your own thing. Focus on your depth, your skills, the things you are good at.
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:45 AM
3

He can still drop the ball once in a while
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:28 AM
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It sounds like your friend who I (34M) assume was driving tried to put the moves on the girlfriend person and she didn’t like that at all. She might’ve been uncomfortable being alone with your friend and decided to stick with her friend instead. This is a safety move on her part, so you should ask these girls if the friend is okay. Ask your driver friend what happened too, I’m sure it was an awkward interaction at best but understand that girls don’t do stuff like that unless it’s about someone’…
/r/seduction01/06/25 12:23 AM
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The double standards haven’t been mentioned. Also there are illogical men and unemotional women. Without examples, you’re generalizing and letting other dudes who think women belong in the kitchen think they’re right. I want my gf to have fun and do her own thing with her own money cause I need my own space and time to chill. If you threaten that reality for me I will write books and start a podcast that will change the way your kids will think.
/r/seduction27/05/25 04:49 AM
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Would you say you were fiddling too much with the music? With your stuff? Taking too long taking her pants off? Before you go out next time, make it a ritual to clean your room, scrub your dick (before you leave and before sex) and have a sexy playlist saved for the potential win. Luck is all about preparation and you got to see the things you need to prepare for. There’s more to learn always. Also there is a method to take a partners pants off quickly, lmk if you need it
/r/seduction24/05/25 02:17 PM
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If her eyes shine in the sun, she wears sundresses and boots with cute socks, if she’ll play a game with me once in a while. I want someone who is interested in herself though, not doing things for me. If I’m not the center of her universe, she’s on her way somewhere special and I want to root for her. Then I’ll buy her flowers
/r/seduction16/05/25 09:15 PM
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Let them, we need women to feel comfortable to be honest about their thoughts
/r/seduction20/04/25 02:07 AM
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Commitment comes after getting to know a person and loving them despite how they fold their shirts or how smelly their feet are. You can ask for commitment, you can ask for it after having gotten to know them with or without sex.
/r/seduction19/04/25 08:59 PM
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I’ve been this way too, I’m older than you and it hasn’t changed for me but I’m being responsible about it. I’m non-monogamous and communicate everything with the people I’m seeing. I’ve also met people who have captivated me and I felt myself wanting to change my life for them. I want to believe I’m looking for something so sure fire that I won’t doubt the love I have for them. Everything else isn’t a waste of time, respect and appreciation the people who let you into their life, if you take aw…
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:06 PM
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Fix your shit. Eat healthier, go work out and get crafty with your hands. Plan days for yourself like to the museum or a movie, just do a thing for yourself. Find places to sit alone and do that, do a crossword, write down a short story, make paper cranes. Do something tanglible that challenges your mind. The most attractive thing people see in any gender is when they are entirely themselves. Passionate and self invested but not assholes or self centered. Kindness plays a role too, but if you’re…
/r/seduction13/04/25 11:55 PM
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It’s a practice without any official guidance. Pick up artists. Cold approaches. Be yourself. All of these things have some semblance of efficiency but as a standalone teaching are flawed for only focusing on their intended use. Learn how to talk about nothing. Random facts. Dumb jokes. Movie you watched? Practice approaching people, not just hot chicks or whatever. Approach queer folks cause they look cool, dudes who got that sports jersey on, old ladies with badass tattoos. You hurt yourself b…
/r/seduction04/04/25 11:41 PM
1

Success adds to confidence, confidence brings in success
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:42 PM
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No one is teaching boys how to talk to girls. Some guys just start talking and go thru trial and error without hesitation, sometimes they just dont stop talking. Some guys learn later in life, maybe they get their shit together enough to just feel confident and that starts the ball rolling.
/r/seduction22/03/25 03:38 AM
1

Don’t plead, ask her how she’s doing and if she needs money for plan b
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:55 PM
1

She could take another pill
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:52 PM
1

First time? If it’s a casual hook up, she’ll probably be on birth control or take the pill. Modern medicine 🙏 Get tested regularly if you’re gonna be hooking up with people. You’re probably gonna have herpes, most people already do so don’t let it freak you out. Just don’t leave your bodily fluids on anyone’s skin for too long, wash or wipe clean.
/r/seduction17/03/25 02:40 PM
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Instructions unclear. I’m a loving person that does what I want because I want to, like go to the movies or see a concert. I didn’t become that person by hearing people say be a man, I learned to be a person by spending time with myself. Pursuing my own interests and hobbies. Finding clothes that I like and a good haircut. If you call men pussies, you keep them from trying things. Encourage men to do stuff they like, to be certain in themselves.
/r/seduction09/03/25 11:26 PM
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Escalation can be scary if you think it has to be a big jump. Don’t make big escalations unless you’re getting a big green light. Start with touching and holding hands. Like can i see your rings? Do you know what your palm says about you? Compliments about the way they smell and dress, those are choices the person made.
/r/seduction21/02/25 06:22 PM
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This is a good observation. Women want to know that sex isn’t your only goal. If you’re okay with just making out or hanging out with snacks and food then you give them a reason to trust you. But don’t actually use them for sex, cause that’ll hurt them and then you only add to the Men are Trash pile.
/r/seduction20/02/25 02:53 AM
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Don’t expect anything and just have fun. There’s nothing to lose, dress your best or your boldest. Just be
/r/seduction15/02/25 12:46 AM
1

How many people in the world have herpes
/r/seduction14/02/25 07:19 PM
3

‘Then you should know that someone like me would want to date someone like you’ Straight Face Don’t elaborate.
/r/seduction12/02/25 03:26 PM
8

I’ve been in ONS, but most of the time I double dip and we end up dating for a year. 30M I want you to be comfortable, like walk around naked comfortable. But thats just me and I plan to do it again
/r/seduction01/02/25 07:03 AM
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This is true. They are angry and you have to compensate by doing something. Show up and validate them with action, not sweet words.
/r/seduction29/01/25 12:28 AM
2

Never say this, but act like this and don’t expect them to chase you. You’ll attract the people who really want to get to know you, not always the one you want to
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:31 AM
2

There’s soft escalations. Sweet touches like taking her hand and asking to look at her rings, her nails or reading her palm and making up a dumb ass story. You need to let go of the idea of trying, way before you go on this date. Become loose and full of little stories and ideas, just things you like and want to see and hear. Be able to say them out loud. Like at some point saying that your date looked so good that you want to/would like to kiss them. Soft escalations should happen early on, cau…
/r/seduction18/01/25 01:44 AM
9

This is actually good advice.
/r/seduction12/01/25 01:04 AM
1

Say it in a way that says come here but not outright say it
/r/seduction24/12/24 09:49 PM
1

Where do you live? You can meet people not just at bars but events and game nights. Join a book club or something, sometimes they’re at bars but you don’t have to drink. Just get a cranberry juice or soda
/r/seduction24/12/24 05:39 AM
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Getting back together with her would be bad People miss their exes all the time because it’s familiar but unless you see a significant change in them it’s not worth it to try again. Hooking up with them, maybe but that comes with emotional minefields so up to you but give a disclaimer of your intentions.
/r/seduction04/07/24 02:51 AM
2

No. This is the exact reason why people don’t feel comfortable setting boundaries openly. Because of stupid gotcha bullshit like they can’t decide anything. Listen to your date and let them become comfortable with you
/r/seduction31/05/24 01:35 PM
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I’ve had women invite me over with the disclaimer that we’re not gonna have sex tonight. I’m cool with it, I like you and would be down to just watch a movie and make food. Sometimes they change their mind during the evening, and sometimes we don’t have sex. It’s all lovely. Say it just matter of factly, and if he gets pissy then tell him to shut that shit down or fuck off.
/r/seduction30/05/24 11:18 PM
0

0 dates is an acceptable answer, but all the things you re concerned about aren’t alt whether you have sex fast or not but if he sees that you’re honest and secure in WHO you are. People want a relationship with ambitious people, confident people. You don’t ‘lose him’ if you’re already doing the work to be your own person
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:03 PM
1

It’s not creepy if you’re not a creep. Talk to cute people and make it known that you’re talking cause they are cute. If they don’t wanna engage then keep it pushing. If they ask you what you’re doing here alone, the answer can be a deciding factor so be ready to say something like you’re bored and want to meet cool people or something.
/r/seduction15/04/24 08:11 PM
1

Find a way to touch hands, such as looking at their rings or nails. You can tell how comfortable the person is comfortable with touch and you by how long it lingers. If things don’t feel good or natural then take a step back and consider ending it early yourself. Hands, touch shoulders, touch knees.
/r/seduction14/04/24 03:35 PM
1

Go to a club or a class. Bars are a default setting with default random people, maybe go to a themed bar like a sports bar or a bar with games.
/r/seduction13/04/24 05:07 AM
1

Can I check it out?
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:39 PM
2

Had to follow the rhythm, but yeah start with hand touching then leaning on the shoulder. See if lingering is happening and then go for the little knee touches.
/r/seduction05/04/24 06:05 PM
2

Hands, shoulders, knees and then possibly toes?
/r/seduction05/04/24 05:19 PM
65

There is no global rule about eye contact. There are anxious people who avoid eye contact. There are confident people that maintain eye contact. Sometimes the confident people don’t realize they’re overdoing it, they’re locked in with awe and/or fascination. I’m not always confident but sometimes I do lose myself in eye contact.
/r/seduction31/03/24 11:38 PM
5

You need to ask and confirm if she still wanted to come over, don’t assume and hope. That does give girls the ick, even when they said they’ll come over. It doesn’t make sense at first but it’s a thing about letting her change her mind but also showing her you do want to see her.
/r/seduction31/03/24 10:23 PM
9

Being straightforward and calm can do the work. Hey I love your look, what’s your name? Have you ever had coffee at this place?
/r/seduction31/03/24 06:33 PM
16

Are you broke? Do it if you’re not and tell her straight up that this was fine but we don’t gotta do this again.
/r/seduction24/03/24 08:11 PM
5

You can be honest to Jane and say that you’d like to pursue something with Jill. Jane is gonna be hurt if you go behind her back and threaten that friendship. There’s a chance Jill won’t hop on the opportunity right now because Jane will be sad but this will be good for the future. You’ll see them years from now and they won’t avoid you or hate you. Future possibilities
/r/seduction11/03/24 06:24 AM
1

Age? Are you religious? Are you afraid of being labeled promiscuous? Just to get to know you more. You can know someone a little bit, like the way they look and act, and appreciate them in that regard. I cannot do ONS, I need to like the person to ENJOY sex with them. I can have sex with a stranger but it sucks. It’s stiff and uncomfortable. Be excited to learn about someone you meet.
/r/seduction04/03/24 03:18 AM
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Yeah in a lot of ways. It can become a habit that takes time away from other things you can be doing, time and energy. Feeling tired from it when you’re at work or with friends Doing it when you feel sad as a coping mechanism vs healthier things like the gym, writing or long walks. It’s a thing you can do but not the best thing you can do
/r/seduction18/02/24 07:33 PM
15

Dominance isn’t what you think. It’s knowing what you want and asking for it without hesitation, but also accepting a no and being chill about it. Dominance is about having control over yourself first, with that self control you can offer security and understanding to partners or dates. Ie I think you’re cute, let me take you on a date. I want to kiss you (go slowly). I know a place that I think you’d like. Get whatever you want, it’s on me. This place has a pool table that no one uses and I kno…
/r/seduction18/02/24 01:51 PM
1

Take a shower together before doing things, wash your junk and butthole with soap so if she goes down on you nothing smells funny. Wash your junk before every date even if you don’t hook up. Bring condoms, and when you’re getting out of clothes, ask if she wants to use a condom, is on birth control. Rough sex should start with playfulness, grab her and flip her over from face up to face down positions. Going down on women first and from the start is a revered practice among men good at sex, don’…
/r/seduction17/02/24 11:46 PM
2

Go have fun again. Immerse yourself in comedy, games, dancing, music. Whatever!
/r/seduction17/02/24 12:32 AM
1

Do you live somewhere where gay is a bad thing? I live in NYC and a lot of people wash their asses and are open with their sexuality. I dress better than a tshirt and cargo shorts, I take care of my hair and sing along to Shania Twain
/r/seduction12/02/24 05:45 PM
21

Dated a doctor, she was really busy
/r/seduction09/02/24 07:50 PM
398

Calmness. Intentional but not desperate. Security in yourself, that asking for things and hearing a no is okay. These things come with good grooming, practicing hobbies or skills that bring you confidence, reading and learning things.
/r/seduction26/01/24 12:34 AM
1

Go get a good haircut, dress like you have a good job, wear something that smells nice. Do not explain yourself if you don’t need to, but do share when you like something you see or if you want to do something or not. There’s so much to dating, but these few things are surface level tips that I learned by the time I became 30
/r/seduction13/10/22 07:33 PM
1

Keep things short and sweet, and engage them with ‘what about you?’
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:25 PM
0

IMO this is actually a great thing that happens. If more men would work on themselves and take the pressure off dating then they’ll see more good things like this
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:34 PM
5

Tell him outside of a sexy situation that you want to use protection from now on. Also include an STI screening and other things. Most people when asked for stuff will oblige but if this is a dealbreaker for him then he was never gonna respect you.
/r/seduction20/03/22 03:28 PM
1

A great question to use that is also semi-self inviting is ‘What are you drinking?’ Or ‘Are you hungry?’ Drinks tells you what kind of outing they’re on, the types of drinks they like and it gives them an opportunity to either discuss all of that or just say nope. Anything and soda is a classic skinny girl drink, and should be teased as an excellent choice. Offer to take shots together. Compliment them, easiest thing. Hair. Eyes. Smile. Outfit. Keep it simple. ‘Hey you hungry?’ Offer to grab a t…
/r/seduction28/02/22 04:59 PM
1

Don’t do anything except be her friend and pursue other people. If you can’t just be her friend because it’s too hard to separate your feelings, then say you need space. We don’t need to burn bridges, things can change and you’ll run into her 5 years from now and maybe date then.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:14 AM
2

It wasn’t the friend. You were picked to flirt with so you could buy them drinks and woo knows what. The hot one had enough gusto to make the first move, why the duck would she stop because her friend ‘said so.’
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:08 AM
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