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My brother…you will never die alone if you have kids. Just….don’t…drink. You got this…trust me. It’s your rebirth….
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 05:42 AM
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Melt
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/25 10:36 PM
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Any family on both sides? You need direction…don’t just consult an attorney, consult a full on law firm specializing in Divorce. Everything depends on the State in which you reside. Wishing you the best. Stay safe and healthy this holiday season.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 09:18 AM
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Empathy friend. I get you…absolutely understand. Hopefully, you will eventually find your peace.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 09:06 AM
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Many before you have been here and conquered…..you’ll make it. Sorry for your pain friend. It gets better.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 10:16 PM
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Hit up Belize or go to Palm Springs…sit by a pool and eat. You’re going to make it. It feels like shock…everything is fuzzy….it’ll eventually be ok. You got this. I’ll be rooting for ya.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 01:11 AM
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Simple. Your Attorney says what?
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 07:38 PM
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Discovery is Discovery. A forensic Audit is a Forensic Audit. First will happen. With a contentious divorce..the second is a realistic possibility.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 06:34 PM
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Your Attorney says what?
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 11:53 PM
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Friend…law FIRM. Do nothing without legal representation…pretty much includes posting anything on the web. Proud of you tho. The world awaits you. Stay strong. Play to win.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 07:31 AM
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Law and Firm. Law firm.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/24 05:48 AM
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Melted
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 07:48 AM
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I get ya friend….just an “experience” kinda perspective. Money is just money…the heart however…. Want you free and healthy…new beginnings…a rebirth. Apologies on the harshness. Absolutely wish you well and hoping for the best. My best to your little ones.…and you…and even her. Sometimes…it just doesn’t work out. You will get through it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 07:12 AM
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The hell is this? Lawyer…better yet…A law firm. I mean what could possibly go wrong with two “mostly amicable” ex lovers and a few hundred thousand dollars…just talking it out… I know…you should visit Tijuana…have a stack of Benjamin’s sticking halfway out of your pocket, and take a stroll down some back ally’s at 3:30am….what could go wrong. You need some serious guidance… Chrissakes. I’m harsh because I care. Wishing you well
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 06:46 AM
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Nope
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 04:09 AM
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Yesterday’s Gone. Let it Be. Why revisit. Sobriety is so incredibly awesome…I hope everyone finds it one day. Feeling everything, all the time…is life. It’s akin to true Nirvana. Transcendent.
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 04:20 AM
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Lawyer specializing within your State.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/24 03:40 PM
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If it was God’s plan you two were to be married…it’s also God’s plan that you should be apart.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:08 PM
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It it was meant to be…then this was meant to be. Start living life. Make yourself uncomfortable. Go to the coast…vacation…keep busy my friend. You WILL feel better soon.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 11:57 PM
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Really depends on the State in which you were married or reside. It’s a clusterfuck and you need a roadmap by someone who does this daily. Obtain a good divorce attorney. Go with a larger firm…a team. I wish you well friend. There will be light and joy again.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 01:06 AM
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Filed for divorce because of WhiteClaw. I’m truly sorry for your pain….cant cure an illness when one doesn’t accept they are sick. Alcohol is chaotic.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 12:50 AM
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One Christmas Sock on the Mantle. All is right with the World.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 02:12 PM
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Later!
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/24 05:19 PM
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Go roam the world friend…it’s glorious out here…. Congratulations.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/24 03:40 AM
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Once attorneys get involved…it’s everything. It’ll take a year…all of this depends on the State in which you reside. If you own property…she will get half of the increased value from the date of marriage…you’re going to pay for an appraiser…. Keep in mind mediation proceedings are cheaper than court. Keep breathing. Get it done. It’s no fun. Then….enjoy your freedom. It’s glorious.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/24 05:29 PM
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Ex did. Booze and cheating.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 11:58 PM
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…a really great sandwich shop did the trick for me….
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/24 04:10 PM
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Sorry friend. Best divorce attorney you can muster. They will walk you through the darkness…when it’s all over…then start healing. You’ll feel numb for awhile. You’ll be alright. You got this.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 06:39 AM
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When the dust settles and it’s all over…you’ll see the light. It’ll be ok. If you believe in something greater than yourself…then this was all pre planned for some reason that will reveal itself in time. Hang tough.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/24 07:32 PM
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You’re going to make it friend. Remember…someone before you made it through this…it just takes time. It’s not your fault. It’s not your fault.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 08:07 AM
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It’s called Deflection.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 07:09 PM
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Just have to get through the next 24 hours friend. You’ll awaken soon….and it will be glorious. Stay off the booze. You got this.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 09:08 PM
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It’s been the most cleansing, uplifting and liberating exercise I’ve ever been through. Hope ya get here… Hang tight.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 04:05 PM
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A lot of this depends on the State in which you were married. Whatever it takes to get it over… Wishing you well.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/24 05:22 AM
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We are all imperfect friends….
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 04:55 AM
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You don’t need to reconcile anything if you truly believe your God has a plan for you. This is the plan. This is the lesson. This is…essentially…Faith. Be patient. Be strong. It’s ok. Someone before you has survived this. Live.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/24 08:06 AM
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To the Hell, No.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 06:34 AM
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You need a good…cheap…Volvo. She will never let you down. You’re going to be ok. You can do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 04:51 AM
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I’m feeling you my good man. Social media blows.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 04:21 AM
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Professionals who deal with divorce as a profession have seen it all. Dealt with the client emotional roller coaster…they know how you feel and good counsel will keep you centralized and grounded. Just relinquish control and focus on your mental and physical well being. Stay off the booze and drugs. You’re going to be ok eventually. Whatever the cost…your freedom will be forever appreciated. You got this. Wishing you well.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/24 12:26 AM
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…the Dutch Oven defense…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/24 04:20 AM
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Discovery will be intensive. Get all your paperwork together…for at least the last 5 years….you’re probably going to spend a few hundred bucks on photocopies alone… Keep your head up. The emotional bullshit doesn’t matter. It’s all about your State laws, financial equity and joint incomes while together…increases in the values of properties and investments while together…and kids if you have em. Try your best to pay out instead of monthly checks to maintain your sanity. It’s just money my man. G…
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/24 04:18 AM
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Do NOTHING without an Attorney. It’ll be used against you.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 02:59 AM
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All that matters…the State you were married in and the marital laws of that State. Get an attorney and get educated. You can file a restraining order without it being served. A restraining order (temporary or final) is legal as soon as the court grants it. However, it cannot be enforced against the abuser until the abuser has been served with it. The sheriff's deputy or a private party can serve the abuser (respondent) with the order and court paperwork. Best of luck friend. Get it done and get …
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 06:19 AM
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Hey friends….it truly is a beautiful life….go live it. Do things you’d never normally do…try to take a trip to foreign lands….it’s doable…everything is within your reach. Live. We only have so many minutes. The world needs to meet you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/23 08:17 AM
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She kept hers. Mine…I melted with a torch and a crucible.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 06:35 AM
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Sorry but it was Glorious for me. Victim or Victorious? You go through it knowing it will end and you’ll be completely free…the world is yours…get out and see it. Life awaits you. Welcome back.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/23 02:07 AM
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…they deeply hate themselves…
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/23 05:57 AM
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Friend….welcome to your liberation. Your new life….your second chance. The world is yours. If you need to work….work remotely for a year…go see the world… Austria Prague Barcelona Hit some islands. Japan Philippines Vietnam Australia or New Zealand. Remember…the things you own start owning you. I’m sorry for the pain of betrayal and separation…me too. Go live….clock is ticking and the decades start hauling ass. You got this….we all got this. Go play. Have no fear. 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 03:21 PM
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So…same story however when I found out…done and done. I just going to say…when the attorneys get involved…feelings and stories, infidelities…none of that matters. It’s about your State law and your marital contract. No kids helps. If you own a house and had it before her…the attorney will probably go for splitting the equity increase in the property over the years of the marriage. It’ll be $12-20k without trial. Mediation is best. Truly what’s best…dissolving the marriage simply yourself with th…
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 04:58 AM
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Welcome to a very exclusive club friend. Enjoy your rebirth.
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 11:02 AM
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