RedGuru33 Archive

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6	"Men are the problem" I think a large number of men wish to go out in a blaze of glory I'm not even talking about something romanticized like dying to stop a shooter. How many men a year die from heart disease because of the toll taking care of their family takes on them from managing/preventing the problem? How many men kill themselves from spiraling mental health or drug addiction because they fear/don't want to be a burden to their family? How many men are killed in fights ultimately over/because of a woman? Need …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/05/24 07:36 PM
6	"Men are the problem" Can you think of a male role model that encourages masculinity without violence? Bonus points for media that isn't for kids Jesus, Ghandhi, MLK... I think it's worse than how you described it because I think society very much ingrains in boy's (more consequently, young girl's) heads that men are to sacrifice their wellbeing, health, and life without qualm for not even just the safety of but convenience for others. What I consider the most repugnant aspect of chivalry is how it supports and norma…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/05/24 01:32 PM
1	"They can smell your desperation" is just proof that women attribute good personality to attractive people. Sure ig, but my thing with redpill is that the skinny "beta" nerd they swear women dont want is probably pulling more than half those guys combined - without stepping foot in a gym. The whole discourse is stupid because at the end of the day, people suck at describing what they want and humans are more complex than some label. Go out, have fun, talk to some women who seem into you. It's that simple, but simple doesnt mean easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 09:29 PM
2	"They can smell your desperation" is just proof that women attribute good personality to attractive people. That's not gaslighting. Or at least that's such an oversimplified description that it's basically useless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 09:12 PM
1	Women get too much leeway in the court of public opinion. I don’t know if you want to bring back the firing squad for those offenders and other socially rude women I'd be down for firing squad against socially rude people in general, that'd fix this country overnight. Litter? Firing squad. Hate Speech? Firing squad. Cut someone off in traffic then go 15 under the speed limit... Firing squad. It'd also solve our housing crisis and unemployment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 07:10 PM
0	Women get too much leeway in the court of public opinion. Tbf it's not like minorities are progressively being treated better in any meaningful way past like 1990.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 07:05 PM
3	Women get too much leeway in the court of public opinion. At least the worst the court of public opinion can do is say a few bad words, not haul you off to jail. For men and especially black men public opinion can be the difference between life and death. hundreds of thousands of black men have been brutally murdered by false accusations from white women even today. Public opinion can isolate/seperate your family, lose your job, blacklist you from entire industries, be harrassed by mobs/deranged rogue actors, get you arrested, lynched, etc. It's why th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 07:03 PM
5	Women get too much leeway in the court of public opinion. it's really US and British women who skew the stats quite a bit. Because white women are racist, narcissistic, egotistical brats told since infancy that their mere existence is the pinnacle of beauty, perfection, and desire in the world. They're the only people on Earth who feel entitled to being rude and bigoted because of their narcissistic paranoia that everyone who doesn't look like them wants to kidnap and violate them... A white women huffs her own fart to prevent men from knowing her body…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 06:27 PM
3	"They can smell your desperation" is just proof that women attribute good personality to attractive people. Much better to date a guy with options who actually likes us for some reason than to date a guy who would take any woman who gave him the time of day. The funny thing is you don't know a stranger's situation and are entirely basing things off assumptions. Women assume I don't have any issues getting sex - I'm a virgin. Then they assume because I'm a virgin I must be desperate, I'm not I get catcalled and offered sex on a semi-regular basis. Then they assume I'll be super clingy and take things t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 06:04 PM
3	"They can smell your desperation" is just proof that women attribute good personality to attractive people. That's not what gaslighting is man, it's just shaming.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 05:22 PM
1	Most successful men on OLD are married men or committed men Way more common than you'd think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 08:55 PM
0	The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flake Libido is internal. Not external. Evidence suggest otherwise. They're hormones at the end of the day, and are extremely sensitive to external change. Even something like a recession dramatically decreases reproduction and sexual activity in a society. Sex for women is high-risk, low-reward. And we have significantly lower testosterone. Sex for men is low-risk, high-reward. And you have significantly more testosterone. This is just dumb and minimizes the role of a father. Not everything in the wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 08:00 PM
3	Arranged marriages in East Bro just slapped the facts outta his mouth. I'm under the impression that the only time western blind dating works is in small communities where the choices are already very limited. In urban areas or OLD, we have the worst dating outcomes imaginable. At any other time in human history a society that allowed 42% of its child population grow up without a father either collapsed or is just over the edge to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 06:47 PM
7	Most successful men on OLD are married men or committed men Their point is that women generally go after the same few men. It's a selection bias. The only dumb thing they said was that it's somehow the men women ignore should be responsible for vetting these married men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/24 05:22 PM
1	Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from? I'm not saying to cope, I'm saying to stop giving a fuck what other people think about you. I don't give a fuck what the boss thinks or what the company wants. The boss wants to keep his job and the company wants to fuck its employees in the ass. I don't give a fuck if the boss keeps his job as long as I get paid, I don't give a fuck about the company's bottom line as long as it's not my ass on their agenda. Why tf should I care what some random chick on the street thinks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 06:25 PM
2	Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from? Sounds like you care too much about what women think. If you're bored go find a hobby, if you're lonely go talk to family, if you're horny go jack off. Then you won't care if she's into you or not, and you stop sacrificing self-respect for women's attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 06:01 PM
2	Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from? You always have a choice, it's just a matter of what you're willing to sacrifice when making it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 05:48 PM
2	"Giving up on modern ........." By 35 years, most of the raging at the unfairness of life is done. Tbh it's more like by 35 all the people who were actually dealt a bad hand are dead. Everyone else figured out a way to live, whether they be happy or losers. And by losers I mean people who have 0 sense of agency or personal responsibility, spineless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 04:37 PM
1	Seems you're just as likely to lose a lady for taking things slowly than you are for moving too fast Sure if you're only into anorexic egirls who diet on meth and starbucks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 04:19 PM
2	Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from? Not every man is a desperate degenerate that'd fucked anything that moves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/24 03:54 PM
–	The "quiet" male revolution. that's pretty interesting that the social dynamics of globalism and colonial importation of immigrants is leading to a pretty consistent ~60 year decline in birth rates among the colonizers. The entire framework of the public discussion around immigration is facetious and fails to dig at its basic mechanics. What I'm about to say is totally impalatable to mainstream politics of any sect yet cuts to the heart of most domestic issues. Population size and socioeconomic power among the working popul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 10:33 PM
1	Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone? You come off as a very obnoxious person. How exactly do you think old women are preventing young men from getting laid through legislation and public policy? You are literally on reddit asking this in a sub called "purplepill". Why do you think gen z women pay as much attention to old women as you do? Personally I prefer a cougar over immature brats, but that's just me. Why do you think gen z women listen at all to older women? Because every generation thinks they're special and unique when they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 03:34 AM
1	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? Cheating is definitely more than 1 in 6. Keep in mind, though, that includes "desiring" in addition to "attempting." It would be nice to separate those two things. If one person "desires" other sexual partners in a marriage, that relationship is failing. Hard. Like when the Titanic capsized, but hadn't fully submerged just yet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 03:19 AM
1	The "quiet" male revolution. Incredibly fascinating comment. It might be that we're in the midst of a transition to a post-industrial / labor-less society and as a consequence, the unspoken social compact of intersexual heterosexual relationships loses its luster as it really fosters no discernible social benefit. I personally never accepted the notion that there is a post-industrial society. The idea of post-industrialism seems largely manufactured to feed eurocentric racism. Their societies can't possibly fall into the sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 02:55 AM
1	What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment? A 2020 study by the Kinsey Institute found around 1 in 6 adults reported desiring or attempting a consensual non-monogamous relationship at some point. So, maybe growing a bit, but not a significant part of relationships, at least not yet. That's WAAY more than I ever thought.. holy shit. Add that with cheating stats and it's what? 1 in 4, maybe 1 in 3.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 01:30 AM
-2	Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone? why your britches are in such a twist about what women do you don’t care about say. Why are their opinions so important to you? Why are you annoyed so deeply by people you could so easily tune out Because as a demographic they have the most influence on legislation, public policy, and youth in the country. They can't be ignored and have fought for decades to make it so. Like, just stop watching “the View”. If you are annoyed by lonely older women complaining about men Proving my previous point, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/24 01:20 AM
11	Is there any hope in fixing gender relations? Resentment is the number 1 killer of any relationship and prevention of new ones forming. The thing I've observed is many many young girls are either getting raised by or otherwise being mentored by bitter resentful women. Not even just single mothers, but ones in unhappy marriages or otherwise regret life choices they made when they were young (probably the partying and getting pregnant at an early age). These bitter older women are filling younger girl's heads with relationship sludge so these…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 01:12 PM
4	Is there any hope in fixing gender relations? Women do have it worse, broadly. There are still places on earth where female children are married off at twelve years old I mean even if you want to play opression olympics, it's very telling how women always leave out the male equivalents of those parts of the world. You know the male child soldiers who were trained from birth to kill, these kids were robbed of any semblance of their humanity developing and are lucky if they manage to live to hit puberty. Nvm male sex slaves and a whole other …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/24 12:55 PM
3	Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date? People here struggle to understand what "conventionally attractive" means. Stuff that generally everyone finds attractive like having all your teeth and its straight and clean. For many people, missing a tooth or 2 may not be a dealbreaker. Then there's the 1 in a million person who has some fetish or preference for toothless people. A conventionally attractive person has a larger dating pool, but it could also just be a foot deep. If you're average the pool is smaller, but usually deeper. You w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/24 05:05 PM
1	Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single. Typically the reversal of a trend takes as long as the trend did to develop, but with something as volatile and complex as interelations who knows. I find it easier to picture a young woman choosing to build a family than work at an oil refinery or wake up at 4am to pick up garbage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/24 07:33 PM
1	Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single. Of course, there already is. Neutering the sex life of 60% of men means disengaging an entire generation from labor and society in general. There was a post on r/millenials from a 30-something women struggling to date (shocker ik) and they complained/couldn't understand why most of the single men her age had no ambition or interest in life except work and their PS5. Feminist say men aren't needed in society, so as we check out women are going to pressed to fill the vacuum of our labor. Except th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 05:46 AM
4	In which situations does the dating dynamic change in favour of men ? even the top 10% don't get some special treatment, maybe an easier access to relationships but nothing special like women who brag about getting in private jets Nah man you never been around a 10%er, it's a different world. I grew up and hung around several dudes like that and it fucked my self-esteem around girls as a teen. I could/can approach just about any girl and enter their circle, being approached or followed isn't frequent but far from unusual, and some girls will straight up tell me th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 05:11 AM
3	Women standards aren’t high, it’s just too many guys are too desperate to not be single. IME Stable educated women who are by most metrics average, have pretty unreasonable standards. They don't really consider what they bring into a relationship, they think they're the prize. In reality, these girls are so in demand they can do whatever the hell they want. If they do fail they'll still have their late 20's to "settle", or just leave dating altogether. Highly unlikely to resort to that if marriage and family is a priority to them. What upsets men is that they see this choice as a wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 04:12 AM
1	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? It's not defeatist so much as choose your battles. "it's difficult to get a [wo]man to understand something when his salary depends upon not understanding it". Western women have literally every incentive in the world to drag this out for as long as possible. Then in 50-60 years young girls will see all the miserable old "girl bosses" dying alone, and that's when society will change. Feminist rhetoric basically goes against thousands of years of collective wisdom and social progress, it'll corre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 08:19 PM
4	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? There's been 10's of thousands of societies and civilizations throughout history, the world's history is too broad an vast in scope to generalize, especially to just a couple anecdotal tribes from Europe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 08:12 PM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Society's message to women is that they don't need to improve themselves though. They're taught that as long as they can attract men, they are valuable. Desperate men with no real direction or future will fuck anything so beyond ego/whim why does your average need to improve as a person? As long as they aren't completely unhinged, the allusion to sex fixes most issues. A male Incel, for all intents and purposes is cannon fodder. His work is valuable, but the threat of destitution is already enou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:46 PM
2	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? and if you then just stick to your guns and say "that's the way I see it" were not going to get anywhere. They on the winning team dawg, that's all they gotta do lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:28 PM
6	How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't? Admiration and respect comes from refusing to take the easy way in life and choosing to do what's hard. Everyone pretty much everywhere in the world, in every society, in every time period since the dawn of man knew how easily accessible sex is for women. That's a modest women and virginity was seen as virtuous, because it's harder than not for women. It got way too extreme in the west with the persecution and demonization of women's sexuality but the "feminist sexual revolution" dumped the baby…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 07:03 PM
1	Analysis: The Due Process Provisions of the 2020 Title IX Regulations Were Successful Why don't we just have... a national health deptartment?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/03/24 06:19 PM
5	Intersectionality is terrible in practice, but the theory its based on isnt bad "majority" groups can't be oppressed due to their majority group status. I still agree that this is true, but the issue comes from who decides what/who is or isn't part of the majority. For example when it comes to sex, men were the "majority" in the early-mid 20th century but women became the majority from the late 1900's to today. Woman as a group are outperforming men in most life outcomes with bigger gaps than when most of these AA programs were put in place for them. By several metrics we r…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/03/24 06:05 PM
1	Gen Z men are leaning more conservative while Gen Z women are much more liberal This is why we need male advocacy for grade school, your reading comprehension is underdeveloped. I said "economic inequality AND supports social hierarchy" ie, social inequality. Feminism supports socio-economic inequality, racism, and social hierarchy so long as women are not delegated towards the bottom. White women specifically, hence the racism part. Right-wing ideology can vary, but those are its 2 most universal characteristics.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/01/24 09:06 PM
3	Are women taking over all the jobs? Why would a man want to be a nurse? It's already a stressful job with long, shitty hours. As a man you're getting those shitty hours nobody else wants, you're going to be given the shittiest task nobody else wants to do (mainly the heavy lifting), and generally just expected to do more work than other nurses. Then on top of all that, if you're married or dating good fucking luck not having your relationship ruined by being surrounded by 20-30 yr old women for +10 hrs a day. If you're single and …	/r/MensRights	29/01/24 08:58 PM
0	Gen Z men are leaning more conservative while Gen Z women are much more liberal Feminism as a political ideology is definitely right-wing, within the same sphere of idiocy as American Libertarianism. They support the inequal distribution of wealth, and enforce their own unique social hiearchy. The 2 defining traits of right-wing ideology. America specifically is already so right wing that feminist have managed to guiss their push for inequality under neoliberalism, which is considered "far left" here when in reality neoliberalism is extremely right-wing. To be left-wing an …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/01/24 02:03 PM
5	The Economist: Why polygamy breeds civil war (through worsening male loneliness.) Developing countries that practice polygamy in upper classes show us exactly the road we are heading down if we don't treat the male loneliness epidemic. The full context is that lonely [young] men, being alienated from society creates a vulnerable subsection of society who normally are the most productive. Young lonely men is a grave sign that a country is deeply dysfunctional and operates under perverse incentives to its population. Feminist are going to co-opt this message to further demonize men but ultimately when violence breaks out, who predominately are the police, fire fighters, ems and national guards?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/01/24 01:36 PM
6	The Economist: Why polygamy breeds civil war (through worsening male loneliness.) Developing countries that practice polygamy in upper classes show us exactly the road we are heading down if we don't treat the male loneliness epidemic. Women don't owe men anything. I hate this cliche so fucking much. If half the country thinks they don't "owe" basic courtesy, comradre, or empathy to the other half we no longer have a society. It is so damn hypocritical when feminism's entire playbook to power is garnering guilt and sympathy throughout society. If women don't owe men anything, they can go fight the wars, do all the manual labor, work the shitty hours, and solve their emergencies on their own. Which they never will. Women owe me…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/01/24 01:26 PM
1	if you don't care about the male loneliness epidemic just leave the men alone. Among the 18-25 and 60+ demographics I think it absolutely is an epidemic, for white men specifically it's more like 18-25, 40+. It's an issue that will take several generations to fix because 18-30 yr old women are not going to care until they're older. Society is going to need an influx of old miserable single women, to for young women start changing course.	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 10:58 PM
35	Are women taking over all the jobs? Most of the jobs you’re talking about require college degrees, for good reason most of the time, so men can’t work them. That is definitely a factor, and one trending upwards among younger generations. I do think outright hiring discrimination isn't being talked about enough though. You can have the same certs, degrees, and experience as a woman but when it comes to non-managerial white collar work, especially entry-level, women are often chosen over men. The only reason women aren't swarming ST…	/r/MensRights	28/01/24 08:59 PM