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Don't take girls you haven't fucked yet to the club. It's expensive and there's a shitload of unnecessary competition there. Just invite the new chick straight over to your place or change the venue to a lounge or something like that.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:23 AM
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Hilarious how you have to give him the impression of amogging him before he'll actually explain his answer to you with an extra helping of ad hominem because you pricked his ego. Who honestly thinks someone cares about one upping an ec? To be honest what he's saying is right, just filter out the condending attitude and it's some good advice.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:17 AM
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25 Here. My MLTR is 20 then I have a 19 year old plate who's virginity I took, plus an additional plate who's 28 years old with a "Daddy's Girl" tattoo under her tits. I like variety.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 06:13 PM
9

Hey, nice guys are in the race. They are handing out water cups to the girls that are running after chad.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 09:12 PM
1

Why the long face?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/19 08:02 AM
1

When I Say No I Feel Guilty
/r/askTRP08/02/19 04:21 PM
1

As I understand it, MLTR and OLTR are different kinds of relationships.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:05 PM
1

http://blackdragonblog.com/glossary/#MLTR
/r/askTRP21/01/19 05:52 PM
3

She started acting shady AF, and that was combined with a huge disrespectful gesture she made a couple months before. Those two things combined pushed me over the edge and I dumped her.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 05:45 PM
1

BlackDragonBlog
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:20 PM
1

You can find it on a certain pirate themed website
/r/askTRP26/11/18 02:56 PM
4

Regardless of the truth, it's more beneficial to me strategy-wise to assume these women are sluts. Makes me more likely to approach and escalate, and also makes me less likely to put them on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 01:56 PM
2

She swung at me with both fists and tried to kick me in my stomach/groin area while she was sitting, I was standing in front of her defending myself. She also said "I'll scream" I told her to go ahead, but she didn't. That part probably pissed me off more than the hitting.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 05:41 PM
3

She demanded money for a taxi, then got violent after i refused and told her to leave, so I exchanged some of her US dollars for local currency. To be honest I deescalated the situation but I feel like a bitch for doing that for someone who just assaulted me.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:37 PM
19

She's trying to figure you out. Women are attracted to mysterious men, they're like a perfectly wrapped gift to them, she's trying to unwrap you but if you let her then she'll get bored and move on to the next shiny wrapped gift.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:17 PM
6

Haha nah I am asking after the fact here.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 02:14 PM
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I suppose then what I really want is to minimize these talks, and head off the ones I can avoid. The more talks I have to endure; the more likely I'll have to replace a broken plate.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:05 PM
1

I get where you're coming from, but I'd like to extend the shelf-life of any and all plates/FWB's. Just because I want to do something doesn't mean it's in my long-term best interests.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:02 PM
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Giving her my time outside the bedroom and meeting her friends is handing over a slice of commitment in my eyes. I feel like she's earned it hence the FWB title, but I am wondering if pulling back is a viable option, considering her recent unreasonable demands.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:57 PM
1

The "Men and women cannot be friends" rule comes from the inevitable sexual tension from not having sex. This does not apply in my case.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:48 PM
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All exes are "abusive" to these bitches
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 10:52 AM
1

Do you think it is ever appropriate for an LTR to accept any kind of gift from another man? Anything from a stranger, that feels like a no brainer, but what about bosses, friends or coworkers?
/r/askTRP04/06/18 01:00 AM
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The ones that are attracted to you won't fuck around, and will make it easy for you to bang them.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:45 PM
1

Plus you know they're sucking the bosses dick to get promoted.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:42 PM
1

Invite her over, you'll find out soon enough.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 12:38 PM
1

I mean your 25 year marriage
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:49 PM
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Was it worth it?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:50 PM
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Hard next. Bringing a friend is an intentional cockblock. Even bringing it up communicates she's not dtf
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:23 AM
6

Whether she cheated or not, this is not how an LTR should behave. "Failure to avoid the appearance of impropriety is an automatic NEXT!" - bsutansalt
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:09 AM
1

That's a good point. I have the concept of gaming ingrained in my head as a numbers game so I instinctively think: More numbers = Good. There was one girl in the group that sent out the most ioi's so I'll take my chances to hit her up for a 1 on 1 meet.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:48 PM
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Depending on the country you're in; a girl like that might not exist, or be rare and in high demand.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:32 AM
1

When I Say No I Feel Guilty
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:34 PM
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That sounds great in theory, after all us men are extremely analytical and would love a straightforward answer to each problem as they present itself, but unfortunately just like using canned openers on chicks when approaching; it's healthier to have a frame of reference instead of some sort of action or conversation tree. That's what all the required reading is for, books such as NMMNG and WISNIFG contain a wealth of knowledge to construct a frame that consists of healthy boundaries and more. A…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 02:47 PM
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It feels like I found an easter egg
/r/askTRP07/04/18 02:00 PM
10

Do you really wear women's clothes?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:24 PM
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My mistake.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:29 PM
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Oh they understand alright, girls that use this line are just trying to milk you for some more chat time before you realize they're not interested in meeting. At all.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 02:20 PM
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Giving out a number is literally nothing to a girl, so when I get any kind of resistance whether I'm trying to get her number or inviting her out; I just hard next. I'm not interested in someone who isn't Fuck Yes about me, especially when it's as run-of-mill as a phone number.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:44 AM
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Anytime a chick says she'll "try" or "maybe" or I've even got shit like "I'll see if I can fit that into my schedule", simply hard next them and block their number. They are trying to keep that carrot dangling on the stick, and later on they might send you a text but it'll be a mass orbiter ping text.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 11:37 AM
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How did she know her ex was coming into town in the first place? That could imply they were still in contact which is a demotion or next. I see your point at drawing the line at NGAF, but if you feel the need to throw a line like that at her face then she has proved herself a poor candidate for LTR. I say just let them reveal themselves for who they are and if they are the kind of person who is OK with keeping in contact with exes or meeting them then you can deal with them appropriately. Enter …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 03:55 PM
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Yeah I'm in the Philippines right now as an American so I really just wanted to know if it was included in your recommended list. So far I've met the loveliest most charming women here who are down with traditional gender roles, and they are quite frankly a breath of fresh air compared to the American cunts I used to put up with.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 03:28 PM
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She's addicted to male validation and she's still in contact with her ex, she is not relationship material whatsoever. She either knows it's unacceptable and doesn't give a fuck, or assumes it's ok and doesn't understand how to behave properly in a relationship. Either way she needs to be demoted or dumped. You're not running a charity here, and you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Even if you talk it out with her and let her know what's up; best case scenario is that she hides it from you.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:21 PM
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Figure out if she's your girlfriend or not, if she is then this is a hard nextable offense or a demotion. If she isn't, then you shouldn't care who she's snapping/fucking/messaging other than the fact that it disqualifies her from being a potential LTR. Either way there's no need to soft next. Hoes are gonna hoe.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 10:51 AM
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Soft next. When you make plans you are allocating your precious time out of your schedule, but if they flake(depending on what kind of notice they gave you) that's some of your time you could have potentially allocated for someone else who respects your time. As for her fucking some other guy, it really doesn't matter what she does outside of your time with you, due to your non-committed relationship.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 08:14 AM
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What was the best country you visited in terms of quality women?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:13 PM
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How do you let them know? I've heard of some covert techniques such as making passing a comment on someone else's relationship or even something you see on TV, e.g. "I wouldn't tolerate that if I was him".
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:24 PM
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This is a deal-breaker for me, however, it's one of the things that I make clear at the outset of a long-term relationship. If a girl I have granted exclusivity to goes anywhere near an ex for any reason we are done. Do you tell her that verbatim? Wouldn't it be better to simply observe her behavior and next her if she shows to have poor boundaries regarding her ex?
/r/askTRP22/03/18 09:05 AM
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Soft next for unnecessary drama. I wouldn't care if she was spoiled in the past for a retarded holiday.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:29 AM
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Don't communicate overtly about this kind of stuff, she should understand that you can walk away at anytime by your actions.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 09:27 AM
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The day after dumping my ex I was in such emotional pain, it's easy to simply say it was an oxytocin withdrawl, but I had such fond memories with her early on before making it official that I just wanted that version of her back; instead of seeing the ugly cracks in her mask later on. This post resonates with me deeply, your writing style is beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 07:35 AM
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If she's already sexting you then just have her come over to cook for you. Also look up HumanSockPuppets Bitch Management Guide, get the ONS and then see if you can plate her, if she can earn the FWB upgrade then great but don't give it to her so freely.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:02 AM
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My advice is to honestly gauge her investment level towards you. Make sure you are staying a bit less invested following the 2/3 rule. If her investment is lower then you'd like then run some dread, that way she'll either shape up, otherwise you'll be in a prime position to start spinning plates again if you so wish. Also next time you decide to become exclusive with a girl, make sure you spin her for at least 6 months. That way you'll identify any red flags and your exclusivity will feel like t…
/r/askTRP22/02/18 05:17 PM
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How long have you two been in a relationship?
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:50 PM
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First off don't do things because other people are trying to shame you, if you want to make the relationship status public then make that decision yourself. Secondly you should be the one setting the frame in the relationship so she might have sensed that you were wishy-washy about it and was swayed by other peoples opinions, hence her reluctance. Lastly pay more attention about how she treats you when you're together, instead of worrying about silly shit like this.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:47 PM
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Dump her. I was in the same situation as you were, and when I confronted her right away I got some stupid excuse: "I just wanted him to go away" I gave her a mulligan, but throughout the rest of our relationship it gnawed at the back of my mind and I couldn't move past it. Don't make the same mistake I made. If I had just vetted her for a few more months I would have recognized she was a poor candidate for a GF.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:02 PM
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http://archive.is/yxzC1
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:32 PM
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Where do you meet these women? Are most of them from cold approaching?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:36 PM
1

Do you check your LTR's phone in your own relationship?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:20 AM
1

I've seen you post that quite a few times but what do you actually mean by that? Dump her at the first sign of being shady? Keep an eye on her future behavior?
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:10 AM
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Unnecessary drama. Should've soft nexted after her first burst of bullshit.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 07:43 PM
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It's just the same when you're both exclusive, some guys will trust but verify, others will not worry about it until the chick stops meeting his needs or adds stress to his path.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:44 AM
1

Shit, I like the sound of the situation that you're suggesting. This almost guarantees that my "Main girl" will work her ass off to dissuade me from looking for other sources of puss, where in a standard LTR the female has a bit more leverage. I would almost say that I've never seen this suggested on TRP, but it makes sense in the way that you "reward" girls with your time and attention depending on their efforts. If she slacks off; fuck it, find a new "Main girl". This seems similar to an LTR, …
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:43 PM
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Nope, I'm asking all this after the fact. I dumped one of my plates last week who I upgraded to girlfriend status a few months ago, but I didn't think about keeping myself emotionally detached for the learning experience. The break-up was a bit painful for me. Not too surprising given that it was my first monogamous relationship.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:28 PM
1

Taking into account the mentioned pitfalls; do you think it would be a benefit to dip your toe into the pool of monogamy in the form of a few STR's (perhaps 3-6 months a piece) spread out along the years of your 20's with the objective to acquire knowledge about the different dynamics that this kind of relationship would entail? Keep in mind that I would still fully intend to be spinning plates between these STR's. I would assume that it would be more beneficial to gain some sort of experience i…
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:49 PM
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Thanks, real helpful.
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:01 PM
1

I don't think you can flip these situations so easily. Redpilled men don't LTR sluts because there is a practical reason to avoid them, namely a lack of pair-bonding chemicals that would increase the chances of her cheating and/or branch swinging. I would view a man who is in and out of LTR's as low value because that signifies that he is incapable of vetting correctly, but I'd have a different view of a man who tests the waters with a few STR's to explore the wildly different dynamics, but then…
/r/askMRP04/02/18 05:53 PM
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Who cares if they push for cohabitation? Tell her to take a hike if she doesn't like it. Who cares if she tries to "kill your dreams"? Vet her correctly and if she seems to be getting in the way of your mission; dump that bitch. Don't want her to pull the ol' "oops I forgot"? Don't trust her with birth control, wear a condom. Thanks for the hindsight but this is all TRP 101 right here for fucks sake.
/r/askMRP04/02/18 05:34 PM
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Are you suggesting that a woman will see you as lower value and more likely to lose attraction if she knows you've been in a number of monogamous relationships?
/r/askMRP04/02/18 03:31 PM
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One person gives a shit apparently.
/r/askMRP04/02/18 02:11 PM
1

Only one way to find out.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 01:41 PM
1

Do you mean that a red pilled man should never feel "dreaded"? Or do you mean her she should never even attempt to (unsuccessfully) dread you? Also could you offer a few examples of female dread?
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:45 PM
0

Even my now GF when we were just FWB's took me out to breakfast, lunch, and dinner over my birthday weekend. Did she offer to make it up to you at least? The most important question though is how does she treat you in general; is she a good GF aside from this?
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:28 PM
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Hindsight is 20/20 and I think this would have been the best decision to make
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:30 AM
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I always love your responses on here bro, keep em comin
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:27 AM
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It was just the three of us on the bus, besides the driver and the dude that takes the money. There was another incident where our taxi driver didn't give her any change and she just got out of the cab and told me a bit later. She's passive as fuck.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:59 PM
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It did feel like she was baiting a response from me, I think if I responded it would have given weight to it.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:28 AM
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It was more of a matter-of-fact tone. Leaning towards bitchy.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:27 AM
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I wasn't lying, and I had nothing to hide. Her answer confused me, it didn't (for lack of a better word) scare me. Knowing her, I'm pretty sure if I asked her what she meant, she would have responded with "Oh nothing". What she said felt like bait to me.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:24 AM
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That is correct, I was almost talking to myself; trying to remember when I was there last. I like that response.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:19 AM
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Can you elaborate? How did she punk me?
/r/askTRP09/01/18 04:17 PM
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Oh yeah I know not to bring it up now, but what would have been the best response to her at that moment?
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:03 PM
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What would be the proper response to this? (if any)
/r/askTRP09/01/18 02:35 PM
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Did I pass it? Was not responding the right option?
/r/askTRP09/01/18 02:35 PM
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Lying? About what? And what question are you referring to?
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:57 PM
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I gave a "wtf?" look, but didn't say anything.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:52 PM
0

Autists have feelings too you know
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:40 PM
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Thanks, that would be a great thing to learn.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:42 PM
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Autistic 24y/o
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:34 PM
1

I actually don't know exactly when she got the phone, probably earlier today, (it's 11pm over here) we texted yesterday so I'm not concerned with the delay. But yeah it's possible that she didn't save any contacts at all.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:31 PM
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Every time I've been successful at dissuading the girl from bringing her friend, she doesn't end up putting out at the end. Now whenever they ask I just hard next them. I think it means they're not even entertaining the possibility of hooking up with you that night, even you if you play your cards right.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:24 PM
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You handled it well, make sure to block her on everything to prevent the temptation of getting back with her.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 12:23 PM
1

Yep, american expat here
/r/askTRP26/12/17 01:15 AM
1

Update if you're interested. These last few days I've been chatting up people around us, and she was impressed about how easy it is for me to strike up random conversations. We also went to an event where I knew a couple people that were in charge of it. Over the weekend she was swallowing every time without having to tell her to. I think she needed a touch of dread/social-proof Appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:46 PM
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Lmao, she is literally the weakest human I have ever met. She can't even do a girl pushup, and curling a 5lb dumbbell makes the veins pop out of her neck. Anyway I'll lay flat while she leans on one arm while sucking me, so apparently her arm gets tired from that
/r/askTRP14/12/17 09:04 PM
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Will do. One more question though; is it a bad thing to let her lay on her side while I fuck her face when she gets tired? (Which is everytime) it seems like I'm rewarding her for not putting in much effort but to be honest I enjoy facefucking her at the end anyway. Other than that its an enthusiastic blowjob.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 08:40 PM
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What kind of dread would you recommend? I regularly lift and with the area I live in I constantly have girls checking me out (even more when she's with me) she occasionally will point that out but it seems like she lacks even a little jealousy (which is healthy of course) Thoughts?
/r/askTRP14/12/17 07:47 PM
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How do i demonstrate that? Soft next?
/r/askTRP14/12/17 05:59 PM
1

She came over this morning and after I nutted in her mouth I told her to swallow it, but she shook her head and then after she spit it out she said "there was too much" and "I swallowed some of it". I told her next time I'll have a drink nearby to make it easier to swallow and so she doesn't have to rush to the bathroom right away and she agreed. Do you think she'll swallow next time?
/r/askTRP14/12/17 05:57 PM
1

If I improve my diet and she still won't swallow, what should I do?
/r/askTRP13/12/17 11:18 AM
1

You don't think it's a shit test?
/r/askTRP13/12/17 10:54 AM
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What kind of dread do you recommend for this situation?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 08:57 PM
2

LOL
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:43 PM
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I meant a day on the the week in addition to the weekend visit.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:38 PM
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She can't deepthroat yet, but I'm training her.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:13 PM
-2

First off I make her brush her teeth whether she spits or swallows. Secondly I'm still training her to deep throat so I'm afraid of getting barf on my dick if I gag her with it. I will definitely use those lines you recommended and I'll bump up the dominance.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:12 PM
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She's complained about the taste before, but swallowed anyway. It's been unchanged aside from the second load i dropped, which was after I took some cough medicine. She said she could taste it.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 02:24 PM
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She ended up staying at her house because she was "grounded". We had plans to play billiards that evening so she kept asking me to pick her up so she could tell her mom that I " took her away". She was napping earlier at my house so my theory is that she was tired anyway and she just didn't mind choosing either option, granted if we'd gone out and played billiards she could avoid responsibility for her actions by blaming me. I refuse to enable her childish whims even a little, plus if I do this …
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:01 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP26/11/17 11:16 AM
1

She just texted me "Rescue me..." I might just tell her that she's a big girl and can grab a taxi back to my place (we both don't have vehicles) What do you think?
/r/askTRP26/11/17 11:04 AM
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It's called beta bait, the girl will lure you with early sex talk and if you take the bait you look needy. My advice is to tell her to take her mind out of the gutter. Chateau Heartiste has a great post on this.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:50 AM
1

Has this worked in your experience? How many LTR's have you started?
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:40 AM
1

Got it, thanks
/r/askTRP27/10/17 06:39 AM
1

Great advice, but I'm not talking about anything she's done yet, my question is should I preemptively set these boundaries so there's no plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP27/10/17 02:00 AM
1

Turns out she knew all along and didn't care.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:00 PM
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Building and maintaining your frame is always mandatory.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 01:21 PM
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Thanks, I'm gonna go with this
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:09 PM
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Questions go to asktrp, read the sidebar dumbass
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 02:05 PM
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What's the age range of the woman that approach you? Are they attractive at all?
/r/MGTOW15/07/17 01:01 AM
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Currently cashed out of the game, married a beautiful young woman (12 years younger than me) and the proud father of a baby girl. Successfully employed in the 60K a year bracket. Currently 35, played the field insanely in my 20's, amassed an unhealthy body count. Happily retired. Good for you, hope you vetted her well enough. If you're in high school, what matters is athletic prowess, a strong, healthy physique, social ease, being in a band, having set up a covert network of supplying necessitie…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 05:26 PM
1

I agree
/r/askTRP03/12/15 11:22 PM
1

I'm afraid that if I go with your second option there's a higher probability that she will flake, I'd rather get some investment from her first. I like your first one though. Thanks for your input
/r/askTRP03/12/15 08:47 PM
1

What about "I'd rather move this off tinder"?
/r/askTRP03/12/15 08:44 PM
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Do you have any examples of C.S Lewis that you find are Red Pill related?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:08 AM
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