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| 0 | This is what you get from being a "nice guy" - leftovers...poor guy doesn´t know he´s being settled upon. | Blue Pill Example | RedMindBlueEyes | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 10:31 PM |
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| 6 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadThat's exactly the point I'm not making. But to be more precise - it's a bad idea to try to push standards from theft/robbery etc. over to rape, since at least insurance companies have a long history of victim blaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI hope you never go on vacation, have a few drinks with someone, bring them to your hotel room, have consensual sex, and wake up the next morning with your valuables gone. Cause your insurance company will not give you a dime back, but put it down to being your own fault for drinking with a stranger and bringing said stranger to your room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/20 05:52 PM |
| 7 | "I can do better than you but hey ho" response?"Touché. Let's meet for drinks tonight." Or whatever. Or are you just using a dating app to be passive aggressive to girls showing interest? In a push'n pull game, you gotta have some pull as well. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Like your input on last night for me. [Advice]Went to sleep? Next time, go out, have a few drinks with some mates or chat up some new people, go see a movie, do whatever. Fucking live. Right now, you're a domesticated animal. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/02/19 02:10 PM |
| 5 | Feeling AloneRead up on existential loneliness, understand what it is, accept and embrace that it will always be there. You are alone, you live alone, and you die alone. Regardless of who you surround yourself with. Appreciate people, but don't grow dependent on them. None of them are here for you, only you are here for you. Also, don't pursue happiness. happiness is a byproduct of achieving something, overcoming enormous obstacles, not a state of mind to be sought after. Grow, and keep on growing, you can w… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:13 AM |
| 12 | Unwinnable Shit Tests and the New Double StandardWhat you are describing reads sociopath to me, it's not a shit test, it's abuse. As for physical restraint, I did that, grabbed a girl's hand twice as she was trying to slap me a public setting involving a lot of alcohol, NOT punch me. The second time I grabbed her, I also didn't let go, and educated her about social interactions, then didn't meet her again until a year later, again in a public setting with a lot of alcohol. She was all over me. But. In your case, you should have met those punch… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/16 01:01 AM |
| 5 | Red pill parenting: Why Spanking is breaking frameI think I understand your point. However. All my kids are the same when it comes to me, as were all the students when I worked as a teacher, as are people in my current professional life, and my friends. And the women I spend my time with. And other people I meet. Without entering into something that would escalate into some kind of argument, you mention "whatever" as a response to beating your daughter's ass, after I already said a parent spanking has already failed. Also, "look of fear"? I get… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 11:09 PM |
| 13 | Red pill parenting: Why Spanking is breaking frameI am a red pill parent. I never had to lay a hand on my children, and they are well behaved in my presence, do whatever chores I lay on them without a single mutter. In fact, they like it when I ask them to contribute. Why? Because ever since they were infants, I conditioned them into the notion that we are a pack, a team, a tribe, and that we work best when we work together. And since the pack needs a leader, I've given them the leader they feel comfortable following, to them it makes sense tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Want a different perspective on the possibility of LTR cheating given two recent events.You should leave her, and not get together with anyone else until you get a better handle on your own emotions. If you're this insecure after 2 months, you're not going to be able to maintain any LTR anytime soon. It doesn't matter if she cheats or not, what matters is how you deal with events out of your control. In most relationships you just don't know (until you do). Some people can't handle not knowing, and it seems you might be one of them. If you can't handle not knowing, you're better of… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/15 10:57 AM |
| 9 | If a girl refuses to spilt the bill with me, based on expectations of chivalry, is that a red flag to move on?It certainly says a lot about how she sees you, and based on that you want to move on. Definitely. Also, I'd love to meet someone who "refuses" to "split" the bill with me. What is she going to do when you pay for your own food? Run away? Chivalry is just another word for a free meal, and she sees you as a provider for that. One of the women I'm seeing talks about the men who pays for everything she wants all the time, while she is all too eager to pay for everything when she's with me. Be me, d… | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there an age restriction for TRP?Age restriction? No. And yes. A boy is never too young to be taught how to become a man by his dad. That boy better listen and shut up for quite a few years before he starts spilling his own "life wisdom". If you're young, somewhat intelligent, able to grasp what's being said, and filtering out all the boys thinking they are men, then start experimenting, exploring. Find out who you are, what works, marvel at the results. But don't believe for a second that you have any wisdom to share, not for … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/15 08:01 PM |
| 6 | What's the main reason plates fall off?Plates fall off mostly due to one thing, the need for a narrative. A lot of women see their lives as a (fairy) tale, which keeps progressing, into eternity. They can handle being a plate for a while, either because it suits their own "story" of you being someone they deal with for a while, OR, because they actually expect the plate status to grow into something more, eventually. The thing is, they KNOW they will win you over somehow (without having any idea how that is supposed to happen, but, y… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/15 06:48 PM |
| 2 | my ex went back with a former "associate", how do i handle this like a man?I've given advice about this sort of thing before. DGAF. That's what you do. It doesn't concern you, it's THEIR life, not yours. you're going to be too busy living a great life of your own to be concerned with the lives of others. Because that's what they are. Others. So what if he brags about it to you? Good for him, he has sex. With someone, whoever. Because that's who she is to you. Someone in the crowd. Specifics: If he tells you she was good, if he tries to play himself as someone who stole… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/15 12:11 AM |
| 4 | LTR got ice cream with ex. Did I handle it well?You handled it ok. The thing is, though, now you know she has no problems lying to your face. Walk away. Only let her back in as a plate, someone you don't NEED to trust. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/15 12:00 AM |
| 19 | Always hide your effortIn other words: If you want to become the strongest guy in any room, work out HARD at the gym, but take a shower afterwards, and shut up about your training once outside the gym. INSIDE - however, even when you ARE the strongest one there, keep pushing yourself beyond your limits. Because that is what you do at the gym. Fuck everything else. This translates to everything else. Be the one who pushes himself the most, but shut up about it (and "take a shower" afterwards). IF you are in an environm… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Top 5 basic tools you'd teach to a beginnerI was helping him getting back on his feet after a bad breakup, so that's why #5, in order to make sure he didn't jump into a relationship with the first woman he fucked, because of the chemicals released after a great fuck. So, no. If in a LTR, I wouldn't recommend it. Luckily, I don't do LTRs, so it doesn't matter anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 07:41 PM |
| 2 | What should I do? [TINDER]You're setting yourself up to be this really confident couldn't-care-less character, which you're not, and she's going to see it. That's the thing that scares you. Why do I say that? Because every response she gave you should please you if you are, in fact, confident in yourself. My advice: Fuck it. Don't give a damn. Who is she, anyway? Treat it as a social experiment. Have fun. Tell yourself you're gonna do this thing to see what happens. Meet her, tease her. See how it plays out. But first, a… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 07:16 PM |
| 5 | What should I do? [TINDER]It's not her, it's you. You know you won't be able to deliver, and you're looking for a way out. Stop projecting and blaming others for your shortcomings. Either step up or run away. Your choice. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 06:58 PM |
| 18 | Top 5 basic tools you'd teach to a beginnerI have been coaching a friend for a year+, and completely turned his life around. Here are some of the basic things I taught him first: Never ask, tell. Never pay for her drinks, or anything else. She is your little sister. Ignore all texts which isn't a question which you MUST address (and if you must, wait a while). After a great fuck, fuck someone else. And a lot of other stuff, mostly regarding why it is important to focus on yourself, first, then yourself, and then, yourself. It turned his … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Got this feeling... one-itis is coming up.In short, it's chemicals. Your body is producing them due to the great sex. People use to call it love, but it's not. It's just a chemical reaction. Don't listen to it, don't act upon it. Again, it's not your mind doing it, it's your body. Stick to the plan, the chemicals will disappear, and you will soon be thinking straight again. Pretend your "feelings" ain't there until they go away. They will. To actively fight it: Lift heavy. Go rock climbing. Jump out of a plane. Fuck someone else. Experi… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/15 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Strange situation. Need some insightShe is fucking with you, maybe even with others present. "Look at this, I keep asking to follow him, and then I unfollow moments later. Every time he wants to follow me, I deny him. And then, I do it again. And again. Hilarious. He's like a dog. Look, now I'm going to do it again." Stop letting others lead you on. Never ask to follow her again, never accept her request again. Stop thinking about her. What she is doing, is creating an emotional disturbance within you, which makes her take up spac… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/15 12:15 PM |
| 1 | What should I workout? Pics insideCutting fat? Educate yourself on how your body functions first. Head over to /r/keto, it might change your life. And, if you are willing to give it a shot and stick to the program, even though you have been taught otherwise, it will change you body. In no time. You're carrying a lot sof excess fat. Your current diet prevents your body to deal with that in a painless way. People who diet usually go through painful (physically and emotionally) experiences losing weight because they are FIGHTING th… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/15 12:11 AM |
| 8 | What's the best response to "I h8 you""Get in line." | /r/askTRP | 11/01/15 12:03 AM |
| 0 | Guy in AskBetas makes out with gay dude in drag at a college party - gets congratulated on his "open-mindedness", becomes reddit hero and makes /r/bestofYou win. Seriously, you win. I don´t know where you pick up your prize, or what it is, but I´m sure it´s out there, waiting for you. Aside from that, feel great about confirming all the misconceptions people have about redpill. Peace out. Seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Guy in AskBetas makes out with gay dude in drag at a college party - gets congratulated on his "open-mindedness", becomes reddit hero and makes /r/bestofThank you for further cementing how you have been portraying yourself so far. So it´s about "asshole shit gay people" now? WTF are you even doing in this subreddit? Have you even seen violence? You certainly have no clue about how people who are confident in their own identities behave. If redpill was /r/conspiracy, you would have been outed as a shill already. You´re talking out of your ass. Don´t cross the line with you? Are you twelve? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 10:07 PM |
| 0 | Guy in AskBetas makes out with gay dude in drag at a college party - gets congratulated on his "open-mindedness", becomes reddit hero and makes /r/bestofYou know what redpill is about, don´t you? It´s about NOT waiting for proper consent, it´s about assuming attraction, about walking the line until someone tries to stop you - and then, walking further. Fuck. i´ve had several women get upset with me, because I don´t "respect their boundaries", while others start dripping when i do THE EXACT SAME THING. Proper consent? Who the fuck gave you TRP ENDORSEMENT? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Guy in AskBetas makes out with gay dude in drag at a college party - gets congratulated on his "open-mindedness", becomes reddit hero and makes /r/bestofYou know, I´ll bite. Just because I´m tired of having to swim through so much angst and anger from a lot of the posters here, who don´t seem to know a bit about what redpill is. It sure as fuck isn´t about being homo-/transgenderphobic. Complaining about a guy who makes out with a transgender is like saying "fake it til you make it" is wrong, it´s like a flock of hens complaining that someone is the workplace has been outed as a convicted killer. "OH MY GOD - and he was walking among us like he … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Trouble removing bra...?A bra is never a problem (at least not for me). Just tell her that she either does it herself or you will tear it apart. As a bonus, she might want you to do just that. But seriously, there´s no reason why you should be spending time trying to figure out how to resolve "the mystery of the bra". She either removes it herself, you tear it up, or she stops wearing it. Imagine if we started wearing something that required some thought to figure ut how to remvove in order to have sex. Nine moths from… | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 02:38 AM |
| 13 | Read "I fucked your wife" and now girlfriend is upsetYou´re telling your GF that you wouldn´t like it if she ever wanted to have a bachelorette party in Vegas? As in, "not that we´re even talking about marriage yet, but if we were.."? That has nothing to do with holding frame, that´s you creating unnecessary drama. You´re not controlling, you´re a drama queen. Lay off the hypothetical situations and deal with your daily life. You don´t start "discussions" like that, you end them. TL;DR: In this situation, YOU are the problem. Get your act together… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/14 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Are my parents wrong?Your parents are wrong. While they are right about molding you into a dedicated man, they forgot about the warrior. Asian societies are pretty passive agressive servant/master focused, and people seem to focus on being the best of the servant class in order to advance to the master class. So you get a lot of people (men) who have now opted out of the human cycle. It´s time for you to man up. Not to score, but to actually grow into a man. What you are now, is something that resembles your parents… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 08:17 PM |
| 2 | What's TRPs view on fudging your age?There are thre kinds of women: Those who would never want a man your age. Those who are open for a man your age. Those who want a man your age. By being honest, you alienate one group. By lying, you are potentially pushing away two groups, while making sure to lose the last group if they ever find out the truth. I´m in my fourties, lots of people thing I´m aproximately 30. I like telling them I´m much older. They like it, too. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Reacting when someone else is being attackedI always intervene, sometimes I´m pretty anxious when I do, but I´m unable to turn my back when situations are becoming violent (not talking about two guys duking it out). One day I might get seriously hurt, but that´s life. And I´d rather die following my nature, than live with regret. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/14 04:28 PM |
| 1 | I Can't Change MyselfMost people are uncapable of change, of progressing. Usually, something changes people, events which affect them. The inner motivation and capability to drive yourself into actual change is rare. If I were you, I´d consider myself lucky. While you´re a pretty static person, you probably haven´t had "lifechanging" negative experiences which force your hand. You´re mediocre, just like most people. And there´s evidently nothing you can do about it. And unless life serves you a screwball or two, you… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/14 10:23 PM |
| 1 | If TRP is concerned with becoming a better man, why not become the alpha you want to be and pull the chicks that you want?You should come back here when you have either: a) sobered up b) grown up c) wizened up Because, frankly, you´re either drunk, a teenager, or plain stupid. I´m going to pretend you´re drunk: Being redpill is hard work, just like working out is. Just like our brain is telling us to stay at home instead of going to the gym, sometimes it tells us it´s best to be bluepill as well - because, seriously, that takes a lot less effort. So why are we here? I, for one, discovered this subreddit some months… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/14 10:28 PM |
| 3 | How to lose weight?Keto is like redpill. You need to dive into it and research it, then decide to try it even though it sounds too odd to be true. Listening to the usual chant from the fitness FAQ is like listening to the ones telling you to put women on pedestals. Want to not try Keto? Go right ahead. Some people want to stay bluepilll, some want to stay fat. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/14 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I just get it out of my system (sex)?Want to fuck hookers? Be my guest. If you are trying to use it as a way to remove neediness and getting it out of your system, you´re better off just jerking off. You need to work on yourself until you´re not needy and anxious anylonger. THEN you can go see them hookers if you want - not because you need it, because you can. That is what RP is about, you do things because you can. Fucking a hooker to try to become less anxious about women and sex is like blowing your head off with a shotgun to g… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/14 09:05 PM |
| 8 | "Nice Guy" saves "Innocent Woman" from getting raped "Total Creep"... All he had to do was take one step...Actually, you can eye fuck people (almost) regardless of looks. And the fat guy wasn´t ugly. The creeper part was looking that way at someone who wasn´t aware. If there had been eye contact, there´s no telling what would have happened. Sure, looks go a long way. Confidence and animalism goes further (in theory, you´re going to need a SHITLOAD of inner game to pull it off). But in short, life is what you make it. TL;DR: Eye fucking is for anyone, you just gotta have the balls to pull it off. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 11:05 PM |
| 2 | From what I can tell, I game pretty much by the book -- can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong?You can build attraction early, a LOT of attraction. Just don´t try to cash in on it. Wait until the end of the night. They will find you interesting if you approach early. So just spend 5 mins with them, tell them you´ll see them at the end of the night. Then mingle, meet some more people. Hang out, have a great evening doing whatever. If you made an impression, they´ll be eyeing you the rest of the evening, and their suspense will build throughout. Building on that, it´s possible to enter a ve… | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 08:10 PM |
| 15 | "Nice Guy" saves "Innocent Woman" from getting raped "Total Creep"... All he had to do was take one step...Fat guy made one mistake only. He should have waited until he had eye contact with her, then he should have looked at her that way. She would have fucking melted. I´d like to see the white knight try to get in between then. Point being - if you are able to look at someone like that when they´re looking at you, you´re going places. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/14 08:00 PM |
| 1 | From what I can tell, I game pretty much by the book -- can someone tell me what I'm doing wrong?You should watch this video, especially the part about a night out is like watching a movie. The women you meet at the beginning of the night, want to know how the movie ends, so your chances of getting anywhere are slim. As the night progresses towards the end, if you have established some social proof, THEN you can spend some time actually gaming. Start the evening light. Introduce yourself, banter a bit, then move on. Wait until they have experienced and enjoyed their night out, then be the p… | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it beta to call before a get-together?Don´t call. Go to where you will be meeting her. But before, get mentally pumped up. Why? Because that night is going to be a great night. You´re going to have a good time, you´re going to push your own limits, get some banter going with the bartender, talk to strangers, have some drinks. You will be in your best clothes, smell delicious, you´re gonna want to rip off your own clothes when you take that final look in the mirror before you leave the house. And then, maybe your date will be there, … | /r/askTRP | 17/04/14 07:46 AM |
| 0 | What to do after breaking frame with wife?Call a buddy and go out for drinks with him. Let your wife know you won´t be around for the party. If she acts up, tell her it´s HER birthday, not yours, so she can spend it however she chooses. You, on the other hand, have other plans. After that, it´s just a question of who yields first, you or her (we might be talking days or weeks, unless she blows up on you right now, in any case, get out of the house). If it´s you, tough luck. If it´s her, tell her no more accusations from now on. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Someone explain this to, because this analogy is very rational to me...Explain what? Explain to you that redpill isn´t about endorsing rape? If you need people to explain that to you, you´re a lost cause to begin with. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Focus on the things that matter and everything will fall into place.If you run after girls, you will leave behind a trail of money. If you run after money, you will leave behind a trail of girls. | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 09:23 PM |
| -7 | I know Kung-Fu...Report and request for further guidance.You are going to cheat. Eventually. And you´re fighting a losing battle if you want her to reform voluntarily. Tell her you want that open marriage agreement signed right now, or else you´ll only end up cheating on her, even though you´re not going to pursue it conciously. When you start to realize that your SMV is increasing, and she is trying her best to pull you down, you WILL allow others to turn you on, and you won´t feel guilty, either. You might think otherwise right now, but in a while, … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/14 02:52 PM |
| 8 | Quick (but somewhat vague) questionIs there some benefit to jumping out of a plane with a parachute on your back, other than landing safely on the ground? Yes, there is. A 30 second free fall thrill, where you just enjoy the moment. Then you pull the cord, and you either live or die. You don´t jump out of the plane because you want to land safely (then you might as well stay at home), you do it because of those 30 seconds. It´s the same with approaching girls in random settings. You do it because of the thrill of the situation. A… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/14 08:13 AM |
| 2 | This is what you get from being a "nice guy" - leftovers...poor guy doesn´t know he´s being settled upon.You´re absolutely right. I should have dissected the post and explained why it is relevant, instead of just putting it out there, expecting people to be able to see that for themselves. That post was part one of the life of a provider. Part two is where she leaves him, taking the kids and the house. EVERY provider gets the girl at some point, that´s what being a provider is. It´s easy to jump on the bandwagon when someone posts part two, then what has happened is evident to everybody. This right… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/14 06:43 AM |
| 18 | "I'm losing interest"She´s trying to gain control. Bring the handcuffs next time. Handcuff her. Refuse to fuck her. Tell her she either has to beg you to be fucked or be set free. If she wants to be set free, you go home. If she wants to be fucked, fuck her, set her free, then go home. In any case, before you go, tell her she´s not interesting anymore. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/14 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Text game: simple test or genuinely disinterested?She wants you as an orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/14 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Choice of contact sport?If you want to challenge yourself and get comfortable being "intimate" with people who will walk all over you - BJJ. You´ll meet a lot of misplaced newcomers, but the ones who stick with it are fairly RP people. If you want to see if you have what it takes - Boxing, Muay Thai, MMA. Be prepared to handle being beaten up. It´s not for everybody. Also, you´ll run into a lot of peacocks. From a RP perspective, there´s no real alternative to grappling/BJJ. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/14 10:42 PM |
| 3 | I constantly crave my Girlfriends attention, and it's getting worse and worse. What am I doing wrong/what can I do?In short, you have to start doing the things that make you feel great about yourself, and improve your life. Do whatever the fuck you want, never ask for permission or company. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 01:38 PM |
| 8 | I constantly crave my Girlfriends attention, and it's getting worse and worse. What am I doing wrong/what can I do?You´re a whiny bitch, and that is the reason she´s not all over you. From the day you met her, you wanted something from her. Validation. Your relationship is fucked, and you´re the one fucking it up. Time to step up and take charge of yourself, your life, your emotions and your relationship. Step one. The only one who can validate you is yourself. Who is the only one who has been there since the day you were born, and who will be there till the day you die? You. Is that person going to be a nee… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 11:56 AM |
| 6 | I need to vent.Tell her you´re not mad, you´re disappointed that she is such a coward. And it´s a waste of your time to hang out with cowards. She needs to grow a pair. Also, tell her that you don´t accept apologies. You don´t treat people in a way that demands an apology afterwards, and you don´t accept that from others, either. You HAVE to be confrontational without sounding butthurt. You don´t want an apology, you want a "yes, sir". Set the rules. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Divorce is better in Scandanvia!28% in Norway is not minimal, it´s average tax (in 2014, it´s actually 27%). Here are some numbers from 2012 (in Nkr): 50K 5,2% 100K 13,5% 200K 20,8% 300K 24,7% 500K 29,7% 1 mill 37,9% 2 mill 42,9% | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Divorce is better in Scandanvia!Divorce rate in Norway is about 45%, and it has been declining steadily the last 10 years. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Divorce is better in Scandanvia!Norway has 28%, Denmark has 38%, Finland has 29% and Sweden has 24%. Last year, the average income in Norway was 363.800 Nkr ($61K). We are rich, stinkin´rich. And we get a lot for free. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 08:42 PM |
| 4 | (FR) Went out alone, made friends, great progress, but didn't get the girl.The way to deal with people like that, is not to deal with them. They are poison, regardless of whether it´s a bitchy girlfriend or an overly aggressive bloke spewing insults your way. Don´t engage, don´t let their emotions affect you. Just walk away and reestablish your good mood somewhere else, with someone else (or yourself). Just remember, it´s all about them. Not you. So don´t let it affect you, either. Smile, shut the door, and go on. Don´t question if you did wrong. Next time you do a FR,… | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Holding frame, kicking her outWhat you do depends on what you want. Do you want her in your life? No? Next her. Yes? Wait. When (if) she contacts you, tell her you´re not interested in spending time with people who behave like little bitches. If she wants to spend time with you, she´s gotta make it worthwhile for you. Tell her you will leave space for her in your life if apologizes for being a bitch and promise not to do it again. If she doesn´t contact you, she´s out. If she doesn´t apologize, she´s out. If she doesn´t prom… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/14 01:11 PM |
| 8 | My girlfriend has an abusive brotherWhere to start? You´re young, inexperienced and it shows. You´re stuck on a girl you´ve probably not know too long. You want to be tough, but you know you´re not, so you make up excuses for yourself as to why you don´t just beat somebody up. You´re afraid. Of getting hurt. From a fight. From your girl. From life. Want some advice? Violence isn´t pretty. People dream about it, picture themselves as some kind of victor in a perfect situation. It never is like that. Start training MMA/boxing/Muay T… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/14 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Fighting vs Lifting.Fight. Also, BJJ mentality is pretty RP, you get to maintain a lot of healthy attitudes there. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/14 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl of one Year: Stay Friends or Cut Her Off?Cut her off. You´re looking for something you´ll never get from her, and if you had been ok with being an orbiter, you wouldn´t come here looking for advice. She´s using you for validation. Walk away. Yesterday. | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are raising daughters? Has or how has TRP changed your approach to how you are raising your daughters, and how do you reconcile TRP, and raising daughters to lead fulfilling and happy lives doing whatever they like?I have two boys (aged 4 and 9) and one girl (aged 13). I treat them exactly the same. I have two rules for them: Violence is not an option (whatever is bugging you, deal with it, resorting to any kind of psysical escalation is not dealing with it) Be decent (I tell them I don´t care what they grow up to be, how they live their lives, as long as they are decent people, they are ok in my book) And then, there is everything else. Kid crying? "Are you bleeding? Here´s a band aid." "Did you foot fall… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/14 10:08 AM |
| 0 | Looking For A WorkoutYou should look into Convict Conditioning by Paul Wade. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/14 06:44 AM |
| 32 | Girlfriend of two+ years got out of town job offer for the summer and might be going away for two months. Need advice on how to approach this.You already know the answer to your questions, all you need to do is execute it. Seriously, it´s all over your post. You don´t want her to go. You´re pissed that she´s considering it. you´re afraid that she´ll resent you. You´ll miss having her around. You want to keep her in town all summer. You´re standing in her shade. Your life should be about you, you´re supposed to be #1. Your thoughts shouldn´t evolve around what you want from her, but what you want from you. Tell her it´s a good idea she… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/14 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Going out alone. New country, new language. Building a social circle.Everyone in Scandinavia speak English quite well, and they take pride in speaking it as good as possible. Use this to your advantage, and stick to English at first. That will build you up, as they will try their best to impress you and not fuck up. Tell people their English is good (or tease them saying it´s really bad, depending on how you want to play it). TL;DR: A native English speaker in Scandinavia is automatiaclly looked up to and interesting. Use that as you see fit. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/14 10:44 AM |
| 4 | Guy in group is trying to make fun of me in front of girl in group?Stop him mid sentence, step close to him, grab his elbow (or put your hand on his shoulder) in a friendly, matter of factly manner, lock your eyes on his and say: "You know how little boys keep pulling the hair of the girls they like?" Give it a couple of seconds to sink in, then continue. "So, how come you´re always trying to do the same to me, only with words?" Let go of his elbow, step back, keep eye contact and wait. Whatever he says, smile and ignore him, talk to the othes, keep a good mood… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/14 07:15 AM |
| 6 | Women who are "Quiet"I had a run in with a quiet woman. We´re both students, me in my fourties, she in her twenties. She´s quiet when we work in groups, and when we meet socially. So there we were, out drinking with fellow students. I´m also practicing on being a more social person myself, so I talked to everyone, and touched them a few times while doing so. Out of the blue she tells me her relationship isn´t going too well. "Oh, too bad," I say and make sure not to engage in that topic again. Then I continue talkin… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/14 10:52 AM |
| 61 | Ex just texted me that she is contemplating suicide.Suicide threats are standard controlling mechanisms. The right way to deal with it is to call for medical assistance, explaining what she texted, and that you are afraid that she will go through with it. What happens next will ensure that she won´t ever try that again with anyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/14 03:17 PM |
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