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Perhaps they fear that you will be bringing more than they can handle.
/r/seduction29/07/26 01:01 AM
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Perhaps the fist put her off? That could be seen as hostile.
/r/seduction07/03/26 08:41 PM
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A swinger club. On gangbang night.
/r/seduction21/01/26 10:04 PM
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Could be. What I like about the "I could help you", is that you are responding to her, and bantering, all you did was respond. Whereas asking her about it straight up is a more serious approach. But who knows, I am not exactly an expert at seduction.
/r/seduction08/01/26 05:23 AM
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Yes, that was my assumption, that you would be ready for next time. You could bring the conversation back, along the lines of "so, has your sex life got better since you mentioned it last month?" But that's a riskier move.
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:36 PM
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She is giving you a zero risk opportunity to express interest. When she says "I haven't had sex in a month", you can say "I could help you with that". At that point, she will either get serious, or laugh it off. If she laughs it off, you haven't lost face, you were just bantering. If nothing else, it will give you a better sense of whether she is serious.
/r/seduction07/01/26 04:27 PM
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I think they have strict rules about that. They can't have the staff making the customers uncomfortable. My guess is they get fired if they pursue customers too aggressively.
/r/seduction25/11/25 01:03 AM
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What many men don't realize, is that many women are attracted to successful men. Not just that they are gold diggers wanting money, but they are attracted by the success, just like someone can be attracted by good looks, or fitness, or anything else. I know women in swinger contexts where it is just for sex, not even dating, or potential relationships, but they are still most attracted to the successful guy, more than to the hot guy, the tall guy, etc. Not every women feels that way, obviously, …
/r/seduction27/12/24 10:50 PM
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I proposed to my wife about three months after meeting her. She was the second woman I ever dated. We are still married, 38 years later. I haven't ever regretted it. Maybe once or twice. I have never since met a woman who I thought might have been a better wife for me.
/r/seduction25/12/24 02:48 AM
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You do not seem to have any idea about how women in the sex industry look at the world. If you approach it the way you are intending, they will hate you. There are plenty of subreddits where women doing sex work can talk about things. I suggest you start with reading some of those. Don't say anything, just read, and keep your mouth shut. Sometimes they talk about guys like you, you are not unique in how you feel. You might find it interesting to see how you are viewed. If you know someone has an…
/r/seduction22/12/24 05:58 AM
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I had zero success with women in high school and well into college. Later in life, I became quite successful financially, and that seems to have also made me much more attractive to women.
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:55 AM
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There are certainly things that many or most women all want. But I think that women's tastes overall are more diverse than men's.
/r/seduction14/06/23 11:37 PM
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This is very good advice, a lot of experience is being shared here. My key lesson to add would be that women are more likely to be unusual in their preferences than men are, so there is always hope for men who have not been seen as desirable. They just have to meet that one woman who happens to value what they have. This happens more than people think.
/r/seduction14/06/23 12:44 PM
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For most guys, if they don't initiate, they get nothing. Having women throwing themselves at you would demotivate anyone to initiate.
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:15 PM
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You hate it because women keep offering you sex? Rough life.
/r/seduction21/10/22 08:26 PM
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Perhaps twenty years ago, things were generally the way you describe. But I find that these days, things are more complex. I encounter quite a few women who are in relationships, who want to have sex with other guys, but it is as part of an open relationship, not cheating. So that is quite a different dynamic. If a woman in a relationship is interested in having sex with you, it may not being cheating, her partner may be into it, or even the one directing the process. My belief is that this kind…
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:29 AM
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Not so. I have seen it happen many times. Not so much with me, but with highly desirable guys. It is also possible to meet in the middle, where you can say things that are professional, but leading, such as that you are going across the street to have a drink after your shift, for example. If she is interested, she can show up there, without actually taking the step to ask you. It is a fine line to express enough interest, without crossing the line to something that is unprofessional.
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:46 PM
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Unfortunately, this is not ok at all. It is unprofessional, you could reasonably be fired on the spot. I think the best you can do, that would still be acceptable, is to be chatty and friendly, and hope that she asks you.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:27 PM
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This post doesn't make any sense. If there is one thing straight men value, it's female genitalia. I think that the reason cunnilingus is stigmatized is because of its association with male failure. I have spent a lot of time at sex clubs, and seen many couples have sex. This is the progression I have observed frequently when MF couples have sex: They start initial foreplay. Kissing, touching, etc. If the woman detects that the man has a decent sized penis, and that he is rock hard, she will ver…
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:23 AM
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I think it would all depend on the legal and cultural climate where you are. I have had my share of public sex, the main thing I watch for is to make sure that there are no kids anywhere around. I find that under those conditions, people are pretty casual about it. On some nightclub dance floors in particular, sexual assault is basically normalized. Guys moving through the crowd, grinding on women, and groping them without their consent. Clearly sexual assault by any legal definition, but basica…
/r/seduction28/04/22 02:37 AM
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Agreed. But a lot of things are illegal, but never prosecuted, or never prosecuted under some conditions. Nightclubs have all kinds of illegal activity that they just deal with, they don't even call the police unless it reaches a threshold. I am not sure consensual public sex would be a big deal for a nightclub.
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:41 PM
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Do you think anyone would actually go to jail for sex in an adult nightclub? I feel that at absolute worst, the bouncer would kick you out, and ban you. Sex in nightclubs is pretty common.
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:17 AM
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I felt that it added to the story. He is an MBA holder.
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:15 AM
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The key thing you can change is how you approach it: where you go to meet women, which women you are interested in, how you talk to them, things like that. I didn't change my hair or anything, I just eventually realized what things about me women were into, so I emphasized those things, and it made all the difference.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:56 PM
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From what I have seen, there are two main ways that men have great dating and sex lives: 1) Be blessed with enough good looks/charm/money/height that it just comes to you effortlessly. I know some guys like that, their lives are so different than regular men's lives. 2) Figure out what works for you. This has been the key for me. I have some extreme strengths for dating, and extreme weaknesses, so for me, knowing how to approach dating has been absolutely critical.
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:48 PM
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I mean understand what people perceive your social value is for dating. I may think that I am awesome. But it is also good to know whether all women also think I am awesome, or whether they are all repulsed by me. Or somewhere in between.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:55 AM
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Yes, I agree. Testing your value in the marketplace can be useful information. But doing it again and again, to keep proving the same thing, can indeed be a vicious cycle.
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:53 AM
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Isn't it good to know your market value, as well as your internal self-worth? I think I am awesome. But that is not always helpful in knowing how to approach the world. Having a realistic view of how others see me seems like helpful information, in deciding what to do. You don't agree?
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:29 PM
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You don't find that having sex decreases your motivation to go out and get more sex for a while? It not, give it a few years.
/r/seduction12/02/22 06:48 PM
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Teeth. And impatience.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:32 AM
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Yes, a decent percentage of women like it. Particularly if you give them lots of feedback about how much you are enjoying it.
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:44 AM
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From what I have seen, when it comes to men being attracted to women, the first step is looks. And with looks, it is largely a yes / no, question, you are either attracted to her or you aren't. And nothing much can change that, the way it can for women. Once the appearance test is passed, then it comes down to other factors, such as attitude. At least for me, the key aspects of attitude are: how attracted she is to me, and how stable she seems to be. If she seems into me, and not too crazy, that…
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:18 AM
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In general, popularity is not the most important factor for men in being attracted to women. It is more important for women being attracted to men. But high school can be a messed up environment, so anything is possible. But to me, it seems unlikely it should be a major factor.
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:14 PM
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This is not so, though it is a common misconception. I know a lot of women who are swingers, they connect with men purely for sex, they are not interested in leaving their husbands. Yet even within that community, there is a significant portion of the women who are more turned on by success than by physical appearance. It is often not simply money, if he inherited the money from his dad, it doesn't work. But if it made his fortune himself, that is literally a turn on for some women. Not all, but…
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:54 PM
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My friend who was very, very successful with women had a technique he recommended to me. As soon as he was alone (either of them went to the washroom, went to the kitchen, etc.), he would immediately get completely naked. When she returned, he would play it cool, as if nothing had happened, and she would have to decide how to react. He said he had a 100% success rate with it, they would basically always immediately take off their clothes, or approach and make out, or jump right into sex one way …
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:01 PM
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Informed consent is a pretty simple concept. There are an increasing number of cases in North America where men are charged for sexually assaulting women who were not unconscious, but the court determined that they were drunk enough that the guy was charged and convicted. So go ahead and keep fucking drunk girls if you wish, it's just riskier than it was thirty years ago. You are right, it is inconsistent that drunk drivers are held to account, and drunk men who have sex are held to account, but…
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:04 AM
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In general, people are more truthful when they are drunk, than when they are sober. So the chances are very good that at that moment, she was attracted to you. There is something to be said for jumping when you get such an opportunity. But there are also big risks involved with having sex with people who may be too drunk to give informed consent. It can be painful to look back on what could have happened if you went for it. But worth keeping in mind that bad things could have happened also. That…
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:00 PM
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Doggy with your legs together, and his legs spread apart. Cowgirl and pronebone are both good when there is a height difference.
/r/seduction30/09/21 03:03 AM
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Money can mean a great deal for flings. I am successful, but not particularly attractive. And I am obviously married, I always wear my ring. But there are some women who are attracted to successful men, not just as potential husbands, but also for hookups. Not all women are like that by any means. But there are enough of them around that I can keep myself entertained.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:34 AM
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Agreed, 100%. Dating in pandemic seems like a lost cause. My friend and his girlfriend broke up in January 2020. Now he is screwed until pandemic is over. When it finally ends, he and a lot of people will be dating intensively. Hopefully you will be one of them.
/r/seduction23/01/21 01:44 AM
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I am sorry to hear that. My only advice to you is to force yourself to keep doing it, because it is worthwhile in the end. I was able to get a girlfriend, get married to her, and have kids. So my traits, desirable and otherwise, are getting passed on. In hindsight, the torture of masking and dating was a small price to pay for the benefit it had on my life.
/r/seduction22/01/21 06:15 PM
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Unfortunate, isn't it. I masked my ass off to get a girlfriend, and it was very exhausting. But ultimately worthwhile for me.
/r/seduction22/01/21 06:06 PM
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To some extent, if women were more direct about what they wanted, it would make it even harder for men. As someone who is very poor at reading signals from women, I find it pretty frustrating that they won't just say what they want. Instead, I have to pick up tiny clues I can't even see. But the alternative could be even worse. Evolution has made it so that women are much pickier about their partners, in general, than men are. It pretty much has to be that way, just due to biology. So one way th…
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:01 AM
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You'll make a bunch of new friends with the guys at the gym.
/r/seduction09/06/20 02:12 PM
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Anywhere but the US and Saudi Arabia? In Canada, drinking age is 19 or 18. In Germany, where OP is from, it's 16! And you can drink in a restaurant with your parents when you are 14.
/r/seduction30/01/20 04:25 AM
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That's unfortunate. I was lucky enough to have a combination of skills and deficiencies that enabled me to be successful at business, and that has helped greatly with dating. I don't know what to tell you, it is unfortunate to give up. But only you can say whether it is hopeless or not. Good luck.
/r/seduction22/01/20 05:04 AM
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I am sorry it is like that for you. My outlook has been a lot more positive. Where your advice to people is "you need to forget about dating", my advice was "you can do it, if you work at it". I have been able to succeed at dating, despite my autism. For me it is a combination of having other things to offer that women like (primarily, being successful), and of working very hard to study and learn what NT people know by magic. I am not saying anyone autistic can do it, but clearly some can.
/r/seduction21/01/20 04:17 PM
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For me, the worst aspect of dating while autistic is that I can't read which women are interested. The NT guys I know who are successful with women can just walk into a bar or party, and figure out who would be into them, and who wouldn't. I can't tell until she is either actually fucking me, or punching me in the face. And I do not like to make people uncomfortable, so I try really hard to avoid pushing my luck, which greatly reduces my opportunities. I don't think there is a magic path to succ…
/r/seduction12/01/20 05:03 AM
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