Given the rates of CSA and the fact that men commit the vast majority of it, leads me to believe that they should be assumed dangerous until proven otherwise.
Generally speaking romance novels such as those offer a thrilling fantasy that is fun to explore but isn't real. I can't speak for most men but I also like these types of fantasies only with the sexes reversed but I doubt that's popular with a majority of men.
I think it's a population shift as similar is being witnessed across the first world. Your kids are not immune to patriarchal conditioning. Neither are you and I or anyone else here for that matter
IT IS WRONG FOR MEN TO WANT CHILDREN BECAUSE CHILDREN HAVE BEEN USED AS A CONTROL MECHANISM FOR WOMEN FOR CENTRIES. Did you get it this time or do you need me to hold your hand?
Men who want kids are an enormous red flag. Children have been a patriarchal control mechanism for millenia and I don't think i need to tell you who commits the most abuse of children.
Women voluntarily pay 2 bucks extra for the exact same razors because it says "for women" on the package. No one's forcing you to spend money on unnecessary extras.
Ladies nights were a thing because it would attract men into the establishment in the hopes that they would get a date. We live in a world were the majority of women don't want men to approach them in public or even date at all. Because of this men are less likely to turn up to ladies night and so the incentive to give women free drinks disappeared. Personally I think it's good that men bother women less.
The important thing is that it's men's fault whenever a woman does anything bad in any context Cause of white-supremacist, cis-centered, heteronormative, double bacon and cheese patriarchy