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I just want to add. It doesnt matter how awesome you are. If shes cleaned your shitty underwear even once, she will find a guy better than you. In her mind, a guy whos exactly the same as you is better, as long as shes never seen his shitty underwear. Just remember that. And if you think this* actually has anything to do with shitty underwear i cant help you.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 05:21 AM
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You did the right thing brother. Like you and many others, ive been there. Just remember, if she loses her shit and lashes out somehow its NOT your fault. Its WHY youre leaving. Just remember that. You cant save her. Its not your job. It was never your job. You can only save yourself. Stick to your guns. Protect yourself. You will be okay. You wont be okay if she loses her shit and attempts to kill you like my ex did.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:57 AM
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Honestly brother I know it had to be a real pain in the ass but this field report is hysterical. Thank you for sharing. I also want to reinforce something that wasnt a big point but.. inviting women over to make them dinner is one of my favorite "dates". Learning to cook is a win all around. +1
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 11:02 AM
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Don't worry brother. It will take some time to learn how the game really works, but once you understand all the rules you will start to win. Focus on yourself for now. Life is not about finding yourself. It's about creating yourself. You can do it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 09:30 AM
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It really is a good way to find some perspective. No doubt. Personally I have to be careful though. Once you realize how easy it is to have any kind of woman you want it's a serious reality check though. And a valuable lesson.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 05:18 AM
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I've been doing DDP yoga in addition to my normal workouts for about 2 years now. It has helped me tremendously. Especially when working around my lower back and knees, which used to give me a lot of trouble.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 06:33 AM
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Every big relationship I ever had, including 2 marriages ended with me being cheated on. It's what ultimately drove me to TRP. During each of those marriages I was a good guy, who didn't cheat. Now, I don't care anymore. I'm in an LTR and she's great on paper but I'm never getting married again. I've told her I'm not going to marry her. I've told her she's a glorified room mate. I've told her to leave if she doesn't like it. So of course she stays. My point is, I cheat quite a bit now. I don't a…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 10:47 AM
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I agree 100%. I've often compared women to actors on stage. The part they play depends on the audience and more importantly, how she wants that audience to see her.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 12:24 AM
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This is an interesting read and something I've witnessed (but hadn't really thought about much before). Allow me to tell a brief story if you will. I was at a wedding a few years back. The grandparents of the groom were present and the grandfather was wheelchair bound. At one point during the reception people were giving speeches. I watched, as grandma wheeled grandpa out on to the dance floor. His arms flailing at first as she moved him in front of the crowd. Grandma takes the microphone and sa…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 02:15 AM
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I agree with your frustrations friend but the most effective way to try and debate a topic with a women is not to debate. Let her regurgitate whatever the latest ridiculous trend is and laugh in her face. When she questions you don't argue just say "you're cute when you get so fired up over this stuff" and when she loses her shit over it and calls you a misogynist just say "ok" and smile. Change the subject and move on. I think Bill Cosby said it best. "Women don't want to hear what you think. W…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:49 PM
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This reads like some teenage girls diary. This woman is a child living in a fantasy world.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 06:11 PM
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Whether she's technically plus size or not. She's still ugly as hell. It doesn't matter if she looses weight. She will always be ugly.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:20 PM
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Honestly brother, some of the worst examples of females I've ever met have been religious. The old days are gone. To these girls religion is just a fashion accessory ment to sell us an image.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 08:25 AM
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You have to look at the dynamic of your friendship differently than with a man. More importantly, you have to be getting something out of it. Why? Because that's how women look at the friendship. She's not going to be your friend unless it benefits her somehow. So, just be sure it goes both ways.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 08:11 AM
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This is actually my counter argument to femenist whenever they start complaining about women being objectified in comics and games. "What about all the women who love to cosplay as these characters?" It's such a simple comment that's not at all offensive. Yet the hamster will go nuts because of all the things you didn't say.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 06:03 PM
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My current LTR used to love traveling. Unrelated but I told her at one point she was a great room mate but I'm not moving or marrying her. "This is all the commitment you get until you can show me you're worth more" Initially she was put off by it. How dare I have standards, was basically her argument. I explained that there was no argument to be had. She doesn't have to like it. After that talk.. wouldn't you know it. All the big ideas for world travel are out the window. I was never vocally ag…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 04:32 AM
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Brother, now that you've heard the truth right from the source, you can confidently stop wasting your time without regret. You know how she is. You know how they all are. You've seen it first hand. All of us have stumbled and hit speed bumps along the way. It's how we ended up here. It's okay that it happens but don't dwell. Move on. Now that you know the rules of the game, you can start winning. Once you start winning the game becomes fun. It takes time brother. You will be alright.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:46 PM
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Cheesy lines are great. For me they accomplish a few things. They help you weed out bitches who take themselves too seriously. I don't want to waste time with them anyway. If you can get her to call you stupid and smile you know she's going to be fun to mess around with (and you're in)
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:41 PM
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I simply do not believe anything I hear or read about any longer involving rape. I do not believe any of the garbage that comes out of women's mouths. All this crying wolf has dulled my ability to care. My ex wife tried to cover her infidelity by claiming she was raped. It's a long story but needless to say, the truth only came out when I called the police myself. When all was said and done, I was packing up to leave her. She literally told me "You can't leave me, I was raped!!!". In a way I'm l…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 07:40 PM
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"What difference does it make? It's in the past!" Is one of my favorites. Because the cops won't come after you for a past crime. Your bad credit won't stop you from getting something financed. The IRS wont come after you for back taxes. Why should they? It's in the past! And if that doesn't click I take my examples to an extreme place. I'm sure all the kids molested by priests have gotten over it. They were just being total drama queens. It's in the past! Those priests should be free to keep th…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 04:01 AM
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Yes but you're clearly not happy with this bro. If you're worried about all the finances that are tied together now, just wait for 5 years down the road. This is win/win for her man. She gets the fancy honeymoon, the house and the vacations on your dime. She doesn't care if you aren't happy. If you finally divorce her down the line, she is set for life. Nothing changes for her only now she doesn't have to sneak around with the guy she's actually fucking. Because if she's not fucking you, she's f…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 01:55 PM
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Don't do it man. Don't get married. Inform her that sex is not power, it's a requirement for being with you. No sex = no relationship. Then when she looses her shit over this, you stay calm no matter what. Respond simply "This is not an argument, you can leave if you don't like it" Whatever you do; do not get married. This is your power. When her hamster starts going crazy after you find your balls, you can cut her off at the knees by revoking the proposal. Always stay calm. The less happy you a…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 01:38 PM
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I had a friend of mine pass away recently. He was a popular guy and the death was untimely. (He was 28) It took no time before the Facebook posts started. Some genuine, from his real friends and family. However, the vast majority were random chicks, many of which I'd never even heard of, all cashing in. Suddenly he had more female "best friends" than you can count. Crying about his death. "I cant believe your dead, me, me, me, I, I, I, me me me." Last night and today there was another round of p…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 02:13 AM
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This whole thing was a publicity stunt. Nobody gives a fuck about miss universe. They needed to find a way to get people talking. They will be cashing in on this next year. You watch.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 05:43 PM
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So let them rot. Some people can't be helped. You just keep being badass. This reminds me of when I lost a ton of weight. Dropped 60 lbs and everybody wanted to know what my secret was. When I told them "Eat right and exercise" they looked at me like I had 12 heads. Nobody wanted to hear that. Everybody wanted to know about a miracle pill or some bullshit "cleanse". I actually did help a couple people in the end but most of those who questioned me are still fat fucks wishing they could magically…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 05:59 AM
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Gaining crowd control is great advice. A lot of guys think it's beta not to stand up and defend your honor. The truth is most fights just aren't worth it. Women see it for what it is. That being, you have better things to do than entertain the ramblings of some loser.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:44 AM
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You did the right thing brother. You will be fine.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:46 AM
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It's actually pretty hysterical watching women on facebook hit the wall over time. There is a chick I knew in high school. We were never close but she remained a mutual friend in my social circle. She was maybe an 8 back then. (Late 90s) Great body, good face. She's mid 30s now and just had a baby last year. About 3 months after the baby was born she absolutely started spamming Facebook with selfies. Trying to look as cute/sexy as possible. (Keep in mind her husband and child are not in any of t…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:33 AM
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All of this is trying too hard. On the occasion this has come up for me I just agree and move on. "You're a misogynist!" "Ok" The end.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 04:40 PM
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The thing about being in an LTR is that you have to look at the relationship differently. I enjoy being in a LTR but I don't look for loyalty. I look for stability. I never trust a woman's loyalty or her words. However, that doesn't mean she can't be trusted in other ways. For example, my current LTR works her ass off. She worked hard before I was in the picture. She still works hard. She pays rent on time. She's got more money in the bank than any woman I know. She enjoys a higher quality of li…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:24 PM
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It's a harsh reality brother. Thankfully, now that you're begining the understand the actual rules of the game, you can finally start to win.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:45 PM
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+1 brother. I can't say it any better
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 01:53 PM
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Personally I know way, way, waaaaay more single 30 something females than marrried. Chick's who live with their sisters, parents or pets. I know I'm just one person. I also live in Orlando, Florida (Tons of hot girls but equally tons of gay men). That's the biggest complaint from women down here actually. Disney ships down thousands of fresh new college girls every six months but all the guys are taken, or gay. It makes dread game incredibly simple. All you have to do is point out the way her si…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 09:23 AM
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First brother, you need to start trying to move on and not dwell in your emotions. Realize that the very large majority of men here found themselves here because of a woman. We can relate. It's ok but it's also time to put that shit away. I'm not saying you can't be upset, hurt or angry but don't let it own you. Harness is and turn this into your motivation to be a better man. This is where you will ultimately find your satisfaction in life. Invest in you. When a woman comes along, let her sit p…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 05:21 PM
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Take it how you will. It can't be overstated. Dressing well is important. I dress like I believe I am worth something. Consider this. A girlfriend of mine got me a really nice watch as a gift. She said, a man needs a good watch. To her, this increased my value. It also increased my value to women who think like her. I'm not saying you need a watch. I am saying you need to decide what you're selling. You need to present it in a package. She needs to look at you and instantly decide "I want that o…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 08:54 PM
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Same here. I know more single women in their 30s than in relationships. Living with their parents, sisters or room mates. It's awesome actually. They have no idea they are out of their league with the men they chase. They can't seem to figure out that men will fuck anything. It makes it super easy to keep my current GF in check. All I have to do is point out all the ways her single friends are fucking up whenever it's relevant.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:24 PM
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I understand what you're getting at with this post.. the thing is I know way more post wall single women living with their parents or sisters than in a relationship. Many of my GFs friends fit into this category. 34 year olds who are still sucking dick on a first date because it's all they have to offer. Who still can't figure out why the 6'4" hot tattooed doctor/lawyer won't insta-marry them. Some of these really hot girls can still line up their beta, sure. It's been my experience though, that…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 05:20 PM
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That's fine. If the story is true it's just another worthless woman. She'll find herself at 34 years old alone or settled with some equally worthless beta. It's really amazing how far women will go. How much they will lie to each other in order to validate their shitty mistakes. The hamsters have to perpetuate these lies; because as soon as a classy young generation of women were to appear, all the top men would be gone.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 05:26 PM
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If any one religion could actually prove their God were real it would probably save the world. Since nobody can or has able to prove the existence of any sort of god; I choose not to believe.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 04:12 PM
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I have zero tolerance for this sort of behaviour. If the word "rape" or anything else comes up positioning herself as a victim I'm out. Thankfully I've only had to deal with it once. The date asked me "why do you keep staring at me, it feels like you're trying to eye rape me". I thought to myself but did not say ("So making eye contact with the person I'm talking to is rape now?") I literally just gave her a blank stare, picked up my drink and moved to the bar. I took a few minutes to send out a…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 07:00 PM
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Brother she's already decided where you stand and its in the friend zone. She's giving you a little taste of what you want here and there to keep you on the hook. Youve got 2 choices. Go after her, balls out with no fucks given about the result (and prepare to be rejected) or Forget her. Move on to the next. Whatever you do, don't let this manipulation continue. She wants you for something but its not your dick. Ask yourself. If she were bald and 400lbs would you deal with her? Would you let som…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 10:40 PM
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I had girl lose her shit one night when we were hanging out at my brother's place. (Second time I'd invited her into my social circle) She got stupid drunk and started wailing on me when I told her she was embarrasing herself. We called the cops and by the time they arrived we had gotten to the point of needing to physically restrain her. She was trying to attack everybody at that point and my niece (who was 4) wandered out of her room terrified. So there was no way we were letting this crazy bi…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:12 PM
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Dont. Never trust a woman. All women are just actors playing a part. They can change who they are to suit the scene and mostly.. are just trying to upkeep their image.. whatever it may be.. to whomever they are interacting with. Just keep yourself happy and healthy. Women will come and go. Eventually youll find one thats good at heart. She will still be a fake liar. She will still hide shit from you. As long as shes otherwise making you happy just relax. You cant change how they are but it doesn…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 11:19 PM
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Like they are your favorite toy. More specifically, like you have a whole huge toy box to choose from but you picked them. Remember though. Just a toy. You have your own life, your own things, your own friends and your own fun outside of that...but when its time to play, you pick her, until shes not fun anymore. Just keep that attitude and watch how hard they will work to be your favorite toy.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 07:54 PM
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DDP Yoga is legit. I wanted to start adding yoga to my routine after reading all the benefits. I had seen and read many positive things about DDP Yoga and decided to go for it. I love it. I have gained a lot of flexibility and balance. My core is much stronger and my lower back isnt nearly as stiff as it used to be. All of this has helped my strength training more than I would have expected but most importantly.. I just feel good after I do it. Its a great way to start the day.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 04:27 AM
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The folks over at 2X love to ignore the fact that the core of RedPill is self improvment. There is a lot of anger in here, because what drives most men to this sub is usually the fact they have been burned by a women. The problem women really have with Red Pill men is that we dont put up with their BS. We increase our value and along the way realize their pussies arent made of gold afterall. Treating them like a princess doesnt work so we decide to command respect. We have the keys to commitment…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:41 AM
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Yes, this is a perfect example of trickle truth. She had her story ready to go. When you didnt ask her about it, her hamster went nuts and was worried what you were thinking. Thats why she had to explain herself. Girls dont have personality, they have image. They are constantly trying to sell you on some version of themselves. She lying so you wont judge her for being a slut and also to cover her friends ass. Both of those girls got fucked and probably more than once. This is a good lesson to le…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:59 AM
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Don't even acknowledge her when she's pulling this stuff. You are above arguing with a child. Show it.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:35 AM
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Who cares what this girl does? You should be lining up your next one anyway. Seriously don't waste your time stressing. Start working out if you don't already, focus on building your future and consider these girls practice. Ps. The more she pulls this kind of thing, the less attention you give her. If you don't like what she's doing, don't reward her with your concern, compliments, attention or validation. Only girls who make you happy deserve your time.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:20 AM
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Interesting how she gets a pussy pass for her remarks but the table is stunned by yours, isn't it? Womens perception of reality is so screwed in some cases. It doesn't help that even attractive men will fuck almost anything. Eventually you get some bitter old, fat, slut who never gets her tall, rich, doctor. Of course she takes it out on whatever thirsty beta she's managed to manipulate into a relationship. If she's lucky. The best part is, women hate each other so much they won't tell other, yo…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:32 PM
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As a red pill guy who prefers LTRs I was in a similar spot as you OP. In the beginning of the relationship we only got to see each other about once a week which was great because there was always the anticipation and desire from having been apart. After a while we started to click really well. She was fully independent. Has her own money, car, apartment etc. It became clear that she didn't need me, she just wanted me. It felt good. We start seeing each other more often and slowly I start to see …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:13 AM
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Fuck that bitch. If their was agreed exclusivity than she betrayed you. Emotions or not, that's a slap in the face. If she were fat and bald would you put up with that shit? Don't be blinded by the pussy. Especially a bitch who wasted no time in cheating.
/r/askTRP29/12/14 07:19 AM
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She's just using you for stability and probably security as well. What if you fall in love with one of those girls and decide to move in with them? God forbid your happiness inconvenience her a little. She might have to find a new room mate!
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 07:11 AM
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The best part is, because she's a badass she can also dress like a slut and nobody cares. Same chick dressed like that at a Mcdonald is instantly a trashy whore to be loathed by all women in the proximity.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 07:00 AM
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Slut. Pretty simple really.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 06:49 AM
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Doubtful. Depending on the chick I'd be more inclined to believe the entire story was a lie. In either case, amused mastery wins the day here and if you choose not to initiate dread game, that's just a lost opportunity.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 06:49 PM
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This honestly sounds exactly like a chick trying to justify cheating. Cheat if you want to cheat but don't do it because "trp". That's the same way women hamster their bad choices away.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:51 AM
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If you say " I dont blame him" its effectivly giving her a compliment. She does not deserve a compliment for trying to shit test you. Turn it into light dread game. "Wow I wonder if that really works on chick's, I'll have to give that a shot sometime." This way you maintain your frame and flip the shit test back onto her.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:17 AM
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There is nothing wrong with telling your dad your concerns. Odds are he's seen the signs as well. What happens after that is up to him.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:48 AM
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Despite breaking frame a few times. (which ultimately didn't matter since you were dumping her anyway) You did the right thing here. There is nothing wrong with standing your ground on what you do and do not want from a relationship. Anybody telling you different is a feminist trying to shame you for having balls. This chick tried to raise her value by diminishing yours. Essentially telling you you're replacable. Your reaction is exactly what mine would have been. "If I'm replaceable, than go ah…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:36 AM
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This is 100% it right here. It's all emotional. You can ask a woman's opinion about the same thing 3 different times on 3 different days and depending on her mood you'll get 3 different answers, all of them being the "truth". The real truth is, woman are ruled by emotion and live in the moment. It doesn't mean they don't plan ahead and make meaningful life choices. It just means those plans and choices can be easily overruled by emotion. The hamster just needs to give her an "out" so that she ca…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:56 PM
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For me this really explains what it takes to really move on from anger to acceptance of the way women are after swallowing the red pill. I've never had issued meeting women or getting laid but I've always preferred LTRs. After 2 divorces and finding TRP I was genuinely angry at women for a long time. It helped at first, the anger made it easier to be dominant with women and even helped me set the tone with my current girl. Then one day I noticed how much fun was having once I realized dealing wi…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:10 PM
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Maintaining frame, as already stated is the key to her respect and her sex. I had a very similar situation recently. I told my girl simply "I want a blowjob" and she looked up at me with a cute little grin. She had just finished eating minutes before so she says she's going to go rinse out her mouth. I don't say anything and watch her shake her ass all the way to the bathroom. After she walks out, she hits me with "How about if we wait and I surprise you with a blowjob when you least expect it?"…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 02:01 PM
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Your money your vacation dude. Replace her if you can.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 01:25 AM
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I can agree in theory but you're talking about things that go beyond TRP. Where you have to dive deeper into personality types. So yes, I can agree with your point of view but I won't agree that awalt.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:31 PM
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People read the word manipulate as a purely negative thing. It's not really. All I mean by this, is in the world of red pill theory, a post wall slut is one of the easier kinds of women to "manage" if you prefer. Dread game absolutely owns them. If you want to reliably keep your balls empty and your stomach full without having to jump through a ton of hoops, it's the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 04:41 PM
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I disagree with this. A post wall slut desperately seeking her provider is probably the easiest woman in the world to manipulate.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 12:57 AM
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Money is only one part of the big picture. If you have more going on than just your cash flow you can keep her interested. The thing is, you have to be great at those other things. I've gotten a blowjob because my girl watched me wreck people in online videogames. No joke. She saw me as the best, the context didn't matter. Her man was the best. The best man gets a blowjob. Women see your value as a whole. Not just the bits and pieces. I don't make as much money as my girl but I'm in great shape,…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 10:29 PM
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First of all,people take facebook way to damn seriously. If you're interested in this girl, the next time she asks flip it on her. "Why do you keep unfriending me?" "I'll tell you when we meet for dinner (insert time/place)" Now you aren't conceding power at all. One of 3 things will happen 1) She will turn you down. Problem solved, move on with your life. 2) She will blow off the invite and press for the answer. This is a shit test. Respond with "only one way to find out... time/place" if she d…
/r/askTRP10/06/14 11:18 PM
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If she is putting out regularly for you, things are probably fine man. As much as it sucks modern smart phones are basically just affirmation/validation machines for women these days. She can get attention from this guy 24/7 because she knows he wants her. Here is what you need to take away from this. She has power over him but you have power over her. She likes being chased and this is natural but you're the one she's fucking. I will be real with you though. You guys are in your early 20s and s…
/r/askTRP08/06/14 07:24 PM
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Just remember these girls can and will shit test you harder and more often then other girls. Girls with lots of orbiters feel like they can get away with anything because if she upsets/gets upset with one guy she has an army of white knights to prop her right back onto the pedestal and her hamster will convince her shes perfect again. Never take her shit. Ignore it, agree and amplify and if she crosses the line correct her. She will run off to cry to her orbiters about how your such an asshole a…
/r/askTRP26/05/14 09:57 PM
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I get that you like being in a LTR but this girl isn't LTR material. She is still acting like a single chick. Downgrade her and have some fun until something better comes along. Unicorns don't exist but their are women who will at least act the part. Don't waste your time on one who won't.
/r/askTRP26/05/14 09:32 PM
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First don't snoop. You don't need a reason to leave her if you don't trust her. If she keeps sending up red flags and it's stressing you out, bail. Remember, she doesn't actually need to be cheating. You don't need proof. All you need to know is that way she acts makes you unhappy. Word to the wise, if a chick makes you so paranoid and stressed that you feel the need to snoop, it's time to dump her ass. She will never change. All people are liars in some capacity but women are more sneaky and in…
/r/askTRP24/05/14 09:49 PM
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This was my first thought, yes. I figured he can't look at me because he knows what he's doing.
/r/askTRP22/04/14 06:58 PM
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Make up and other things that artificially enhance appearance are just proof of red pill truths. When you look at a beautiful woman and have to wonder how much of her is real then there is a problem. That's just the first lie they are trying to tell you. Then in cases like this when the clothes come off and we realize the lie, it's our fault for bring disappointed, of course. It's our fault the lied, blatantly about their appearance and when they ask us, the blame is shifted squarely onto us whe…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:14 PM
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I don't compliment a new woman unless it's mid or post sex. In the moment I'll say "damn you are so sexy when you do that" I praise the act, more so than her appearance. I only give her the affirmation when she's done something I like. After sex I might say "You looked so hot when you were doing this" But even then, keep it minimal. Remember, a woman is not going to have sex with you for free. Don't give her affirmation for free. There needs to be some perceived value. She needs to believe that …
/r/askTRP26/02/14 07:34 PM
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First bring it up gently but directly. Tell her youve noticed that she doesn't help out around the house. That you need to see her pulling her weight as a partner. This is reasonable. If she puts up resistance. "Look, I like you but I'm not going to be with a girl who doesn't pull her weight in the relationship." If she argues don't let it phase you and don't argue back. If she cries see it for the manipulation it is. Stay calm and look at her right in the eye. "This is not an argument, you can …
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She might have legitimately become tired of the rough sex routine. If you know somebody who loves candy, and you constantly gave them the same candy all the time odds are one day they are going to get sick of the candy, even if it used to be their favorite. This is true for all things, especially with women. If you go to the same restaurants, give her the same compliments etc. It's been a year, she's getting used to you. It's not a bad thing just don't let her get bored of you. Shake up the rout…
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She doesn't need to actually be cheating. I don't need to justify leaving her. If her actions make me unhappy that's all there is to it. I don't need proof. If my gut keeps telling me things are messed up I'd rather be wrong and single than paranoid and stressed. I'll just leave. Easy.
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I'm not going to live being paranoid to the point of setting up hidden cameras. I live with her but I'm not trapped. I am thankfully patient. I prefer to watch somebody dig their own grave before I bury them in it.
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Interesting point. She could just be saying "youre my friend but this is my man"
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Not very alpha around me. He's a good looking guy. He works out for sure but he's about a foot shorter than me. Doesn't speak loudly and doesn't really make eye contact. He turns away from me, sort of how a dog looks at you sideways.
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Is rather not get into the manipulative/snooping kind of mind set. That will only drive me crazy. I'd rather just leave her if I feel things are getting to that point. They are alone together because the point of his vacation is more or less to visit her. She took time off work for this. I'm still working. So they are off having adventures while I work. (To be unbiased I can say she has lots of connections on a professional level. Can get into lots of places free. It's a great way for him to hav…
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My understanding is they have known each other since their late teens/early 20's. They used to spend a lot of time together. They are close enough that their families know each other. They plans to visit each other when traveling if they can work it out. They have lots of common interests. Have helped each other through break ups with other people. There is definitely an emotional investment here but the extent of which is not been made clear. As far as I have ever been told they are just "best …
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