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RedPillForever/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 01:09 AM
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This proves what I've been saying for a long time. Polyamory is a code word for cuckold.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 03:56 PM
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I'm having horrible problems with body dysmorphia.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/15 09:39 PM
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If you're married, why the fuck would you take your wife to a club? It's like you want to get cucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 01:36 PM
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Completely ignore your wife. Live in the gym until other women start noticing you. Your problems will largely resolve themselves at that point.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 01:17 PM
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AWALT is an observable fact. It isn't an excuse for behavior any more than gravity is an excuse for things to fall down.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/15 01:01 PM
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I wasted a week of morning cardio time reading garbage. This week I'm going to read through "Rational Male" and some other RP works.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 01:46 PM
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Bulked too long. Body fat is too high. Abs are barely visible. Need to cut or my muscle is worthless.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 04:31 PM
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Women don't initiate the way men do. The female version of initiation is making it obvious that she will have sex with you, if you initiate. My wife and I have sex all the time. When she wants to have sex, she tells me she's horny and/or wears less clothing. I'm still the one who has to act on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:53 PM
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Success made me complacent. Complacency lowered my smv. Got my first sexual rejection from my wife in over a year. I was being too nice to her and paying too much attention to her. Gifts, spontaneous dates. Beta behavior is woven into me and becomes a comfortable default if I let it. Going full IGDAF mode and living at the gym, or wherever the fuck else I want as long as it isn't home. It takes forever to build up an alpha aura and it is easy to wreck it. I might fuck some gym sluts to get my mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 10:45 AM
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That post is honestly full retard terrible.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 09:40 AM
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Usually when my wife starts this kind of thing, it's because she wants to fuck. Try initiating on her.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 05:15 PM
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Gaming is beta as fuck. Pick up a productive hobby.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:52 PM
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Like most posts, this is pretty simple. Your wife is getting fat, because she views you as so low value that you'll stick around to play hide the sausage with a whale. Ignore her body. Work on yours. Be social with other people. She'll either realise she's getting left behind and fix herself, or she won't and buff, social you will be able to replace her with someone better.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 02:50 PM
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How to ruin your son's life for progressiveness points, in 10 easy steps.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 12:44 PM
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My guess is betas stuck in sexless marriages. AM didn't publish it's member numbers, so likely most of them were deluded into thinking married women are on par with married beta men and need the internet to find an affair.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 12:43 PM
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Aparently all these men are just fucking each other. They might as well be. I saw an article showing that there were about 1000 active female users on the site, and 20 million active male users. Women don't need the internet to get laid.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/15 10:08 PM
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I agree with this analysis.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 03:42 PM
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This week was pretty good. Only thing I need to do is really dial in my sleeping. 9 hours a night, every night. Have to prioritize it above everything else.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 02:22 PM
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She sounds nutty. Leave.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/15 06:43 PM
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It's not necessarily that I view what you said as an attack. Its more that RP works, and works well.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 01:02 AM
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I read this as her saying "You're not as high value as my ex, so I don't have to do this.".
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 08:07 PM
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BP thinking and methodologies made me depressed and trapped me in a sexless marriage for years, where I was basically just an ATM. BP marriage counselors cheered my wife on while she bitched at me for trivial things and told me to try devoting even more of my time and energy to her, regardless of how I felt. They never told her to fuck me regardless of how she felt. She was a princess placed in a magical castle and not was my job to fight my way through the castle to get her. RP thinking and met…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 07:14 PM
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Ignore MIL. Proceed as normal.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 04:03 PM
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How many people are you feeding on $1200? That's a pretty high number. I feed myself a bodybuilding diet for around $270/month. I could send it lower, but I splurge a little by using macadamia nuts for fat and by buying breast tenderloins instead of breasts with rib meat and trimming them myself. If you're just trying to feed your family healthy food, $1200 buys a hell of a lot of rice, beans, chicken breast and greens.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 03:38 PM
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Making minor decisions was a big surprise to me too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 02:50 AM
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If I'm asked, I assume it's because the person asking doesn't have any ideas and I pick.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 12:54 AM
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I don't need anything else and I don't pretend to need anything else. It might not work for everyone else, but I still think scarcity is a good tactic.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 02:54 AM
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This is a good point to make. MRP isn't about controlling or micromanaging your wife. My wife was really into crocheting things for a few years, then she got into zentangle. As long as it doesn't impose on me, I do not care what she does with her free time. Whatever random little hobby makes her happy at the time is fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 02:26 PM
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Married red pill and nonmonogamy are incompatible.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 12:11 AM
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BPD-Specific Strategies Leave. You can't out strategize batshit crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 11:00 PM
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I used to be unimaginably BP. About a month after I got married, my wife quit fucking me. I suffered in silence over it for years. I went online to ask for help. What was I doing wrong? Why wouldn't my wife have sex with me? That's when I got a taste of the vitriol BP circles are capable of. No practical advice. No sympathy. Just childish, directionless rage and a stream of insults. Something like "Fuck you! You aren't entitled to sex. You aren't entitled to anyone else's body. Fuck off you miso…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 03:29 PM
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I think in your specific case is just projects weakness. Especially negotiated penalties. It just seems childish. I don't really have the experience to say more. My wife is a housewife so house work falls on her by default unless it's something that doesn't make any sense for her to do (e.g. When we got a freezer for the garage, I brought it in and installed it. It wouldn't make sense to ask my 5'5, 120lb wife to move something that's 3-4 times her mass)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 02:15 PM
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I think a lot of the pressure is a societal holdover from marriage 1.0, back when both genders got a good deal out of being married.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 03:36 PM
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I never thought I'd say this to anyone, but I hope you get splattered in divorce court.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 11:07 PM
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Criticism and negative reinforcement in general is bad. A better play is to ignore bad behavior and reward good behavior. Women love emotional experiences. It doesn't matter if they're positive or negative emotional experiences. They're better than nothing and will encourage the bad behavior. Deadlifts (and the other 3 big compounds in general) are absolute shit for aesthetics. If your goal is to be a powerlifter, then worry about pumping them up. If your goal is aesthetics, go hire an IFBB coac…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 04:27 PM
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It's a hypothetical.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 05:53 PM
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Unless your ideal aesthetic is huge legs, huge traps, huge triceps and small everything else, don't do 5x5. 5X5 and SS are good for people who want to be powerlifters and shitty for everyone else. Go do an aesthetics program or hire an IFBB coach.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 02:57 PM
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Don't men also exhibit hypergamy? I know it's not as prevalent, as for the most part, dick is abundant and cheap. But if an 11/10, emotionally stable, early 20's woman fell in your lap, could you really stick with your older, 6/10 wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 02:26 PM
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Her dropping her job while you work isn't your only escape from being a SAHD. You can always drop your kids off at daycare. Honestly, you've got to pick between being a SAHD and having a fulfilling sex life. A SAHD is a man who is dependent on his wife. A dependent man can't lead. A man who can't lead is weak. Women are disgusted by weak man. A dependent man doesn't have any options. In short, his beta support is locked in. When you become locked in, when you become the default, your needs are v…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 03:50 PM
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Teach him to completely disregard words. If someone escalates to physical violence, teach him to fight back. Learning to kick a bully in the beans is a pretty important lesson.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 02:22 PM
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Read the sidebar bro. It'll save your life. Also, give up on being a SAHD. That's the most beta thing in the universe and though it might make economic sense to you, it's going to turn your wife's panties into a bone dry nuclear wasteland.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 10:37 PM
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Just make jokes and be playful. I make a ton of sex jokes with my wife. Every once in a while she'll ask why everything comes back to sex. I always tell her it's because I always want to fuck. Follow that with some comment about how hot she is and in 10 seconds we're fucking. It never fails.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 10:34 PM
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I'd add that it should probably be a hobby that gets you out of the house so that she mentally associates denying sex with a lack of attention.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 11:33 PM
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Just keep hitting the gym. You'll work through the frustration and make gains. Win-win.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 11:29 PM
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I second this. The chore isn't the issue. It's engaging in covert contracts and choreplay with an expectation of sex which is the problem. Outside of maybe some rare fetishists, nobody gets turned on by watching or doing chores. They still need to be done though. Don't engage in that stuff with the idea that it's what gets you sex. Engage in washing the dishes, because the dishes need to be washed.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 09:43 PM
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I'm going to break slightly with everyone else. I don't think dirty talk is a bad tactic. My wife is like 30% more into whatever we do if I spend some time before describing it in emotional detail.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 09:40 PM
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I need to improve on my time management skills. Meal prep, workouts and other assorted fitness duties come first, but I need to make sure I have time to take my wife somewhere interesting on the weekends.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 02:26 PM
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Most BP thinkers have a half view of the obligations of monogamy. Monogamy is not, as BP thinkers assume, an agreement to have sex with one person and only one person, regardless of how they behave or how often they put out. That is an incredibly unbalanced, unhealthy relationship, which affords one partner (usually the woman) massive power over the other by becoming the gatekeeper to their partner's entire sex life. Monogamy is an agreement to sexual exclusivity, in exchange for reasonable acce…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 05:49 PM
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Good progress!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 05:33 PM
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Those specific ones stop. Once your wife is 110% sure something doesn't bother you, it's not useful in a test anymore. She'll keep testing you, but it'll be in other ways.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 01:03 AM
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Fat people regardless of gender are disgusting lardballs!
/r/MensRights12/07/15 08:12 PM
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Disregard words. Watch behavior. When I went from BP to RP, my wife called me a "jerk" an "asshole" said I was "treating her like an expensive sex toy". She broke down and cried once or twice. Those words were meaningless. I was changing in large, visible ways, and it scared her. What you're going through, is like the last stand of fitness tests designed at messing with nice guys. If you were ever stuck in the nice guy archetype, like I was, being called an asshole or a narcissist or whatever el…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 03:45 PM
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I agree with that, and I think that's part of what makes it project weakness. I don't get the stripper angle at all. It's like bragging because you went to a car dealership, and a car salesman tried to sell you a car.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 01:36 AM
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Not nearly as well as getting IOIs from someone you're not paying to pretend to be interested in you would.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 01:20 AM
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I can't think of a delivery that wouldn't just sound butthurt. It projects weakness. You're highlighting to her that you were so upset by her fantasizing about a guy she'll never meet, that you needed to put on an elaborate, expensive display to try to upset her the same way. All that's going to do it etch in stone that if she wants to upset you, all she has to do is openly fantasize about some hot celebrity. You're not getting rid of behavior you don't like, you're weaponizing it against yourse…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 01:09 AM
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You are literally a beta cuck. The absolute lowest form of life in the universe. Respect yourself. Improve yourself. Maybe get your kid paternity tested too.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 11:35 PM
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This is a good response. The right movie can basically be like getting her to watch her favorite porn. No need to get butthurt or jealous of porn. It's a tool to make her more fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 11:11 PM
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My wife came to me, giggled and asked if we could see Magic Mike XXL. I told her she was going to see it in 3D. She looked excited. I took my shirt off and did a short stripper dance. Then I threw her over my shoulder, carried her to our bedroom and fucked her like a disposable party girl. Later we saw a different movie.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 11:08 PM
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The whole stripper thing just strikes me as apocalyptically butthurt. Especially this bit: And when the the almost-inevitable issue of feeling like you were treating her poorly and disrespectfully come up, quietly lean into her and say "Now you know how I feel every time you bring up that fucking pre-fab-abs movie. Fun, isn't it?"
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 10:59 PM
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I also learned (more through observation than RP reading) that women hate making decisions. Even trivial ones. Especially trivial ones in fact. My wife is much happier when I make decisions and the tell her what is happening, rather than defer to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 10:23 PM
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My biggest revelation was that women despise (in some cases, openly!) nice guys. That was a big deal to me because I was always told growing up that women wanted sensitive, caring providers. They don't. Not even a little. Any woman who claims she does is lying.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 09:39 PM
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I'm going to break with everyone else here and say that her behavior is not malicious. I went through exactly this same thing with my wife when I first got into bodybuilding. Getting serious about bodybuilding involves a full lifestyle change. If you're doing it right, you're eating different stuff. You're eating a ton more food. You weigh everything you eat. You time your meals. You spend serious amounts of time at the gym and you time your sleep. Sometimes you care about salt. Sometimes you do…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 12:42 PM
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