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Not only the best answer but I think it’s exactly what it is. You just speak your mind and that’s all there is. No hidden agenda’s or manipulation. Another thing I learned that in hindsight most of them will see you as the villain, but that’s what manhood in 2020 is in most parts of the western world.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 01:11 PM
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Start with telling us why you want to end it and maybe we can help translate it. You only said that you wanted to end it but didn’t say why. One valuable thing I learned through the rp is that removing the nice guy filter is usually a good thing.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:51 AM
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Exactly my kind of thinking
/r/askTRP09/05/20 12:26 PM
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Just to put the idea in your head I guess? I never gave any signs of wanting to be in a relationship and still girls said this to me. The way you reply can give someone lot’s of info. Giving her the complete shutdown vs an open answer is a two whole different things for her. Let’s put it the other way around. If you just want to fuck and she doesn’t say anything, would you out of the blue start the convo that you don’t want to be in a relationship?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:07 AM
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I got this kind of message a lot. A bit shocked even that other self proclaimed spinners don’t recognize it. It’s the first sign that the plate is breaking. It’s just like a girl is saying out the blue “we ain’t having sex tonight.” The point is she brought up the word relationship and was testing the waters. Before you know it she’ll bring it up again having a somewhat stronger opinion and if you don’t bite she’ll be gone in a week or two. Some bait them with a “maybe” to keep ‘m spinning for a…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 10:19 PM
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Definitely the same feeling. However not so much an extrovert. I love it to go lone wolfing for a half hour now and then in clubs and bars to approach. Friends always tell me: where did you go? Get used to leading the group and make connections to people you like. Invest and build strong connections with males that have similar interests. Normally lone wolves are somewhat introverts though...
/r/askTRP14/10/16 09:19 PM
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I recognize this, because I am (/was) somewhat of the same personality type. I think it's the difference between being Alpha or Sigma. Read up on it, if you like. Sigmas have similar traits as alphas, but are more of the lone wolf type. Once you see it, you can change it bit by bit, if you want. Whenever something is a team or group effort try to make descisions that accomodate the group. On the one hand it's a good thing to rely on yourself. That's what I've done most of my life. Not asking oth…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 08:52 AM
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I'm into the same kind of girls you describe. Not the shy "looking like a deer in the headlights" kind of girl, but the "not that sexual because there are other things in life" girls. My experience is that once you rock there world, they'll blossom in sexuality. Not like the college sluts, but in private with you. The pair bond is also very strong with them. I don't have real LTR experience when it comes to till death do us apart and having children, so I can't really comment on that. I'd say it…
/r/askTRP03/08/16 10:58 AM
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I thought: Hard next: telling someone explicitly that it's over and you don't want to see her anymore. Soft next: Sort of like ghosting. Not texting anymore. No initiative for a meetup. Etc. Imho you can't soft next your wife or live in LTR.
/r/askTRP23/07/16 04:53 PM
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I'd say it's awalt because it's biological. Otherwise it would be AW "from that culture" ALT. The point is that culture tells you NAWALT but because it's evolutionary you can't escape it and therefor AWALT. The facebook generation is told that exploiting your hypergamy is the same as living up to your full potential. It is your right to "discover yourself", "choosing for your own happiness", etc. Aka be the slut you want and don't care about the path of destruction of broken (beta) men you leave…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 09:10 PM
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I'm doing SL 9 months now and still making progress. Before this I never lifted a weight in my life and I'm 32 years old. 1) OH is definately the hardest one for me. I deloaded often and now I'm on 60kg. DL still making progress (150kg); sq too (130kg) and my latest bench was 185kg. 2) 9 months. Will keep it going a few months. Want to sq 150 and dl 180. 3) Only whey shakes after training to help the recovery a bit. 4) Yes, hell yes. I was normal lean and I gained 8-10 kg. I'm pretty muscular no…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 07:24 AM
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The biggest problem I have with these movies post RP is that all the girls are cheering for the AF, because go for your "feeelzzz" and this is the way they see true love. Ofcourse the BB is often a douchebag and an asshole, but nevertheless. Prime example what will happen to your BB LTR when Chad comes along on a girls night out.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 11:05 PM
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Came from the same shit situation as you. Almost a year has past. It gets better. I had some cool experiences and it's better in the long run to be without her. Just replying so you know it is supposed to feel like that. It'll make you the man you need to be. Men aren't born, men are built. Keep up the work, every fucking day of your life... Now go get under 10 women. The first few can feel somewhat strange, but you'll get used to it soon enough. Once you're in the moment you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 07:47 PM
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Squats and deadlift no plateau. Had to deload a few times, but it was due to soccer injuries. Overhead definately my first plateau. Damn, that shit is rough every workout, but still building up (57,5kg). Bench I didn't make 82,5kg last workout, so I'm finding out tomorrow if it was an offday or plateau. 25x the bench is also rough for me on these weigths (set 4 and 5). Dip / Pull up i'm doing since month 2. Within a few weeks I could 3x10 dip. Still strugling between 25-28 pull ups. I really lik…
/r/askTRP29/12/15 12:54 AM
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End of the program? It ends when you quit, right? The first weeks are about how to do the exercises right and learn good form so you won't get injured when it get's heavy, and thrust me, it will. Going with the program 7 months now and bench 80kg. Other guys in the gym press 100-140, but most not 25x. Just keep building up and those plateus will come quicker then you think. How many weeks are you doing sl now?
/r/askTRP25/12/15 03:50 PM
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I mostly wait when I got a few to re-connect and message them all the same. Put out like 4-6 "Hey, how you're doing" or "cleaning up my contacts / messages and saw you there. How you're doing?" This way it's more a numbers game and between 1 and 3 reconnect and it's a rewarding system. Serves your abundance mentality instead of the feeling you're trying to get to that one girl.
/r/seduction03/11/15 04:42 PM
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Wow! Same thing happend to me this week, and like 3-4 months ago. New to TRP (6 months). 2nd wave of plates. I'm curious too. Now it could be the season thing, winter hit this week. First wave no clue. Saved one in both waves. I'm guessing it's me. It feels like if you meet an asshole a week it's them, if you meet three a day it's you. Anyone more input then "they come and go"? I don't care that they go. I'm just the analyzing type of guy.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 10:20 PM
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I'm in the exact same position as you, only couple months later. Same feelings, same thoughts, same shit, different day. Got no real advice, just letting you know it's not odd to go through it. Build and you will overcome.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:08 PM
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I wanted to post sometiming similar to this. It's a good thing. Every sentence that starts or ends with "I don't know what it is..." is the hamster running. They define it as intimidating because they are used the walk over the nice guy and aren't smart enough to see that they are entering your frame. It's the feeling of leaving the comfort zone. If girls start saying it while running away and screaming, change your attitude.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 02:01 PM
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When they are 19-21 I sometimes go with: How old are you? Sorry not interested. Only 18. I like my women young, carefree and no baggage." They respond pretty good to it. Yesterday I got a text in the means of "Yeah, maybe when I'm your age". I responded: Don't worry, i'll be texting your daughter by then. Within an hour I setup a date and met up. Ofcourse not just because of that response, but guess I survived the shit test. Opinions please on the reactions, good or just lucky? Btw, both said in…
/r/askTRP29/09/15 11:13 PM
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Economics 101. She has something that he wants. If all women raise the price, all (read: the majority aka betas) pay the price. Just like gas stations, airports, etc. The same coke bottle costs double, but when your thirsty you buy it anyway. If everyone would stop buying, the price would lower. As more men are becoming RP aware more are checking out of the (LTR) market and it will shift back. It won't happen overnight, so educate yourself, lift, read the sidebar and enjoy the SMP as it is right…
/r/askTRP04/09/15 09:19 AM
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The PDF is still there. The EPUB and MOBI are gone. Can someone reupload those files? Great work by the way!
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 03:31 PM
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Never offer a woman advice without them asking for it or you first asking them if they want it. 90% of the time they just want to vent. Even worse: you give them advice, they agree, they don't act on it, the problem occurs again, you don't understand why they didn't do anything with your advice, rinse and repeat. It'll drive you insane! Second, ask any woman if they want advice from us in situations like that and they'll say: "I don't need a problem solver, I just want someone to listen to my fe…
/r/askTRP18/08/15 09:58 PM
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A comment I made about this in another thread. Maybe it'll help you. In my book there's nothing wrong with saying ILY in a committed LTR. A few groundrules for me: Never be the one who says it the very first time; Don't say it more often than her (most rp's advocate 3:2 or 3:1); Only tell her when she's earned it. Never out of guilt, to make up, out of habit, etc.; Don't make it a casual thing (like texting it a lot or saying it at the end of every phone call. Not a full "golden rule" list or an…
/r/askTRP17/08/15 04:33 PM
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In my book there's nothing wrong with saying ILY in a committed LTR. A few groundrules for me: Never be the one who says it the very first time; Don't say it more often than her (most rp's advocate 3:2 or 3:1); Only tell her when she's earned it. Never out of guilt, to make up, out of habit, etc.; Don't make it a casual thing (like texting it a lot or saying it at the end of every phone call. Not a full "golden rule" list or anything. Just the ones that came to mind.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:40 PM
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Never offer a woman advice without them asking for it or you first asking them if they want it. 90% of the time they just want to vent. Even worse: you give them advice, they agree, they don't act on it, the problem occurs again, you don't understand why they didn't do anything with your advice, rinse and repeat. It'll drive you insane! Second, ask any woman if they want advise from us and they'll say: "I don't need a problem solver, I just want someone to listen to my feeeelzzz and understand m…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:45 PM
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If she provides her part I wouldn't mind, as long as it's balanced. I agree with you that I don't want to be seen as an ATM.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 06:16 AM
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I don't really agree with the "choose one" statement. I even think when you want to go RP hardmode you need to have both. The trick is not to hand all your provider value over on a silver platter. It's a financial dread game. Make sure they know you can provide and do it to reward good behaviour. If you get nothing in return, cut down the expenses. Maybe you'll get to see a woman you never seen before. But hey, at least you know her true nature.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:08 PM
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This! I'm always surprised to see how a conversation can go from struggling to get her talking to her babbling for an hour straight. Whenever you talk you see her waiting to talk instead of really listening to what your saying. The transition is indeed the hook point. When it happens, steer the convo sexual and escalate. Done deal.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 04:55 PM
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M: work, play soccer, read; T: work, gym, watch soccer match with best friend; W: work, diner worth two close friends; T: work, play soccer match, read; F: work, gym, date with plate 1; S: clean, play soccer, clubbing; S: play soccer (training weekend), diner date plate 2; M: work, gym, date plate 3; Practice guitar doesn't fit my schedule this week and I hate it. A bit much soccer, but it's the start of the new season. Will be less after a few weeks.
/r/askTRP05/08/15 09:27 PM
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Just like the rest is telling you. Plating a 5 and knowing that you can get laid gives you more confidence when around 7+'s. It's also good to get used to the dynamic of plating and nexting. For me the nexting is harder then plating. Guess I'm not as red as I want/need to be. Btw obviously you need to keep working at yourself (also when your plating 9's) for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP01/08/15 05:39 PM
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Good one! Gonna steal it from you!
/r/askTRP01/08/15 05:31 PM
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Imho I think that if she really was dtf any strong answer was good. I think you passed with what you said. The big fail would have been to say something that would've made you look too thirsty. 1) Her act was push-pull. And her response was another shit test to see how you'd handle the rejection. Or 2) She just asked you for validation and wasn't dtf anyway. "Ow look, another dude wants to fuck me, I'm so special." Don't worry. You had fun. More than most of us (including me) have when going out…
/r/askTRP01/08/15 01:50 PM
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1- bad move, see other replies. 2- seems some kind of shit test to me. At least a way in for me. "Will he let a women change his look just to be with her?". Possible answers: AA: Sure, if I can shave your head. CF: Trying to lure you into my bedroom, are we? I always go for the last one, putting sex in her mind. I get these sometimes. Comment on piece of clothing or something. When replied "Yeah, you just want to have a peek at what's underneath when I change" they give a smile and they know you…
/r/askTRP19/07/15 01:59 AM
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I'm in the same phase now. Been into TRP for about 5 months now. I think it's still the anger phase (for me). It's still some sort of hate towards AWALT and the views you had pre-TRP. I still feel the resentment but not the flaming anger, like before. Realizing they can't help themselves just makes me chuckle instead. Try to realise they aren't out there to hurt you on purpose, it's just part of the system. Use the system to gain the full benefits. Being that whatever you want it to be. I'm just…
/r/askTRP19/07/15 01:19 AM
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2-3 weeks and feeling better. Sorry to break it to you, but that's not the oneitis OP is talking about. Good to hear your doing great though!
/r/seduction02/07/15 04:20 PM
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