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ADVICERedPillRhonda/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 06:05 PM
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DISCUSSIONRedPillRhonda/r/RedPillWomen25/09/16 05:17 PM
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DISCUSSIONRedPillRhonda/r/RedPillWomen01/10/16 09:03 PM
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Emotional eating plus a sedentary lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 11:54 AM
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He claims he doesn't masturbate and especially doesn't look at porn. I believe the second part, but I've found possible evidence he masturbates a couple mornings a week. I've told him it's probably best if he lets his sex drive build and he's agreed. I'm unsure of whether there's much else I could do without being too imposing.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 11:46 PM
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If that's the problem, then I'll be relieved because it's 100% under my control. He's incredibly committed so if things continue to go as smoothly as they have been, I'll be down 50-60# in no time and the issue will have been resolved. I doubt he'll ever admit it to me, but I'm losing weight anyway so it'll rule it out at the very least.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/16 01:47 AM
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The woman who raped him wasn't the same one he experienced ED with. He had several plates and this random woman offered him a ride home one night, tied him up, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 05:32 PM
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Thanks. I mentioned it to him and he said he's going to look into it. He gets into a pattern of thinking it's going to happen and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Viagra will help break the mental barrier. I imagine he'll have to go to the doctor to get it, so I'll leave it up to him to do it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 05:29 PM
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There were no similarities between myself and the other woman he experienced ED with apart from the fact that both instances happened after the drunken rape. He had had sex with her several times and then the incident happened and bam, he couldn't maintain anymore. I agree that using one or two pills won't harm him and might in fact help him out psychologically. How can I broach the subject?
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 10:40 PM
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I rotate about six different meals throughout the week, though I'd like to start switching it up more often! I use place mats, serve him his portions, and pick up his plate afterward. Candles are nice, but not necessary. That's about it!
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 11:22 PM
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I'm grateful to have such a solid support network, I'm grateful my partner encourages me to relax, and I'm grateful our TV is working again, yay!
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 03:31 PM
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What are your phone privacy rules? Have you let your partner know your passcode? Do you know theirs? Do they openly look through/use your phone in your presence? My boyfriend and I don't know each other's passcodes and I think it's better that way. I have nothing to hide but I'd rather him not see the 50+ selfies I've yet to sift through (oops) or the hidden 'Fitspo' folder on my Pinterest or the strange Google search from yesterday. How open is too open, and how closed is too closed?
/r/RedPillWives09/10/16 12:26 PM
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How old are you?
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/16 04:46 PM
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Glad to hear. Be grateful you're still a couple and have many opportunities to repair! For some, they lose the man of their dreams and only after do they recognize it was mostly their doing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/16 06:00 PM
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I used to think that if a certain behavior stirred a negative emotion in me, it was worth bringing up, no matter how small. I now realize how wrong I was. Not all negative emotions need to be addressed and FED. They'll often grow in size and what was once a menial issue will be an argument that could've easily been avoided.
/r/RedPillWives29/09/16 02:35 AM
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I've tried plucking and oh gosh...
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 03:04 AM
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Considering doing this because I'm a dark haired brunette with upper lip hair. My SO has noticed too! He doesn't say anything, but I've seen his eyes travel downward. Yikes. Would it be OK if I shaved with a regular disposable razor and coconut oil? I don't have the money to spend on a machine or expensive creams. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWives28/09/16 12:31 AM
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I understand the struggle, I live in a cold (often snowy) climate. I feel like it's impossible to look feminine in this weather unless you're going to a heated location where you can remove the coat and boots.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 04:01 PM
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We all want to grow vegetable gardens, how cool. I also want to learn to crochet (in order to DIY gifts and of course baby clothes), become fluent in Spanish, get married, and have children.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 03:59 PM
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Yikes. Girl, have some self-respect. Yes, lose the weight, but don't return to him. Don't be a willing plate.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 03:56 PM
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I would steer clear of them in public, but at home it's fine. It's not emasculating, IMO. I don't use them on my SO but I've heard some men like the affection.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/16 12:44 PM
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Nope, I love my girls.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 05:39 PM
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I like the first two bullet points. Lately I've been unfollowing a lot of people because I realize I wouldn't hang out with them IRL, i.e. high school classmates.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 03:44 AM
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I like the grandmother rule!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 03:43 AM
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When he's in a button pushing mood I'll laugh along and then pout about it. No grudge, but I'll playfully tell him he's "the worst". He'll pull me in for a hug and breast squeeze at that point, lol.
/r/RedPillWives23/09/16 03:42 AM
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Thanks! I enjoyed this post. I consider my SMV to be on the lower scale and my partner's on the higher, but focusing on what I can control is empowering. I'm currently working on skin-care and self-motivation/positive thinking!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/16 03:40 AM
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Do post high quality (original) photos every once in a while. Don't post too many selfies, memes, or photos that showcase political leanings. I like to keep my accounts neutral and not ruffle too many feathers if I can help it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 08:42 PM
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Is joining a club an option?
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/16 04:14 AM
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I get what you're saying and agree 100%. I don't believe in dangling incentives. I more so want to find the balance between prioritizing myself and my relationship. I seem to have a pattern of neglecting myself in LTRs because I view myself and my partner as a unit, but perhaps I need to start asking myself if certain decisions would affect me negatively in the long-term. I hope I'm wording this right.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/16 11:48 PM
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I'm not sure if this has already been introduced to the sub', but I've thought a lot about husband privileges vs boyfriend privileges. I have a hard time drawing the line between the two. It would be nice to read a post about what should be reserved for after marriage and what is going overboard for simply a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. Boyfriends are great, but we still want to give them an incentive to get married/commit further.
/r/RedPillWives21/09/16 08:53 PM
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I love this! While I had a very low n-count prior to entering my current relationship, we split up for a few months and I upped my n-count by one. Additionally, I majorly screwed up twice. The first time costing us the relationship. Needless to say, we eventually got back together, but with a strike against me. Since then I've been doing my best to compensate for having put us in jeopardy not once, but twice. Seriously, I wouldn't have been forgiven by many people; it was bad. Understanding thes…
/r/RedPillWives21/09/16 08:48 PM
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You need new friends! Try joining a book club.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/16 06:11 PM
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You might be overestimating how high your partner's SMV is, which is understandable given love skews our perceptions! It's also possible your RMV is so high it outweighs your low SMV. Then again, you might actually be an 8. Or your partner is more of a Sigma than an Alpha. There are many possibilities! What's most important is that your relationship feels good to both parties. If it's working, I wouldn't fret too much. Though I would encourage you to continue increasing your SMV for both yours a…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 09:39 PM
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What a compliment! I'm glad my mother taught me the importance of modesty from a young age. I've never been one to show excess skin, even when others were. It's served me well! My partner has called me classy on several occasions and it's incredibly flattering.
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 07:20 PM
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Unfortunately we can't alter a person's opinion of us. I'm sure people who knew me at 16 would describe me differently than those who met me at 25. People change, and it's OK that some remain with opinions that don't match who we are now. You can only do your best now. That's what counts! This man's opinion matters very little in the grand scheme of things. There are plenty of others you can begin a clean slate with.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 05:55 PM
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The most interesting exchanges I've had have been with those who prize experience and learning over gossip and impressing others. Travel outside the box! Be open to meeting people from all walks of life, observing their ways of being, learning about other cultures, current events, philosophies, etc. Cultivate an air of curiosity and the "interesting" label will naturally flow to you. Hope that helps.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/16 09:38 AM
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