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Blue Pill ExampleRedPill_Philosopher/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:00 AM
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your trying to get others to look at you the way you look at your idealization of an RP man. This is exactly what I'm doing, what is the functional difference between that and being 'a RP man' as you put it? As for conceding frame to the commentors... Yes! Of course I should! I clearly don't know shit about shit when it comes to applying TRP principles, why should I be naively sticking to my guns when allowing myself to be open and learn from my TRP brethren is going to benefit me much more in t…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 06:26 AM
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I have a number of guesses as to why, first and foremost: She and I have good sex. The first dozen times I slept with her she faked her orgasms, but since then I've been genuinely getting her off fairly consistently (she's a screamer when it's real). She says that only one other guy has ever been able to get her to orgasm... rolls eyes suuuure. Point being she does seem to enjoy the sex. Other factors at play? I would say I'm objectively an 8/10 straight looks wise. I think male models are more …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:39 AM
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I needed to read that, thanks for taking the time to write. Yes, within this thread while working through what happened I got upset, but I'm past that. Anger isn't going to help me in the least. My frame is weak and I'm working on it. It will get stronger after every interaction. My guess as to her motivations are one of two things: She genuinely wants casual sex from me. She's playing the long game because my family has money. I'm leaning towards the first.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:30 AM
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That's not very constructive.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 01:18 AM
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Sounds like a fucking plan right there.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:07 PM
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I didn't come to TRP so I could be fed a line of feel-good bullshit. I want to learn from my mistakes and have done exactly that with the help of the community. Did I want to edit the texts between us to make myself come off as less of a bitch? Sure. But that wouldn't have done me a lick of good. I need to feel like a bitch. I need to have the abuse piled on so high that the next time I'm considering taking shit from a chick my desire to not feel like a bitch later is going to far outweigh my de…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:53 PM
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Yeah, next time if I respond at all it will be with a single letter, followed by radio silence.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:40 PM
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You know, knowing this chick I would be really surprised if the story about her friend's mom was true. I would say there's a 99% chance she was making that up to try to get me to apologize to her. I know this girl. But sure, I should have just played along and let her have her friend over for the night, and made my own plans. Simple. Done. No drama.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:39 PM
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I suppose I am still in the anger phase, as my actions have shown (despite not wanting that to be true). I didn't make a conscious effort to enter her frame, but I see now that reacting to anything she says was my mistake. BEFORE I even opened my mouth I should have taken a breath and realized I was letting her get under my skin. I should have withdrawn my offer to see her after she mentioned her friend, but before even that I should have withdrawn my offer as soon as she flaked.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:33 PM
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That was a great explanation of how I can use my actions to speak to women much clearer than my words have ever been. Thanks for the lesson. I think you make a good point, this plate will need to start working for any future attention of mine. She should have been cancelling any plans that other guy tried to make with her because she was soooooooo excited to see me. Clearly that wasn't the case. I don't need unenthusiastic women in my life.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:29 PM
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Yes, you and other commentors have helped me realize that it wasn't how I reacted to her that fucked me, it was reacting to her at all. When she rainchecked it shouldn't have mattered at all to me. I should have had so many other things going on that when she rainchecked it was a relief because now I can do thing x or y that I really wanted to do more anyway.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:18 PM
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You know, considering past flakeyness I think a next is probably in order. Lesson learned, will do better next time.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:12 PM
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I completely agree. To even tell her 'no' after the raincheck showed that I cared far too much about her canceling on me. Radio silence should have been my response, I realize that now. Still learning.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:05 PM
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Yup. It's a sad day when you realize how pathetic you are. Were. This will not be happening again.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:53 PM
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Yes. Silence would be much better. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:29 AM
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Ahem and well said. There was a niggling in the back of my head that night. A niggling that I ignored. A niggling that said I should turn this bitch down after all she put me through. That thought burning a hole in the back of my head was my masculinity, and I pushed it down. I compromised it, and for what? Some conditional pussy? What kind of bitch compromises his own masculinity for ANYthing?!? I make myself sick. I don't want to feel this ashamed of my actions again. I will NOT ignore that gu…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:27 AM
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My words have lost credibility, correct. I know what I want to be doing (especially more now), I just need to stop talking about it and start doing it. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:08 AM
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Not bad. Get's the entire message across much more efficiently.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 10:04 AM
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Ha, very radical. This actually sounds like the best course of action, I don't bring up her past behavior, instead I just treat her like the plate she's been acting like. She doesn't act decent, she just gets the fuck stick, no more BFE. I'll demonstrate that I'm not going to put up with any bs by not giving her an opportunity to GIVE me any bs.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:27 AM
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Wow. You, sir, are a prophet. As it happens the first couple times I fucked this girl I thought I got her to orgasm every time. Then one time I was just getting in there good and was having trouble climaxing myself and she just started acting WAY differently than normal. I'm talking she was straight up screaming at the top of her lungs underneath me... turns out that's what happens when she has a REAL orgasm, meaning all the other times she'd just been faking. Point is, yes. She appears to enjoy…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 08:19 AM
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Ok, let's see if I'm understanding this correctly.. Indirectly hinting that I won't take crap: Me: Just hanging out. Plate: Come hang out with meeee!! :) Me: I don't have time to waste tonight. Are you going to be a good girl? Indirect enough? I'm not telling her that I'm butthurt or even calling her on any bullshit, just telling her about my lack of time, if she's smart she should realize that all the bs that happened last time would be stuff I would place into this 'waste of time' category. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:50 AM
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I like that line as well as your justification behind it. Sounds like even more of an improvement on what was already an improvement.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:31 AM
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Yup. I should have just told her after she told me to come over: Me: 10:23pm - I left @ 10. Maybe another night, hun. Then I wouldn't have had to leave my buddy's house 20 minutes after getting there, making him annoyed (I think, though he seemed like he was fine with the "Sorry, booty call." explanation).
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 07:01 AM
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I like your response example. Will do. You know, I didn't realize I was getting any self-worth from my ability to interact with women better than I used to. You're completely right. My inner game needs work.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:57 AM
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Yeah, the closer I look at it the less I see myself. I clearly haven't come nearly as far I thought I had. Glad I came here for advice or I would have gone on thinking I was doing such a great job...
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:54 AM
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Understood. The way my relationship with her seems to go is she asks me what I'm up to and if I'm busy I tell her so and if I'm not we fuck, so the next interaction with her if I maintain radio silence (which I plan to do) will be her texting me: Plate: What are you up to tonight? So I'm thinking based on your advice that I should respond with something along the lines of: Me: Not hanging out with you if you're going to pull the same bullshit as last time. She might be confused by this because t…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:33 AM
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Solid advice. Thought I was adding humor. Surely I was not. In the future I will use brevity if I respond at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:14 AM
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You're so goddamn right. I'm glad I decided to post this Field Report, rather than go on my merry way thinking I'm a badass that's improved oh so very much in my interactions with women. That is clearly not the case. Yes, I have improved. Yes, I still have miles and miles to go.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:12 AM
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I think the only reason I didn't do that is because I thought she actually wouldn't let me in or something. But now that I think about it that's fucking retarded. This is exactly what I should have done. Thanks for the advice, still learning!
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:10 AM
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Shit man, thanks for the break-down!! I clearly have a lot more to learn than I thought.. Wow, I feel like a fucking little bitch-boy now. Fuck that hoe.. did I dig myself into too deep a hole? Do I just next her? Is there more to learn by trying to turn this dynamic around? If I'm going to next her do I just not tell her and delete her number and ignore her future attempts to contact me, or do I tell her off? If so is there a way to do that and actually come out ahead? I'm very fucking angry ab…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 06:07 AM
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