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I had my first boyfriend when I was 17. We had been good friends before dating but we broke up amicably before college. He made it very clear he wanted to still be my friend and I was doubtful. It was my first break up, and even though I knew it wouldn’t last, I was still sad. I went off to college and didn’t see him or even speak to him again until New Year’s Eve in my hometown. We always had a tight knit friend group and one of our mutual friends was hosting a bonfire and said we could all spe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 02:43 PM
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Oddly enough I love femininity. But I also like feminine features on men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:46 AM
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I don’t wish this guy to die alone and unhappy. What I wish is that he gets help for his addiction and learns how to treat women with respect and dignity. I hope he will look back on how he treated my friend with remorse and apologize to her. I hope he grows as a person and can learn from his mistakes. He just needs to do it on his own and no woman deserves to sit around playing therapist for him all day. The man my friend is marrying is an incredible guy. He has become one of my closest friends…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 12:37 PM
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"Ok, here's my bill for being your personal chef. Warning, I don't come cheap."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:49 PM
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A friend of mine dated this guy during our freshman year of college who did something similar. They dated for one year. He was a functioning alcoholic frat boy who was constantly drunk, but still managed to do well in school. In addition to his constant drinking, he kept trying to pressure her into BDSM and sex acts she wasn't interested in. He lied to her about getting into cocaine (he used it a lot), and then covered up for his best friend when he was caught cheating on his girlfriend of 4 yea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:14 PM
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This is terrifying! I can think of a few horror stories from my high school days where this would be awful. During my junior year of high school, I had a friend named "Cece". This kid we will call "Adam" had asked her out multiple times and she told him each time that she was not interested in going out with him. Prom was rounding the corner and he kept telling random guys not to ask Cece because he wanted to. She avoided him like the plague and started eating lunch in the library or the parking…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:10 PM
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Octopi/Octopuses are one of my favorite animals so I definitely recommend still trying to learn more about them. Maybe you can try watching "Planet Earth: Blue Planet II" ? I think it has a section on octopuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:37 PM
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I've never been to an all women's gym but if they had one in my city I would love it. I also would love an all women's hour or something. I've found that most fitness classes tend to be mostly women, especially yoga or pilates. So those are good safe havens for me. I have noticed that the few men I know who do participate in those hobbies are usually very kind and not creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:27 PM
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I get intimidated to go to the free weights section as I feel it is constantly dominated by men grunting in the mirror and they always seem to stare at any girl who dares to enter the area. The few times I did make it to that section, I was confronted by random guys offering to spot me or teach me better form or something when I just wanted to do my workout in peace without interruption. It makes me feel so uncomfortable and unwelcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:21 PM
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THIS! I went to PF yesterday and was using the hip adductor machine. I began to notice that any time I looked to the side during my rest sets, a middle aged man was watching me intently. Any time I happened to glance in that direction we would lock eyes. I moved machines, and he conveniently moved machines as well to one that was across from me and just kept staring at me! I moved machines again, and he repeated the same process and maintained the creepy eye contact and staring. I was so freaked…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:18 PM
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Hell girl do you need a new roommate? I’ve got an opening and I love cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:02 PM
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Yeah I also had several men follow my account after posting this. I blocked them all. This one guy sent me paragraph upon paragraph about how I should help my ex learn and get in therapy as of that’s my fucking job? I learned how to cook and clean on my own. I got into counseling on my own. I did this on my own for myself because nobody owes it to me and I certainly don’t owe it to him. He’s a grown ass man. The guy retorted that since I “asked for advice” he felt he needed to share his two cent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:29 PM
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Why do men not have good friendships?? And then they make it out to be our problem because 1) they're jealous when we go out with our friends 2) they have nobody to talk to 3) somehow it's our fault that they have no one to hang out with on a Friday night and we're busy. It's ridiculous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 09:14 PM
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I'm a huge Shakespeare fan. He was a beautiful writer. What I love most about him is that he wrote smart women. He loved women and often portrayed them as being more brave, intelligent, funny, and witty than men. If you read his work you will see this time and time again how the men in his story are often oafs while the women are routinely seen as the more clever of the two. He also hated that he couldn't have women act in his plays (as per the requirement of the time) so he would constantly mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:31 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I'm an art fiend and I love Van Gogh's work. It's stunning in person and resonates with me on a whole new level. He really helped propel the post-impressionist movement forward. To call him dumb and talentless is ridiculous. He was incredibly creative and suffered immensely from mental illness. I think a better choice to critique would be Frida Kahlo's gross ass husband, Diego Rivera, who literally confessed to engaging in cannibalism, preyed on her when she was his art st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 08:26 PM
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Shit like this is how I almost died. I went to the ER THREE times in three days trying to get help because I was in such immense pain. The first time I was written off by a male doctor, being told it was a simple UTI and prescribed some standard antibiotics. I insisted this didn’t feel like a normal UTI and they told me “women get them all the time”. The second time, a different male doctor told me it was period cramps and sent me home. The third time I had a fever of 104, was projectile vomitin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:20 PM
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Fuccckkkkk you hit the nail on the head with this one. My ex wasn't unemployed but everything else is applicable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 12:29 AM
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If you like this song, I also recommend her songs "Shifted" and "Sadder, Badder, Cooler" for similar themes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:21 AM
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Ugh that line always hits me every time!! Also fond of: "He likes complaining, she's compromising Coming to me for real advice when he just playing I can tell she loves him way too deep He loves being fucking hard to please Cover the basics, it's pretty easy He's a bitch with some expectations"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 02:17 AM
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"You don't need all that make up, you'd look pretty without it. I prefer natural beauty." You think I'm wearing this for you ? I don't care what you think about my makeup. I like wearing it and do it for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:57 PM
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It was honestly the saddest thing. She dumped him way too lair and ended up dating his best friend lol. They moved across the country together, got some cats, and started new lives lol. But yes he could could very well. He was my boyfriend’s roommate for a while and often made very elaborate dishes to share on like a Tuesday afternoon just because he could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:55 AM
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Lmao when I was a sophomore in college, my friend was dating this guy who did shit like this. He had plenty of money, could actually cook very well, but was freaking lazy. Their anniversary was Valentine's day and she was a total romantic type who had been daydreaming for the past several months about what he had planned. When the day came, he didn't get her anything, not even a card, thought she was being dramatic about wanting to go out on a date, etc. To make it up for her, he said he would c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:28 PM
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OMG STOP!!! This is fucking hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 03:16 PM
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Love this post and you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:36 PM
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In the words of Amy March: "If I cannot be loved, then I'll be respected."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:40 PM
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Yup. He now proudly wears the confederate flag and put a bumper sticker of it on his car. I'm like "You realize the confederates would've hated you right? You're mixed race and have dark brown skin. They also enslaved Native Americans, stole their land, and raped the women but ok."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:12 PM
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Me too. As an adult I would never put myself in that situation. I can't believe how stupid and naive I was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:48 PM
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Haha thank you! Of course I remembered that hellish date, but there is no way I was going to let him think it made any impact on me. After our disaster date I went on to date one of his closest friends for 6 months who treated me like a gentleman, had an amicable breakup when I went to college, and is still my friend to this day. I actually talked to my hell date over social media a few days ago because he posted some anti-blm racist shit on his insta story and some anti-mask "covid-19 isn't rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:47 PM
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So gross. I used to wear a lot of crop tops and short shorts/daisy dukes when I was 15 or 16 because I felt cute. I hadn't even had my first kiss yet or held hands with a boy. I certainly wasn't dressing for male attention, yet I still got it all the time. I got hit on by so many creepy old men when I was younger. I'm in my early 20's now and it still happens but not as bad as when I was a minor. I feel so bad for that girl being made to feel shamed and unsafe. Her friend defending her is awesom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:31 PM
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A friend of mine had been seeing some low effort guy for a while. He would also ditch her in his house to sit with his roommate while he did other things. One day he invited her over for drinks, got way too drunk and passed out, leaving her stuck there. She began talking to his roommate, played cards with him all night, and then he drove her home. She stopped seeing that guy and started dating the roommate instead. They are now engaged lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:12 PM
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I didn't even add in this bonus part of the story. Some terrible old song came on the radio that I hadn't heard. He was really enjoying it and singing along to it. I told him I didn't know the song and he was shocked. He proceeded to plug in his phone and play the song over and over, probably about 15 times until I had it semi-memorized and sang it with him all the way through and he felt content. I literally thought I was trapped in a car with a psycho and couldn't believe this would be the las…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:04 PM
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My sisters and I always berated my dad for treating my mom poorly. She does all the cooking and cleaning while he sits on his ass. He never changed a single diaper when we were kids and never bought my mom gifts on Mother’s Day, Valentine’s Day, or their anniversary. For her birthday he would buy her things like a vacuum cleaner. My mom would buy him multiple thoughtful and useful gifts that she put a lot of effort into and he would open them, inspect them, not even crack a smile, and put them d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:45 PM
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This is a long story so get ready. A guy asked me out for coffee when I was like 17. I wasn’t very experienced in dating but I liked him so I said yes and drove my own car to meet him in case I needed to leave immediately. I felt safe with him though because I had known him for a few months as we had a lot of mutual friends. So he was around a lot. I had a crush on him for a while. He was very tall, 6’6 and very attractive so I was pretty excited he asked me out. The area we were going to was a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:00 PM
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I don't know if she is necessarily a pickmeisha. She wants casual sex with the majority of the men in the show and doesn't really want to date them beyond sticking it to her stepmother. If anything, her boyfriend is the pickme lol. I think she is traumatized and severely depressed. The only relationship she has left and truly cares about is the one she has with her sister. She seems too scared of letting anyone in or actually wanting a relationship until the end of the second season. And even th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:18 PM
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Get the bigger bed but not because of a man. Don’t make your choice based on men. A bigger bed is something you won’t regret. It feels great to stretch out. You spend roughly 8 hours of your day every single day in your bed. You deserve something nice that will last you a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:12 PM
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Very true! I had a high school English teacher who met her husband in college. She had the opportunity to study abroad but was worried about it affecting her new relationship. She had only been dating him a few months and he told her under no circumstances was she to stay because of him and that it was an amazing opportunity she needed to take advantage of. He said he would be waiting for her when she came back. She decided to go but her trip got cancelled. She loved that he pushed her enough to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:13 PM
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I feel like Bill Gates might be an exception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 02:54 PM
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This is it. I had a guy who was always giving me shit at work. One day I confronted him and said something like “look, I don’t know which hot mean girl from high school I remind you of, but being an asshole to me isn’t going to fix the reasons why she rejected you.” He tried to say something back but I just walked away. He left me alone after that so maybe I struck a nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:49 PM
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