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| 8 | How do you deal with the cute barber? | RedRockViper | /r/seduction | 24/10/14 06:09 PM | |
| 6 | How do you deal with a cockblock in a Direct Approach? | RedRockViper | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 04:22 AM | |
| 2 | Moving to Vegas! | RedRockViper | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 01:22 AM |
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| 1 | Can someone help me? I feel like the most useless guy.Just wanted to leave this here: "The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old, but on building the new." - Socrates Check out /r/qotesporn. Seriously some really good stuff in that subreddit. Also, look into some books on NLP (Neuro-linguistic programming) and body language. Some starter recommendations: 'Richard Bandler's Guide to Trance-formation' and 'What Every BODY is Saying.' Most of us on this subreddit are very similar. We are not naturals. We grew up soci… | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 09:25 PM |
| 2 | How do I turn a friend into a girlfriend?I'm not going to tell you to move on because I understand where you are coming from... but you should get away from her for now because one-itis is a curse. If you have to keep hanging out with her (seriously, asking for trouble) you MUST put her in your own friend zone, treat her like a dude. You have to improve your life and increase your value before you approach her again or you will fail...field tested. Your number one rule right now is this: Women want men that other women want. Simple. If… | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the cute barber?This is a late response. I had a few drinks before I wrote this post and it was pretty moronic; but your response was very profound to me. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a cockblock in a Direct Approach?It worked pretty well. It was the opener I used on a waitress. I was there early so the bar was pretty dead and I was waiting on some friends. This was like a day or two after I read 'The Game' so I obviously ran the ESP test on her and performed a magic trick :P. I did almost fuck it up by giving her the "come here" signal with my finger and then, in front of my friends, saying, "Somehow I knew you'd come when I did that..." But when we decided to change venues and I confirmed that she would be… | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a cockblock in a Direct Approach?I really like your take on this; it conforms a lot better to the style I've been trying to develop. I came across your fashion section on your website and ended up downloading and going through the first chapter of the Kinowear Bible. How important would you say style is in pickup? | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a cockblock in a Direct Approach?I tend to agree with you, I've definitely had some limited success through almost pure, nonverbal communication. However, if you want DaygameCoach's creds, he gave his website and PUA name in the first comment. I don't know how much PUA material you've read but I've read just enough to know that he knows his stuff. | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 01:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a cockblock in a Direct Approach?I actually haven't. I've tried direct approaches, "You look absolutely beautiful, I just had to tell you that;" making statements: eg, I'm at a bar that's setting up for a band so I say, "God, I hope this isn't the same band that played at the last bar I was at. They spent the whole night begging all of the girls to go on stage and dance for them...it was super awkward;" and I've used a few indirect openers that are nonthreatening and relevant to the situation. What would you suggest as a good i… | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 01:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a cockblock in a Direct Approach?Thanks! Sounds like you're more of the line of thought that as long as the target is intrigued the rest of the group will either back off or lose influence over the interaction. Do you have any examples of a direct open that might work in a group setting? | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a cockblock in a Direct Approach?This was more my line of thought. I considered my opener a direct approach because the words make clear my interest in her and I make sure that my body language leaves no doubt as to my intentions. I do see where DaygameCoach and 8sweettooth8 are coming from though. I've tried more direct openers but like Daygame said, these work better when you are already getting IOIs... The wording of my example is a little less threatening so it seemed to work better in cold approaches. | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a cockblock in a Direct Approach?Thanks for the feedback and material on Day Gamer! My problem is almost always one of her 'hater gal pals' who cuts me off immediately. Would you recommend something more similar to the Mystery Method for groups? My strength is body language but words are not my friend, yet. :) | /r/seduction | 06/11/14 05:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I get passed the small talk?What he said. Your body language should do this talking for you. The way you get lost in her eyes, the way her presence makes you smile, the way you can't seem to keep your hands off her. You could be talking about ANYTHING and this is going to escalate the sexual tension. The natural next step is the kiss, then: isolate, kiss again, explore clothed bodies, remove clothing, and enjoy each other intimately. | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 06:56 PM |
| 2 | looking for advice regarding older women/age gapShe's given you the green light so don't think you need to worry, friend. Cougars are a lot of fun. If she brings up the age difference, just tease her. Ex: If she says, "Oh, I'm so much older than you." Just reply, with a smirk, "Yeah. You're really robbing the cradle!" Then go in for the kiss. Tips: As always, be confident. Be more aggressive with your physical game. Lots of foreplay! She'll do the rest. Get ready for some fun :) | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Moving to Vegas!Awesome advice. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Moving to Vegas!For now, tourists. | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 07:28 AM |
| 1 | I don't want it badly enoughDo you remember in the movie, Troy, when Brad Pitt has the hot priestess captive in his tent and all the women in the audience are on the edge of their seats hoping for another ass shot; and Brad looks at her all alpha and says, "I'll tell you a secret. Something they don't teach you in your temple. The Gods envy us. They envy us because we're mortal, because any moment might be our last. Everything is more beautiful because we're doomed. You will never be lovelier than you are now. We will neve… | /r/seduction | 19/10/14 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Does this stuff work internationally?This is all really good. Unless you're living in Bavaria, politics are extremely liberal in Germany. That said, if you genuinely believe in something, and know why, don't ever apologize. Don't be obnoxious; but don't back down. I dated a vegetarian from Hamburg for 7 months. I'm a gun-toting, libertarian from Texas. After I decided I wanted to get to know her, I made clear my reasons and also my respect for her own commitment; by the third date, she was willing to eat meat on one condition. That… | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Made eye contact with a girl, got bitched.Then be a creep and don't give a fuck. Practice in front of a mirror. If it bothers you, the more you do it the less anxiety you'll have. Confront that fear and think of it as a free adrenaline rush. | /r/seduction | 18/10/14 02:09 PM |
| 23 | Made eye contact with a girl, got bitched.Ha, fucking hindsight...he's always been the casanova of my friends too; I hate that guy. Nice insight. I've also been working on eye contact. Smiling is definitely key, it's what separates you from the creep. One thing I've been seeing great results with in my experimenting is the subconscious smile. I don't just stand there scanning the room with a big stupid grin on my face. Instead, as soon as we lock eyes I let a big smile slowly work its way up on my face - as if her beauty is so fucking i… | /r/seduction | 17/10/14 06:57 PM |
| 10 | Does this stuff work internationally?I'm new to the community but living in Germany is what got me started. I lived in Frankfurt for the last 18 months and this is where I finally began building a new identity for myself. One that included girls, anyway. I (M/25) only had sex with one girl before the move. I have never been a good communicator, so the language barrier in Germany inspired me. I worked on my body language obsessively while I was there: smile, posture, taking up space, eye contact... I found that most people in German… | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 04:46 AM |
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