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progressRedSandman/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 09:37 PM
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And use actual nazi propaganda! M&M’s, anyone?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/24 04:53 PM
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Yeah, I often work with teams of people who are all women, except for myself. I get on with them well and I’m happy to see them, but I would never describe myself as ecstatic!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 03:13 PM
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Thought it was him. What a tool!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/24 10:32 AM
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Didn’t Macintosh write for Anita Sarkeesian’s feminist frequency videos, too. (Apologies for bringing her up). You know, the ones where she pretended like she’d ever played a video game, but was then proven to be using other people’s footage without crediting them. Yeah, can’t stand him.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/24 02:58 PM
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I’ve recently heard about a gentleman called Richard Reeves who has actually been studying the issues surrounding men and boys, and he seems to come at it from a fairly neutral and empathetic standpoint. His book is called, “Of boys and men,” and I saw him just yesterday on the Diary of a CEO podcast. It was a good discussion. https://youtu.be/_J1lFZEBq2Y?si=6Tt_2bx29_N0TF7M
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/24 09:40 AM
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And the actual nazi propaganda used by feminists in the whole poisoned M&M’s thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 09:03 PM
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Funnily enough, I’ve heard it said that we’re roughly five years behind the U.S. in terms of politics. We’re about to have an election actually, but thankfully it looks like we’re going to oust the tories for Labour. My only issue with that is that Labour are styling themselves more and more as the centrists, and moving away from the left. Thankfully we haven’t had a far right resurgence, just yet. But you hear the way people like Suella Braverman talk and it sounds like they’re actively trying …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 12:47 PM
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I think you’re spot on with this. I’ve thought it for a while. I’m in the U.K. so it’s not as pronounced as the U.S. (don’t know if that’s where you are) but, as with a lot of things, we tend to get some of that culture creeping in, and it definitely has.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/24 11:48 AM
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I’ve discovered her videos quite recently. She’s great. Very fair and brings researched, reasonable arguments to the table.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 09:40 AM
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Dr. Warren Farrell put it like this; “A is only as far from B as B is from A’” and it’s so very true.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/23 08:07 PM
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Power is it in my opinion, too. That and money. Or perhaps they’re one and the same. Erin Pizzey points it out that the women’s shelter movement is worth millions now, and people won’t want to give that up. (I’m sorry, I wanted to find a source for this, but I need to go back to work. I think she mentions it in her interview with Cassie Jaye in the red pill documentary.)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/23 03:02 PM
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Mansplaining vs 75% of suicide. This is what’s always bugged me about this, too. When one sides issue is that extremely high paid female CEOs aren’t paid quite as much as extremely high paid male CEOs, but they get angry at people talking about how the laws around rape make it so that only men can be convicted of the crime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/23 02:48 PM
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It’s heartbreaking, isn’t it. When you have friends who you know are decent, loving human beings who, despite being all about equality, don’t seem to extend that to half of the world’s population. The mental gymnastics needed to think that a man approaching a woman to ask her out these days is sexual assault, and only wasn’t before because we didn’t have the internet, is astonishing. I wonder if they’d consider the same true for a woman approaching a man, or an LGBTQ individual approaching anoth…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/23 01:00 AM
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Thank you so much, I was thinking exactly this! The amount of times I’ve heard people call someone out for using the term friendzone with, “How awful for them to find out that you were only interested in being their friend so you could become romantically involved with them! They don’t owe you anything, and they deserve better than someone who would do that!” Then to start hearing this whole, “Just start out as friends and if it happens, it’ll happen,” crap, is bewildering. The hypocrisy is asto…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 01:39 PM
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No problem. Honestly, it’s a very interesting place to lurk for a few minutes, but it just gets depressing after too long. They’re the female equivalent of the dreaded “incel.” Just a bunch of sad people who blame the opposite gender for all of their problems. Not that that describes everyone who identifies as an incel, just the usual stereotype that people like to complain about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/23 05:14 PM
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It’s a subreddit called female dating strategy. And it’s one of the most toxic, misandrist places you’ll ever find.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/23 03:39 PM
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I was thinking something similar, myself. It’s why this sun is probably the best one for gender discussions. You know, other than FDS, obviously!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/23 09:36 AM
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As someone who works in secure services, I can’t believe that happened to you, I’m sorry that it did and, I promise you, not every place is like that. Although I work in brain injury and acute, so maybe it’s different.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/23 09:21 AM
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Ooh, I never knew this sub existed. Thank you, kind stranger!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/23 06:41 PM
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Don’t forget the white feather campaign.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 12:19 PM
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Thank you for posting this, it was a very informative and enjoyable read. (Enjoyable because of the talent of the writer, not the subject matter. I really felt for her.) It’s very interesting to read this person’s perspective. It’s all too easy to see websites like buzzfeed and the like trot out people who are trans to regurgitate opinions about men and masculinity and think that that must be how most trans people think. Which is, of course, what they want. Might even be what they think. But see…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 10:45 AM
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If only the same were true about misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 09:42 AM
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“issues surrounding the definition of rape were considered and consulted on prior to the introduction of the Sexual Offences Act 2003 and, during the passage of that legislation through Parliament. In the consultation there was a considerable amount of agreement that rape should remain an offence of penile penetration.” So the reason why they won’t consider it is; We discussed it once already, so that’s that, no need to discuss anything twice. You know, because no law has ever been reassessed or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 07:44 AM
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Very true. A lot of feminists have more or less the exact same talking points as tradcons. The only difference is that they only apply them to men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 11:41 AM
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”Don’t you know feminism by definition stands for gender equality, you incel” while the definition of feminism has literally no bearing on the movement itself. This used to really annoy me when you’d hear people making this argument in say a YouTube video, only to talk about racism or sexism the next video and say that you can’t just go off of the dictionary definition, because reasons. Hypocrisy at its finest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/23 01:50 PM
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I’m sorry someone said that to you, mate. It never fails to amaze me how cruel some people can be, especially on a sub like that, even when they’ve suffered similar things. I’m glad you’ve come to a place in your life where you can deal with things in a healthy way. You should be very proud of yourself for that. I work in mental health, and it’s so easy to just rely on old crutches. Well done, mate. I hope this sub, or any other you find treats you well, like you deserve. This sub obviously does…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/23 10:45 AM
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And there are more than a few people who do seem to think talking about men’s issues means you hate women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/23 10:36 AM
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Happy international women’s day. I’m so very grateful for my wonderful mum, who raised me with my Pops to strive to be a decent person and to care about others and to do the right thing. I’m grateful for my amazing sister, who has always been there to support, love and lift me up. I’m grateful for my brilliant niece, who is funny, intelligent and generous, and who I’m so proud of. She’s just got a scholarship to a prestigious boarding college and has her heart set on becoming a forensic coroner,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/23 12:56 PM
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Right, I wondered if it was, but wasn’t sure. Poe’s law, and all that jazz. Yes, totally. We only need parity in the nice, well paying, warm and cozy jobs. Not in the jobs were you might die or in something silly like custody of children or mental health outcomes or anything like that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/02/23 10:44 AM
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I’m not saying that, exactly. It is what it is. And I do kind of understand that women with children are going to get housing more often than men. My issue was that the “problem” was that the fraction of homeless people that women made up was too high, when surely the problem is homelessness in and of itself. That, and, singling out 1/4th of an at risk group to receive help that the other 75% isn’t based on nothing but their gender is highly discriminatory in a way that would be decried if it we…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 02:27 PM
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I think all heart diseases are cardiovascular diseases, but not all cardiovascular diseases are heart diseases.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/23 04:30 PM
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Even things like random men risking their lives to save a woman who is being attacked is just seen as the “bare minimum” by a lot of feminists women. I’ve just seen a tweet with footage of a guy arguing with a woman on a train. He approaches her quite aggressively, puts hands on her, and a whole bunch of guys stop him before anything really happens. A lot of the comments from women (not all) are asking why they didn’t do something before it got to that point. Like that wouldn’t have just escalat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/23 04:19 PM
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I once saw a news article that said, “1 in 4 homeless people are women, and that needs to change!” I just remember thinking more or less what you’ve said. I guess when women are 25% of those affected, that’s the time to start doing something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/23 03:47 PM
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Hey fella, You’re doing great. A big part of being a man, in my opinion, is about being who you are, regardless of what anyone else says. And that’s exactly what you’re doing! Don’t worry if you have to hide yourself from some people, because your safety is paramount, but as long as you’re honest with yourself, then you’re doing it. You shouldn’t have to hide who you are, but please be safe, and know that you are accepted and respected here. You’re amazing!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/22 10:06 AM
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And wouldn’t that just put the lie to everything that they claim to stand for. You know if the roles were reversed they’d be saying, “Well, she probably did a lot of the work you don’t see, like cooking, cleaning, emotional labour. She deserves that money for all the support she gave him.” But no, he didn’t do anything. He just sat there, motionless, expecting her to articulate his limbs, I’m sure.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/22 11:32 AM
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Dude! Don’t tell them about the secret patriarchy get-togethers!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/22 12:57 AM
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I mean, I’m most places, women can’t even be charged with rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/22 09:31 PM
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I know. I’ve always looked at things like that and thought, “Do you want people to think you don’t have any actual issues left!?”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/22 03:53 PM
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“Mens rights will be handled when women’s rights have been won!” “What rights do you not already have?” “Men still… checks notes … sit with their legs too far apart on public transport!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/22 04:06 PM
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Yeah, that word “sheltered” is doing a lot of heavy lifting there, isn’t it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/22 11:25 PM
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You’re right, of course. But I know my mum. She’s not one of those people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 09:41 PM
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I can unequivocally tell you that not all women who wear the slogan are fantasising about genocide, as I’ve seen my mum wear it. And although it makes me roll my eyes, she’s not aware of any of this bullshit and she would never advocate for it. She just thinks it’s a quirky, pro women t-shirt, because she’s a wonderful little woman who loves her boys and would probably turn into the hulk if anyone tried anything. Honestly, they’d instantly regret it!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 03:49 PM
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In the U.K. for example, rape is defined as: ​ "When someone intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person with their penis, without the person's consent." ​ So then when someone uses rape statistics in the U.K. to show that most rapes are committed by men, the legal definition makes it impossible to get any other result.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/22 05:18 AM
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But because it’s not always called rape, they can use statistics and bullshit to pull the wool over most people’s eyes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/22 04:12 PM
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That’s a good take. After all, to let a guilty person walk free is a terrible shame, but to imprison an innocent person is a human rights violation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 11:00 AM
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Oh right. I hope you get them to pay for your training! Especially if it’s something that will benefit them!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/21 04:20 PM
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The email was supposed to be about International men’s day?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/21 04:00 PM
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Which one? The one about women, the one about children, or the one about toilets? They do it on purpose. Remember last year, when it basically said celebrate IMD by supporting women? Don’t let it drag you down, my friend. Edit: oh shit. They did it again, this year! Used the exact same message and even got the day wrong. Wow!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/21 03:57 PM
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Yeah, it certainly took me by surprise.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/21 03:43 PM
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Yeah, that’s what I expected, at first. That’d have been nice on top of the charity, but if it was one or the other, I’d go for the charity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/21 03:43 PM
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No problem. It does give you hope.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 11:59 PM
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Yeah, it was good to hear. Hopefully a sign of positive change.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 11:58 PM
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Yeah, it certainly will. Honestly, I don’t think any one thing would help, it’d be a combination of things. But better funding would help immensely. One thing that we definitely need to work on is how we view mental health. Get rid of stigma and just treat it the same way we do physical health issues!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/21 11:44 PM
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As someone who works in mental health, I couldn’t agree more with this statement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/21 11:28 PM
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There’s a British soap opera called Emmerdale which had a female teacher who was in a sexual relationship with a student. She was also in a relationship with his dad, and they lived together, so he was constantly in her presence. They were talking about running away together and the lad was very much in love with her. Whilst it doesn’t show the more violent side of abuse, it may actually depict something more insidious. She really had the poor lad’s head upside down. It was in late 2018, if I re…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 09:27 AM
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”When men are sexually assaulted and raped as much as women are, come back to me.” The sad fact is, most places don’t count women forcing a man to have sex as rape, legally speaking. So we may never actually know the true numbers of that. And a lot of men who have been through that don’t even recognise it as something wrong, because we’re not taught that it can happen to us in the same way that women are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 10:48 AM
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The way to end violence against women is to concentrate on violence against men. “When we give people what they need, instead of what they deserve, that’s when we bring out the best in people.” - Johnathan Decker.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 10:44 AM
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A fair point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 04:30 PM
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I get why that’s true, but I have read the experiences of other FtM trans people and they have often said that they have found life more difficult since transitioning. Even within their own circle of friends and advocacy groups, they’ve found people go from encouraging their speech to telling them to shut up and listen. Also how they’re treated by the police and by society at large.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/21 12:52 PM
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Well, I’ll say it. I have a wonderful dad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/21 10:19 PM
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Yeah. In fact, in the instance that I was thinking about were someone said that, the someone was a man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/21 10:31 PM
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I’ve heard this argument before. Or something similar. “Feminism has accomplished so much, but men’s rights hasn’t accomplished anything.” Complaining that a movement hasn’t accomplished anything and using that as evidence for why it’s in the wrong is so myopic! Imagine if people had said that about feminism in its infancy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/21 10:20 AM
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As someone who works with people with brain injuries, I can confirm that ABIs and homelessness are closely linked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/07/21 02:45 PM
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I’m glad you can take some comfort in the fact that we do accept you. And we do, my brother. Do what you need to do to stay safe and never feel bad about it! You’re awesome.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/21 03:19 PM
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Do you have a link for the BBC story? Or a bit more information about it? I’d be interested to know what you mean exactly about a team of people trying to gaslight the guy. Who were the people? The police?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/21 01:58 PM
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Yeah, this pretty much sums up the way I see it, too. Nicely put.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/21 10:22 AM
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Ah, I only saw the human rights ambassador title on her UN profile. Thanks for this. Yeah, I’d heard about her horrible treatment of Tasya. And yeah, she was still somehow made an ambassador for domestic violence!? I thought ambassadors for domestic abuse were supposed to be against it!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 11:40 PM
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Look at the response Corey Feldman gets whenever he tries to tell the me too people, “It’s worse than you think. It’s happening to kids!” He legit got told, “Shut up. This is about women.” I thought it was about abuse, but I guess not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 07:12 PM
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Yep. Not to mention how things like domestic abuse and assault are framed as women’s issues. But, you know, it’s patriarchy that denies male victimhood.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 12:17 PM
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The fact that there’s been a resounding defence of JD from both men and women does give me hope. But then the absolute lack of any penalties for her in Hollywood coupled with the fact that he’s still being punished for what seem more and more like her lies against him, kinda squash that hope. These people don’t care about abuse. They care about image. That’s why she’s still UN ambassador for civil rights, CCRI ambassador and ACLU ambassador for women’s rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 11:31 AM
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I’ve noticed that and it always grinds my gears!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/21 11:14 AM
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Was the show “The Rookie” with Nathan Fillion? In any case, they did the same on the show. It was handled really well. And I will watch just about anything with that man in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/21 11:09 AM
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No problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/21 10:36 PM
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Have you heard of Deborah Powney?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/21 03:50 PM
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Yeah, I hear you. It was rather late when I posted and I was having internet issues, so I was probably already not in the best mood. But I didn’t mean to be combative, either. You’re right. And, when it suits the narrative, those same people will criticise you for being protective of women. Can’t win.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/21 10:19 AM
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I’ve always hated this mentality. (Her’s, not yours). Imagine trying to coax a cowering dog out of a bush, only to smack it when it finally trusts you enough to come, then demanding it be put down when it growls at you. That’s how I see this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/21 10:14 AM
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I’m aware of that. Just sharing my experience with something that you brought up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/21 12:17 AM
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I’ve seen articles go as far as saying that men need to walk their female friends home. I used to do that when I was a teenager. Walked her most of the way home. One time some guys did start harassing us. Guess which one of us they followed after we went our separate ways? Guess which one of us was assaulted?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/21 10:55 PM
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Why’s that? Because the public won’t care about them, so they use the woman angle to garner sympathy?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/21 03:31 PM
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Yeah, they care about themselves and they care about the women and children. They just don’t care about the majority of the people who die in suicide, live rough, die in workplace accidents, die in combat...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/21 03:43 PM
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I saw a news article that said, 1 in 4 homeless people are women, and this needs to change.” It’s like they don’t realise the implications of what they’re saying. Or they don’t care! In fact, it’s that one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/21 11:24 AM
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I presume she said this to provoke anger and get angry tweets sent to her so she could turn around and go “look, men are dangerous.” She’s already started.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/21 03:29 PM
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Yeah, this woman is truly brave. Her interview with Cassie Jaye is a really good watch.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/21 03:10 PM
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Deborah Powney is the best!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/21 09:32 PM
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I honestly don’t understand how, “It’s bad to chop bits of a baby’s body,” is!?! But the fact that they’re censoring people who hold that opinion is just lunacy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/21 11:22 AM
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I work in a hospital with mostly women, and can confirm that women definitely do this. It’s hard, because we wear them for 12 hours a day (minus breaks), but acting like it’s an exclusively male behaviour is disingenuous at best, and an outright lie, at worst. Or, possibly, he needs psychiatric help, as all he can see is men not wearing their masks properly while they spread their legs to show their male dominance! I don’t know.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/21 07:40 PM
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This hits close to home. I’m more working class than middle, but yeah.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/21 12:52 AM
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That’s exactly how I think of it. Someone who’s just looking to score social points by appearing to be trying to support a marginalised group. Usually to hide what an awful human being they actually are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/21 11:15 PM
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...there are numerous people who would say that feminism isn’t just the biggest obstacle to progressing men’s issues, it’s also the cause of many of these issues. Isn’t it, though. At least in some arenas. Domestic abuse and rape for example, where feminists have not only fought to have incredibly gendered language sewn into the laws that deal with such crimes, but also heavily bias their research by doing it in DV shelters, almost all of which exclusively cater to women, and to quote Deborah Po…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/01/21 04:36 PM
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Yeah, he is. Great guitarist, too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/21 11:27 AM
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For anyone interested, the guy interviewing Jordan Peterson is called some black guy on YouTube and he’s really entertaining.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/21 03:25 PM
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This sounds pretty close to the mark. I’ve always thought that the whole believe woman thing was completely contrary to any real feminist argument, because it kinda suggests that they believe women aren’t capable of lying, which would kind of define them out of being human. Not very feminist!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/21 03:48 PM
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When someone projects their own behaviour, feelings, etc onto someone else. In this instance, they’re trying to say that men are hypocrites for getting angry when people make fun of them but laugh at everyone else, but in reality it’s the type of person who made this meme that will get angry when you make fun of others because “insert identity here” but don’t get angry, and make jokes themselves, about men. For example, getting annoyed about jokes about women, but then saying that the hashtag ki…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/21 04:35 PM
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Yeah, this is just projection at its finest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/21 06:39 AM
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