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You always assume attraction. Unless she is giving obvious signs that she's not into, you should be believing that she is.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:08 AM
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I don't understand why people don't like him. Is it because he throws out a lot of posts?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 06:35 AM
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I want to see the video that she makes. She looks deadpan as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:08 AM
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You write like a teenager and this severely reduces the effectiveness of your message. Write like an adult.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 04:03 AM
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You're right. There is a difference between the alpha lone wolf and the outcast that wants to fit in. But the outcast can grow into the alpha. That's what we are here for.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 08:31 PM
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Alpha != social acceptance. You're a lone wolf. Most of us are. When you are improving, no one wants you to succeed. Knuckle down, grid your teeth, get through it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:40 AM
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However, it's always nice when she's telling you what a nice guy you are in between sucking your dick and making dinner.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:33 AM
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Have any artist/song recommendations? I can only think of a hand full of songs that are the former.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 06:03 AM
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Your journey sounds like what I'm starting and I'm excited for it however, do you have want kids? I'm not sure how I'm going to go about that in 5-8 years when I actually want something of a family, even if I don't ever actually get married.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 02:59 AM
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Yeah great advice. I thought I would want to go out and start partying again immediately but I just feel kind of hollow, which I really didn't expect. But that's fine because I do have hobbies and things I enjoy and the whole reason I did this was to focus on myself and my career.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 06:04 PM
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Yeah that's it exactly. It's just something I need to work through. Thanks though.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 06:28 AM
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Like /u/theredme said, these are shit tests. Don't get worked up over them, and joke along with your friends. Don't get violent either, you'll only be proving their point. I think we all go through this shit with our long time friends when we change. The things they are saying are a reflection of themselves, not you. Keep things light, joke around, don't take it personally.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 03:02 PM
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Not sure what she did but whatever it is, fuck that shit. I'm going through some self inflicted shit with my girlfriend but my passions and hobbies keep me plenty business. When you are improving yourself and focused on your life, you don't have a lot of energy to give a shit about drama. Pretty generic advice, but I'm happy to help with specifics if you'd like.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 07:57 AM
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Okay gotcha. They cheat first then you say fuck it. Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 06:53 PM
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Pure curiosity here. Your attitude is "fuck her if she cheats but I'm going to secretly cheat because I can"?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 05:38 AM
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This is a beta as fuck question, but what if you care about her? She doesn't bring much but she has taken care of me and has been supportive over the past year.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 07:50 PM
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You should write a post on titled "The five most important things I've done" to give us youngin's another example of what we should do. If you don't mind, what kind of business?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:49 AM
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It's been an issue with money. This place is expensive and I dont make much hah. But I'm doing better. Meet up groups for some things I'm interested in.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:30 AM
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Australia and office work. I spend a lot of time trying to learn coding and web dev so that takes a massive chuck of time, then about an hour at the gym 4-5 times a week and time with the girlfriend. Days go by quickly.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:06 AM
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I can see how borrowing something could work. Good Advice. If they act like women, then treat them like women That's gold. Great insight and I feel dumb for not thinking of that. Thank you.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 10:07 PM
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There are various laws of power encouraging a person to play nice at work: 6 - court attention at all costs 14 - pose as a friend, work as a spy 24 - play the sucker to catch the sucker 33 - discover each employees thumbscrew Ect. Playing work politics is important and that's what I'm asking for advice on without spelling it out. As for getting new flat mates - as posted, that's not something I can currently do. Edit: formatting
/r/askTRP20/09/15 01:01 PM
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Didn't you miss the Avatar of Bordin? It is self explanatory but nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 08:46 AM
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The northern Aussies actually sound like that and I can see the bogans actually asking that. But the majority of the countries population is in the feminized cities of Sydney and Melbourne.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:02 AM
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So you cuddle your friends and make sure not to offend anyone? Fuck off man. I make jokes at others expense and my friends do the same to me. It's fun. And I will make fun of girls like they are children and everyone laughs at it and moves on. People who can't take a joke don't get on well with me and I'm fine with that.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 12:27 PM
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"Calm your tits girl. Cant take a joke huh? Might want to work on getting that stick out of your ass." Then drop it and move on. I have trouble trying to find the balance and I think you are too. I have a sarcastic sense of humor and not everyone likes it. Gotta find the balance if I don't want to go around pisssing everyone off. Flirting is a different story though.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:43 AM
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Isn't Gronking a crude way of describing sexual strategy toward women? Using amused mastery and that special sense of sarcasm that builds me up and takes indirect and sometimes direct slights against a woman similar to this? I see it like that and it's important to tell tell the difference and be able to be genuine and straight while also being able to employ sexual strategy. Or does that not make sense?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 05:57 AM
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In regards to long distance relationships - real men fuck real women. Leave the staring into a screen for hours at a time to the losers. As for your situation and being "selfish" fuck them. You have to do what works for you. If traveling an hour is worth seeing a girl (it isn't unless she's coming to you and you aren't committed) then that's your choice. You should be focusing on improving yourself and living life, not a college romance.
/r/askTRP30/08/15 12:17 PM
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I'm in. Good tracking guys. EDIT: I'm going to shot for around 2300 a day. My stats are 6'4", 215 and 23. I lift consistently but still have fat to lose.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 07:48 AM
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I wish I were there to have my female friends pay for me. Betas pay more, alphas have more leverage to pay nothing.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:42 AM
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Fucking this. Every single girl I have rejected has become a bitch to me. She wants your D
/r/askTRP13/06/15 10:44 AM
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Unfortunately, unicorns are made, not born. Find someone who has most of what you want and make her into the rest.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 02:59 AM
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This post right here. This is what we needed. Personally, I thought that DT guy was going over the top but that's his issue. The post was a good FR from a DT personality. Not condoning it but we are here to learn about strategy. Newbies need to know about all the tools that men and women use.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 10:25 AM
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This is a great post minus the already talked about flaws and the ripping on living to get laid. If a man wants to live and breathe the chase of pussy, that can be just as admirable as the man making sushi. You can have just as much passion and dedication to that art as anything else. Look at RSD, Julian and Owen are deep red without even mentioning it much. They live and breathe their craft and they are making a good living off doing it. They will be remember for it and it has contributed to ga…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 07:12 AM
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Dude that is an intense. Sorry to hear it but sounds like you dodged a bullet and are doing much better now.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 02:34 AM
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dude what happened to with your ex? I'm an expat in Sydney and all the expat girls I know are complete sluts. It was a lot fun at first.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 01:37 AM
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On the flip side, once you learn game, taking advantage of women is pretty fucking easy. And yes we take advantage of women, especially those of us in the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 11:30 PM
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Yup the white knight might report your activity to your boss. Just food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 06:33 AM
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Either way, the constitution doesn't protect against a ruined reputation.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 06:33 AM
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Why do you browse at work? Seems like TRP could get you fired? I browse at work on my phone and disconnected from wifi.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 11:55 PM
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Wow that's intense. Not quite what I meant when I said I couldn't fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 08:47 PM
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Yeah fuck that. We've already talked about how a threesome, even if it's with another girl, is not an option while we are committed to each other.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 08:46 PM
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Yes. It wouldn't be as fun and I probably would want to leave immediately after, but I could.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 08:45 PM
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Wtf are you talking about. Of course I can't fuck other girls, I've made a commitment to this person.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:05 PM
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Solid answer man. Thank you for the advice, I'll try it out.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 12:01 PM
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I guess I'm having a difficult time distinguishing between an oneitis and this. And the fact that what she does can affect my mood. I got so used to not giving a shit that caring makes me uneasy.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 11:14 AM
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Red flags. Next her. Plate her. Whatever you do, don't commit.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 12:58 PM
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Your post is long and I kinda skipped to the end. YES YOU NEED TO LOVE YOURSELF. Fuck everyone else. When I found TRP, something changed in me. I honestly believe I am the shit. And it shows. It rubs some people the wrong way, but fuck them. I workout, eat healthy mostly and am advancing things at work in ways they've never seen. Girls should be wanting to suck my dick. Guess what? They do want to . Point is, believe in yourself. Love yourself. Err on the side of egoism until you can find a bala…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 12:44 PM
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The biggest problem with that sub is it exists solely to mock TRP. I used to think like you but they don't provide any actual opinion or analysis on anything. Check out a post I made in purplepill debate about it. I stopped visiting after that. It has no value.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 02:44 AM
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Go to asktrp. You should also read the side bar. Immediately.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:36 AM
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Holy fuck man. That is intense. If there are any developments beyond this, please update.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:34 AM
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Man, despite how long you say you've been with the philosophy, you still seem to be unplugging. You're dependent on this girl for your happiness already. Where's your purpose man?? Where areyour goals?? How is this relationship starting to define you after six years of being unplugged?? You can be nice, you can show affection, you should be fun and mix some suspense for her. You CANNOT let this relationship, or anything relationship, define you. I think you still have some soul searching to do m…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:12 AM
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Everyone here is saying the same thing. Don't make plans with her, go without her, play some dread. Make plans to go to movie with her and whatever friends you have, mix in some females and leave without her if she's playing. Mention said female friends later, and if she gives you shit for leaving without her, tell her she needs to become a responsible adult and keep plans.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:31 AM
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Dude I can tell you right now, it's not what you're saying, it's how you are saying it. You probably come off insecure and subtly and subconsciously display that her saying yes is something you value. You're probably taking it too seriously. Whether you asked them for coffee, drinks or just to grab lunch, it's 100% about how you say things.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:25 AM
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He is right man. You are obsessing. The easiest way to not over think things is to flirt/pursue multiple girls at a time. Not sure how big your school is but you'll probably have to be subtle if you're doing it exclusive in school. Just have fun and don't base your worth on her.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:22 AM
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Dude, if you are accurately describing your situation, time to tell her things aren't working out and both of you should move on with your lives. She doesn't respect you and you have ample opportunity. Get out.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 12:13 PM
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What do you mean by number seven? You feel like you need friends?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 08:41 AM
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Soft next man. If you actually took her virginity, she will latch on you like no other and she will come back around. If she's lying, you're not wasting time. Let her simmer in the background either way, pursue improving your life and other women in general.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:49 PM
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Hey man, I heard about this same thing happening to another guy. He decided to go to the point of nearly having sex with her, then telling her that you want things to move a little slower and you want to wait until next time. Kiss her goodbye and leave. It's a major mind fuck when done properly and you then become the gate keeper of sex. You have all the power.
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:42 PM
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I once heard the analogy that game is like playing an instrument. You can read all the theory you want but that doesn't mean you'll be able to play properly. Watch some of the link for good examples of pick up. The opener of putting your hand out and spinning her works like fucking magic. Instant kino and it doesn't matter what you say because you have brought her into your space, your world, your frame. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=x27wabHGCac
/r/askTRP09/04/15 01:39 PM
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Develop your game. I gained a lot of game by watching the RSD in field examples and mimicking that. It works as a starting templet and will give you confidence to start doing your own thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 06:28 AM
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I'm pretty sure this guy is saying that watching porn is cheating. What kind of drugs is he on? Even the plugged in would think that's nuts. And the way he writes the article about why women cheat makes my skin crawl. The very clear pedestal he puts this "sensual snd sexual creatures" on is sickening. EDIT: added more to my post.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:42 AM
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If you are new, you shouldn't be posting. Read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 05:07 AM
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Atlas shrugging is a major theme in the book. Not sure why the general public hates on it though, it's pretty damn good.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 06:07 AM
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Thanks for your input. Makes sense to me. I really liked his book but it reeked of blue pill fantasy. Vulnerability only when it's something that you're not vulnerable to anymore, and even then, used sparely. I felt like it also had to do with not giving a fuck. "This is me, I'm sexual, I'm aggressive, and I know what I want. If you don't like it, leave" but maybe I'm putting a TRP spin on what he was trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 12:21 PM
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Great post as always. I read Models this weekend and Mark is under the impression that vulnerability is a good thing. Not showing weakness but showing everything about yourself regardless of anyone will think. Could you share your thoughts about vulnerability?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:21 AM
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This has to be a troll, it has so many holes. You're rooming with a family? That's not typical. You bring plates around kids and no one has an issue? You knew the police came around but weren't home? But a plate was? Have a down vote. Edit: spelling. Posting from a phone.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 12:35 PM
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"men convinced them that both sexes have the same interests" Lol I'm sorry, what? We convinced ourselves that? This entire article completely ignores all of the guys not having sex. There's a lot of them out there, I was one of them. My friends are still part of that group. Even my TRP turned friend isn't hooking up very well. Society and studies only care about alphas.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:57 AM
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This movie is gonna be hilarious. It's a perfect portrayal of modern society. Average girl gets used up, BB tries to go for her, she rejects him. The end will be unrealistic but until then, it'll be spot on. I'd watch it, then I'd go fuck a plate who is the real manifestation of the main character. Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:33 AM
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They get mad regardless haha. I had a few angry plates when I told them we couldn't continue going what we were doing. Thanks for the response though.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:32 AM
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Good advise man. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:30 AM
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Thanks for those. They are a good way to gauge how I feel about this girl. Appreciate it man.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:29 AM
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This is true but there is a lot of anger toward women, which is completely acceptable, but we don't talk about the flip side. Just wanted some opinions.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 11:28 AM
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Why?
/r/askTRP14/02/15 10:43 AM
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You never make your plates bring up the idea of a relationship? You crush that immediately?
/r/askTRP14/02/15 12:13 AM
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Dude maybe but this woman's shit tests are pretty fucking high level and I was the beta of betas with her. Long distance and everything. I feel like that would blow up in my face with her.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 11:36 PM
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I like the idea of that but doesn't clear communication go against TRP sexual strategy? Rational Male talks about how men communicate overtly while women are covert. Why would clear communication help in this situation?
/r/askTRP13/02/15 11:34 PM
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I like your thought but don't we do the same exact thing with plates? I have a girl or two to fuck, girls to have fun with, a girl to have an emotional release. What's the difference?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 05:46 AM
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Yup, same.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 05:44 AM
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I've never thought of it like that. Interesting perspective, thanks for sharing. And by that line of thought explains exactly why LDRs don't work. And it explains the alpha dominance followed by the beta (if you choose) during sex.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 08:46 PM
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Hah right, gotcha. Not exactly related to the original question but what do you think sex is about? Obviously I've noticed that women respond ridiculously well to a guy who is being dominate in the bedroom opposed to sensual but can't you be sensual with a woman at some point?
/r/askTRP21/01/15 07:57 PM
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Thanks for the thought out reply, gives me something to think about. What do you mean "lovemaking for pussy"? Like fucking purely to get a larger number?
/r/askTRP21/01/15 05:36 PM
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I like your 1-2/year since losing her virginity. Seems more liberal than other posts here but I'm not as hard on women as I probably should be about things. Young and naive or something.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 05:34 PM
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Right, that makes sense.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 05:33 PM
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Yeah, total shit for brains. No, this is ask TRP where I want constructive contributions. So I really appreciate yours.
/r/askTRP21/01/15 05:31 PM
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Damn. Straight forward. What's a good number for a man?
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:43 AM
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haha that's discouraging as there is one girl I like and I was her 11th. What is a decent number for a guy?
/r/askTRP21/01/15 10:43 AM
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Thanks guys. These observations make me feel better my characteristics that I perceived to be beta as it seems to go against a lot of the literature.
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:28 PM
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Yeah, it's not cheap here. I got lucky and am doing okay but a lot of foreigners come here and live day to day. It's an experience.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:45 PM
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Really man? I'm American but I thought it was pretty agreed upon that nothing happens in Brisbane? I must've got lucky but I really enjoy living here. And haven't really ran into the issues you listed other than rent.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:48 AM
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Dude, you can get working holiday visas in Australia and New Zealand. Sydney is an incredibly international city. Highly recommend.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 05:49 AM
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Rationalizing. This is exactly what I'm doing. Thanks man. And wanting to stay in contact is more for me than her. We are the more romantic sex. I just wanted to know how to continue to stand apart and above the other guys in her life. Doesn't matter if she fucks other people. I am. And definitely. No forcing it and just appreciate what I had. Good advice. And sounds like a good night with your friend hah.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 01:32 PM
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Sound advice and I do appreciate what I had.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 01:27 PM
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i should be lifting, working on myself and spinning plates. I'm doing that, I hit the ground running once I got back. I just have this girl on my mind like a little bitch.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 01:26 PM
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