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RedUnderSurface/r/askTRP04/04/19 03:56 PM
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RedUnderSurface/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:12 AM
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RedUnderSurface/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:13 AM
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RedUnderSurface/r/askTRP24/02/20 03:19 PM
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RedUnderSurface/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:28 PM
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RedUnderSurface/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:33 PM
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RedUnderSurface/r/askTRP11/11/18 09:30 AM
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RedUnderSurface/r/askTRP27/12/18 04:24 AM
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I get what you’re coming from but even thought it’s a possibility I don’t think it’s the case here. She comes from a good traditional family, mom and dad married early and stayed together since, the relationship still seems strong between them. And she had options, she’s hot, she still has options, guys are always trying to pick her up, by her words “she wanted to wait and not have sex just to have sex...”
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:07 PM
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Gonna marry her if we’re good after 1 year living together. I want my own family, I want to be a father, living together is a part of that road. It seems like I found the right person to do this with, just looking for tip how how to keep the dynamic about the same.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 09:04 PM
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Manufacturing my own brand of lingerie and underwear in China, importing and selling. Btw, fuck corona, factories just closed without notice...
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:14 PM
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I’m not reproducing for the future of humanity, I want to be a father, just like I wanted money 5 years ago or wanted to fuck a shit ton ten years ago... After getting the money, working on myself, a family is what I want. Don’t see anything bad about it...
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:11 PM
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A year and a half. If we move in together it’s gonna be in 6 months, so two years in total before moving in.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 06:08 PM
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It can happen whether I move in with her or not, I know I want to start a family and I know I want to be a father, moving in together is a part of that...
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:22 PM
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Yeah, it was funny to me how people kept making comments about this subject without any valid knowledge. I actually started 3 days ago and it’s going well so far. I read Jason book which made things a bit clearer, as long as I’m feeling well and strong enough I’m gonna keep going. Thank you for the advice.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 05:40 PM
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People done it before me, I’ve tried it once with a goal of five days and it was fine.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:09 PM
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I am starting to lift, I’m gonna take it easy while fasting and than go harder once I’m done.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:02 PM
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Ughh, how about you google it for one sec before giving an opinion without any knowledge? How many things sounded extremely stupid before finding out about the red pill? You already know all there is to know? Fasting is far superior to low deficit, every scientific research that been done on the subject shows the same result: Fast sustainable weight lost with absolutely no health side affects.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:46 PM
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There’s many benefits for fasting over deficit, sounds bizarre but yeah, you can read my comment to the other guy. And it doesn’t really matter, I want to lose it fast and move on.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:40 PM
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It’s exactly what I thought when I first heared about it, but there’s many proven scientific research that shows fastong is better than deficit: metabolism goes up while fasting, goes down on deficit. muscle mass almost none while fasting, more common on deficit. growth hormone is released while fasting, nothing on deficit. weight lost from fasting last longer. you’re less hungry while fasting than when on a deficit. etc... Sounds stupid but after actually making the research is the fastest way …
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:39 PM
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If you’re seeing the girls constantly, teach them to fuck better, teach them to suck better. Just tell em what to do.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 03:34 PM
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Thank you. I’m definitely not letting my guard down, or get complacent myself, she does stuff sometimes/says things that blows my mind but I’m not showing it to her, similar to when you go to see an apartment and try to not show your excitement to get a lower price. I always try to keep her working for my love instead of the other way around.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:38 AM
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Maybe that’s what I’m missing, the clueless days of puppy love. I am looking for a girl I could eventually start a family with, spinning plates was never that much fun. I’m just not sure that what I feel for her is enough for me to get more committed to the relationship. Forgetting genders for a bit, she’s generally a very good person, she’s very caring to the people around her, very thoughtful, she may want to experience other dicks but she may also not, if she does it’s my fault, the way I see…
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:31 AM
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That’s similar to what I thought when she told me. I know how female love works but I have no idea how mine does, do I need to feel love towards my LTR? especially when I do want to find a person I can start a family with. She’s probably a unicorn, but is that enough?
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:06 AM
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I am young but I always wanted a “traditional” family, I wanted the same life when I was blue pilled, TRP thought me how to get it. I believe I experienced enough and financially I’m set, plating was never that much fun, I want to be a young dad with a younger wife and have kids.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:02 AM
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I had oneitis once, will not happen again, with what I learnt in the past few years I honestly don’t think it’s even possible for me. Were exclusive, she asked for it two months in, after waiting a week I agreed, since she was a virgin and from the way she acted I could tell she wouldn’t let things go further physically and emotionally without some commitment. We don’t live together, we stay at each other places overnight 3-4 times a week, but I’ve been lowering it a bit.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 08:58 AM
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Alright, I am keeping my shit together, I’ve made the mistake of putting a girl before me once but it’s not going to happen again. Usually I’ll get by her place at about 10-11pm, maybe watch a movie, fuck, go to sleep and leave in the morning, so it’s not really hurting my schedule. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:44 PM
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I know they don’t want the things, but you’re right, even though I’m speaking to her about minor issues I’m still making sure to not come from a place of neediness, it comes of from a place of adjusting her behavior to what I like. I’m making sure to appear strong, even if I’m overthinking things and insecure myself I don’t let her see that.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 10:40 AM
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I have no freaking idea how you managed to induce all of that from my short post... you’re spot on! Thank you so much for that comment, saved, I’m Gonna read it a couple more times to figure everything out and how to use it for my benefit. As you said in the end, she wasn’t hamstring and wasn’t playing games, there was an issue that bothered her and seems like we’re now headed in the right direction again. I’ve updated my post if you wanna check that out, if there’s some input on that as well, I…
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:59 AM
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That’s also what I thought, found out the issue wasn’t leaving/cheating, still an issue but not that, I’ve updated my post if you wanna check that out.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:53 AM
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Because there are certain things I want from an LTR, if there’s an issue that bothers her, or bother me, as I see it, we talk about it and fix it. She’s shy and introverted, while being usually logical she’s overthinking a lot, she requires some support to open up, sexually and emotionally.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:52 AM
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Im almost always very dominant with her and make sure to give a bit less attention then I’m getting. Thank you! I’ve updated my post if you want to know what the issue actually was.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:50 AM
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Thank you! But eventually as I found out she didn’t lose attraction, you can read my update if you wanna know more.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:48 AM
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That sounds very reasonable, even though I decided to go with a simple, “everything’s ok?” I didn’t need to, she brought the issue up, she even explained herself and said that she just didn’t want to have that conversation over the phone. I updated the post if you’re interested. Thank you!
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:47 AM
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Sure thing, just updated the post.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:43 AM
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Post updates if you’re interested, thank you!
/r/askTRP05/04/19 09:43 AM
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Alright, that makes a lot of sense, thank you! First LTR so, I’m still learning a lot.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:10 PM
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Gonna probably get me to “why do you ask?” Then any reply come out as needy, “you seem off”/“your texts are not the same”/etc...
/r/askTRP04/04/19 04:02 PM
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She actually doesn’t show neediness or jealousy or cause any drama. I decided I want an LTR since it’s a good easy way to get a lot of sexual experience, experiment with my new acquired mindset and learn some new things along the way.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 10:05 AM
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First of all thanks for that reply, it made me realize a few things. I known her for about three months, we started going out after one month and been of five dates, moving slow due to her inexperience and logistics (was living far, now moved to the area) She did kinda initiate the talk, the whole “I don’t mind people knowing about us”, I probably should have right there and then told her it’s still early, instead I fell into her frame and agreed, well, now I know for next time. I could just avo…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:23 AM
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Again, I know she may be lying, it doesn’t seem like she is... It doesn’t really matter anyhow...
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:02 AM
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Israel, after finding out about TRP I only just now realized it’s a freakin heaven out here compared to most places in the world: Women here like men. Feminine men are often called gay and pussies by both genders and it’s not frowned upon. Masculine women are often called lesbians and laughed at. Feminism is pretty much non-existent. Almost everyone likes trump. Gender-fluidity and all that is considered a mental disorder by the public opinion. Etc...
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:02 AM
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I am looking for an LTR. We go on dates, we both have fun, we move further physically each date, I wouldn’t even consider having a talk with her but... She said she don’t mind people knowing, I don’t mind either, or at least I think I don’t, holding hands with her on college campus/kissing her at the party where everyone we know are around, those things should only come after commitment aren’t they? I’m not sure how to proceed now without having a talk with her. If I go to the party and kiss her…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:16 AM
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She’s actually 22, my country is strong on old fashioned values and somewhat religious. Up until about 23-24 it’s normal for girls to only have 1-2 boyfriends. She’s pretty, petite, green eyes, dark hair, and have guys trying to get close to her all the time.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 06:04 AM
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I only recently got into TRP, I’ve been trying to lead the relationship since the beginning, and I mostly do. You speak about Frame, but I haven’t yet established mine completely, or to be more accurate, I may not act like that with her but my frame is still BP. What I want? I don’t mind committing to her right now, I don’t mind people knowing about us, but I’m avoiding letting her know that to keep the mystery going... If we go to the party and I kiss her right there when all of our college fri…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 06:02 AM
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It may be the perfect situation and I’m just not seeing it but: I do see her as a potential LTR, there’s still a long way there but that’s what I’m looking for right now. I’m not sure how to act when all of our social circle is around us, that college party for instance, friendly? A date? Can I kiss her there?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:36 AM
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Hey, thanks for the reply, we actually kissed on our first date, I don’t believe her 100% but it seems reasonable, I don’t live in the US and many girls around here at the same age range are virgins/had 0-2 boyfriends. The way she said she never had a boyfriend (she never said she’s actually a virgin), the way she acts in the relationship so far just fits her story. Yeah I understand she may be lying but it just doesn’t seems like she is, and to be honest I don’t really care right now. Control? …
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:33 AM
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We’re not all religious, its like 50% of the population but it keeps values in tact. I don’t really have morals , I’m not religious myself and she’s not, but because it’s all around us it kept the country in a sort of bubble and “old-fashioned” values are very prominent. Feminism thanks god isn’t a thing here, neither that gender fluid shit, most people love trump, many 20+ girls are virgins, being a slut is looked down upon, etc... It’s sometimes the wrong place but TRP changed me, especially “…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:08 AM
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I replied the same to him about the whole just Kissed thing, I forgot to mention I don’t live in the US, religion and values are still strong. I’m pushing further each time and let her stop me, it’s not like I’m not trying. Two days ago she stopped me when I tried to feel her tits, two nights ago when we last went out she didn’t, only when I got under her top and even then she only stopped me since we were in a public place, secluded, but public, wasn’t living in the area, now I do, so next time…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:56 AM
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I did feel her tits, I tried last week and she stopped me, when we went out 2 days ago she did not, we had some logistics issues since I wasn’t living in the area but I do now, next time I’m bringing her to my place.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:43 AM
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Forgot to mention I don’t live in the US, religion and values are still fairly strong here, not to say it takes 6 months to get in bed, but with decent girls, especially virgin ones it takes a while.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:41 AM
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Nah, not afraid of anything, no one knows she’s a virgin and she’s cute, some of my friends tried flirting with her too, I just thought I may be missing something here but apparently I’m not, I’ll just escalate there and see what happens.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:22 PM
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Thanks but nowhere in my post I said I’m gonna wait for 3 months, we’re getting more physical every time we go out and I’m fine with that, yeah I could have gone further on our last date but Im learning and will go further on our next one. My question was about escalating in a party where all of our social circle from college gonna be, meaning that fairly early in the relationship friends are gonna know about us and I was thinking if it may cause problems.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:19 AM
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My place right now is more then an hour away from where we usually go on dates, she lives next to college and I’m moving to the same area in two weeks, “let’s go to my place” in whatever variation means she knows she’s gonna stay over for the night. Obviously I wouldn’t go around and tell anyone, so far actually she told her friends and when she asked me if I told anyone and I said “nope” she was really surprised, she asked me if it bothers me that she told people and again “nope”. I wouldn’t go…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:22 AM
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I know I should, it’s just that if I do escalate there specifically it means that all of our friends in college will know that we’re going out, I’m just worried it may be too early for everyone to know and start talking...
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:28 AM
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Thanks for the reply. I’ve only recently started working on myself and I’m constantly finding myself in situations I’m not used to. “Having the most fun”, yeah I really should focus on that, the most influential material I read was “Book of Pook”, I read many things before but everything clicked in the few hours it took me to go through it, focus on having fun is one of the principles of the book but sometimes I forget it. We kissed 3 times yeah, getting more physical every date, first date it w…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:30 AM
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I get what’s good about the situation, I know it sounds stupid but except of going on dates and the fact that we kissed, it just feels way too friendly, no texting/talking during the week, nothing physical at school...
/r/askTRP28/11/18 11:07 PM
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Ok I get it, yeah it may be me, I’m also being pretty cold with her at school but I don’t have much choice, I don’t want everyone in our social circle in school know that I’m going out with her, will do more harm then good won’t it? It’s not like I could hold her hand and walk with her around school....
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:16 PM
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I don’t see where exactly am I putting her on a pedestal... as I said, she’s a very good girl, very inexperienced, I don’t believe she will go further without commitment, I myself don’t have too much of a problem with that... should I?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:33 PM
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The average weight loss is 0.5 pounds a day. It differs from person to person, i for instance, lost 13 pounds in the first 10 days. Some initial water weight, some fat.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:47 PM
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Obviously, the first initial weight drop is mostly water, then the rate is usually half a pound a day, depending on how much you got to lose. Plenty of studies on the subjects, half of pound of mostly fat...
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:51 AM
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Thanks, I’ll try it, I actually watched his Netflix documentary, don’t remember the name though. about my shyness, i found out recently it stems only from being overweight, when I feel good about how I look, I’m a different person, suddenly confident, funny, outgoing... just gotta keep working on that!
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:32 PM
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Yeah, I’m gonna go with the incredibly creative, “do you wanna go out?”. Thanks dude!
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:24 PM
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Thank you so much, you’re absolutely right, I do have negative thoughts and currently focus on them, “no way she’ll go out with me when I look like that”. it’s kinda hard to be proud of myself yet but your comment makes lots of sense and gave me a lot to think about. I will ask her out, I’m gonna read your comment again and again, and hope the good feeling sticks. Thanks again!
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:22 PM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:19 PM
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Extended water fasting (2-3 days then 1 meal and fast again) + weight lifting daily. Lost 13 pounds the first week, now I’m in the second week, at 10 pounds a week rate.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:19 PM
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Good for you!
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:09 PM
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Yeah, that’s kinda what I was thinking, thank you!
/r/askTRP11/11/18 01:11 PM
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Not sticking to her, as I said I went out with a different girl during the break, in this case I just feel like I may be missing an opportunity for no reason.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 01:09 PM
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Yeah that’s seem reasonable, thank you!
/r/askTRP11/11/18 01:08 PM
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