| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | She discovered her fiancé talking about her body like she’s just some brood mare while his gross friend objectifies her. Fiancé pictures exes to cum and “knew she was the one” after snooping her phone proved she was loyal. | RedWolfCrocodile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 04:04 AM |
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| 3 | Female women, how would you feel if you learned that your boyfriend/husband used to do things for his ex that he never does to you?“Female women” wtf dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 06:57 AM |
| 7 | How many of you are on birth control?This is such a pointless and silly answer. No we don’t. We don’t even know if you’re someone who also would take BC or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are on birth control?FYI - IUDs and condoms ARE forms of birth control. Did you perhaps mean to ask how many women are specifically on “the pill” / an oral contraceptive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+.I just want to be able to wear heels without him being insecure about it 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?Speaking as a woman, if that’s the response you get, then you haven’t been in healthy, caring relationships. Because that sort of response isn’t normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 11:51 AM |
| 8 | Do you prefer 50/50 or submission?There is a huge difference between emotional vulnerability and a victim mindset. Any mature and empathetic person should appreciate the former and reject the latter. If you’re being genuinely emotionally vulnerable, and that’s being rejected, then you’re with the wrong people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 09:21 AM |
| 3 | I always thought dating apps were easy for very attractive women. I was wrong.To all the naysayers here: It’s taken me (f) over two years to find a guy I actually think I like. And pretty much for the same reasons stated by OP. I started off all excited, recently single out of a long long term relationship, looking forwards to lots of flirty fun. Boy oh boy was I wrong. I actually set my account up to be able to see both sexes so that I could see what other women were putting on their profiles. Now, I’m not super hot, but I know I’m decently attractive with decent wit and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Small/Big Dick Energy: what personality traits do women associate with penis size?Just realized that I assumed that your comment meant that you yourself think that all women are obsessed with their boobs, and not using it as a hypothetical example. My apologies for the assumption, and good point in your reply | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Small/Big Dick Energy: what personality traits do women associate with penis size?VERY well said! I was trying to express something similar, though you said is far better and far more succinctly. Point is, just like there is a movement for women to accept themselves as they were made, so should men. How you were born is nothing to be ashamed of, nor does it make you better/ lesser than others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Small/Big Dick Energy: what personality traits do women associate with penis size?Um dude no. The average woman is NOT “obsessed” with her breasts. I think you’re confusing real people with porn 🥴 I would also like to add that owning big boobs is actually not pleasant AT AL. Imagine carrying a backpack with a couple of kilos around on your chest all. the. time. It literally fucks up your back, is uncomfortable and can actually hurt. Women obsessed with big big boobs imo have issues cos that shit is literally unpleasant to live with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Small/Big Dick Energy: what personality traits do women associate with penis size?Pretty much all women I know, myself included, don’t really give a heck about how dicks look. We care about how they’re used and how their owner treats us. (Edit: and how hygienic they are!!) Upon brief contemplation, I think I agree with the overall results of the study. Not because I personally perceive that a bigger = better but because MEN do. As a result, I assume that male socialization would result in men with smaller members feeling like they need to compensate to “measure up” to other m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?I know for a fact that there are plenty wonderful, kind, caring, responsible, loving men of good character. I’m friends with them, I’m related to them. One of them I shared my life with until he lost his. Trying to find one that’s single and available though... ooof. Misandry would mean I dislike men as a whole. That’s not the case. I dislike adults who are shits. And there are a LOT of women who are shits too. But I’m not looking to date women as I’m straight. So I’m talking about the men who a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 07:28 PM |
| -2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Quantity of options means nothing if none of them contain quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Hahahaha. You say that but do you have any idea how damn HARD it is to find eligible men? And I’m not talking about hot hunks. I’m talking about adults who handle their own shit, the basic minimum for all my single female friends. The men... yikes but they’re a mess. I’ve been actively looking someone to date for over a year. Single men I’ve met either throw up glaring red flags all over the place, just want a mommy-bang-maid, don’t look after themselves AT ALL, are lazy af, the list goes on. Si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 23 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?I’m (f33) single. My life partner passed away over two years ago, and while I’m now open to trying to meeting new people, and have causally dated one guy in this time for a few months, Ive by and large been completely happily single. I deeply want to find someone (male) to love and call my own. I miss being held and having my world to share. But I also don’t miss the constant struggle of parenting a grown-ass adult. I don’t miss having to ask permission for things that I, am adult, should not ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Who are the low value men?Eh. If the only thing you’re about is having as much sex with as many people as possible then.... um... you’re not a high value person. You’re more just a bit of a slut with good game. (And no judging about being on the slutty side. Can be fun. But it’s a very lonely way to build an existence) I SERIOUSLY hope you’re a disillusioned teen saying nonsense like that and not a grown-ass adult, cos otherwise: yikes. No wonder you’re butt-hurt about life. Remember... humans are one of the creatures th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Who are the low value men?So you’re saying a well put-together woman with a successful career, who enjoys life and is caring but has two exes and is over 30 is low value, but that a guy who is “Unemployed, ugly (and not trying to remedy it eg with haircare, skincare etc), badly dressed, no hobbies or interests, no charisma or conversation” is simply average.... But of a double standard there buddy. I suppose that (particularly) men like that are so common that one could call it the norm/ average... but then you’d also be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Who are the low value men?Oooof. Good to know that, as a 33f with one high school boyfriend and a deceased life partner of over a decade that I’m technically, according to OP, “low value”. 🤦♀️ Dude... low value isn’t a good term to use, but serves as the other end of the spectrum (so to say) of high value. High value doesn’t have to mean a person of wealth, good looks or even social status - though these things MAY be INDICATORS of a high value person. A high value person is someone who has their life reasonably well pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:27 AM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Ok so... Are you telling me that, when you look at married couples/ long-term partnerships, that only very attractive men are married/partnered? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Dude, that’s not the same type of safe. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Yep. Sex really can be just a purely physical act. Especially when one party is using the other and affection / desire isn’t mutual. Ever heard of the saying “lie back and think of England”? I don’t know if it’s the same for men, but when a body is forced (persuaded/ coerced/ pressured/ guilted) into being penetrated, and said penetration isn’t enthusiastically desired, there’s this sort of state a person can go into where you kinda just “let go” of your body. So it’s like what’s happening to yo… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 06:13 PM |
| 6 | What's the most profound thing you've learned while dating?Women look at men romantically when they feel safe enough to be open and vulnerable. Because romance means opening up your heart, and the possibility of being badly hurt increases. Any man who refers to sex as “plowing” doesn’t see sex as making love, but as using an object for his own selfish pleasure, and so honestly doesn’t deserve being looked at with romantic admiration. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:03 AM |
| 3 | What makes women not happy about the current dating market?The desire for quality. Not quantity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Men are basically treated as an employee in relation to women, most of the time.The fact you think the average woman only has her presence and her genitalia to bring to a relationship says A LOT about you. Sadly, this mindset isn’t how one finds mutual love and compassion. I actually, genuinely, feel sorry for you. But also not. You’re capable of forming your own opinions, meaning you’re capable of empathy and evolved thought. Yet this is how you CHOOSE to see the world. Maybe stop watching so much porn and being a part of such toxic communities. What you say doesn’t reflec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 07:08 AM |
| 51 | But sex work is work, amirite?This is SUCH a good point. And really serves to drive home WHY not wanting someone who actively consumes porn is a value here we prioritize. And it’s definitely something I’m going to say in future when people give me the whole “everyone watches porn - you’re being unrealistic argument”. My reply now will be: “Would you marry someone who made porn? No? Why?” The reasons they give are the same why they shouldn’t be consuming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 10:33 AM |
| 24 | Porn sickness is a slippery slope, this woman needs to take her daughter and LEAVEOmg yes. This! I mean, what the ever-loving hell. You’ve got a BABY girl and you want to have sex with “daughter”?? Like, at least the name “Baby” has been abstracted to an extent. But “daughter”? Nuu-uuh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.Aaaaaw. Are your feelings hurt because women don’t swoon at your unchad feet? Nay... surely you must BE one of these mighty Chad gods, walking among us, bestowing us with your knowledge gained from boundless experience. Seriously. Dude. Gees likes but you’re bitter. Maybe get off reddit and meet some real people and just try calm your tits a little. World isn’t that doom and gloom. Bloody hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:53 PM |
| 8 | Women do gay stuff with their friends for male attention.Dude, we get enough attention walking down the road looking a mess. Most women actually dress up/down to FEEL good, to help feel more confident and sexy. The validation from other women when you look smoking hot is WAY more of a boost than leers from dudes. No. The world doesn’t revolve around chads. It actually doesn’t revolve around trying to please dudes. For each person on earth, the world revolves around them, and we’re all just trying to do what will make us happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:51 AM |
| 7 | Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men?How’s this: when your spouse dies, YOU get the one to choose how to honor their last wishes. Fucking wish my Love and I had been married. Fuck his family for disrespecting him and ignoring what he wanted. But... because I don’t have that legal standing, I’ve got shit to stand on. What’s the point of marriage? Maybe go ask an old couple who love the fuck out of each other, and maybe you’ll begin to grasp why commitment for life can be so beautiful. Also, OP - divorce is a nightmare for EVERYone. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | "Treat men like garbage and they will love you and respect you"Do you maybe have the link to it? Am trying to find it because wanted to understand the context | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | "Treat men like garbage and they will love you and respect you"Link to the original post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 07:16 AM |
| 7 | I love it when scrotes just perfectly illustrate why we need FDS. This is the type of guy you will weed out with the "unreasonable" rules he mentionsI know! And it really annoys me. Men where I live are, in general, really just not good looking. Minimal effort put into how they dress and groom themselves or how in shape they are. It’s genuinely so rare for me to see a man I’d call attractive out in the wild. And I really don’t consider my standards to be high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?Where did I speak about criminals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?You making fun of my “ridiculous” suggestion that men take responsibility for their own actions rather than choosing empathy? The irony.. If you personally are unwilling to choose to engage in polite and constructive conversations online (when wearing the mask of anonymity) it’s unlikely your actions IRL are any kinder. Maybe, instead of trying to change other men’s actions, rather consider pondering on why YOU appear to feel a need to talk down to - and be so dismissive - of someone you’ve neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?So what would you propose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?Dude, I get what you’re trying to say, and you seem frustrated in the way you sarcastically mention the “annual man convention”. I think it would help to be aware that that kind of dismissive attitude is part of the problem. The average woman isn’t hurt by criminals committing sex crimes. It begins with men just not listening to the word “no”. The r/dating and r/sex subreddits are filled with people (both male and female) trying to navigate difficult situations with their partners. Take some tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?Dear OP: Please DO NOT try getting dating advice from places like the red pill communities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 15 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?“Aren’t able to let it go” Almost every woman you know has either been harassed, catcalled, groped or straight up sexually assaulted at least once in her life. First time something happened to me I was 5, and literally every guy I’ve gotten close to has intentionally pushed my boundaries and caused some form of trauma. How about, instead of blaming women for not “letting go” of being used and abused, we talk about how to help more men NOT cause this trauma through selfish actions in the first pl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 4 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityOnly hundreds of years? How about most of history. Also... duped is an unfair word when the one shaping the narrative has the power to easily kill you with his bare hands because the average man is so much stronger than the average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 09:09 PM |
| 8 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀Naturally leg hairless and no hair under the eyebrows. At all. Bahahahahahaha. He probably has butt hairs for dayyyyys or OCD waxes from crack to sack 😂😂😂 Shame, poor guy probably has so many women saying yes he’s having to do everything he can to weed them out 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 01:49 PM |
| 25 | Scrote obviously has a porn addiction and is neglecting his kids and gaslighting his wife. I can't even with these men anymore.Only one? Sounds like he’s knocking several out every day. One would think sitting in a bathroom would get uncomfortable. 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 01:38 PM |
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