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Ask her out anyways. If she says yes well that’s cool and it is what it is. If she says “no I’m seeing someone” which is a crock of shit because it’s just been one date then obviously she doesn’t like you at all. I still think your in the friend zone but yes go train and get experience.
/r/seduction12/11/21 03:01 PM
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If she feels comfortable telling you about going out with other men this means you are in the friend zone. No attraction. It’s not a shit test at all. If she was worried about what you thought she wouldn’t mention it.
/r/seduction12/11/21 02:42 PM
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Lol sorry man thought your avatar had long hair and assumed you were a lady. Turns out the long hair was just a tribute to 80s hair bands. Sorry lol.
/r/seduction12/11/21 03:35 AM
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Yes anything would sound hollow and anything a random Reddit stranger would say would come accross even hollower
/r/seduction11/11/21 11:03 PM
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Oh god man I cannot even express the words. I’m so sorry.
/r/seduction11/11/21 10:40 PM
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I have read many times that the general consensus is when you have massive feels it’s 3X the length you knew the person. Now of course that’s arbitrary and outliers are probably all over the place. However when I look at my own experiences that timeline is actually decently accurate from having intense feelings for someone to feeling indifferent towards them
/r/seduction11/11/21 10:23 PM
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80% of women are attracted to and want the top 20% of men to pursue them. The other 80% of men are noise to women that women just wish would go away. This is actually a pick you up because it means if you start hitting the gym today, training and dieting correctly, if you stay on your purpose, work hard in your profession to get ahead and also read and apply knowledge in leadership and people skills books to become socially dominant, you will be in that top 20% because most of us guys don’t put …
/r/seduction11/11/21 09:09 AM
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Why do women continually give such horrible advice? I should do a study on that.
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:56 PM
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Well I suppose I’d go out for dinner lol.
/r/seduction10/11/21 05:10 PM
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Hooking up is fine, you are fine and sound quite wonderful. Go to the party, have fun, if it feels right with him then do it, just make sure he uses a condom (haha i feel like dinosaur redwolff by saying that). Look you’ve been conditioned to think something is not acceptable that in reality is perfectly acceptable. consensual attraction, lust and passionate feelings leading to ravishing mind blowing sex are definitely to be explored because it’s a wonderful part of life that I don’t want you mi…
/r/seduction10/11/21 02:48 AM
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You should never have to persuade or open a girl up for sex. Typically when a girl is hesitant to escalate physically with you, that means she just is not into you that way. Your not doing anything wrong and all you get is 5 second kisses and spooning at the age of 23, when a girl wants you at that age, sex happens. Back off, no contact and make her miss you. If she doesn’t initiate contact and want to be around you after, you’ll definitely have your answer. Your young, get out there, find women…
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:24 AM
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Building masculine confidence - Good Winking at random women - Bad
/r/seduction10/11/21 12:14 AM
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Yes much more milleniallish than me for sure. I’m near the cusp of being generation x. Good to meet you as well.
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:51 PM
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I’m a millennial too lol (39 years old). I’m glad you found my post encouraging.
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:38 PM
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You sound like a good dude, I’m hoping the best for you. I know that sounds hollow coming from a random Reddit poster but good luck man. PS. Why did you remove your original post?
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:06 PM
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A well calibrated approach is always staying in the moment and your approach aligning with the situation. Don’t say something random and off the wall that doesn’t match the situation your in. This is one of the reason canned cheesy pickup lines don’t work, they are out of left field and not in the moment and leave the woman saying “wow this is weird” to herself.
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:33 PM
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Any time.
/r/seduction09/11/21 01:57 PM
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Because it sounds very rude to say “only approach me if your hot” So better off to say don’t approach me at all than to be labelled a superficial bitch by saying what they want to say. Much safer to sound PC and agreeable. Disclaimer: women wanting to be approached by only good looking guys with people skills doesn’t make them a bitch, it just makes them real people. Some women can get approached anywhere between 5-20 times a day online and in real life , since 80% of men are just background noi…
/r/seduction09/11/21 08:27 AM
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What women in those threads won’t tell you: Women love being cold approached by good looking men with people skills. (OMG I can’t believe this is happening to me, I can’t wait until you take me out) Women are disappointed at being approached by good looking men with poor social skills (your so hot but why are all men jerks like you ugh) Women don’t want to be approached by unattractive men with social skills. (Your nice but please take the hint and go away…kind of like that link you alluded to).…
/r/seduction09/11/21 07:09 AM
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This is incredibly well thought out and accurate.
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:58 AM
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Very wise words, yes he may be overshooting. We don’t feel the personal deficit he does and it skews our perspective a bit, your just better at being objective overall and not falling in the box of thinking something is truth because it works for me, which I fall into. Actually that objectivity is something I like. Yes in general both men and women do not give attention to anyone lower than 1-2 points than them on the ole looks scale. This is a hard truth that is a very tough pill to swallow for…
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:37 PM
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You mean the OP has to learn the subtle signs right? Not me. But thanks for the props.
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:06 PM
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No worries, it’s the truth, perhaps it will get better after the next ice age.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:47 PM
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Yep exactly what I said.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:45 PM
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It’s been proven that facial aesthetics improve dramatically sub 12%. Under 10% is very difficult to attain yes, I wanted to give him something to strive towards. But yes it takes years of dedication and consistancy in the gym and dieting to do it. Most people walk around with much more body fat than they think they have. And nah I’m not gonna get out of here, i quite enjoy it. I do get your point though and where you are coming from.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:17 PM
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Women articulate very well what they want in a friend and what a man should do in a situation to remain friends with them. Women tend to be absolutely horrible at giving advice on attraction and articulating what they are actually attracted to. This rather Non PC point that probably sounds very triggering and aggravating to people, can’t be underscored enough. If you think about it though it makes complete sense, no women is going to say hey that guy that makes fun of me all the time, gives me a…
/r/seduction08/11/21 06:24 PM
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Oh I’m so glad my time was when cold daygame approaching was the way things were done. In fact I’m such a dinosaur that I remember when online dating was for rejects and nerds. Literally met my wife by sitting down in a downtown cafeteria on a plus 15 and told her that there there there……just weren’t any other available tables so I clearly needed to sit with her. When there were clearly many open tables. I shake my head at what dating has become in modern times and the shit pile that you guys ha…
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:47 PM
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Women do not like this line and will more than likely say “um, no” look at you awkwardly and walk away. Yes actually I used to say this from time to time to people that I legitimately thought I did know from before and in reality it’s an akward turtle moment. Also just to add if she doesn’t recognize you it’s pretty much a conversation killer, your not going to recover and you are going to look akward and like your trying way to hard if you press for further conversation.
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:12 PM
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Being a perfectionist has little to do with attraction and isn’t a attraction factor drawback as much as it’s just a personality style. Looks like you are working hard at it but I’ll let you be objective with areas that you can improve. For example looks like you would benefit from lifting and dieting hard and consistent. I’m telling you low bodyfat percentage combined with good dense lean muscle makes a HUGE difference. Don’t let people say otherwise and fool you. The next step is to learn how …
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:10 PM
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Are you at the top of your profession? Do you have a vibrant social life full of being around your buddies and the women around them? Are you under 10% bodyfat, muscular and ripped? Have you bought the best fitted clothes you could? Have you completed reading at least 10 leadership books and people skills books and been consistently applying that knowledge? What do you think your biggest drawbacks are?
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:49 PM
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That’s where your journey to being good with women starts. Forget about them and focus on self improvement and your purpose passion in life. -Work out / lift weights -Diet -Read people skills books -Read Leadership books -Apply said skills daily in your interactions -Focus on your career or passion and become the best at what you do At the end you will be a version of yourself that will attract women with very little effort. Good for you on this decision
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:38 PM
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Yep this, part of the reason things are screwed up is because us dudes can’t read signs and are trying to escalate when there is zero attraction felt by the woman. Must read the signs so escalation is not deemed inappropriate.
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:13 PM
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Thatta girl.
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:54 AM
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LOL no wonder we are so different. I spent my life growing up with my buddies playing hockey, Muay Thai boxing and bodybuilding. Most of my social circle is my buddies and I only knew few girls as friends, the countless others were lovers. The two girls i wanted to be friends with both showed me that friendships with girls are useless. Although my wife is honestly doubles as a best friend she is amazing.
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:38 AM
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I can’t disagree with that, but yes those events happened. Your explanation is correct though. But yes I still say male female friendships are a no go and are just time passers or fillers. Do you have any long term wonderful female friendships?
/r/seduction08/11/21 04:14 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:59 AM
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Yep I agree and my life experience is different. I had a great female friend who was a lesbian and when she met her love of life I became an afterthought. I also knew a girl for 12 years before I introduced her to my best friend. They separated after they were engaged. I thought we had a solid friendship, we did not. After they Broke up she said she never wanted to talk to me again. So yah man experience matters and my experience has tought me that male female friendships mean Jack shit.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:57 AM
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Oh for sure I agree. I’m not that jaded but I’ve been in that scenario. Long ago I had a friend she was a lesbian. Soon as she got a girlfriend damn never saw that girl again haha.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:39 AM
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Oh bodybuilders don’t make much money haha I’m not that rich.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:38 AM
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Haha that’s funny I’m the same guy you gave massive props to in another thread. No worries I respect the differing opinions. Oh and yes I’ve been burned by that as have many other men. I mean it’s obvious by the way you write your a cool guy. I just think the differentiation of the two posts is funny.
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:36 AM
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It’s amazingly amusing how much attention this post got lmfao
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:40 AM
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Hahahahahahahahaha that’s up to you. My wife and I went from clubs to pubs meet up groups theatres hiking personal training ufc
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:28 AM
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Pick up lines are not the way. Continual self improvement and becoming the prize gets the girls. Be the best physically / mentally and you won’t have to even think about pick up lines anywhere.
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:13 AM
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I disagree with the spread. And in this scenario it’s going to be a hot start and a cool off.
/r/seduction08/11/21 02:04 AM
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I know how it feels. But yes I digress, how does it feel in your words?
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:30 AM
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Right, no one is ever the exception to the rule. People get seduced all the time if someone knows how to handle themselves. Always live in the moment in life and train today for who you want to be in the future. I may be a bit of a jerk from time to time but my life experience has tought me to always go for what you want and have the people skills to make it happen. What was it about your guy that sparked intense chemistry? The real version not the pc version.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:25 AM
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Yeah for sure. Nope never do a long distance relationship. I have first hand experience as well of being the guy that the woman went crazy for while in a long distance relationship gone sexually cold with someone else. We are people with desires and needs and biological impulses, relationships get stale if they are long distance and it’s tough to keep the fire and passion going and you never know what will happen.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:19 AM
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Awesome story! Good for you two! Yes I fully recommend people give in to their desires.
/r/seduction08/11/21 12:07 AM
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It’s a toss up man a 32 year old woman isn’t going to be attracted to a guy that much younger unless he is really really something. That’s awesome though that you’ve discovered how important having the right energy is and how important your own charisma is. I mean aside from my own view that he would need to be hella handsome to attract a woman that much older I can’t find anything structurally wrong with what you say. It’s correct and I’m a big advocate of having good energy and tons of charism…
/r/seduction07/11/21 11:51 PM
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Thanks for adding meat and potatoes to my point, well said.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:43 PM
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Don’t do this, asking her to clarify scary will make it akward and actually lead to her thinking your creepy. Lead through actions, let your actions show you aren’t scary, no need to discuss it. She is going to think what she thinks.
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:11 PM
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See I knew it, definite protector. Don’t be clingy, don’t be strange or needy, be supportive of her, talk less but when you do make sure your words are impactful. Let her come to you most of the time. Remember a girl always shows her attraction and if she thinks your scary you will push her away if you push for the relationship. Be the guy who is there, you are already intimidating so you don’t need to worry about being branded the weak friend guy. If she is talking to another co worker (you bot…
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:07 PM
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It’s not as much about being mysterious as it is about being interesting. Make sure you have interesting stories to tell about your day and are not just saying “not much” or “the usual” or “just work” or something to that effect. What did you do today? Oh it was pretty crazy actually, I spent all day negotiating with a supplier to save 60% on our cost budget but damn client wouldn’t give approval because they don’t understand shit about supplier performance. Then bridge that into a discussion ab…
/r/seduction07/11/21 08:03 PM
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The mirror principle which you alluded to although not in that exact phrase is essential. Always match the women’s energy and interest level. Long ago there was a woman where I didn’t apply this principle and I noticed that I was always the one texting first and her responses were always robotic and she never moved the conversation forward. Decided to see what would happen if I waited for her to initiate, days turned into weeks which turned into months which turned into years. Glad I learned tha…
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:56 PM
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Thing about having a girl as a friend. They will absolutely disappear when a guy they are attracted to and want a relationship with comes along. Your not the same as a woman views her girlfriends you are a simply a placeholder, a time filler.
/r/seduction07/11/21 07:51 PM
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You know, your pretty lucky that I’m playful and not really psychotic at all or this conversation could be going a lot differently. So is a woman telling everyone she is a woman so they should be listening to her “womansplaining”. I mean you feminist types tend to get upset at anything even remotely close to what you call “mansplaining”. Kind of funny to think about isn’t it? Look I know you mean well, but kid hasn’t done anything wrong and he can turn this around, I mean I am a bodybuilder with…
/r/seduction07/11/21 05:29 PM
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Oh for sure your chasing, I have also been there where I have chased and got burned. “I really want someone to show me attention” tells me that you have a very long way to go, you have to develop yourself to the point where you don’t care if you get attention or not. It’s mental toughness that develops again over time with training. When a woman is interested she never hesitates to text you or contact you first, they talk dirty with you, they send pics of themselves nude and say outrageous thing…
/r/seduction07/11/21 05:07 PM
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Any time you feel you are putting more effort in than the other person, you know you are chasing. I’ve been there done that for sure. There are also key tangible markers for chasing: -You always initiate texting or any contact -You always initiate trying to spend time with the other person while that person puts no effort into you. It’s when your level of effort far exceeds hers. You always want the woman to be expending equal to greater effort into you than you are into them. My wife and I were…
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:34 PM
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Yep and it will keep happening. Maintaining frame takes practice and self discipline. Start slowly by moving and talking slower so you think of what you say before it comes out of your mouth. I’m actually quite an expert at this, it took me a very long time to master it it doesn’t happen over night and I can tell you one thing…..with this current girl you are dead in the water already as far as attraction goes. Props on self improvement though. That takes a long time as well.
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:20 PM
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Yes maintaining strong frame is essential. With this woman? Actually I’m going to give you the advice that you should ghost. Go no contact you’re already in a scenario where there is no hope of attraction there. Cut her loose. Maintaining your masculine frame is in part believing you are the prize, no need to supplicate, validate or people please or convince her of anything. Being the prize also means loving yourself and constantly improving yourself physically, mentally and professionally and e…
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:05 PM
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It’s all situational, improvise to the situation. No one can tell you good conversation starters because what might work in one instance won’t work in another.
/r/seduction07/11/21 03:12 PM
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No not alarming at all. Creepy is alarming, scary is just intimidating. Tell her you would happily be her scary serious beast. Make sure you smile when say it. I had a woman at work long ago say I was completely arrogant and cocky. I told her “well you just say that cause you like me”. We were sleeping together two days later.
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:07 PM
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Oh for sure. She already likes you as serious and scary or else she wouldn’t have told you that you have a sweet side. Don’t change just keep things as is. Don’t view her calling you scary or intimidating or serious as a negative, it’s not. If I was in your shoes I’d smile and tell her that I would happily be her serious and scary beast.
/r/seduction07/11/21 02:03 PM
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Whatever you do don’t become sweet and soft. She is much more likely to sleep with serious and scary.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:43 PM
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This is accurate. Yes a lot of people who don’t understand attraction don’t realize that being called “a nice guy” is a negative thing and means no attraction is there. I’ve been in many situations where I have been called a jerk, an asshole, cocky, arrogant by a woman who eventually slept with me soon after.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:41 PM
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LOL there is a reason this has 33 upvotes including mine. Accurate.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:29 PM
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Like any education PUA has principles that are effective and principles that won’t work for you, but education is education nonetheless. At your age (which is actually close to mine) I would stay away from clubs and focus on pubs and daygame and meet up group opportunities. However that is also limiting behaviour and anyone would tell you that although I may not club anymore, if you don’t you are limiting yourself. Being in great shape is a must. Make sure you lift and look as good as you can.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:27 PM
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25 is not to late at all, studying and applying attraction principles and flirting with the ladies is thrilling. I started quite young because I effing sucked growing up and wanted to change things in my life. There are tons of people your age who have no clue how to talk to a girl in an attractive way, so if you learned you would already be miles ahead of others your age. There’s a reason the 90% to 10% principle exists. Because 90% of men have no clue what they are doing.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:24 PM
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Creating tension is creating conflict in a fun way, flirting, disagreeing, not falling into the trap that so many do on dates of asking 100 lame boring questions. Girls don’t go crazy for the guy who just asks about the day the weather and work…..ho mchumdrum.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:21 PM
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These are great, Id also add “48 Rules of Power” to this list. Attraction principles begin on building your own house both internally and externally and these readings are significant helpers.
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:19 PM
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The fact you can talk to your Dad about this means you got a cool Dad. I can see how he would see this as a dumb idea, and it really really is a dumb idea. Remember your Dad is thinking of it from the perspective of “damn this is my neighbour and I don’t want to put up with the drama long term if things go wrong” You likely aren’t thinking that way and it’s understandable. However dumb ideas and exciting thrilling opportunities can often present themselves at the same time. Keep flirting with he…
/r/seduction07/11/21 01:17 PM
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