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OYS #3 I was doing great in the gym. 4x a week, went with a buddy once, was feeling good. Then I got what the doc thinks was possibly mono. It kicked my ass over the holidays, and put a drag on everything. Was really lethargic from being sick and eventually broke out with a body rash. It was shitty, and I'm still not doing great. Still can't really lift. The good news was covid negative, so yay... Fingers crossed I can get physical by the end of this week. Doing the NMMNG breaking free exercises…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 08:34 PM
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Some of it, I outlined in the OYS. Financially, I'm changing things up at work. I took over the finances at home, long ago. Got the wife back to work, etc. Socially, I'm putting myself out there. Today, I ran into an old buddy who invited me to play paintball. Unlike normal, when I would get "too busy" and put things off, I won't be turning that invitation down. Sex and intimacy, well... I'm still figuring that one out. I think mental abundance is my big hurdle. Especially getting there, authent…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 06:06 PM
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So she's dolling out sex to try and soften your edge, huh? Among other manipulations with sex, yeah, I assumed this would probably happen. Seems to be working. Fuck. I see your point here. What does this mean? For the past ...long time, I've had a scarcity lifestyle and mindset. My wife getting cancer had a lot to do with it, but not everything. I spent all of my money on medical treatments, leaving none for myself/retirement/etc. Sex and intimacy with her was nonexistent, and I wasn't spinning …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 05:02 PM
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OYS #2 Back to Basics Age 38; Married 7 Years; 5 YO Daughter; Weight 170. Discovered wife's emotional (at minimum) affair around Thanksgiving. Now, I'm working on a personal reset. Seriously starting at square one. Doing sidebar readings in a practical order, starting with NMMNG audiobook. I think actually doing the breaking free exercises is a good idea this time. I'm hoping to be in a clearer mental spot by the time I get back into something like TWOTSM. Hit the gym four days last week. Depend…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 07:50 PM
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OYS #1 - Starting Over I had written a few OYS a year ago, but totally fell off the planet shortly after. I wasn't truly putting in the effort, so there was no way that I was really getting anything back. My head hasn't been in a good spot for a while, and I'm not sure I have been processing info in a rational manner. I have continued to lurk, read sidebar materials, youtubing related sidebar materials like Rian Stone's page, and self journaling. The more I lurk and relate to posts, the more I t…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 04:44 AM
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Family: Took my daughter out for an entire day. Went to the park/playground and lunch for some 1 on 1 time. It was great. Need to do this more. In-laws have been spending less weekends at my house, now that I don't need them as much. Work/Finances: Scheduled an exam date for getting licensed in the very near future. Studying is going to eat up more of my time, now. While I have leads, I'm currently struggling to hire someone, too. I'm worried that I will get too far behind if I can't hire, soon.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 08:38 PM
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OYS #5 "Do you want a threesome for your birthday?" 36 yo, Height: 5'11", Weight: 175 Lifts (Working Sets x5): BP 170, SQ 235, DL 250, OHP 40 x10 (switched to dumbbell), Pullups x7 Back after a month ban for lazy shitposting in OYS. It was well deserved. In that time I focused on some introspection to look at where else I have been being lazy and not putting forth real effort. So, I started with the areas that stand out to me the most and went from there. Social: I've definitely neglected my soc…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 08:37 PM
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Hear, hear
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:08 PM
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Cheers, probably valid.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 08:08 PM
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OYS # 4 36 yo, Height: 5'11", Weight: 170 Lifts (Working Sets x5): BP 170, SQ 225, DL 245, OHP 90, Pullups x6 Seriously not much to report this week, so just checking in. Nose is still to the grind. I'm lifting. I'm working. I'm fixing up the house. I'm still not socializing. I'm leading and gaming the wife. Sex has been decent since the end of shark week. Hit new working PR's at the gym this week. 170 on bench and 225 for squats. This is my first lift to hit 2 plates other than deadlift. Felt g…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 12:56 PM
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Essentially, these were my thoughts as well. The discussion around this post has been gold, though.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/20 07:00 PM
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Am I just a dancing monkey that's not getting the reaction I desire? Yep. I want to know when to throw in the towel, or to send a life raft. You want a bunch of internet strangers to tell you when to kill the puppy? You should know this your own damn self. That said, I don't know shit about you, but I'm pretty comfortable telling you that you aren't anywhere near ready for this.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 03:30 PM
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If she makes the decision to go alone that will show me what I need to know. Sounds like a big ol' covert contract, right there.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 02:37 PM
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Half the money is mine but it’s in her bank as she got the refund, I couldn’t give a fuck about the money personally, I’m more concerned about losing frame by A. Allowing her to keep it and B. Her leading the decision and going alone. Well, which is it? If you don't care about the money, then why are you worried about her keeping it? Sounds more like you are worried about the money - just not the financial aspect of it. This is so familiar, as my wife did the same shit, recently. This is definit…
/r/askMRP13/01/20 02:33 PM
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Hey, OP, don't listen to all these haters. You seem to have most of this marriage/relationship stuff figured out. If you want to improve your sex life, just remember that first and foremost, be yourself™. Talk about your feelings and let your wife guide you with her responses. Listen to and do exactly what she says, and I'll bet things will get super hot in the sack. Talk, a lot. Communication is key. Figure out which love language you both are, then do exactly what that book says to do. Especia…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/20 06:03 PM
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It definitely got my gears turning. ...No that isn't sexual innuendo. I think.
/r/askMRP09/01/20 02:09 PM
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This man can see through the bullshit. Responses like this are so great to help the community see things so much more clearly. If only everyone who posts was so lucky enough to be ripped a new one like this... Myself, included.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 03:03 PM
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OYS #3 36 yo, Height: 5'11", Weight: 170ish but I haven't weighed because I don't care right now Lifts (Working Sets x5): BP 165, SQ 215, DL 245, OHP 90, Pullups x6 Physical: Recomp is going well. I've managed to visibly cut the fat from the holidays while improving my lifts. Keeping a very slow cut seems to be working well for me. Accessory lifts have been increasing quicker than the big lift. Hit 8+ plates with the leg press x15. Yeah, it's not a core lift, but when my skinny ass is doing work…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 04:36 PM
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Firstly, the premise of your question is wrong. You don't need to recover from an evening of shit tests. I'm not even sure if what your wife was doing at dinner was even a shit test. Sounds like she has checked out and has no respect for you. she’s having a midlife crisis “ ... cares about me, but is not in love with me. Unlikely, although she may have been looking and considering her options. I know the games that cheater play You don't know shit because your ego invested head is so far up your…
/r/askMRP04/01/20 07:01 PM
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Good Stuff. Did your TRT doc actually prescribe you a research chemical, or was that off the books like a doc who steers someone towards weed? I'm curious, as I have looked at MK, but I have been wary of it being so new and all.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 04:44 PM
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OYS #2 36 yo, 32 yo Wife, 2 yo daughter, Married 5 years, Together 9 years total. Weight: 170, Height: 5'11" Lifts (Working Sets x5): BP 165, SQ 215, DL 245, OHP 80, Pullups x5 Physical/Mental: Still hitting the gym hard 4 days a week at 5:30 AM. Energy and pumps are good. Progressive overload slowly going up. Sister in law, who is a fitness buff, invited me to do a spartan race with her in a few months. I hate running, but fuck it, I'm signed up. It adds a bit of motivation to my routine. Menta…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 03:18 PM
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Indeed.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/19 03:22 PM
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Does there really need to be one? Maybe I'm just not sure, right now. At the end of the day I want to kick ass at life, have fun, have a wife who is reliable and compatable to compliment my lifestyle, and have a great sex life.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 08:47 PM
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Damn, you're right. I think the problem is that I'm beginning to leave the role of 100% caretaker and enter the role of husband again. Only this time, I have a whole new set of physical and emotional issues to contend with. I think this new beginning is why I'm getting off my ass and finally posting in OYS like I should have been doing all along. I have no idea what to expect once my wife heals enough to operate at a functional capacity. I mean, I had years to screw things up even before we were…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 08:21 PM
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Been digging their entire new album for lifting. Fear Inoculum. It's become one of my favorite albums of all time.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 08:35 PM
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You're mostly right about all of that. My sex issues in the past were the result of me being blue-pilled to the core. But yes, it's not the issue anymore. For clarity, I'm not actively running any dread these days. I'm also not letting up on the dread that has been established as the norm. Not to be confused when I was an idiot and running some active dread out of butthurt when I was being a dancing monkey and figuring out how to not be captain rambo. Comfort is definitely key these days. Funny …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 12:15 PM
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OYS #1 Long Time Lurker Complete with Hero Origin Story. 36 yo, 32 yo Wife, 2 yo Kid, Married 5 years, Together 9 years total. Found RP/MRP in 2017. Weight: 165, Height: 5'11" Lifts (1RM): BP 175, SQ 235, DL 265, OHP 100, BR Formerly 155 Tear in my lower traps from BR - has been axed for pull-ups since healed. Currently on a PHUL variant. I'm a reformed ex lifelong career blue-pill beta nice guy turd. I found RP like most guys, here. There was all the typical stuff: Disrespectful harpy wife, bas…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 11:00 PM
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